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Hey Y'all! I'm Jessica. I'm 16 and a Junior in high school. I found this site and thought that since I usually give pretty good advice, I figured I'd try to help other people. I hope I can help y'all.


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I'm going to be a junior in high school and I have no idea what I want to major in, where I want to go, or even what I really want in a college. How can I start narrowing down the search and decide where I want to apply??

Think about what kind of things you enjoy doing. Write down a list of jobs you think you would enjoy doing. Research these jobs and then hopefully narrow down your choices. Then, it should be easier to decide on the type of college you would like. There are also many sites on the internet to help, like collegeboard.com.

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What age do you consider to be old enough to have a baby. Not like.. "when you feel you are ready" or anything like that.. i mean like.. 16.. 20..

how old do you think someone should be before they have a baby?

There is no specific age that tells you that you are ready for a baby. You have to be emotionally, physically and have a stable life. Ideally, you should have a stable well-paying job and have a husband//boyfriend that is also ready for this huge step in life.

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what are sex bracelets

Sex bracelets are those little jelly bracelets of every color. Some kids think that they are *sex bracelets*. Personally, I think that they are just bracelets. But, these sex bracelets are said to mean something...like if you break one you have to do a certain act to someone.

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hey. how long does the pleasure last when ur having sex? i hope it lasts longer then masterbating cuz the pleasure only lasts lyk 15 seconds when i masturbate. i rate high!

The length of your orgasm depends completely upon you and the guy/girl you are with. But, sex itself should be pleasurable. You should enjoy the entire thing, not just the orgasm.

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when is the best time to get your puppy nuetered? I have a puppy and he is like starting to hump his stuffed animal dogs..lol

You have to wait until they are three or four months old. After that, whenever you want.

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Everytime i leave my 1 year old puppy alone, like when i take my brother to work in the mornings, and there is nobody up to watch him, he always gets into things. Like this morning, he chewed my clock, and my medicine *was way out of reach* was in the floor chewed on. Thankfully he didnt get any of it though. My question is, 1. how can i stop him from chewing on things that he is not suppost to, and 2. is there other way other than locking him up in his carrier?

Dogs, especially puppies, don't like to be alone. If they usually are with people most of the day, when you do leave them alone, they suffer from anxiety. They think you've left them and that you'll never come back. Slowly wean him...leave for a few minutes, then come back to show that you'll never leave him forever.

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I'm sorry this might sound strange but my friend is very nervous about her first time.
Any guys and girls that could reply to this would be awesome!
Do girls have to shave before they do it the first time? And if they do...how so?

You don't HAVE to do anything. Some guys like girls to shave, but if the guy really cares about the girl, he won't mind if she's shaved or not. Now, if you((or your friend)) want to shave, you need to be very careful. Any kind of nick or cut hurts *really* bad down there. Shave with the growth of hair and use cream or something.

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I've been with this guy for 3 years and were really close and I am ready to have sex. So is he. My parents know what we are planning on doing and they don't really care. We are going to use a condom and everything, I just wanted to know if it hurts or what it feels like. Also do u think I'm too young? 13/f.

Hold up...your parents know that you and your guy are planning to have sex, and they're OKAY with it? That in itself is crazy. But, my opinion, you are way too young. You will regret it later on.

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Sorry... this is a sex question and there are somewhat graphic content. Not really bad but if you're young, you might not want to read this. Please only OLDER columnists answer this. I don't want advice from an inexperienced 13-14 year old. Someone who knows what I'm going through would help. And so... here's my question....



Hey, I'm 14/f and my boyfriend is 16. Yesterday I was at his house and we were doing sexual things and then I told him to go get a condom. (he uses them normally for self pleasure so it doesn't get anywhere...) So he went upstairs and got it but when he came back down I was crying. I don't know why I was crying. I really feel like I'm ready to have sex with him. We've been together for 2 years and we love eachother very much. It's weird though, I know that I'm physically and emotionally ready to do it it's just that, whenever we are about to, I get scared. Is this normal? Can anyone help me out?

PS- I'm a virgin and so is my boyfriend and we both want to lose our virginity to eachother.

I'm sixteen and my guy's almost nineteen. We were both virgins until about five or six months ago. We realized that we really love each other and want to spend forever together. I didn't get emotional the first time, but I have after that. I don't know why, but I think that I was just overcome with emotion. You are a girl, after all, and all girls are known to be emotional at times. Don't freak out, it's normal.

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I'm not sure but how can you tell the difference of love and like.Because i like or love this one boy but i dunno if i love him and most my friends tells me i do even one of my teachers! so my question is how do you know when u love someone and how do you know if they love you back?thanks in advance for even concidering to read this.

If you're not sure...you're not in love. That old saying about how "you just know" is very true. And, if you have to ask us how to tell, then, you aren't in love. Let your heart tell you. It doesn't lie.

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This may be kinda long, but I need to ask someone. I just started taking birth control pills 3 weeks ago. I think I may be pregnant but, I havent missed my next scheduled period. Since I just started taking the pill, that messes up my cycle for this month. I have other signs of possibly being pregnant. Being on my pills the nurse told me I should be getting my period around the 13th of this month. My boyfriend and I are very sexually active..in fact every night. I know we shouldnt do it, but it is unprotected each time. Is there a way that I could find out now if I could be pregnant..like take a pregnancy test tomorrow and find out? Im really nervous and want to know if I am now. I need to know what to do soon. Thanks.

In order to be accurate, you have to wait at least 19 to 21 days to use an at-home pregnancy test. I'm not going to preach to you about not using a condom...I've done the same thing myself and I know that stuff does happen. But, you do have to wait and ideally it should be AFTER your missed period. Try to wait it out to get accurate results.

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can a 18 year old get in trouble for dating a 13 year old?

Besides being totally immoral, it's against the law. It's called statutory rape. The 18 year old is considered an adult, while the 13 year old is still a child. Even if you both are willing to be together, the law considers the 13 year old too young to make responsible decisions. If this is a personal question that is happening to you, think about this: Why is a 18 year old considering going out with a 13 year old? Why can't this person be with someone closer to his/her age?

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This weekend I went a party at a friends. Me and this guy hooked up. I don't really like him in the way that he likes me. No since we kissed and stuff he thinks I do like him - in the way he likes me. What should I do? I don't want to hurt his feelings, but I have to tell him I don't like him. What should I say? Thanks a bunch for the help.

You have to be honest. Even if you don't see it this way, you did lead him on. Just be honest and tell him to his face that you don't like him that way. Don't get anyone else to do it and don't be rude. Just be honest.

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