Heyy im tara, I'm a pretty cool kid if you get to meet me. I love going to the beach, even though i HARDLEY ever get to go. I was born and raised on Long Island, stuck in a little city and if i dont get out of here soon im gonna explode. I always wanted to move to california so hopefully i'll go to collage there. But for now im here and trying to enjoy it. I love my friends. I'm a really nice girl. I'm starting to become a little classy girl. Me? Classy? Of course. I love getting my nails done. Makes me feel extra girlie. Any music really turns me on. I love it when a guy can sing & play something hot, aww so adorable, don`tcha think?! ;] I have a boyfriend his name is Paul. He's gorgeous. He makes me really happy && he surprises me alot. He makes me feel all like..warm and soft inside.Shut up. Your jealous. I know. Our love is anything but average. We have the weirdest relationship, but I wouldn`t trade it for the world.. So ask me anything you want im here and will take all of your questions seriously! xoxo.
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E-mail: jsfan621@yahoo.com
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Location: New York
Occupation: high school
Age: 16
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so i have this friend....
shes a great person and all but she doesnt take very good care of herself...for example...
*she has body odar but she doesnt seem to know
*she doesnt brush her teeth, only mouth washes..
*she will wear the same pair of pants for 2 weeks in a row (but she has like 10 pairs of pants)
*she weill go and work out than come home and eat ice cream....
how do i tell her that thease arent healthy for her and she should change her routine? (link)
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Have a sleepover one night and say lets go do some make overs, let her do it to you too so she doesnt feel like your trying to be like controlling or anything, and just mention you have this great deodorant she should try, and say why dont u wear your other pants... they look soo cut on you, just what ever you tell her try not to be blunt about it! take it from my experinces, hope i helped xoxo tara
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okay well me and this gurl were best frends for 7 years... we got into a few fights but nothin 2 big. but she started dating this guy who we'll call "D" and me and him became rlly good frends and could talk 2 each other about nething! well 1 nite we were talking and he asked me if she liked ne other boys and i wasnt about 2 lie.. so i said yes and well a week later she broke up with him and then called me saying how she hated me because i told him those things. well now this gurl is ruining everything! shes always saying to the guys i like not to date me because ill just brake their heart. and idk i told her to stay outa my business and we need to go separate ways but i dont think its working. so wat can i tell her to make her stop and leave me alone and move on with her life? i rate high! (link)
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tell her that she is not being very mature about the situation and tell her all you told him was the truth. And dont worry the girl must have some kind of a life and she will eventually stop butting into yours
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My boyfriend & I have been together for 2 months. We're very serious. We laugh, we have a great time, we're passionate & have tons in common. We talk about the future alot-- getting married 10 years from now, etc. I just want to know if that's possible, if relationships can last that long & what are some ways to build it so it does? (link)
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aww! Relationships last that long easyly!! So many people marry their High schhol sweet hearts! i think it is the cutest thing in the world! You seem to be doing everything right just remember always be honest! good luck! xoxo Tara
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Ok i've got 4 questions. If you answer all of them i'll rate you a five, unless you give me some dumbass kind of answer ;).
1.-how do you get a guy to like you
2.-how do you get a guy to notice you
3.-how can i flirt?
4.-how do i know if he's flirting back at me?
btw, i'm 15/f, skinny, natural red hair, blue eyes, (i think that i'm ok looking), i play sports, and i'm nice to everyone.
please help me!
*~*thanks*~* (link)
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1. Just be your self and dont't be shy! **smile**
2. Flirt
3. This always works for me: when your with your friends acted all really in to the conversation then just flip your hair and glance at him and givev him a smile tehn go back to the conversation like it is the best talk you have ever had..it works all the time 4 me
4. You'll no it could even be just a smile but hopefully you feel a conncetion!
I hope i helped!! xoxo tara (any more questions u can im me at sunshineqt62) Good luck, once you get the feel 4 flirting, it becomes very very fun!!:)
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OK so I have a group of friends..they're just school friends..it's been like this for 5 years now! I hate it..I want to go to the mall or hang out with them outside of school..but how? I can't just self invite myself..I can't invite them over to my house because of family reasons..but I want to get closer to them and be BEST friends with them..not school friends..what do i do? (link)
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I had this problem once, just be like he guys I need some new shirts, does anyone want to come to the mall with me on saterday? that way you don't sound desprate to hang out and your not forcing anyone to come with you. Hope i helped (if you have a chance can you leave me some feedback i am kinda new to this) good luck xoxo tara
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I am currently in my first "serious" relationship with this guy. My previous ones were just what I call meaningless flings where there was only a physical attraction. This guy is different though. I really love him, which I never though I'd say about anyone. We talked for a while before we started dating, and realized that we had a lot in common. When we talk to each other, I am beginning to notice possibly bipolar tendencies. He can be very depressed and suicidal at times. I've dealt with depression and suicidal thoughts for a long time, so I do not want to leave him at this time, yet it makes me feel shittier than usual.... Know that some aspects of this situation have been deleted due to the context rules of Advicenators.
Any advice? (link)
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aww! diffantly stay with him. Next time he's upset or anything ask. He needs someone to help him through this time stay by him and always make sure that he knows that you will alwyas listen to his problems hope i helped...xoxo tara
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hi everybody, this is a long one but i really need your help. ok so theres this guy that i know and he is like 19 or 20ish and im 16. and ever since i first saw him i thought he was like super hot! and so one day a couple of my friends told him that i thought he was really hot. and then they asked if he thought that i was cute and he said " ya shes definatly hott" and i was right there so i heard him say it and everything. and ever since then he would like sort of half way flirt with me and say like your really cute and stuff. but he hasnt asked me out or asked for my number or anything. so i was thinking maybe hes just, you know playing with me. but then i was talking to some of his friends and they were telling me he was talking about me and i asked what he said but all his friends would tell me is it was nothing bad. and sometimes when im around him i would sneek looks at him but i would already see him looking at me first (does that make sense?) so i dont know what to do because i reallllly just cant stop thinking about him but its been like a month and nothing has happened. i dont really see him that much though, i use to see him like maybe 2 to 3 times a week during the summer since July-ish but now i mayyybe see him once a week. but no other guy i talk to compares to him. so does he like me or do yall think hes just playing me and what should i do about this? if you answer seriously i'll rate high!! thanks yall!
o ya and hes not like some stuck up college guy, hes kinda...geekish which isnt normal for me to like but people told me i was like the hottest and nicest girl to ever like him. (link)
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aww! From what you say it seems that he really likes you and you really like him. This is a normal stage for people to go though, its just the question of who is going to make the first move. I think that next time you see him ask if he'd like to go to dinner with you some night! (PS if you have teh time could you give me some feedback i am new at this...thanx...good luck!!) xoxo tara (Oh and dont listen to them... he's not to old for you...look at jessica simpson and nick lachey she is 25 and he is 31 its totally normal!)
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I'm a freshman and i'm going to homecoming for my school and i'm soooo excited. My friends and i were gonna go dress shoppin n everything together. but like my mom wants me to get a dress at Good will! some girl was makin fun of her friend for gettin a dress at good will! n i wanna go shoppin with them and get a nice dress. but my family is kinda poor. what do i do?
i rate 5's (link)
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don't worry many people have these moments. Ask you mom if you can go and ask her if she wants to make a price range so when you go you dont even have to bother with the dresses that are too expensive. and you can always go with your firends and have fun trying things on and not buy anything, me and my friends do that all the time when we are broke! lots of luck! xoxo tara (P.S. i am kinda new at this so can you give me feedback- thanxs!)
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okay why is it that ,y parents always take my yuonger sister's side? and she lies a ton! but they believe her if she says that me and my brother did, when we never actually did it..so im just wondering why do they always believe her?
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I have the same problem...it is a very good question, but i think the answer is that they think she is their only baby left, and they want to hold on to her as long as possible, just try to let it roll off ur back. But to help your parents relize that u r still their baby is to give them hugs and say i love you for no reason and always remind them that you'll always be their baby
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well my BF broke up with me 2 weeks ago, i am upset that he did that and i miss him a lot but i'm still going out and gettin on with things.
my question is, is it right for me to look for a new BF now, when i'm still thinking about my ex? or should i wait? (link)
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I no we all hate brake-ups...but you have the right idea, it is not to early at all, you should look 4 guys as soon as you are ready too, but dont be sad about the past and move on, before you no it you will have a man that sweeps you off your feet! xoxo- Tara (feel free to im me at sunshineQT62!)
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