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Hey there im 13 female and i am 5'2 and 117 pounds i absolutley love my body but i have no will power to lose like 5 or 6 punds and if you answer please dont say get a friend to help i need real advice like how to get pumped to excersize. Thanks XOXO

LOOK THRU A MaGAZINE OF ALL FIT PEOPLE.
JUST THIK ABOUT HOW YOURE BODY WILL LOOK AFTER ALL THE HARD WORK! =]


GOOD LUCK

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how do I french kiss someone while on the toilet?
i know this may sound weird but it was something I was wondering. Because when my husband trys to kiss me while on the toilet I dont know what to do.

Uhm. Do as you normally would

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I am 14/f and i'm gonna admit. i am not skinny. i am not too overweight, and by no means obese. maybe the farthest thing from it. but i am always soooo self concious! iabsolutelyhateit.
i want to lose weight. but i just don't have the drive... until i lose some weight, how can i keep from being self concious???

Talk to yourself in the mirror. It builds up confidence. It might sound sillly, but it helps


=]

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I'm going to put this as clean as I can.
I had sex, and was giving the guy a hand job before hand and didnt finish him off.
He penetrated me a few times before putting on a condomn.
I haven't missed a period yet, but I should be getting it any day now.
But I've not felt well at all in the morning, my breasts have been really sore, plus I've been neasuated somewhat.
I'm not sure if it's possible I could be pregnant? I need some help here, and asap..thanks.

Well, it is very possible but i doubt it. You dont get signs until like 3 months MIN. So, just take a test and go from there

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why did i bleed having sex with my bf even though its not my 1st time?

He could of been too rough.

You mightve started youre period.

He probably just fully broke youre hymen.

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hi this is si321,
I need to know if anyone out there has any advice on how to clear acne without using expensive treatments i neeeeeeeeeeed to know as soon as possible


thanx sooooo much

Sis321 email me at sis13@neo.rr.com

Drink a lot of water, believe me it makes such a difference. Its a natural cure for bad/acne prone skin.

Start eating cantalope. its great for the complexion!

Good luck

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I have pimples on my forhead but you cant really see them but there little, And im afraid there gunna get bigger and im gunna get really bad acne because my older brother has bad acne but my older sister doesnt. and i washe my face everymorning and before bed with this olay stuff does anyone know any other ways to keep pimples away. and if im gunna start getting bad acne?

Acne free or proactiv.

Bascially anytihng thing benzoyl peroxide and staylic acid.

Good luck

also start drinking more water. Its a natural cure.


NOXZEMMA HELPS!

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maybe im not using a frozen spoon right haha!
but it did go down a little, or its just cold.
i dont know any other ideas that you can find

Well. To hide a hickey, use concealer makeup and try that while it fades away naturally.If you tend to be a really slow healer, eat healthy foods so your body has a better chance of healing.

And you can also wear a choker necklace for the time being.

When i used the spoons i left it in the freezer for like 8 hours. lol

Good luck

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Tommrows my moms birthday and I want to cook her the perfect meal! Im not the best cook in the world but I want to know if anyone has any good websites that might have some good recipes that I could use to make my mom a delicious b-day meal!

Maybe this will help?

http://search.yahoo.com/search?p=simple+recipes+for+meals&ei=UTF-8&fr=slv2-&x=wrt

Good luck

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I never know wether a guy likes me or not. How do you really know wether a guy likes you? Any signs? Anything that says he deffinitely DOESNT like you, im so CONFUSED! help!


Smiling alot and staring at the person alot is like saying i think your really cute or i like you. if you start acting the same way as taht person or saying the same things sometimes, thats sort of saying i really like you and i pay alot of attention to you. if guys start showing off in front of you he wants you to notice him because maybe he likes you. if you/or him are like clumsy in front of that boy/girl, like falling, and like running into things, or all of a sudden you stop talking and just stare at that person tahts also saying you like that person.


Sometimes if i have a crush on someone i catch myself copying what they do. Like using the same words as they do. But subconciously.


A quick summary of body language can be found here:

http://www.bbc.co.uk/relationships/singles_and_dating/techniques_flirting.shtml
An extensive look at flirting/body language can be found here:
http://www.myjellybean.com/flirt/flirt.html



While it varies from person to person and according to the situation you should be able to get a basic grasp of things at these websites.

www.selfgrowth.com/bodyl.html

www.deltabravo.net/custody/body.php

www.links2love.com/body_language.htm

Good luck

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Back to school! I need a really cute and eclectic backpack. Does anybody know any sites/stores I could get one at. Just to give you the idea of what I like, my last backpack was a hott pink, canvas and corduroy messenger bag I decoratd with millions of buttons (pins). LoVe To AlL!!!

HOT ToPIC..

SPENCeRS..

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I have a lot of huge red stretch marks on the inside and outsides of my thighs, on my love handles, and all over my breasts. I feel uncomfortable in shirts that show my love handles because of the stretch marks and because they are big and I feel uncomfortable in short shorts and swimming suits because you can see my thigh stretch marks. Also I don't like wearing suits that part in the middle like bikinis because my breasts are kind of big so they pop out and then you can see my breast stretch marks. I am not really that fat, but ever snce I started the Seasonal birth control pill (for periods, im not pregnant) I have gained 8 pounds...and my mom said when you gain weight really fast it leaves stretch marks. I know you can never fully make them disappear, but how can I make the stretch marks all over my body fade enough to where I am not so self consious about them? Please help me =] I'm 13/f. Thanks much!

A lot of teens have them. Even adults. Its because we grow very fast. Try rubbing cocoa butter on them everynight before you go to sleep. This WILLNOT get rid of them, it will fade them,then sooner of later they will be gone.


Good luck

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i have a friend named mandy and ive known her for about 3 weeks and she is lesbian. well in the past three weeks, ive gotten to know alot about her and before that i was trying to figure out if im straight or bisexual or lesbian. and now, im pretty sure im bi, cuz i really like my friend mandy. we have alot in common we talk for hours. the other night me and my sister were talking about bisexual and stuff like that and she thinks she is attracted to girls and guys too. i wanted to talk to her soo much about it but i didnt want her to hate me or anything. so yeah, im still somewhat confused about me being bi or not.

Its normal when youre a teenager to be confused. Once you get a little older it will be clear to you what youre orientation is.

So,as of now you can experiment and see what you like best =]

good luck

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I am 13 and I am not muscley and manly at all, but I am like really strong. I beat all my girl friends in arm wrestling and arm things, and I can take pain. Guys always seem so impressed with the fact that I am so strong, and I can even beat some boys, and one guy even said if he had to choose someone to save his life out of all his friends it would be me. But I am wondering, do most guys find that disturbing and like petite weak girls that they can like beat easily? I lift small weights and do little arm exercise things sometimes, but then I think maybe I should stop doing that because it might be unattractive. Thanks!

Well guys like the happy medium. He likes girls that are weak so the guys can protect us, and then again they like a girl who is independant and can fight her own battles.

So, just go somewhere in the middle.

Good luck

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I'm 15 and i need at least 350$ before thanksgiving can someone tell me a fast way to make a lot of money? I really need help!

Well you can babysit.
Maybe prositute?hah ;]
uhm. Mow grass.
Do extra chores around the house.

stuff like that

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I always striaghten my hair because it sticks up everywhere! When I went to get a hair cut the hair cut lady said I was killing my hair by doing this so much! What should I do? My hairs superrr FRIZZZAYYY

Get this great conditioning balm. Its by biolage. Its great! i swear by it. its about 14 dollars. It is gentle enough that you can use daily =]

Try Frizz ease by john fredia. He has an excellent line.

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Hello.,

I was wondering if anyone knows any good stores that have clothes that are similar to like Charlotte Russe, Delias and Alloy. If you do please let me know :]


Thanks, bye.

Wet seal, forever 21,dots

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any methods of gettin rid over them, besides makeup. becuse ill be in water that doesnt exactly work. thanks ♥

Freeze spoons =]

Always always work

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I have to pee all the time.
Whats wrong with me?
Im scared to tell my mom.
Shes alway with my sisters and they'll laugh at me!

Do you drink a lot of water? That could be the cause. If not, you have an overactive bladder or a UTI.

You need to just tell youre mom in private and aks her not to tell anyone.

But, you need to go to the doctor if the problem persists and explain to him whats going on.


Good luck

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I'm 17/f. I'm about 5'11". I've never been kissed, been on a date or had a boyfriend. Not to sound arrogant or anything but I am pretty. I have a great personality. I feel like I'm the only girl my age who hasn't been kissed, etc. I'm afraid I won't experience anything till college. Kinda like Felicity (old t.v. show). It makes me really sad, especially when watching romance movies. Any advice?

Youre 17, you probably have a car.Why dont you go out with friends and if you see a hot guy make the move.

Remember to give eye contact and smile a lot. Then he will probably come over to you. If he doesnt, then keep doing the eye contact/smiling thing and after a while go over to him and start a convo.

Dont give up hope. =]

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