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Ive been together with my boyfriend for 4 and a half months now. We talked about us both being ready to make love. Theirs just one thing holding me back. He has condoms but I dont feel comfortable with just that i heard the pill can give you cancer so I was woundering what else I could do to be safe. I dont want to tell my mom i know she'll ruin the experiance for me.
hey, well theres nothing else that you can do besides use condoms and birth control. birth control is safe and a lot of women use it around the world. its prescribed for brutally bad periods and not getting pregnant. here is some facts on birth control.
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/birth-control-pregnancy/birth-control-4211.htm
http://www.womenshealthcaretopics.com/key_facts_birth_control.htm
remember the only safe sex, is no sex.
hey thanks for the answers are you a guy or girl and how old?
hey, im a girl and im thirteen.
What kind of extracurriculars and how much are colleges looking for?
hey, well colleges like to see commitment. they love seeing "i did cheerleading for ten years and track for five years". basically they want to know that you participated in your school by doing sports and other activites and that you stuck with them.
well i'm getting the first hpv shot today.
and i was wondering that people who've had it
does it hurt at all,
or like a flu shot
or is it really painful?
hey, here is a link all about the hpv shot.
http://www.cdc.gov/std/hpv/STDFact-HPV-vaccine.htm
when you are getting fingured does it matter like how much you shave and what should you do while it is happening?
hey, well most guys like it all shaved, like completly shaved. if they really want to do it to you, they will still do it even if your hairy, but it will be more pleasant for them if your shaved. while getting fingered, you can makeout with the person or just sweetly kiss there neck.
My bat mitzvah is coming up.
I need a dress.
My mom doesn't care what kind it is, but its my night to shine and be a princess.
What kind of dress makes your breast look larger or makes them get pushed up more?
hey, well there isnt really a specific type of dress that i can direct you toward. the reason being is that everyones body is a different type/shape, and your body takes to different styles differently then other peoples. it also depends on the size of the breasts that you have and are trying to appear to have them look bigger. my suggestion to you would be to shop around. go to the stores then try on different styles. once you find the style that does what you want it to, just limit yourself to trying on those types of dresses.
Hey does anyone have a good apple muffin recipe, I really want to make one but I havn't seemed to find a good one. Thanks
hey, try this recipe.
http://allrecipes.com/Recipe/Apple-Muffins-501/Detail.aspx
On Saturday, my best friend *Carly* went to a party with her boyfriend. She didn't want her parents to know that she was going, so she lied to her parents and said that she would be hanging out with a girlfriend. She told me that was what she was going to do. On Saturday night, or Sunday morning rather, around 12:30, Carly's sister called me and asked if I knew where she was because she was supposed to be home at 12:00. She asked if I knew the person she was hanging out with.
I was worried about Carly. I didn't know if maybe she got drunk or if she was hurt so I snapped and told her sister that Carly was really at a party with her boyfriend. I made her swear not to tell. I only did it because I was worried something happened to her.
Carly didn't find out that it was me that did her in, but her mom made her break up with her boyfriend the next day and she is devastated. I feel horrible. If I would have known that would have happened I wouldn't have done it. It's all my fault and I don't know what to do.
Did I do the wrong thing?
hey, well i would have done the same thing. think about it: what if she died in a car accident and no one knew where she was or who she was with except you? wouldnt you blame her death on yourself because when her sister called you lied for carly? loosing her boyfriend is a bad thing, but her dying would be 100 times worse.
i have had an ear iinfection for about 3 months now it will not stop!!!!!
hey, well i think that you need to see a doctor about this and have them prescribe medicine for you. if youve already done so, then go back to the doctors and tell them that it wont go away and that the medicine isnt working.
Hello. My name is Whitney. 13/f. I'm getting obsessed with AIM. This problem is, I use to be super outgoing, had a backbone, can stick up for myself and others... I was known as the girl not to mess with. Now it's completely different. I feel that I deal with all my problems, let all my emotions, and everything else through AIM. So when it comes time to stick up for myself in person, I freeze up.
This isn't the real me, & I need help!
hey, i think i get what you mean. well limit yourself to only 1-2 hours of aim a night. there are so much other stuff to do with your life then waste it away on a computer. hang out with friends, watch tv or movies, read books, talk on the phone, text, etc.
Ive been afraid to go to college for years, severe anxiety sets in and i back out before i even try. I have a wonderful boyfriend who is willing to take care of my three kids while i go, I am going to go to a medical assisting school tonight to apply, am i crazy if i dont ? does anyone know anything about this schooling? any info would be helpful!! Thanks
hey, well i dont know anything about college or schooling. but basically im just here to tell you to take the opportunity and go to college. be thankful that you have a loving byofriend who is actually willing to look after your kids while your in college. i think that if you pass up the opportunity to go to college again, that you will regret it. by going to college, you will be open to getting a lot of better job offers and more education wouldnt hurt for anyone. i would say take the plunge and go for it : ].
yoooo. ok does anyone know where ican get those really cute things that say like how to make a girl smile. or ways to know he likes you and alll that stuff. i making a pro with all that in it.
thanks a tonsss
hey, well http://www.xanga.com has a lot of quotes that help with that kinda stuff. just click blogrings and then type in quotes. click on one of the blogrings, they say like "quotes quoutes quotes" or "quotes are love", or something along the lines of that. then click on someones quote site and there you go! theres also http://www.wittyprofiles.com
why does it always seem like those people who have lost everything (parent, close friend, sibling ext.) are always so open to love and companionship and always seem happy? i know that they are not always, but still they are able to move past that loss and continue to love in this world, but then there's someone like me who has a decient family, friends who say they care and a job and i have never lost someone terribly close to me and yet i always feel alone and lonely and depressed and ignored even if i really am not. Why do i feel this way? why can't i open up with anyone and tell them how i really feel? is there something wrong with me or am i just a lunitic? Someone please help...
hey, well thats not always the case. ive been through a few serious operations and have watched plenty of family members go through serious operations. my mom is paralyzed and has a really hard time walking. my parents are seperated and then my mom got remarried, and they dont get along well most of the time. with my moms first marriage, ive watched my parents phyiscally abuse each other and even i have been physically absused by my father myself. ive been to three different schools. ive lost a lot of pets and even family members. half my family doesnt talk to each other because there all divorced. yeah seems bad right? well during all that there wasnt a time when i went to therapy or got depression medicine. i mean yeah, sometimes i do feel alone and depressed, but so doesnt everyone else. even you, who nothing bad has happened to. ive learned to not take for granted of what i have and to live life like this is my last day on earth. to cherish every moment of life and to be happy of who i have in my life. you should do the same. because i garentee if any of that happened to you, you would be a wreck. i think that because you feel depressed now and are thinking of the worst when nothing bad as even happened to you. prepare for the worst, but hope for the best.
okay, i have two questions.
1) I have a gut and i really want to get rid of it FAST! I feel really uncomfortable with my body because of it. All my friends are nice and fit and im the only odd one. Does anyone know any really quick ways to get rid of the gut by the summer besides crunches and sit ups?(I go swimming during the summer A LOT and i wear two piece swim suits and i feel as if people always stare at me.)
2) I have these weird dots on my arms and i don't know what they are. Anyone else have this? Does anyone know any skin care tips i could use to get rid of these dots? They look kind of like pimples and if you pop it, white stuff coems out but it isn't watery. It's solid.
hey, alright well crunches are the best way to go but in little by little. start with 25 a night, then keep going up when you feel ready. eating healthy and right is also a big part of getting a good body. you could also join a gym with a friend or relative. that way by joining with someone, you will be more motivated to not quit and not fall behind. as for being afraid of wearing two piece bathing suits, dont be. nobody body is perfect regardless of what those magazines tell you or what you think about the models on the runway. everyone has there flaws and parts of there body that they hate. you shouldn`t be ashamed of what you have. god made you that way for a reason. but if you really feel uncomfortable and not confident then try wearing these.
http://www2.victoriassecret.com/commerce/application/prodDisplay/?namespace=productDisplay&origin=onlineProductDisplay.jsp&event=display&prnbr=ZK-207975&page=1&cgname=OSSWMOPSZZZ&rfnbr=158
as for the weird dots, i have them to. ohxthexdrama was right, those are definately what they are. there wicked common in teenage girls. dont feel like your the only one that has them. i bet some of your friends even have them. what i do is i use clearasil on them. it helps reduces them, but there is no way of getting rid of them completly. you can get clearasil at anywhere like walmart or walgreens. heres a picture of what it is.
http://www.kostbutikken.dk/images/Clearasil%20Ultra%20Acne%20Treatment%20Cream.jpg
why does it always feel as if i'm the outcast of my group? whenever i hang out with friends i always feel like i'm not wanted there. i am single and some of my friends have gf/bf and all but even if i'm not with a couple, it is just acward.
Also, ever feel that when you get mad at someone over something they did and you tell them that you're mad and why they always seem to either get mad back or just blow you off like you don't matter? And then they don't talk to you or appologize because they think that you're just being a big baby but you really were hurt by them, but then on the same page they can get mad at you for no reason and get even madder and ignore you when you try to act the same way that they treated you in a similar situation? is that fair that they can treat you like that, but you have to butter up and be nice when they're mad and you can't treat them the same way that they can't treat you? (Sorry it's so long...)
hey, well that`s not fair to you at all. it`s happened to me before as well and im sure that it`s happened to pretty much every teenage girl out there, so don`t think it`s only you because your not alone. what i would try at first would be to seriously approach them about it. have a meeting with them. these meetings are not always effective and if they are they might not be permanent. like when i did it they fixed the problem for about a week and got back into there games. my next approach was then to start finding a new group of friend`s. i approached this girl and first told her my problem. i then asked her if she would mind me joining her group at lunch because my group of friends and i weren`t getting along. she said yes! i then started sitting with them and then we became good friends! now as for my other group of friends, i didn`t ignore them completly as much as i wanted to, but i wouldn`t go out of my way to hang out with them. if they said hi to me i would say hi back. i might hangout with them once a month, but my new friends are so much funner to hangout with. i wish you the best of luck : ].
So I try to scrunch my hair but at first its like hard and curly/wavyish.. and I like the hard part because it doesn't get poofy.. but after my hair completely dries it gets poofy. I dont know how to make it stay hard. I use this curly constructing Garnier Fructis Mousse, gel, and tressemme hair spray. Is there anythign in particular that will keep my hair hard and not poofy?
hey, well i agree with jamziix16. that stuff works really well. the pantene line also works wonders. they have shampoo, conditioner, anti-frizz creme, gel and mouse, all just for curly/curling hair.
http://www.pantene.com/en_US/products/regimen/images/packShot_curls.jpg
thats the gist of the what the line is going to look like in stores. you can get it at places like walmart or walgreens.
http://pics.drugstore.com/prodimg/27146/200.jpg
aussie sprunch spray is also a good choice.
is there anything you can use to scrunch or wave your hair and it won't make your hair look crunchy?
hey, well i find that pantene gel and mouse are as hard/sticking as other products. also use a diffuser when you scrunch your hair. the heat of it prevents the products hardening. some people are unclear of what a diffuser is, so ill show you just incase.
http://www.muimports.com.au/images/Diffuser%20Finger%20Soft%20Styler.jpg
I went to work and I walked in and there was books laying around that had not been picked up and the person i was working with had been at work for 30 minutes before i did. ( I work in the Library- work study) So i was going to put them up later but i didn't feel like putting them up right then and then the boss came over and told me to put them up and to check over there and stuff like i was slacking off. Now i might have been but i'm, saying if he was going to make anybody put them up it shold have just as well been her s well as me right? She had not done anything since she had been at work.
hey, well if you want the girl to be really punished for not working then dont bring it to the attention of your boss. because if you do that, the boss will say something to her and then she will realize that her job is on the line. your probably thinking "how is that a bad thing"? well its a bad thing because then she will pick up the pace and start doing a lot more around there. still dont get how thats a bad thing? well what im saying is that if you do more work then her and i mean a lot more work then her, like a noticeable amount, then your boss with notice that shes not working basically at all and will fire her. it`s going to suck to have to work double the amount, but seriosuly who wants to work with someone that doesn`t pull there weight.
From the age of five until the age of fifteen, I was seriously depressed. I didn't function normally and I attempted suicide frequently. I got help and for the last couple years I've been making constant progress--but that's created a new set of problems. The friends I once had to depend on to save me from myself don't know how to deal with me as a happier, healthier person and friends I've made more recently don't understand when I have an occasional relapse and can't be the bouncy, happy girl they're used to. I'm afraid that I'll end up completely alone and that I'll end up backspinning to the way that I used to be, but I don't know of any way to make people understand the changes I'm making. Any suggestions?
hey, well i think that you should have two seperate meetings. one with the old group and one with the new group. say to the old group "thank you for being there when i needed you the most, but im going to be making a lot of drastic changes and i hope that you will be there for me". just explain to them that your going to be a happy normal person just like them. as for the new friends, just basically sum up what happened to you. ask them to be there for you when you do have that relapse if your with them at the time. if your in that kind of mood and your suppose to be going out with your friends, cancell the date and explain why. they will understand. i wish you the best of luck : ].
Hello. I was wondering if anyone has gotten a tattoo on their hip before, and if so what kind of design. I'm not getting a tattoo anytime soon, but I'd like to get one in the future whenever I save up money. If someone can give me any really good sites that have nice hip tattoos, please let me know. Thank you very much. I don't need anyone telling me anything else. I already have 2 tattoos. I appreciate anything I can get :)
hey, alright well i`ve always loved hip tattoos! another spot that i love for tattoos is the ankle. i don`t think that these places have sites that actually show tattoos, but the purple scorpion and shining star are good places to get it done. iv`e actually got a lot of piercings at shining star. iv`e known people to get there tattoos done at the purple scorpion as well as piercings, but i myself have never experienced there work. here are some tattoos that i think would look good on the hip.
http://tatsandtags.com/images/sm119.jpg
http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/0/0c/Irish_clover.jpg/200px-Irish_clover.jpg
http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/thumb/d/d1/Zodiac_woodcut.png/400px-Zodiac_woodcut.png
http://www.brunitz.blogger.com.br/arrow%20heart.gif
http://butterflywebsite.com/clipart/butterfly_06.jpg
http://web.mit.edu/eecsgsa/www/facepics/smiley_face.jpg
http://www.tampareads.com/phonics/singleletters/letter-c/graphics/c-big.jpg
for the zodiac signs, you would pick your sign. also when i put the letter c, you would put your inital. you could even put cjf or cf, meaning first middle last or first last. another option is spelling out your actual name, no matter if you use first middle last or some kind of wacky combination. i also thought of a star or a flower, but i couldnt get a good picture.