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how to get over her...
17/m I liked this girl for really long (several years) and just recently I admited my feelings for her (card on christmas gift). But she pretty much said no.It was quite annoying cuz she said she liked me earlier on, and then decided that it wouldnt work because we are too good of friends. now i have been trying to put her in a friend zone of my brain as opposed to where she is now. and seeing her....does not help at all. we went to the movies with friends and the entire time she was laughing and whispering with my other guy friend, who i think also likes her and it bothered me throughout the entire movie. my friend who sat next to me told me that it was pretty obvious to her why i was fidgeting so much. i need advice on how to move on from this crush, it's so hard! please help!
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find someone nicer and someone u can rely on more and u think she might like you then maybe get to know her more and maybe go out with her
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think about all the bad things about her. and think about all the good parts of someone else. if you get another crush, ul get over her. but this girl dosent know how lucky she is to have someing like her like you do.
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This is a perfectly normal emotion to feel. But, some things to get your mind off her are...
1) Hang out with a bunch of your other guy friends
2) Do stuff YOU like instead of when hanging out with her you may have had to compromise
3) Remember that there are many other girls out there so don't keep your eyes closed because she said no! When one door shuts another one even better opens.
4) She at least tried to put it nicely that she only wanted to be friends, right? If not, there are better girls out there for you and you wouldn't want to waste your time with her.
5) If she is on and off about liking you, what's the point of trying to be her boyfriend? I mean, she likes you one day and not the next? Find someone loyal.
6) You finally have more time to be independent and the longer you waited to tell her how you felt the more it would've hurt you.
7) Sorry. But she doesn't sound worth being a girlfriend over to me.
8) And finally...look on the bright side! Y
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Friend zone. Such a cruel place to be especially when you like the person. Just think of it this way:
If you do indeed go out with her, then, well forget about the friendship because it's going to be so awkward to remain friends after you guys break up (hey, it's bound to happen sooner or later)
If you don't, you'll have a good friend for life and instead of ending up in the section where you're yet another one of her ex's, you'll be in her lovely friend zone and will be envied by people who do like her.
So I say just be friends with her. Don't get into little arguments over her. Go out to parties and what not and meet new people. Socialize with other girls. There's bound to be someone there that you'll like much more than this girl. So stop lingering over something that is less valuable than a friendship you have with her!
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