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this name is old and stupid....well first off my name is stephanie.dont judge me before you know me.im pretty nice.i like meeting new people,so im open to friends, but im extremely shy, so yeah. i dont give that good of advice so i'll help you as much as i can












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Okay this is a question for guys and girls. im a 15 year old girl and i like this kid and he said that he likes me to but he doesn't want a girlfriend. im confused though cause we have like 45 min conversations on the phone and talk alot. what does that all mean?

i think it might mean something distracting him or he just wants to be single ...or he could like someone else more and hes waiting for her to like him

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i have this assignment that i need to make an brochure...and i only have microsoft word on my computer..i was wondering how do i put it in the brochure format?!

just make up your own if you dont have a computer program for thata..just take a blank piece of paper then fold it the long way into 3 pieces and just put like picture and stuff about your assignment

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ok i met this guy off buddypic a while back and hes got a salute and a lot of pictures so i know its him for sure and we talk on the phone and stuff....well he wants to meet me next weekened and hes already talking about fucking me in the car next weekend....hes like oh well have SO much fun....i have a boyfriend though of 5 months...and we promised to NEVER cheat on eachother..and me and my boyfriend havent even fucked..should i do this??

no once a cheater always a cheater

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I like this skater guy alot .We started hanging out at lunch alot now . And i talk to him about stuff .But he always tell's me .about the girl he likes. It annoys me ..so nad but i act like i care ..but i don't i like him. What should i do ?.I change when i'm by him i'm not me .My mo even said i've been changing latly, i'm rude nedetive, getin in trouble , wear more black but idk whe i'm with him ....i feel like notin really matterrs to me but him what souldi do ?? help

talk to him tell him how you feel and that you like him he might have feelings for you to..just dont be so down on yourself i no its hard to go from being negetive to being positive because i have always been negetive..

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I used to cut myself. Don't worry I don't do it anymore but I was wondering if any one knew how to cover up or get rid or the scars. Because one day while I was in school this kid Joe saw them and started making fun of me. I can't help what I did and i'm tired of him saying things to me , and for me to always having to hide them from everyone in fear that people will thing im weird. Thank you in advance! xoxo - KrIsSy*

after about a year the cuts will go away not totally but they will"fade away" but until then you could put cover up or buy this cream i dont know the name of it but you put it on then it will soon fade away...no one should make fun of you for that

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I really think I love this guy.. but he doesn't go to my school and I haven't seen him in a year. I really miss him because I, deep down, have always loved him. I try to make plans, but he's always playin hockey. I REALLY need to see him.. what can I do?

P.S. =>more info: i'm 13 (so is he) im in 7th grade (so is he) he's totally hott, and sweet (so am i... ok i'm juss sweet, im like OK but he thinks im hott) and he lives near me (we're only one school district apart.

THANKS FOR YOUR TIME!

just call him up..ask to hang out or something..if you do call him up then ask when hes not playing hockey..or talk to him on the computer

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Hey it's me again the 14/f that is pregnate..For those of you that don't remember or know me, I had a boyfriend in jail and the side relationship where I got pregnate and found out from a test. Pierre is his name..not mike..but anyway pierre wants this baby aborted..he said he's not going to lose his football career over me or the baby..i`m already 6 weeks and I love this baby more than anything now. Telling my boyfriend was hard.. even harder then telling my father! My boyfriend was really mad since he just got out of jail and everything and wanted to kill the crap out of pierre..well my boyfriend really loves me and you can tell..since he said he'll be the father since pierre won't....but what should i do..should i still consider abortion? because I really want this child...

its nice that your bf is going to be the father since you did that..sice pierre doesnt want to ruin his football career you could keep the baby but he should have to pay child support..its not his decion(sp)to abort the child its your..but keep in mind aare you going to be able to support it?love it?ruin your school year for it?

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Last year I had about 500 (exaggerating) guys ask me to go out w/ them, but this year, no one has! I think that one of my ex b/f's likes me again but I'm not sure! how do i find out? What should i do? HELP!!!!

the same thing happened to me but to find out just ask him or ask a friend to go up to him and ask him

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does anybody know if claire's or hot topic does belly button piercings? thx ahead of time!

no your have to go to a tatoo(sp)place,but i think you can buy some there

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ok so my best friend likes this guy and i was like o ok but i didn't know him. well tonight we hung out with him all night and now i think i like him!! is that a bad thing? and what should i do if he askes me out?

it could be bad because your friend like him but you could do whatever you want..when he asks you out tell him how you feel like if you do like him then say yes..its really up to you to say the right answer

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i just got my hair permed 2day and i was wonderin if i can get it wet and just not wash it??? thanks

i dont think that your suppose to wash it or put it behind your ears for like 3 days..but i think thats for when you get is straightened

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There is these 3 boys on the bus that keep bothering me and my best friends. They keep saying that we're a "threesome" and in three days they've made me cry 5 times. They call us sexy and say I love you. We know that they don't mean it.. they're all a year older than us (we're in 7th grade) and they always try to steal my stuff and call me and my best friend gay. I've tried EVERYTHING!! Nothing works.. a little help on handling these people?

tell them to back off and stop being immature..they really are being immature..or you could talk to a teacher or someone about it

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Hey! ok there is this boy that i really really like. his name is Tom. we have chorus together. Half my friends tell me he likes me and then other people say he doesn't. I saw him and my friend Mike walking outside in our courtyard going to their next class. Which was Chorus for Tom. Then i came out and Mike was like go out with her Tom just go up to her and ask her out its not that hard and Tom started to blush and was laughing and smiling. Then in chorus all my friends needed help on this worksheet. I helped my friend Nick, then my friend Emliy and then i was helping my friend Julia and i was looking at her paper and i looked up out of the corner of my eye and i saw him staring at me. i have caught him staring at me several times. We always look at each other and when the other one looks we turn away. Then about 2 or 3 people say he doesn't like me. Then sometimes i also get the feeling he doesn't like me. I dont know what to think. What should i do?

ask him for yourself..to hear the truth,if he likes you if he doesnt..but it sounds like he does like you

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i have a bf and icant tell him why i love him i mean its heard because i dont know what to say i mean i love him i sware i havent ever had this of a stong feelings for a guy as i do for him what should I do PLEASE HELP ME!!!!

thats the same with me because i cant tell anyone why i like someone i just dont now how to put it in words..some times when you love someone so much you cant put it into words about how you feel about them

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Hey yeah.....My best friend likes my boyfirend...and shes trying to brake us up and I dont know what to do...cause i love my boyfriend to death and I don't want to lose him....and my best friend I dont want to lose her either I don't know what to do please help...I rate high!!


-Amanda Marie

talk to her tell her how your feeling and that you love your bf

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ok so i'm fighting w/ my bestfriend..and like now the "popular" girls are all sorta taking her side. and they decided to put mean things in their infos about me, and it doesnt say me but i can tell..and their so stuck up and snobby and they think their so much better than everyone else, when their just b*tches that spend their time talking about other people. and they think their so "popular" when more people hate them then actually like them. and i have a group of friends that love me for me and i'm happy with my life. so after hearing all this your probably thinking what's the problem? well even though i know i shouldnt let what they say get to me..it Really Really does..and it just hurts even though i know their not worth my time. :-( any advice? i rate high for effort..thanks..

kinda the same thing happened to me but it was in 6th grade and i only had 2 friends and people made fun of me...but now its all good even though i cant let the momories go..anyhoo just ignore them their just stuck up bitches and they only care about themselves...you have the true friends not them

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I am 14/f and don't tell me i`ve made the biggest mistake of my life...i know i've made a mistake and i`m gonna follow my responsibilities. My boyfriend, who I have been with for 11 months, has been in jail for 6... he just got out and we really like each other you know? Well, while he was in jail-i had a little side thing...with a 16 year old black male...lets call him mike..me and mike really liked each other and did it a lot..but when we did it on the first day of my period-something happened. Last night, my stomach was hurting sooo bad while talking to my boyfriend. So bad that my mom took me to the emergency room. She decided to give me a pregnancy test..and it`s positive. I`m nervous and all and 6 weeks pregnate in the 9th grade... I have the money and skills to support it..but MIKE doesn`t want anything to do with it. My dad wants it aborted but I want it...my mom does too. What would you do in my situation? And how do i explain to my boyfriend who is trying to get his life back on track?

first...why did your boyfriend go to jail??well in my opinion i would abort it because your only 14 you have a long way to go and you dont want to mess up your life at 14..but i would feel guilty by doing that...its really your decion....also get a job so you can support you and your baby if you make that decion



for your bf i would tell him the truth but dont go into detail...it might be hard for him to understand and stuff but i think thats the best thing to do..

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ok, my parents are divorced, i think all my friends talk about me and hate me, and i think my moms going to die!! whats wrong with me? sometimes i feel like cutting myself but i don't. i just think thats not how u solve things but i feel like doing it so mucch. my life is soooo screwed. canyou help??

well my friends are idiots to..no one likes me but i dont care because if you got one person in your life your fine..but i think you should be with your mom to confort(sp)since sheis going through the divorce..sorry i couldnt help that much but just next time put a little more detail in your question

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my best friend new i liked this kid and she still went with him and i told her i still like him nd she like rubes it in my face so i told him... and now she i smad and thinks im stealing him.. wut should i do?

you guys shouldnt fight over a guy...your best friends,just tell her that you knew that i liked him or something like that

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I don't have any guts when it comes to dumping a guy. Well.. OK I must admit this is my first time and we never went out on a date. I just don't want to be in a relationship right now. So, do you think it is ok to write a note to the guy I want to dump and say I don't want to be in a relationship? Or, does anyone know another way where I don't have to talk to him face-to-face. Or, do I have to talk to him like that! PLease help!

i would talk to him..but when you are going to dump him make sure your truthful dont tell a lie..he might find out and it might get even worse..but you could write a note

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