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Q: Which is better, an Ipod video or Ipod nano?
I have the choice of which one I want to get as my xmas gift. I know Ipod video has alot more memory but aside from memory size, which is more convinient for me? 16/f btw
Its Kinda the day after christmas so maybe its 2 l8? idk. but anyways, i have a video. and its reely awsum bcz you can put pix and videos and movies and stuff. but, its kinda ugly. not ugly ugly, but not as cute as a nano you no? and video only cums in blak and white right? so like take ur pic. ugly but duz more or adorable that duzent do a lot.
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Q: I have a problem. Ok so everything is going well I have a boyfriend and I was happy with him and our relationship was going well. He's always so sweet with me and I feel safe with him. Ok so yea yesterday we were talking online and out of the blue he writes "its over bitch!". I was so shocked he never said those things to me before. Then like about an hour later I write to him and he writes "what the fuck do u want?!". I thought I was going to die when I read that. Then that person wrote that, that wasn't him it is one of his friend online in his screenname. And then he said he was going to block me and he did!. I don't know what to think. Should I believe that person?. I don't know who it was. And if it is his friend wat right does he have to end our relationship like that?!. I'm so confused please help a.s.a.p. Thanks!
if this guy is really sweet he wouldent say sumthing like that. it was definately his phsyco friends. ask him 2 meet you sumwhere and talk it out with him. tell him was "he" IMed you and tell him its hard talking to him online when you dont no if its him or not
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Q: Okay, basically you know that this is a guy trouble. but it's not that I have a cursh on him but rather I miss him..he was like my online brother/bff. I know pretty sad. long version short: he was my only support through my really though times. I mean I was on the verge of commiting suicide and when I talked to him it was like everything was going perfectly well because he listened, understood, and cared about my issues without me scaring him off.

That sounds bombastic and overdramatic but it's not. The problem is that I haven't been able to talk with him for half a year now. I want to talk to him but he's never online since he goes to a culinary school. I was thinking of writing to him (don't talk about safety issues. we've written to each other couple of tiems before) but i don't know. Is there anyone I can talk to about this matter who is sensitive to other peoples feelings..?
you can talk to me of you want. but if this boy is serously as understanding and sweet as you say he is you should call him! talking to him will definately make you feel btr

Q: I posted several questions about this girl that I met at a welfare office and where she is pregnant and the father is totally out of the picture. I asking, how can i passively engage in asking her out. She just had the baby, a month ago, I was there during delivery and all and I feel she likes me but I fee she is holding? Why? I would love to date her and be involved but what should I do?
show her that you care. play with the baby. once she sees that you care about her shell go out with you

Q: 17/m I liked this girl for really long (several years) and just recently I admited my feelings for her (card on christmas gift). But she pretty much said no.It was quite annoying cuz she said she liked me earlier on, and then decided that it wouldnt work because we are too good of friends. now i have been trying to put her in a friend zone of my brain as opposed to where she is now. and seeing her....does not help at all. we went to the movies with friends and the entire time she was laughing and whispering with my other guy friend, who i think also likes her and it bothered me throughout the entire movie. my friend who sat next to me told me that it was pretty obvious to her why i was fidgeting so much. i need advice on how to move on from this crush, it's so hard! please help!
think about all the bad things about her. and think about all the good parts of someone else. if you get another crush, ul get over her. but this girl dosent know how lucky she is to have someing like her like you do.
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Q: ~~~~~~~ so there is this guy that used to like me and i used to like him 2...and we knew we liked each other but couldnt go out!!!!
then he asked my full time enimy out!!!!!!! ahhh\\\

What should i doo

you have already helped if u reply
if he asked your enemy out, hes trying 2 make you jelous!!! he knew you liked him but you woodent go out w/ him so hes trying to make you serously jelous w/ ur enemy!!! he still likes you!! so all you got 2 do is show him you still like him. do you got any friends that are friends w/ him 2? tell them that you would go out w/ him if he asked. then hel dump ur enemy and ask you out bcz he still likes you!!!!
hope this helps
xo

Q: 13/f
Ok I like this guy. But he it's really complicated. one of my best friends just broke up with him (neither of them still like each other, shes actually going out with someone else now and he doesnt care but still) and one of my other best friends also likes him (she doenst know i like him). what do I do?
do you serously like this guy? you got 2 figure out hoo you like btr: ur friend hoo likes him or him. also, the girl hoo broke up w/ him may side w/ ur other friend bout this 1, since you r taking her man (ex but still) and even if shes ovr him, seeing him move on cood make her mad

Q: I have always been feeling down at school. I get bullied a lot, but my teachers don't really help the situation. Especially at my lunch where these kids keep making fun of me, pointing me out, and harrassing me. I try hard to skip lunch but not just because of them but because of the food they offer. I hate their food. And I can't pack because I just plainly hate lunchtime anyway. So every day when I do go to lunch with my friends, I am totally quiet, feeling depressed, anti-social, and never wanting to be involved in conversation. However, when I go back to class (hanging out with other friends) I am happy, free-spirited, and extroverted. My friends think I am like that all the time, since that's the only time they see me. They never want to find time to see me when we are not in school, because they say they are always "busy and stressed out" to come see me.

My grades have been fluctuating, and I get just totally stressed out thinking about school, and trying to pass. I've been battling anxiety, stress, and depression, so it's been hard for me for quite some time.

I don't want everyone to think I am this emo person, trying to feel suicidal 24/7 when I don't. I can be a very optimistic person, but it's hard to show it when my friends at lunch ignore me a little but, forgetting I am there, and assuming I am jsut tired. I don't know what to do! I want my friends to know I can be happy, yet I want to be happy. I don't know.. can someone help me out here?

Thanks..
i agree, skool food sux. so heres wat you do. you make a frostinh sandwich and a bunch of other food that you like and bring it to skool. im sure there are places to go in your skool besides the lunch room right? sumplace outside wood be the best. bring a good book and sum music and space out. thatll get you in a good mood!!

xo

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FRIENDS ARE LIKE ELEVATOR BUTTONS. THEY CAN EITHER BRING YOU UP OR TAKE YOU DOWN. CHOOSE WISELY
A friend will let you borrow their umbrella but a best friend will take yours and scream "Run Loser Run!!!"
we are all angels
with one wing
and we can wonly fly
with the help of somone else
my friends are my wings

TRUE FRIENDS
THEY ARE HARD TO FIND
DIFFICULT TO LEAVE
AND IMPOSSIBLE TO FORGET!

you can pick your friends, and you can pick your nose! but you cant pick your friends nose

killers stab you in the head
Frenemies stab you in the back
boys stab you in the heart
but best friends dont carry knives

a best friend will never ever come to bail you out of jail so never use your one phone call on them
i tried that, but she wouldent pick up. when i got back to our jail cell, i asked her why she wouldent pick up her phone.

theres no thing as strangers. there are only friends we havent met yet



ill give you advice the best that i can
im only 13 so the advice i give you may not be the best
but ive made tons of mistakes so i can relate
and im obsessed with shopping so anything with clothes i can help
and im always here if you want to talk or hang out or anything
im giving you the truth straight up
i am a brutally honest person
Im also fun-loving and adorable
I consider myseld a happy person
I just happen to love black
Do not call me gothic or ill kill you

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