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I am totally honest i tell it like it is and if you dont like it im sorry but im not going to sugar coat answers to make you feel better i want to tell people the truth and tell them what i think is right so if you find that what i say is mean or not helpful just give me a low rating and move on but please dont be rude after all i did answer you question even if its not what you wanna hear just take the time to appreciate. Feel free to message me thank you :) (L)
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15/f

So I have a college interview next month, and I have no clue what to wear.

I guess that I shouldn't look really messy or dress inappropriately. But I also don't want to look boring as I will see other potential students and want to make a good impression.

So,

- What clothes should I wear for my college interview?
- How should I do my hair and make-up?
- What about jewellery?

Thanks, (link)
k well for the clothes you dont wanna wear anything too colorful because it is an interview and it is suppose to be conservitive i tried to get you some pieces that arent too boring i hope you like them for the top i think you should have something like this

http://cdn.overstock.com/images/products/P80060339.jpg
for this you can even have a short sleeve or long sleeve white t-shirt and it will look good

or you could have a nice top underneath and put this coat ontop
http://imestore.com/images/602black.jpg

for the bottoms you should wear either a skirt or pants so here are some ideas

http://www.designerexposure.com/images/products/26382_1_large.jpg

or

http://www.fashion-force.co.uk/store/images/pants2%204234.jpg

http://images.teamsugar.com/files/usr/0/3987/blackskinnypants.jpg

for makeup do something really light just mascara and eyeliner and some lip gloss and coverup and you could do a little bit of blush you dont want to have any eyeshadow unless its a very light color and doesnt stand out too much

for jewellery some earings and necklace would be fine but make sure their not too big and a little conservitive and appropriate a nice braclet or watch would look great too but choose only one of 2.

basically dont wear anything flashy just something that looks kind of appropriate.


17/f

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Should I change my hair?

My hair is currently long and usually straight. It is light blonde (not quite platinum) with dark brown underneath and hot pink extensions. I have a cool skin tone (warm colors look awful on me).

I am considering:

- dark brown color all over
- long platinum streaks in the front underneath area
- hot pink extensions beside the platinum
- blunt bangs (straight across my forehead)

Would you suggest that? I am worried that I will regret the decision. I do not want to blend into the crowd or look tired/dull. I was naturally blonde for many years but my hair is now a dull, mousey brown. (link)
think what your considering will look great on you dw about making a bad decision and plus you can always die it back to your regular color so no worries.


I want my nails to grow, really fast.
I took a fake toenail off my toe lastnight, and today, my nail was so thin, it tore on off, its in the quick and its really sore!
How can I make my nail grow fast!
Thanks in advance! (link)
go to the drug store and get the nail growth product get any product because they all have the one same ingredient that will help your nails grow.


ok
theres this guy i met over the internet 3 years ago his names Mark (link)
well people say long distance doesnt work but maybe you should just try for a little while to see where things end up and if things really dont seem to be working out then just end it but for now just have fun being with eachother.


heyyy i didnt no were too put this question so i just put it anywere

ive got short hair lol and im i realy need my hair too grow in like 2months is there any thing i can use too soo my hair grows? (link)
just go to any drug store near you and go to the aile with the shampoos and stuff any hair growing product will work because they all have one ingredient in common that will help your hair grow.


There is this guy that I am sort of "talking to" and tonight he was trying to upload pictures on to his myspace, but he was having some trouble, so he asked me to do it for him. Okay, no problem.

So he gives me his username and password so I log in and start uploading his pictures. Well I become more then tempted to look in his inbox see who hes been chatting with. So I do and theres about five different girls that he's sending messsages to.

He calls them "hun" and "baby", "babe", "sweetheart", "beautiful"... the works. So heres my problem with the whole situation. Tonight we were having a sort of "deep convrsation" and I said "listen, you know that I don't talk to any guys or hang out with any guys but you, so where do you stand with the same situation"? Well he pretty much said I don't call or hang out with any other girls. I dind't get the impression that he was haning out with any of the girls yet or anything like that.

I really wanted to say what about online, but i figured that would be too obvious. I just don't know what to do about it without saing that I looked in his inbox.

Any advice would be so helpful. (link)
you should have just asked him if he talked to any girls period then he would have told you. but now just ask him where you two stand and if he likes you and stuff its the only way to know whats between you and obviously if you dont want him talking to other girls you like him.


I'm a 21 yr old female who just got out of a 2 yr. relationship and I've finally found someone that can make me feel things I've never felt before. This guy is 22 I've known him since I was 5 we've been close friends on and off. He's asked me out in the past but I've rejected him. Well now that we started to reconnect We somehow found ourselves falling for each other.He is everything I've ever wanted but he has a girlfriend of 2 yrs. on and off. He claims they are doomed and he is trying to break up with her and he is also going to therapy for me to find a conventional way of breaking it off. They really do not get along, all they do is fight but he just doesn't know how to leave her. Well it's been a couple months and he is making progress. But I catch him in these lies all the time about everything. He claims I'm what he wants and we could be so perfect together. We are pretty much the same person in every aspect. Well I just don't know where to go with this. I can't seem to just walk away. I hate distancing myself. It just feels like we could be so right together but I'm scared this is a hopeless case and I'll be cleaning my heart up off the floor by time I am done. I'm just such a mess about it. (link)
Well k you need to tell the guy how you feel and just tell him the truth tell him that he needs to break up with the girl immediatly because it doesnt take months to do it all he has to say is that he doesnt have a strong connection with her and doesnt feel like things are working out or even going anywhere you just tell him that if he doesnt break up then he has to leave you alone because its unfair to you and to that girl i hope i helped good luck:D


Hi, i just want to know the meaning of my dreams. I have a guy close friend but we had a misunderstanding and we havent talk for a month. I dream of him 4x already...But in my dreams we also didnt talk...What do you think the message of this?

Please help me.Thank you.

Lala (link)
I think it means that you need to talk to him or else things between you two will always be the same.


What is this 'Team Alex' thing?! I hear and see it everywhere, mainly on youtube. You can type Team Alex into youtube and they're will be hundreds of people talk about loving him.. and missing him. WHAT? I don't understand. All I figured out is that his name is Alex Mendoza, if that helps.. (link)
all i know is hes an actor a pretty good one too i hope i helped kind of


14/f

So I have this weird problem where when I have to read something in class, I get really nervous. My voice shakes, and I have to swallow a lot, other wise my voice gets caught on saliva, and I even tremble a little. I know this is nothing really serious, but it bothers me, and I wish I didn't get so nervous, but I can't seem to stop it. This only started recently, maybe a month ago. Can someone help me? (link)
Just before you go up take a deep breath and just pretend you talking infront of you mom or dad because you wont feel nervous around them so you will be fine or if you have any siblings you can use them as an audience as well if that doesnt work then just think of your happy place and just consentrate and you will be fine good luck :D


My BF is always playing "Mob Wars" on facebook and like other video games. Its really annoying me cuz we don't talk as much as we used to before he started playing video games. Hes on level 155 on Mob Wars. How many levels are there on mob wars? I wanna know so that I know when he will stop playing. & how do I get him to focus more on me than on his vdieo games?!?!? (link)
you need to tell him how you feel and tell him that he can play but only a little bit because theirs things that you two need to talk about and things that you wanna do with him so that your relationship stays strong and healthy.


so im a 17/f and im a senior. umm so there are a few girls in my grade and they have my lunch and one of them, Sarah, who use to be my friend when i first came here in 8th grade.and i smiled at her but then she was just looking at me and then she said something to her friends. and her friends nelma, chrissy, & andrea started staring at me and were talking about me. they were even staring at me when i got up because i saw them so don't sit there and tell me that i don't know for sure if they were talking about me because i know when someone is talking about me. well anyways nelma was also my friend last year, but then she told me that she was taking cosmetology class and they were doing a project where they give makeovers to people. and i agreed to do it but i realized later that she was lying and that she isn't in any cosmetology class and she just did that to be mean. these girls are really popular and so i know that they don't talk about me because they're jealous because they pretty and popular and im not. so yeah i hate it when people talk about me, and i know the school won't do anything because in the past they just told me to ignore people, which i still have a hard time with doing and sometimes ignoring doesn't work because that person still bothers me. and im very sensitive and i get mad very easily especially with things like this because I've been getting bullied since i was like in kindergarten. and i want to stand up to them but at the same time im kind of afraid that nelma who's kind of the leader i guess, might bitch me out or get the whole school against me, b/c she has power and can do that. so im wondering what should i do? please help. (link)
Just ignore them for a bit and if things dont work out then just stand up for yourself its better to fight for yourself rather then get hurt you dont have to talk back to them just tell a teacher or parent its easier and it saves a lot of heart break and pain later on you cant have people like them treating you the way they do and if they dont or cant then you need to do something about it to make them stop.


Okay so I sent an actor I like a letter today with a card a friend and I sent out and signed it too thanking him for some things like the signed picture he sent us and all and the kind words he said about us and all as he is on a social networking site(Yes it's really him and he has pictures of his family and all and most of the pics you cant find on the net, etc so yeah, it's him. Not a poser. He said some nice things about a friend and I. ), so I send a letter thanking him for his interest in trying to help with the issue as he was interested in giving advice for it and all and told him about this issue what was going on and that it ended. Got some good advice just to be done with this person and ignore her, etc. Also said who I thought was a cast member 'The real deal" from a tv show he was a member of on this social networking site because the rest are fake or fansites. I hope I didn't get him mad. I think I did, but I am not sure. Told about the posers how people like to pretend to be people they aren't. Was this a good idea? I mean it's the truth. I always state the truth. Also said I owned a site on this site as he tried to add as a friend and he thought it was the real person, but it wasnt. I was a site I owned on the person and most sites he tried to add were either mine or someone elses. Oh gosh, Im scared. I hope I didn't get him mad. Also told I was denied by all the cast members of this tv show he was part of who had accounts on this site all except for hte ones who i thought who were the real person, I mean I was denied by one of the cat members of this show he was on as a other sites so I was denied. I just wanted to see if they were the real cats members of this show. So Im guessing they are posers or just a fansites. I think they are posers because I was denied friendship with some of the cast members who I thought they were the real deal too but I guess not. I hope I dont make him mad, etc. I told the truth and Im worried. I hope this was okay to tell him this though. I feel embarrassed and hope he doesn't get mad that I told the truth and all. Let me know if I did the right thing cuz I felt I did something wrong that could upset him. thanks. So, did I do the right thing by telling him about this. He's new to this social networking site and isn't aware of this kind of thing happening, so did I do the right thing? i just hope he isnt mad and all. thanks. (link)
you definitly did the right thing you spoke your mind and told the truth and nobody can hate you for stating the truth just stick with what you said and dw about anything.


Hello, I like this guy that's truly amazing . I asked him to add me on my space...but he hasn't added me yet, and I want to know why. The friend request was real nice. I told him I liked him and I wanted him to add me so he and I can get to know each other. I was so nice ...but he went on my space 20 minutes after I sent the request...and he didn't add me. It, makes me so sad...because I like him SO much and I just want to be his friend...so he can see that were meant to be together.... my friend is his friend on my space...and she said we have a lot in common. So , please someone tell me why he won't add me. Or, what I said wrong or whatever ...thanks for whoever try's to help!!

- Mattlover (link)
Maybe he didnt get it or maybe he just isnt sure what to say to you since you told him you like him i think he just needs time to think about it just wait a few more days and if he still doesnt add you then send another request or talk to him about it. good luck:D


So my hair is really curly and almost down to my elbows, and it's dark brown, with longer layers. I straighten my hair almost every day, otherwise it looks really bad. The problem is, I have really bad split ends. I just got my hair cut and asked for the dead ends to be cut off, but she didn't get all of them! So now my mom won't let me get my hair cut again for awhile. My hair gets really dull and still and dry when I'm out in the winter air, which makes it worse. The main products I have are:
-BedHead Light Me Up! Blow Dryer
http://img.nextag.com/image/Tigi-Hair-Care-TIGI/1/000/006/046/471/604647105.jpg
-BedHead Control Freak Shampoo and Conditioner
http://clipsncuts.com/yahoo_site_admin/assets/images/Picture_503.220150757_std.jpg
-Forever... Her Styler Straightening Iron
http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/41%2BzEvtKDdL._SL500_AA280_.jpg
-Victoria's Secret So Sexy Straightening Balm
http://www2.victoriassecret.com/images/tmblg3/V267847.jpg
-Coconut Milk Split Ends Mender
http://www.prweb.com/prfiles/2008/03/06/278767/OrganixCoconutSplitEndsMender.jpg
-And a couple other things like flexible hold hairspray, de-frizz serum, wide tooth comb, paddle brush, etc.
So can anyone tell me what I can do about my hair? Please, I really need some help! Thanks so much! (link)
well when i was younger my grandma put oil in my hair and left it in for an hour and it got rid of my split ends also my hair stylist told me if you wash your hair everyday and towel dry it then it should help and you probably shouldnt straighten it everyday because thats the number one cause curly hair can look good too just use moose and curling spray and the curly will look shiny and healthy just give it a try and your split ends will be gone.


ok so i had sex with my boyfriend a couple of times now but last time we did my "cherry popped" and i'm still bleeding a little after 3 days. is this a problem? (link)
no dw sometimes it happens its totally normal.


I'm a 15 year old boy and my girlfriend broke up with me awhile back, but i'ms till fighting to get her back no matter what and i know i love her. A friend of mine that i once kinda not really liked a few years ago has been supporting and sympathizing with me ever since it happened. I know i love my ex no matter and i would never want to be with anyone else but last night i had a dream that my ex convinced my friend to kiss me and she kissed me in class got on top of me and we had sex. I don't have any feelings for my friend except appreciation for her understanding attitude. So thn why would i have this dream? What could it mean? (link)
I think you just like her not as in love but just like th way she looks and stuff i think the reason for your dream is that you broke up with your gf and now that your hitting pubirty you have certain feelings for different girls just see how far your dream goes and once the dream is over it will just stop you just have to remind yourself that your just friends with the girl you are dreaming about and they will stop.


I adopted a 7 year old cat in mid-november. She pooped on the floor a few times during the first month, but lately has been doing it more often. The weird thing is that she also poops in her litter box, actually she poops there most of the time. It's just every once in awhile (and more often lately) that she leaves her droppings just outside her litter box, or very nearby. A few rare times she has also pooped in the kitchen on the rug. Why is she doing this? How can I get her to stop? She uses her litter box for pooping and urinating, so why the random droppings? (link)
K well i think you may be feeding her too much because usually when a cat does that it means that shes too full and has to go poop but cant make it to the litter box in time so try cutting down on the amount u give her also you could get pet diapers and try those for a bit and if you dont want to do that then wait for your cat to poop and then point to the litter box eventually she will get it and stop leaving the little dropplings everywhere i hope i helped good luck :D


so i adopted a dog maybe like a month ago? and
she came from a puppy mill, so she had like a liter or two of puppies. shes a bichon/poodle, shes about two years old and shes very sweeet and tiny.

since puppymills abuse puppys and treat them like crap, shes very scared of everything. she found trust in my mom before everyone else so she follows her EVERYWHERE. and every little noise she hears she starts barking and growling. my dad got soo mad yesterday cause he cant take it anymore that he seriously started screaming. i thought it wad just one of those fases he goes through when he gets mad, but i guess not becuase i woke up this morning and my mom told me she is waiting for the lady who runs the adopting thing to call her back. which obviously means were giving her back. and ive been crying my eyes out because of it.

is there any way we can get her to stop barking. i know some people spray there puppies when there bad, but its hard to do things to her becuase she gets scared so easily. i neeed help ! i want to keep her and im afraid i wont get to :[ (link)
well i have a dog who barks constantley because he always wants to play with us but we started taking him to training and hes been better the trainer told us to throw water at the dogs face if it keeps barking most dogs hate water so thats y they will stop and if that doesnt work then instead of screaming at it grab the dog and put it in your lap and say shh no puppy and just comfort it until its quiet this should work if you have anymore questions feel free to ask :D


So, I have the Sims 2 Double Deluxe for PC.
Anytime I try to play it though, it says to insert the original disk instead of the backup (1000).

I have no idea what this means.
But I uninstalled it, reinstalled it. Twice.
Then actually bought a whole new game and installed it and its saying the same thing.


Does anyone know how to fix this?!
Please helpppppppp. (link)
I think you have the wrong copy for your computer because each computer needs a certain type of disk you should check the back of the cd to make sure its the right one for your computer if it is and still doesnt work then go back to the place you got it from and tell them your problem and they will help you out for sure.




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