Q: How do you let some one know that you don't wanna be there friend anymore...even though she thought you have been friends since you were like babies...I don't wanna be like cruel...but she has been getting on my nerves...i don't want the kind of advice that says...you should just stay friends things might change...i really don't want to know her...she lies,she's fat,she's thinks she's better then everyone else...and she thinks thta everyone likes her...but no one does...she's a freek!!

Help me please...thankz in advance!

Q: This coming sunday (The 19th) I'm supposed to sing a duet. The person I'm singing with isn't comfortable singing though her voice is reasonable. She feels immbarrised to stand up and sing in sacrament so we talked with the person that asked us and sister Naylor is going to have her daughter who as a matter of fact, a beautiful singer. I personaly don't want to have Lori sing with us because we will be zoned out for one, Anna and I are not the best singers. The most we can do is stay on pitch and I honestly have never sung in front of anyone because...Well I really don't have that beautiful singing voice that some have. And Two she hasn't practiced with us. (We have to sing with a Harp) So my question to all of you is what do I do? Should I just keep my mouth quiet and just sing with Lori and Anna and not say anything, Or should I share my oppinion with sis. Naylor? I would rather be heard without Lori taking control.

Just try to give me some good advice please.
AG

Q: i cannot get into your chatroom. it says somthing about cookies and then says somthing like about cannot connect to channel. what do i do?

Q: 14/F. I have to get orthodonic braces in a few weeks and I have a few questions about them. I will rate. Do they hurt? What will happen if I chew gum with them? What color bands would look good with brown hair and brown eyes? Thanks.

Q: i am a 13 year old girl with a lot of friends. boys and girls. but mostly boys. im a girly girl though not a tomboy or anything. when i am with my guy friends i am totally normal and myself.the only problem is that whenever i am going out with a guy, i get nervous. i dont really act myself around him. do you know anything to help me over come this problem?

Q: I have been with my boyfriend for around 4 months and I really do love him alot. The problem is, one of my best friends is in all of his classes and I am in none of them. My friend happens to be his last ex girlfriend and now they are very good friends. I don't have a problem with that but they are always talking and laughing together and last night my friend said that she and him were very close. My boyfriend and I don't talk very much because we never know what to say to each other. He says it is because he hasn't got a very interesting life but whenever I see him, he his always with my friend. It's not that I don't trust my boyfriend because I do and I don't think there is anything going on between him and my friend, it just hurts me that he can't talk to me but he can talk to his ex. What shall I do? How can I talk to my boyfriend more?

Q: i've known this guy named connor for 2 years i like him but i'm not that sure he likes me back.you see ever since he found out i liked him we've been avoiding each other.so i'm not sure he likes me can you help me?

Q: me and my boyfriend have been together for quite some time ((3 months)) he is 18 now & im 15... my parents think he is 16 and i hate lying to them but i love him and i want to be with him... how bad does this make me??
my b-day is on may 5th
and his on the 13

Q: how old do you have to be to get your toung peirced in new york?

Q: i have to do this thingy in front of my class.. which is 36 people and i have to memorize it... its a monologue. and im scared. i think imn gunna go out there and like freeze!! what do i do? 13/f

Q: i have a friend that has recently become bi. she always tells me that i look hot, and she always comes around and slaps my ass. it's starting to bother me. what should i say to her? becuz i cant take it for much longer..!

Q: okay so this is the deal i have always had boy friends but they never lasted over like two weeks and 1 month at the latest. well this year i met this guy and we have been goin out for like 3 months! and i realyl really really like him alot i am really attracted to him in many ways but recently hes been getting really seriouse! i mean im only 14 and hes all like "o babe i love you i care about you alot i really wanny be with you for along time" and im like "uummmm yea.." i mean i really do LIKE him and i dont think im ready for love yet! wut am i gonna do? i mean i dont wanna break up with him i like him alot and it would be soo diff w/o him! help help help me please!! ASAP

Q: Well, about four years ago, my father divorced my mother. It took a little over three years for the divorce to go through. During that time, my father treated me like crap. He was constantly yelling at me, picking on me, and just making me completely miserable. On time, he told his family that I should go to fat camp, and they all laughed at me. He's called me "fat, ugly, stupid, and a piece of sh**." I tried running away, but he caught me, and dragged me back. He also dropped me off on the side of a highway in the middle of winter, and drove off. He lead me to become so depressed, I would hurt myself.

Their divorce was finaliazed, but we had to move our of our house and move in with my grandma. I still visit him on Fridays and Sundays. He's been making us look at houses for him, which makes me really upset. He won't support us at all because he claims he has no money, but he owns his own business, and I've done some detective work, and found out how much he makes. I hate going with him because all we do is look at houses, and it bothers me because we had to move out of our house. My 16th birthday was in September and not one person from his side of the family realized how old I was. My father didn't even have a cake for me. This was one of the most important birthdays for a girl, and he totally ignored it. He just left yesterday to go with his girlfriend to Florida, and didn't even invite us, and also waited until the night before to tell us he was going. He doesn't plan on seeing us when he moves to Florida in a couple of years. Should I just stop goign with him? I'm 16-years-old, and I would rather spend my Friday nights with my friends. I want to have a father, but not one that makes me feel so crappy. What should I do? Should I continue to visit him for the sake of having a father, or should I just forget about him? Thank you so much for helping!

Q: i met this guy, lets call him chad, who was a friend of a friend. we went out for about two weeks and then broke up. lately hes been calling me telling me that he still likes me and stuff but he doesnt know if he wants to get back together. he makes me cry almost every night, but for some reason i still cant let it go. i want to be with him so badly. all of my friends keep telling me to just leave it alone, that hes a jerk and its not worth it... but i cant let it go. what should i do? should i tell him that i still like him or should i just forget about him?

Q: Heyy, my friend and I got into a fight about a boy...I've liked him since the day i met him...and she told me that i should go for it...then the other day i heard that she made out with him...and she didn't even care how I felt about it...I've been mad at her ever since...I don't know what do do!!....please help me!


Signed,
**Boy Problems**

Q: ok i have no idea what to get my boyfriend for christmas. he is a skateboarder and he likes to play the drums. hes not like punk or anything hes just normal. (he doesnt like hott topic) his friend says i should get him drumsticks because he is getting a new drumset for christmas, but i dont really want to get him drumsticks. i have no idea. plz help me

Q: ok i met a boyt his summer through a bffe and he was 14 turning 15 in a few days and i was 13 welll im turning 14 soon, and i different friend, who is couzens with one of his friends when she was at her couzens house he asked how i was doing this past week and said that if i was older he would go out with me, since im turning 14 and stuff, should I IM him again and start talking and see what happens? cause i still think about him and stuff and he was so nice and he told me he liked me

Q: OK there is this boy and I'm not saying his name and well i went to a new school this year and then he asked me out the third week of school; now i didnt say yeah but i didnt turn him down and stuff and HE KNEW THAT cause we talked about it all night! and he told me to tell him when i wanted to go out with him! now i was waiting til i got to knw him and i did and he was so sweet to me; flirting all the time, making sure to sit with me, when he moved his seat, he moved mine too, like watching a movie in HR and like he kept rubbing my leg, like SO SWEET! and i wanted to be with him! but i was scared to say OK im ready or i wana go out w. you, so i wanted to wait for him to ask me! well he never did and he went out with a different girl and all my friend say it was hor her boobs lol. and then she cheated on him, we flirted again, he went out with her AGAIN, now hes going out with another girl but i think he's flirting with me again, i dont really like anyone, i just like our friend a tiny bit, help me please! xoxo no name

Q: this isnt the same guy thats been saying he wants to kill himself but i do have the same problem i go to your school but you probably wouldnt know me im just some loser that has friends that make fun of me.my family has turned thier backs on me and i cant seem to find a way out except to pull a trigger.

this is my cry for help can you please help me i will be very thankfull.

Q: How do you get all the cursors, backrounds, and music on your column? I'll rate. Thank you.

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