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Hey whats up? My name is Kelsey n I love helping people out so I decided to make one of these. Feel free to ask me ANYTHING, dont be scared..I'll try my best to answer. I've been through a lot so I have a lot of advice on things. xOx



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Two Questions: How can you tell if a guy likes you??

#2- Okay I like this boi Richard. He my friends talk to him alot and they say he says he likes me, but he's shy and he won't tell me, so and I am one of those pplz who are need to be reassured all the time. So it's like my friends are constantly asking him and I know that can push him away. But today my friend Taja asked him if he liked me (and I didn't tell her to) and he said no. And then she was like "Right.....look me in the face and say that" and he couldn't look at her and he didn't say anything....cause he was lying she said. So then I saw him after school today and he had the biggest smile on his face and he was waving at meeh. And also the same morning, he was watching everything I did when I wasn't looking....so how I can tell if he likes me.... (link)
I think he definitly likes you. All those things are clues that he likes you. If I were you I'd start talking to him more n get to kno him better. Who knos, maybe you two could end up together :) Goodluck hun. xOx


Okay, here's the thing. I have a friend who used to really really like this guy. She was like obsessed! :o It annoyed me sometimes...well, onto the point. I like him now, and my friend likes somebody else. It's been quite a while since she liked him. Well, now I like him. But I'm afraid my friend might still like him, plus I'm not sure he likes me back, even though I think so. Please answer, and please be realistic. Don't be all like "Forget your friend, ask him out!!11"

Thanks in advance...
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Maybe you should try talking to your friend about it. Ask her if she still likes him or has any feelings for him. If not, then go for him. If she does then you have to talk to her about it, n let her know how you feel. Sorry I couldnt really help. Goodluck hun. xOx


i need good way to study because the way i study doesnt work and i cant afforid to lose a another test this semster.PLEASE HELP ME!!!!! (link)
I make flashcards to help me study..it usually works for me pretty good. It works better then just reading tha information. Goodluck hun. xOx


i rly wanna get on birth control..because of my period..its irregular and BC is supposed to make it go back on track right???
and do you gain weight or lose it when you 1st start it??
how much does it costs and whats a good web site to get information about it???
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You can look for information at http://www.plannedparenthood.org/bc/
Goodluck hun :) xOx


Help, Sorry it's a bit long.
We're doing an anonymous survey in health class, and it's to be done and brought into class by friday. I'm not asking your opinions on anything, I'm just confused on a question it asks me to answer.
It asks me If I'm a virgin. Well I don't want the teacher to know it's me, so I don't want to ask the teacher this, and none of my other classmates really knew what to put. If you've had oral sex, would you be considered a virgin. I've heard yes because your hymen still hasn't broken, but I still don't know. So if you've had oral sex, are you still a virgin. I'm just going with whatever most of you guys answer, unless anybody has a good opinon on it. (link)
Yes you are still a virgin even if youve had oral sex. xOx


15.f.california

ok see i want to move away from cali and to florida cuz my life here sucks, my mom doesnt care about me and she hurts me physicaly and emotionaly and i have been doing stuff i probly shouldnt have and if i go to florida to live with my aunt i feel this would be better and i would feel like comming sucide every minute or so. but i my mom says she would be happy to get rid of me but she thinks i am doing it cuz i want to get over a hard break up and she has this knew name for me which is coward and like i feel there is nothing for me here but my dog who i love so0o much. my dog has like been the only thing that has loved me ever since i got him. he is quite cute and small but he is the only reasion why i havent commited sucide or have gone to florida uhhh any ideas or advise anyone might want to share i am open to everything

thanks a bunch Lisa (link)
I'm sorry that you have to deal with all that stuff, you shouldnt have to. You should definitly move to florida n live with your aunt if your mom treats you like that. Whatever you do, do not commit suicide (I've had those thoughts too). You need to do whats right, whether your mom likes it or not. Ask your aunt if you can bring your dog with you. If you ever need to talk just leave something in my inbox k. Sorry I couldnt help but goodluck hun :) xOx


Hi,
I've liked this guy((steven)) for around a month now...and my fried Kaitltyn likes him too. Last sunday there was a school dance..i told steven to ask her to dance n he did...but he dont like kaitlyn...he even said that to her face..kaitlyn noes i like him n she was doing everything she could 4 him to dance with me but he said that he didnt wunna look like a pimp..n being a complete jerk...Should i still like him? or should i just give up (link)
Dont give up, thats not a good thing to do. Continue to like him, n talk to him n stuff. Goodluck hun. xOx


hey, well i went out with this one guy for like 9 1/2 months we did fucking everything together! we spent every day together and its not been a month sense we broke up and i want him bak, but the thing is that i have a new boyfriend...hes a sweetheart and everything, but hes a junior when im only a freshman...my new boy is great but i want my old one bak...i juss want things bak to teh way that they used to b, bc now i dont think i can ever b happy again!!! i miss him so much i still love him and i want him bak to bad...but the thing is idk if he wants me bak...i feel really bad about this whole situation...please help me!!!

P.S.- dont tell me to move on!!! i would if i could trust me, but he is all that my heart wants!!! HELP!!!! (link)
I kno what kinda position youre in. Try talking to your ex boyfriend, see if he feels tha same way, because if he doesnt n you push your current boyfriend away thats gonna suck, cuz you wont have either. You dont wanna hurt your boyfriend, but im sure if you talk to him about it he'll understand that you just wanna be with your ex, cuz thats tha only way youll be happy. He should understand. If he really cares about you then he'll try to help you. You shouldnt be in a relationship with someone if youre not happy with them n you love/miss someone else, n you feel that being with your ex is tha only way youll be happy. So try talking to your ex, goodluck hun :) xOx


ok I remember 2 american idol seasons ago Josh Gracin singing 2 country songs that stood out in particular in my mind. I can't remember their names! Can anyone give me advice on how to find a list of the songs he sang? Or can anyone straight out list them? thanks xox! country luvr! (link)
http://www.fox.com/idol2/contestants/joshuagracin.htm
If you go to that site it lists tha songs that he sang on tha show. Goodluck hun :) xOx


My boyfriend & best friend are very close. My best friend even hooked us up. The thing is, my best friend is always messing around with my boyfriend. They always play fight and laugh about it, but to me it's flirting. I get extremely jealous but try to play it off thinking they're just good friends. My best friend is the kind of person who if I told her about it would think I'm crazy but then flirt with him even more! I love them both, but I can't help feeling that they have some sort of feelings for eachother. He tells me he loves me and my best friend is just a friend, nothing more. Am I crazy for thinking this? Could there be something going on between them? (link)
I was in tha same exact position, n it turns out something was going on with them n I found out from another friend. They always wrote letters to each other n stuff. We all got in a huge fight n I had to choose between my boyfriend n best friend, n he had to do tha same. My boyfriend chose me cuz he loves me, n I chose him for tha same reason. I couldnt let him go cuz im so in love with him. I realized that I couldnt trust my friend at all, n it was all her fault. We never talk anymore n I hate her lol. But me n my boyfriend are still together. So I think you should try talking to both of them about this, cuz you never kno..something could be going on, n you dont deserve to be hurt like that. Goodluck hun. Ask me anything :) xOx


it took me almost a year to get over my ex boyfriend and even then i still wasn't all the way over him..i loved him so much and i still do only i was moving on sorta but now all the sudden im having tons of dreams about him and like all of them are of me and him being together and bein happy and shit, its freakin weird. i miss him so much..like hes my world and he makes me feel like i can be myself and he wont judge me or anything. i have no idea what to do. please dont tell me to move on because my hearts telling me not to. my bffl is neighbors with him and me and her and other people are going to this 4 story haunted house around halloween and shes bringing her boyfriend (most likely) and i want him to go..is that stupid even though we aren't together? should i try and make things work between us or what should i say/do??? thanks sooo much. (link)
I've been in your position before, many times, with tha same guy, n it really sucks. Try talking to him about your relationship, maybe he feels tha same way? Me n my boyfriend talked when we broke up n we decided that we just couldnt live without each other. So I kno how you feel. I love my boyfriend so much n I couldnt be happier, we've been together for a year. So try talking to him about it, n ask him to go to tha haunted house with you, you guys could spend time together, n no, thats not stupid. Things could work again. Goodluck hun :) xOx


when should it be okay to have sex? (link)
Whenever you feel that you are ready. xOx


me and my bf recently slept together and now i fink i mite be pregnant but im wondering can somebody under 16 have an abortion whitout their parents knowind thanx (link)
You have to be 18 to get an abortion without your parents knowing. Find out if your pregnant, go to tha doctor or get a pregnancy test. Rethink tha abortion thing, because everything will work out okay without one. I've been in your position before n i NEVER though about an abortion, cuz thats just sad. You'd basically be killing your own kid. If you are pregnant, then there must be a reason, God might think youre ready to have a kid. Everything will be okay. Goodluck hun. xOx


I am on the orthro evra patch and i think im pregnant because my stomach has been hurting lately and i pee alot. im not sure this is what it really is it may be symptoms of the patch or it may be because i dont drink water. Can you help me? (link)
It could be symptoms from tha patch. Have you missed your period? You might wanna go to a doctor or get a pregnancy test just to make sure. Goodluck :) xOx


I recently had sex for the first time (about a month ago) and since then I've needed to pee an unusual amount. And when I do pee, it can really hurt. I now have trouble controlling when I need to pee too. Like, the second I get home from school I have to run to the toilet or I'll like pee myself. It's so embarrassing. The other night I even peed while in bed and got really freaked out. WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH ME?! (link)
Hey it sounds like a urinary tract infection..Go to tha doctor n get it checked out, it can easily be cured. Goodluck hun :) xOx




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