im brooke .. im an all around nice girl and love to give advice so dont feel like you cant ask me for advice cause if i wasnt willing to give it i wouldnt have this in the first place lol
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Age: 14
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Member Since: January 23, 2005
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I have always liked guys. my 1st crush was even in grd 1 for a guy! but recently i have made out girls..either exparementing, or i really really wanted to...i like a guy right now, and ive never had a crush on a girl...but as i said i really wanted 2 makeout with her. Am i sorta Bi?
it'd take lot off my mind, thanks! (link)
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well ur not really bi .. because alota girls make out with girls and it doesnt mean anything.. unless you really want to do it and have feelings for the girl .. but other wise you dont really have to worry about being bi cuz it is normal for girls to do it .
hope i helped tell me how it goes..
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i met this kid though my friend friday night we hung out i thought he was really hot and all that good stuff saturday night me and my friend got invited to this party she bet me 5 bucks that i would hook up with him. i did. we kissed a few times at the party he told me wow i wasnt expecting this to happen and then asked if i had a boyfriend i said no do you have a girlfriend he said technically yes but no i never see her because im not aloud to. later that night we went to his house and we all stayed the night there we kissed some more i really like this kid but he has a girlfriend what should i do? (link)
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well if you really like him talk to him be like .. whats the point of having a girlfriend you can never see i mean wouldn't you rather see a girl your aloud to date and tell him that you like him cuz he obviously likes you ! hope i helped hun
tell me how it goes
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i asked a girl out and she said yes ok im 13 she 13 and i want to take her some where but i dont know how to go any where because her parents dont know and i dont want to go with one of her friend unless i have to.i have a older brother and sister that can drive so how do i go some where with her??? (link)
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well .. just ask her when you two are together if she wants to go to the movies or hang out at the mall because girls dont care where you go they just care that their there with you .. .
hope i helped tell me how it goes =)
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there is this guy in my neighborhood who i met at a dance and we hung out several times, once in the hood over the holidays and at a few more dances. he's adorable, and i think i really like him. he might have a girlfriend though...id like some insights on what should happen here- should i try to befriend him? i'd really like to. what can i do to hang out with him or get him to notice me without seeming like a stalker or obsessed? btw, we go to different schools...both are single-sex schools...help?
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just tell him you two should hang out n ask him if he has a girlfriend and just get him to like you
hope i helped
tell me how it goes
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I been dating this guy for 2 months and it was going really good untill I found this letter that he wrote my best friend ( that he like befor) he wrote that he really like her and everthing.When I saw that I was going to die.I need help!!!!!! I'm tried of getting hurt. WHAT DO I DO!!!!!!!! (link)
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talk to him about it tell him if he likes her soo much why is he goin out with her or just tell him ur tired of getting hurt and your not in the mood to get hurt again ! n talk to your bestfriend about it n if she knows about that then she aint a real friend for not telling you ( i hope i dont sound meann lol i dont mean to sound mean) .. hope i helped .. tell me how it goes hunn ..
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I'm supposed to go to the movies with a guy I've liked for awhile now, tomarrow. We've hung out before and stuff and we've make out and some other things and he told me he really liked me. So, on my birthday he asked me if I wanted to go to the movies with some of our friends and of corse I said yes.I went and it turned out he never went so my birthday kind of sucked. Then he asked me again another day if I wanted to go to the movies and I said yeah. Ended up that he never even called me about it.Oh,and he never appologized either time. Do ya'll think I should trust him to come tomarrow, or do you think I should just invite somebody else? (link)
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call him n remind him about it go to the movies in the same car so you know he is gunna be there
hope i helped
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Boys like the fact of girls being virgins right? (link)
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yes because then they know that their virgins and they think they are the ones they will have sex with and they know that they'll be the first ones to have you lose your virginity too lol sorry if its confusing you
hope i helped in some way
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Well I got jelous of my boyfriend getting these girls numbers and he said it was stupid and that hes never got jelous and its a sign of low self esteem. So we got into a fight I was like so what if I was jelous its not like you would matter or care if I was. He thought i said he did'nt matter. I have tried telling him that I meant it for something else but he won't bother he's like its over its nothing. What do I do? I still really wanna be with him. (link)
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just tell him .. that your his girlfriend n if he goes and gets these girls numbers ur gunna be jealous i mean if my boyfriend did that when i was there actually even if i wasnt i would be mad jealous n tell him yeah dont tell me about you getitng their numbers or i just would tell him i was getting jealous soo just tell him it is a natural thing and tell him what you meant to say be like i never meant to make you feel like you didnt matter i was trying to say you didnt care n it didnt matter..
hope i helped hun..
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ill be flriting well start laughting then like the laugh will be over and theyll be and akward slince i always say this is akward i need somthing else to say
lost n life
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be like cricket ..lol it will bring the laughing back or just be like .. hey look it quiet or shit i ruined it lol
hope i helped
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I'm 13 years old, and I'm bleeding "down there". i'm afraid, and I live with foster parents I dont really know yet. What do I do?!! I don't know whats going on!
signed,
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U probably got ur period. soo just tell your foster parents and get it checked
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hey i have a problem well not really i wanna know how should i tell my ex b/f that i still love him lol i know this sounds crazy but its true!!! if anyone can help me thanx p.s i rate good!!!!! (link)
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you should just hang out with him one day you and him alone ..and just tell him that you still love him well dont make it sound like your obsessed but just tell him you love him still hun .. n maybe after you two hang out he'll notice he still loves you too .
hope i helped , tell me how it goes hun! =)
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(15/f) My friend totally didn't invite me to his 16th birthday party. It's actually a couple of us that weren't invited, we're all on his tennis team and we've known him since 7th grade when I showed him around the school, on his first day. We hung out a lot freshman year, not As much this year but still. I saw him everyday. nI actually went through a stage of liking the kid, and he liked me for awhile to. Basically, we've *my friends and I that weren't invited* laughed about it but it still hurts! How can we 'jokingly' approach him about it? (link)
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Just go up to him and tell him soo .. about that party you didnt invite us too lol ... it usually/always works
hope i helped ..
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Alright, well I'm a 14/f and I'm not ugly( not in a conceited way at all, please) but I'm not the 'hottest girl at school'. I'm friends with many, but I just can't get a boyfriend. I have been asked out about 3 times, but turned them down because I knew I didn't like them. But now, as a nineth grader, I'm craving for a boyfriend, not so much for 'action' but I just want to be in love, one of those' aww how cute' sort of things? And I guess you can say I've fallen for this one guy, but I can feel he only considers me as one of his friends, I mean I think he's great, funny, cute, nice, smart..and all that -jazz-. But one of my biggest I guess you can say fears, is if he I ask him out and he says no. I don't want to go straight out and ask him out, I think it'll be better if he does. But me and him have only met this year, and I'm pretty clueless now, I just really want a boyfriend, and don't know whether to ask him, we don't know each other as well as he knows other girls. And, agh. Please help if you understand. I rate, I guess. (link)
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well .. i think you should just ask him who he likes or something or have one of your guy friends talk to him for you because you never know if he is making the effort to be friends with you maybe he'll be making the effort to be more than friends with you .. tell me how it goes.
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ok well i have this friend whos been going out with this kid for almost 4 months and like every single dayyyyy there togeather and it pisses me off because i always get left out... and like yeahhh they DONT stop like making out and kissing and flirting and like her getting fingered and her like giving him a hand job like 10 feet away from me in her room ... FUCKING GROSS GETT A ROOMMMMMMM!! lol well yeah how can i confront her about thisss..?? (link)
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Tell her that you dont like how them two are being like all over each other when you're in the room .. and that you dont want to be in the room or around when their doing "sexual" things lol .. and tell them that you have to slow down a little.
hope i helped tell me how it goess! =)
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2 and a half weeks ago, my boyfriend broke up with me. I'm finding it really hard to get over him and today I found out that he has a new girlfriend. She's a girl who went to his primary school and he hasn't seen her for over two years. He says he likes her and all but I don't know if he's telling the truth or not. I spoke to her on MSN (I've never met her) and she seems nice, she said that if it was really bothering me then she would break up with my ex. I told her not to ruin things with him just because of me but I can't help feeling jealous. I love my ex and if his new girlfriend makes him happy then I hope they're happy together but it's still tearing me up inside. How do I deal with this? (link)
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just find someone new n someone who is better and makes him look like an ostrich haha ..hope i helped
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Me & my friends played a prank on this girl in my school that was picking on me, and she turned us in. Yesterday, I wasn't in school and the guidance conselor called all my friends down to the office, turns out EVERYONE was sayen I did it, even my best friends. I did do most of it, but not all of it. & I admitted to it. Are they real friends? (link)
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not really if they blame you for something they did too then their not real friend a real friend is one who will stick there beside you and not go and ditch you
tell me how it goes ..
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Ok one of my best friends is cool in all but shes kinda of a really big flirt..and i mean i dont think she means to do it but she flirts with like every guy..and i mean she flirted with this one guy that i liked and she knew i liked him n then he stoped liking me and started to like her..it got me really upset and im over it now but now i think its happening again with a differnt guy ...shes supposively talked to him about me and he said that he liked me and that he wanted to ask me out.. but the last couple of days i have seen her go and flirt with him and she will come into our class and talk to him as if she liked him..and im like wtf i dont know what to do! PLEASE HELP ME! (link)
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talk to her n then ask her if he likes you then why is he flirting with you and not asking you out. because she doesnt really seem like a real friend if she goes and flirts with the guy you like
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whenever i blow dry my hair.. it usually turns out poofy and not that straight. any one know how to blowdry ur hair straight or unpoofy? thanks! (link)
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yea...you have to straightien it!
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okay well i have this one friend who can b really rude to me. LIke i would say hey and she would roll her eyes! If even go 2 stand by one of my friends she will be like " Why did u leave me? R u mad at me?" And she is really over reacting lots of times. Why is she always growling up in my face? Should i even try bein her friend? Please help! (link)
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well i think u should be friends with her but tell her if your gunna be giving me dirty looks and the complaining when i go see someone else besides you i mean if she is gunna be some big bitch then why should you bother dealing with her ?
hope i helped
tell me how it goes..
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i am in the 7th grade, female, and 13. my guy friend has been my friend since last year and we call eachother sis and bro. i think i might like him though, but he has a girlfriend. i help him out with like allll his problems and he helps me with mine. but this i cant ask him. online when we say bye we always say somthing like luv ya lots or lylab or lylas. and we definitely kid about Romantic things and i just dont know...
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well i think you should tell him that you like him cuz maybe he secretly likes you too .. and just hides it from you .. and just tell him that nothing will change between you two just so it wont feel all ackward lol
hope i helped tell me how it goes
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