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♥ I had this column awhile ago, but I recently stopped using it.. I like deleted everything. But I decided to start giving advice again! I'm Becky, 16 years old, leave a question in my inbox, I elaborate more on those questions!

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i wear my hair the same way everyday - down and straightened. it's getting boring & i'd like to wear my hair differently. i like it scrunched but i'm always too tired in the morning to scrunch it. is there anyway i can shower at night and scrunch it before i go to bed without it getting frizzy and all messed up? thanks a bunch!

Ahhh!! I scrunch my hair each night! So I know what I'm talking about when I say. Take a shower using your normal shampoo and conditioner. Once you get out, apply Frizz-Ease hair serum original formula...it's by John Frieda and costs about five to ten dollars but it's worth it. Scrunch it in a lot or a little depending on your hairtype. You can go to bed anytime, and where you wake up it will be even curlier than it was the night before, it stays in all day, and there is absolutly no frizz or messiness.

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I want to dye my hair blonde. Right now, I'm a brunette, and I am SOO scared that I won't like it!!
I was wondering --> If I dye it blonde, and I don't like it, can I just ask the hair dressers to dye it back, or would I have to pay more?

It depends on your hairdresser. If you get it done and then leave, and then after you've left you decide you don't like it, they you'll probably have to pay more to get it dyed again...You should try getting wash-out of that same blonde color that you want, to see what it looks like. If you truley like that color, then you should get it done so you don't have to get it dyed back.

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How do you know if a guy likes you? How can you tell if he's flirting? If you like him and you think he likes you, should you ask him out or wait for him to make a move? And how do you ask someone out without sounding stupid?

You can't tell exactly if a guy likes you. He might just be a big flirt and flirt with you. Or there might be a guy that barely talks to you but likes you...it all depends on the guy. Every guy flirts differently, some with girls they think are cute, ones they are friendly, or any in general. It he's flirting it doesn't nessecarily means he likes you. If you like him and you think he likes you you should wait until you know for sure if he likes you to ask him. But I would personally wait for him to make a movie. To ask someone out without sounding stupid, ask them to go somewhere like the movies...you definately will not sound stupid. Good luck. =]

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Alrite, Well i have recently been talking to this guy in another state. (for about like 2 months now). so about a month ago he told me that he like realli had feelings for me and asked me to be his girlfriend and i agreed. well, i realli love him alot and it sounds like realli dumb but we have already talked about like,getting married and shit..well it sounds like a cute little fairy tale rite? WRONG! ok i was just talking to him like 10 min ago on MSN and i was like, "do your parents know about me" and hes like, "yea and they fully support me. do your parents know?" and im like, "not yet" and hes like, "well u know your going to have to tell them"

so my question is how do i tell my dad (i dont have a mom) that i fell in love with a guy i met on an on-line chat room? Oh Yea, Did I Mention I Am Only 14. So Yea, Im 14 in Love With a 16 year old i met online in a chat room that lives in another state.....how do i tell my dad?

Much Love,
Danigrl1621

I don't believe in online relationships at all. !!! You cannot be in love with someone that you have talked to for two months online...you cannot be sure who he is. He could be a 40-year-old man. But anyways, do you think you dad will approve of this? If you don't think he would, it's not the right thing to do. As for your question...tell your dad that you have a boyfriend, but don't tell him about the internet part yet. And then when he asks you questions about him you can tell him. Hopefully he approves, for your sake, but I definately don't. Just saying. Good luck.

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what is the song Milkshake by Kelis actually about???

www.songmeanings.net

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I wouldn't say I'm geeky with glasses but I'm wondering if maybe the guy I like might be embaressed of me wearing them since he knows I like them but everyone says I look good with them. What do you think?

It depends on what type of glasses and how the glasses look on you. Some glasses make a girl look a lot prettier and some make her look worse. But if everyone says you look good in them then the guy would probably thing the same. Another option is getting contacts but they're really irritating lol.

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I'm only a freshmen in high school, but i'm already trying to make plans about college. What are some good liberal arts colleges that are open to all religions, ways of life.. etc. I'm a vegetarian, and i don't really have a specific religion due to loss of faith.. so what would some good colleges that would accept that be? I also want a good college to support the arts. thanks!

Rhode Island School of Design (RISD) is an arts school. And UCLA in California is open to all kinds of heritages religions etc. etc. Look those two up.

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okay how often do u have periods a day? like 2 three?

It's different for everyone. For some it may be a simple even flow, for some random bursts. I've never actually counted, so I'm not sure. You should try counting yourself. Just change your tampon or pad 5 times a day or less or more depending on your flow. The number of blood discharges don't have an affect.

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My friend has this guy at school that she likes, and he is always turning around in math asking her questions. But when they have math homework he always gets them right. She wants to know, is he flirting with her???

Lol. The mean girl affect! That's what my friends and I call it at least. You can never know for sure if he is. I wouldn't call it flirting, just an excuse to talk to her. It may just be a coincidence, like maybe his parents or siblings help him out at home, or maybe he's just bored in that class so decides to ask the closest person to him. And even if he is flirting, it doesn't nessecarily mean he likes her. Maybe he thinks she's cute.

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ok wen you first get your period can the blood be brown? and can you still get discharge while ur on your period?

When you first get your period the blood can be anywhere from brown to red but it's usually brown. And for me it's always been that color. And yes you can still get discharge while having your period. There's nothing abnormal abbout it!

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hey im 12 and ive fingured myself and stuck the showerhead up my pussy already is that bad?

No that's not bad. It's normal.

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wats a blow job?

You're obviously not mature enough for the answer if you don't know what it is. Whatever. A blowjob is slang for oral sex performed on a man. Oral sex is when people use their mouths to stimulate another person's genitals.

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Well theses this girl that i meant at the being of the school year and her name os Halie and i really like her but she has this boyfriend that keeps making her mad but she says with him cause she likes him so much and as long as she is happy im happy...but really the only for me to be really happy is to be going out with her!! Any advice!!

Make sure she notices how happy you are for her when she's happy, she'll think that's really sweet. Start talking to her, because you won't have any chance with a girl that you never talk to. But you can't really break them up but it seems like they won't be lasting for much longer. So you just have to be patient.

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there's a song called boom boom.
[not the one by venga boys]
i know it's by cam, featuring someone else.
anyone know the other person's name?!

This might help you...

only search advicenators.com


I searched it and didn't really find anything that matched your critereas but you know what you're talking about so you should try.

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i saw this thing online where you upload your photo and it iwll tell you what celebrities you look like

1. do you know if it's safe
2. is it a type of scam

1. Putting your pictures on the internet anytime is never 100% safe. It's not as un-safe as putting your address or phone number, but once something is on the internet who knows who will be able to see it.
2. It's probably not a scam unless it's asking for your money or your credit card number etc.

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I'm trying to upload a picture onto my page and it keeps saying that it's over 15 something. and I noticed that pretty much everyone has a pic. not an icon like I do. so what I wanted to know was if they're a feature on advicenators that I don't have that allows you to have better things (like getting a picture) or if they're something I can do to resize my picture. I know that when you edit a picture it makes it larger. or atleast on my computer. thanks in advanced !
: ] -H0LDM3CL0S3

Make a PhotoBucket account on www.photobucket.com. Then upload the picture that you want to use as your profile pic onto there the same way you would on advicenators. It will give you a link to the picture, and copy or cut that link. Paste that link under URL of a picture of you:. It will always work no matter the size of the image.

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Ok so me and my boyfriend had sex about 2 days after my period ended. And now today..a week later my boobs are tender and my stomach hurts.. what going on??

You could get pregnant even if it's two days after your period. These signs could be coincidental, but if you want to know for sure if you're pregnant or not the only way is to get a pregnancy test. Try being more careful next time.

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im not going to be too graphic or harsh, because i dont want this to be too inapropriate for the site. this is a serious question, and im not trying to be wise or anything. when you give someone head, do you have to stick his whole penis in your mouth?

No you don't. And that's not really that graphic, you could look how to give a blowjob online though.

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Has anyone ever had a Pita Bread Sandwich? Or alteast knows what goes in it? If you know, it'd be a whole lot of help. thanks.

You can really put anything you want in a pita bread. I put something different in and different combinations everytime.

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for christmas i want to get a black northface fleece..do you know where you can find them the cheapest?

-thanks

They're the same price whereever you look...I get mine online I LOVE NORTH FACE FLEECES. I have 4. Well anyways search North Face Fleece on Google...and then click on the first site. Go to women's then fleece and they rance from 99$ +. That's the lowest they'll sell them for.

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