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okay so my boyfriend..lets call him Bob..thats weird but i dont want 2 use his real name..okay so Bob and me have been going out 4 about 2 months now..Bob's never made a move..neither have i..all my friends *boys and girls* went 2 the movies one night..i sait next 2 bob..he didnt put his arm around me or anything..but hes not shy..i know that..should i make a move or wait till he does? Thanks!!
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well first off, Bob seems old fashioned, and you're incredibly lucky. flirt a litte, let him know its okay and you want him to make a move. It'll make things less awkard and yall wil be more comfortable together. You can make the first move if youd like, guys like that supposedly... good luckk..
Okay so im going out w/ this guy and my dad says i have to break up with him! and i like completley LOVE him and i dont want to...
but i dont want to get in even more trouble with him then i already am...
WHAT SHOULD I DO?
PLEASE help
Confused.
talk to your dad and ask why he wants you to break things off. there is probably some underlieing reason like he is scared to loose you because you are most likely his little girl to him. Dads are hard to deal with when it comes to relationships...they dont like it and they dont like to talk about it...be prepared to tell your father why you love this boy so much.... this whole thing also may give you anew perspective on you and your bf's relationship....hope this helps..
I`m 15/f and im inlove with a 19 year old. It`s not that much of a difference but some people think it is. My parents wont let me see him because of his criminal record / past with drugs. What should I do? How can i find ways to be able to see him?
Ive never felt so special in my life and im so happy when im with him. sometimes when im in the car with my parents I start crying cause they dont understand how much i love him and they dont care.
how can i sneak around and find ways to see him please help me!
sneaking around isnt oyur best option. its stressful and if someting happens, what are you going to say? your parents are here for a reason, to protect you, and they see it as there princess 15 year old baby is involved with a 10 year old dirtbag druggie whos just going to end up hurting you, getting you involved with his criminal record, or drugs. They want you to have a future, and they will not believe your whole love story because they think you are too young and inexperienced to know what love is, and sorry to tell you, but youprobably are. Whatever you decide to do, be carefull, and talk to your parents. Maybe have him over for dinner one night, let them get to kno the kid so they feel more comfortable with you hanging out with him. he is only 19 and right now your parents probably dont believe he has a "PAST" because there is so much future for him...
Well I'm going swimming tomorrow. Today I had my period for the first time and I tried a tampon. It was really hard to get out. I tried pulling it out in different directions and I tried like half a box of tampons and I'm pretty sure it's in correctly. The string almost broke when i tried to pull it out it hurts. My parents wont let me get in the water without a tampon and i cant sneak in without one because they check to make sure im not lying. Oh and ive tried the lowest absorbensy and lubricant stuff still doesnt help. Please help!
like everyone else has said, it has to do with the amount of blood on the tampon. You need to keep it in there a while for it to not hurt when you pull it out. Dont try going into the pool without it in while your on your period, because a pad isn't gonna work, and you obviously need something there to catch the blood. The tampon use gets easier as you go along, but just be sure to take it out after 6 hours.
Ok..soo i like this guy named Joe and he knows some of the guys at my school. Well the guys at my school dont really like me because something happened about a month back and they just think im confusing to deal with. Well..i think the guys have told Joe about me..and have talked bad about me. Im really upset because ive tried to apologize to those guys but they wont accept..they just hate me. How do i get those guys to at least be nice to me or better yet friends. I mean i dont want ppl giving me a bad name.
help please
if joe believes some guys who dont really know you over the real deal, then Joes got issues. Dont let those other guys make you feel self conscience either, just be you around joe and them and if they dont like it, too fucking bad.
My cat has been gaging like he's going to puke but then he dosn't and he does it especialy when you pick him up. Also he's breathing out of his mouth. I know for sure that theres nothing stuck in his throat... and the weirdest part is that my other cat is starting to do it now too. Does anyone know what might be causing it. Im really woried and dont have the money to go to the vet. Please Help.
if its not the tonsilitus issue, maybe its hott on your home....cats breath out of there mouths when there hott, like panting to cool themselves down...good luck with that tho, and i hope you can conjure up some money for the vet...
13/f
well im not allowed to wear thongs and im goin on a trip to france next month. All my mates do. Ive got 3 pairs that my mum dosen't no about.. i realli wna take them! does anyone know where i could put them in my suitcase thing so my mum doesnt see? help x
there small...STUFF EM SOMEWHERE!!
Is there any way to make medium-long hair curly (temporarily) without braiding or using curlers? thanks in advance.
bouncy creme.....or some kind of scrunching gel... not all hair works with this, but if its not pin-striaght to begin with it should work with damp hair...good luck, i have curly hair already so i dont know your dilema persnnally, but if your curls dont last, dont wear it, you just look stupid.
In the movies do you talk fake a yawn and put your hand over the girl's shoulder hold her hand? Kiss her? i dont no what to do or when to do it..
howw cuteee...haha sorry. start out confident..NOT COCKY cause nobody likes cocky...just be sure of yourself....slowly ease closer to her using body language and just act like you're making yourself comfortable...gently hold her hand, you dont have to grasp and control it, just touch it, wrap your fingers around it a little....move in a little..then once you feel the connection, you should kno what todo from there...the kiss comes naturally after that and you dont need any step-by-steps..have fun and dont be nervous........... hope this tell me how it goes!!!!
ok, I've been goin out with this guy for a little over 3 months, he's 16 and he can drive and I'm 15. It's summer so he's always tellin me how he's really buisy, I never see him anymore b/c he says he's always gone... in someways he sounds a little "overly" buisy. He lives like 8 minutes away from me, and he's only come to see me one time ALL summer. When we first started goin out I liked him sooo much that I made the mistake of telling him i would never break up with him... Things aren't working out and I don't feel the same about him, but I don't want to hurt him and I don't know how to break up with him in the right way. I don't want him to think I'm a liar and I regret tellin him that cuz I should have known it wouldn't last forever... What should I do?
this happened to me, just the other way around with the "ill never break up with you" crap. people lie and make "promises" that they cant keep. its just a part of life and eventually you'll come to terms with it. Talk to him and see if he feels the same way, its the most you cna do before actually brekaing it off...that is one thing i regret not doing with my ex, and now we're not even friends anymore. Try and save as much of the firendship that you can because after all you did spend a lot of time together, and better break ups just suck. it messses everything up and leaves you feeling empty inside....good luck and i hope everything works out better for you than it did for me....
how can imake my breasts look bigger with out stuffing.
low cut shirt with a bra cup size one size too small .. but not so small it looks like you have 4 boobs...just enough. it works liek a push up......i foudn that one out by accident and not having enough money to buy a bigger bra.
This one is for the guys...
Do you all find freckles cute?
i'm not a guy but guys have told me that the few freckles i have along m check bones are completely adorable and unique.
im so bored this summer!im nearly 16 but my mom like never drives me anywhere...what can i do??????
try to convicne her that you're getting older, and you want to be able to get out and hang with your friends. Tell her you understand that it takes time out of her day / night to drive you places, but the sooner she drives you to the dmv the sooner you can get your permit/liscence and never haave to ask for a ride again...in the mean time, tellher that when she drops you off places she can meet your friends and she will trust you more to drive with them too. hope thismakes sense...
so last night i got really drunk and cheated on my bf and i cant even remember what the guy looked like (i hope he wasnt ugly lol) but the problem is i dont feel guilty about it at all and i know thats not normal..so does this mean i should mabey reconsider the relationship i have right now with my boyrfriend?
its definatly time to re-evaluate your relationship with your boyfriend. i dont know what else to say besides that, and be prepared for a not-so-happy break up if he finds out you cheated on him...good lcuk
Does AcneFree help clear up blackheads too, or just pimples. Kthanks =]
use proactiv....i use it and it works for everything... depending on your skin, use it either once a day, once evry other day, or twice a day..
I seriously want to lose weight. There's just a couple of problems, though. I only need to lose 10-15 pounds. I am anorexic..sort of. I go two or three days without eating and then I start again. That doesn't work a lot because my parents always force me to eat or I can't go out or something. I really want to lose weight and get on a diet, but with me it's kind of "eat" or "don't eat", not "eat only this". And everyone thinks I'm already skinny, but my thighs and stomach aren't. =/
If I diet, I would like to be on weightwatchers, but I don't know how many points I need to limit myself to in order to lose weight quickly. Also, my parents don't want me dieting.
How many points should I allow myself for weightwatchers? How do I diet without anyone (and I mean anyone) else knowing?
you so have eating problems, but if you eat a healthy diet and just stick with it, you WONT be anerexic anymore, and you will be at a healthy and good-looking weight. personnaly, i eat fruit in the morning, a sandwich or something light with a protien like cheese or meat for lunch, and then a carb/vege/protien combo for dinner. i lost about 3 inches in 2 weeks on that diet....
My Dad has a great job oppurtunity that he just accepted & that means I have to move about 14 hours away. Don't get me wrong, I'm really happy & kind of excited to get a chance to start over but I'm kind of scared. I've never moved before... I just started at a new high school this year as a freshman but I had a lot of people I knew around me. I don't know what to do! I've worn uniforms to school my whole life & next year I'll be at public school...I have no idea how I would dress! Can someone relate or help me out? I'm 15, female, soon to be sophomore. I'm moving to the Princeton, NJ area. Thanks!
i was in the same situation about 7 years ago, moving from a private-uniform based school in upstate ny, to a public school on Long Island. I actually loved the new oppurtunity b/c its not like sopomore year is too deep into high school where you cant make new friends. I made so many new friends and had a blast. Clothes wise, just wear what you like. Who cares if no body else likes it. Clothing is about self expresssion and whatever expersses you is what looks good.
ok so i have a girlfriend and she loves me to death and i love her too but we've been together fer almost a year. Things are starting to wind down and my g/f is noticing that and she's affraid of us breaking up. What if it gets so bad that we never see each other anymore. I will admit that i'm kinda un-falling in love. i'm starting to not love her day by day because i'm noticing all these things that she does because she knows me too well. it gets annoying sometimes tho i liked it better when we were complete strangers ( well not complete strangers). If it gets that we just grow appart how would i break up with her because if i do she'll be crying her eyes out. she does that everytime she thinks we are falling apart. how do i break up with her without all the tears?
HELP ME
sincerely, someone u don't know
crying is going to be in your future no matter what. So i say, get it over with sooner rather than later because then she'll be crying over al the time she wasted with you while you were just dragging it on because you felt bad and did not really love her. Girls cry sometimes, guys just need to get over it and realize its part of what some of us do when we get hurt....
hope this isnt too blunt and i hope this helps ..
What makeup usually covers the red bumps? I know it's acne. But it's just RED, no i don't pick or pop at them. I use moisturizer and wait a few minutes because if i do it 10-15 mins later, my makeup cracks. like my face is dry or i used too much makeup o.o My skin is combination though. I dont know what to do use. I tried using concealer, foundation, powder but the red just shows right through and i look weird with lots of makeup on. I see other girls that cover them up nicely. I don't know how to do it.
i use concealer to cover my blemishes and it usually works. i dont use a lot of moisturizer either cause i have combo skin, so ill use it where my skin is feelin a little dry, and here and there. Use the concealer, let it sit for a few minutes while you do your hair or something, then go back with a little foundation and/or powder. Nobody knows you have acne...just a few random break outs which is compeltely normal
ok, i want to get into really good shape for the upcoming school year because i plan on working out hard over the course of the year. im trying to get my stomach to get really flat and its not working. i do sit ups every single day and i do a total of at least 4500 in a week. i stretch everyday too and i go on walks as often as possible, probably a few times a week. i swim twice or three times a week too but nothing seems to have any affect on my body. any advice? plz help! i rate high for any reasonable answer
are you on a diet? that would help.