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hey guys! my name is cait♥ and i adore giving people advice. my obsession is 8th&ocean. i even have the theme song as my ringtone ; ] hehe. anyways im a cheerleader and i love every minute of it. well dont be afraid to ask me certain questions because im always here for you = ]. thanks for coming here and reading this. so you like my advice? add me!! = ]]. cait♥

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okay so i wanna gro wmy hair out long, but not strightening it isnt a possiblilty, if idont do anytign to it i look like shit and i cant scrunch it bc my hair doenst look good curly it looks like i rolled outa bed! helppppppp!!!

hey i got the perfect idea! = ]. simply make sure your hair is wet. basically meaning take a shower so your hair is soaked before doing this. just take a blowdryer and a flat brush. just blow it out and then will make it semi straight. cait ♥

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I'm attracted to my social worker. He is 38 and I am in my mid 20's. He's really cute and is so nice to me. He's single, he got a divorce from his wife 4 years ago. Sometimes I have caught him starting at me in an unproffesional way. I've always sensed that he was attracted to me as well. I want to ask him out, but don't know if he would be allowed. Could he get fired if we started dating?

hey you might want to ask your boss or another worker if that is illegal is the business world. if not then i think you should go for it. the wrose thing that can happen is a no. cait ♥

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so i am 15/f and i am dating a 15/m and i seem to get really jealous of his sister..she is 21..and i just get really jealous cus she is a jerk to me but like she is always around my bf and i just dont like it...like if im on the phone with him and he is like o i have to go cus my sis is taking me somwher...i get jealous and i feel sad ...does anyone have any advice where i can get over this problem of mine?

hey its just his sister. they arent together. its not like there no related at all and are having an affair. tlak to your boyfriend about it spending more tiem together maybe. cait ♥

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i am 15/m and i am completely in love with this girl we'll call her Ally she is 15 as well...and we have been dating for three months but it seems like years...we are both so close to eachother and we love eachother so much...now we want to have a baby....i know we are 15 but we want one....we have been talking about it for a while now..and we feel like we are ready like we have been doing a lot of research....but how do we tell our parent that we wanted one and it wasnt a mistake?

hey your way to young. you may think your in love now but there are just soem many things that could go wrong. like what if you guys break up. whos going to hae the kid? whos going to pay the child support? you know. well please re consdier this for your own good. cait ♥

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ok so in november i got a puppy from the animal shelter...she was 19 weeks when we got her...she deffinately has terrier in her and we think beagle and maybe a little greyhound...but she bites like crazy and she is very wild...does anyone know like what we can do to train her...because we bought books but nothing has really helped...

hey um yes everytime it bites spray it with wate from a spray bottle. cait ♥

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ok so i have a myspace and i am 15 but currently it says i am 18 cus you couldnt be 15 and have one when i made mine...but if i change my age to 15 on it will it be set to private?

hey yes if you changed it to 15 it will be set private. cait ♥

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okay. since i cant let my computer have any viruses.

what will happen if i download limewire, download 10 songs or so and then uninstall it. then just install it whenever i need it.

im willing to do anything not to get a virus. because my mom said if i crash my computer one more time then i cant get it fixed anymore..
and walmart.com has nothing to chose from!

thanks..

hey limewire wont crash your computer. but if you get the free verision then you may get alot of popups. cait ♥

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okay, this is really hard to explain. but whenever I log onto MY account on the computer (not my mom's or dad's) the fonts are smaller on many websites. Like, on myspace, the bulletins are font size 1 intead of 2, and yahoo mail has smaller links. My account did the same thing awhile back, only it made fonts bigger.

Fonts are also showing up incorrectly on Microsoft Word.. but not IM.

SO If anyone knows what the issue is here and maybe explain it to me? My computer is virus free. thanks.

...I rate high & leave comments ♥

hey go to properties then appearance. that should work. cait ♥

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I just auditioned for my school talent show and I think I did really bad. I sang (Un Moto di Gioia) because my friends said I should. I have a terrible case of stage fright, and I thought this audition might help me get over it. I mean, some of the girls on the audition panel were laughing (which is very rude, but that's not the point). I am so embarassed, I don't think I'll ever show my face again. I dropped out of the show, of course. I'm questioning my talents as a singer right now. I have been singing for 6 years. I am very trained as a singer, was admitted into an Advanced Choir at an early age, but still...I think people think I'm a bad singer and don't want to tell me. Does anyone know what I mean?

hey there jsut jealous. obiously if you got admiteed to a high choir class your good. dont let the haters bring you down. keep trying. cait ♥

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I want to go tanning but im not sure how to go about it...how many times do you go and things like that??

hey it depends on your skin type and color. the people there should no how long. but id say about 8-10 times till the tan shows. cait ♥

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has anyone seen the movie "just like heaven?" if you have, can you please tell me what it's about and if it's good or not? i wanted to know for a gift for v-day. thanks!

hey its a kinda funny movie about a woman who doesnt really want a relationship but ends up getting one. cait ♥

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How do you get over it besides popping the pills?

hey excerise is always good. also try to get a conseller or something. cait ♥

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Well, my ex boyfriend broke up with me a month ago and we were in love and we still like eachother ALOT but he has another girlfriend and i like this guy (Adam) but i feel like i am cheating on Ryan(my ex) because i like Adam but i still spend alot of time with Ryan and hang out with him and we act like we're going out but he has a girlfriend i like this guy named Adam but i dont know i feel like i am cheating on Ryan what should i do even though we're not going out!! I rate high!

hey well if you dont offical go out with someone your nto cheating on anyone. your a signle person. so dont worry about it. cait ♥

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I am 17 years old and have never had a bf. People in my senior class make fun of me behind my back because of this. I even heard one rumour that I was a lesbian. I'm not a lesbian, I do like guys but I'm really shy and most of the guys in my class are really immature and just want sex, not a meaningful relationship. I've also made the decision not to have sex, or make love until I get married. Some of the girls in my class have slept with over 14 guys, and act like it's no big deal. Sometimes I get so depressed I feel like crying. The fact that tomorrows Valentines day is just going to make me feel worse. Do things ever get any easier for girls like me? Or does it just get worse when I go to college and into the work force? I'm beginning to feel like I'm the only person left with values.

hey well you jsut want the right man. dont rush into any relationship because you feel presured because you never have had a boyfriend. the right boy will come i promise. so just wait it out and you will see. cait ♥

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Hey, i have a lot of red marks and scars from pimples that are gone now..any easy remedies to make them go away quickly?

hey if you get tan that will cover them up. also some foundation or coverup makeup will help. other then that they will have to go away over time. keep usng acne medicine to prevent any more pimples. cait ♥

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does anyone know any good songs for a lyrical dance solo? thanks!

hey umm " because of you " byy kelly clarkson. cait ♥

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okay. i must make a desicion. First I will describe the boys and why i llike them

Boy A: I dated him for a year, we were in love and i know it. He left me and i met boy B but anyway. A is the sweetest and i can tell he cares about me, and he really wants me back but im afraid to get hurt, but its weird that when im with him everything feels perfect. But hes very strict and i dk if he would let me hang out with Boy B anymore, he thinks i might cheat on him, but boy B and I havent kissed since the transition of dec 31-jan 1st.

Boy B: My best friend. I met him and had a like mini relationship with him when A and i broke up. He told me if i go back out with A he will never talk to me again bc he doesnt like the way A treats me(idk whats wrong about it). I really really like B but he doesnt like me more than in a suster brother way(gross, i know). At least i think, i dont know ive been getting mixed signs from him. But if he does like me then i want to go out with him because i need to find somthing new ya know??? And if i go out with B, A would be mad but he would get over it.

So my problem is that i dont know what to do.
do i go out with A, and lose B as a friend.

do i go out with B and have A really mad at me?

pretty much i want B. but he isnt right for me, i know it. he treats girls like crap, and i am always there for him when they break up. BUT I LIKE HIM SO MUCH!!!! He always sticks up for me when A and i fight and hes always here for me. and ugh i just dk what to do.

What do you guys think???

hey pick B. he seems sweet. i didnt like how A was strict and stuff. &hearts cait

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for v-day i got my boyfriend of 7 months a lil teddy bear that his holding another one and they are kissing and you push one of there stomach and it says mwaah kiss me.. he doesnt really like teddy bears but i thought it was cute since we always loving kissing each other. i also got a rose that when you push the botton it plays a cute tune. 1) would it be stupid for me to give a guy a rose? i also got him a lil box of chocoalte. my question is should i also burn him a cd of all his favorite love songs? or is what i got him enough?

hey um you probabaly arleady gave it to him but w/e ill still answer. yes burn a cd. cait ♥

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do you guys think lockin arms with a guy would be considered as cheating on your boyfriend. when the guy you are locking arms with is only a friend?

hey i dont really see a problem with it. but try to alk in his shoes. if your byofriend was locking arms with another girl how owuld you feel? cait ♥

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I have a long-ish labia on one side but nothing on the other side. Is this considered normal or attractive?

hey its normal. cait ♥

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