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Q: I`ve had a problem with confidence. I always let what people say, get to my head. Does anyone have any advice on how to raise my confidence?
alll you have to do is pretend your conident and after a while you will be trust me if someone goes ul your ugly be like hell no im bangin your jus jealous and stuf like that

Q: I love skirts and i thynk they`re so cute but i`m not confident enough to wear them becuase of my legs. mainly the calfs[sp] are there any exercies i can to the thin them out? I appreciate all the advice i can get.. thanx
if you run or walk they will tighten up but remember guys like that on girls there sexy lol

Q: okay so my boyfriend of one month has a reputation of kinda player.. and well i knew that comin into this relationship that he might play me over like some of the other gurls.. but i really liked him alot so i took the chance. and everything has been goin good every thing is GREAT! hes always tellin me how crazy he is about me and how he only wants to b with me and how he cant stand not being with me for a day! and so it reallym akes me feel good about myself. my only concern is.. he flirts with alot of girls. and he prolly doesnt mean to its just natural i gues.. but i always get jelous! how can i cope with this? i mean i dunno how to bring this to his attention w/o sounding stupid. and i dont wanna b the jelous girlfriend.. so please help me quick! thank you
you should start to flirt with people and if he says something be llike oh u do it

Q: On monday 7th I went to the movies with this guy I like him and he asked me out and I said YES. (doesnt go to my school). On tuesday 8th some guy I also liked asked me out after school (goes to my school) I said YES. I was going to break up with one of them but I dont know which one I should break up with. I think the guy who goes to my school is going out to get laid and bc im older then him n he likes me. Then the other guy is going out with me bc he likes me and wants to get laid. BUT then again all guys want to get laid. Who do I chose or how do I chose one?
choose the one at your school you can be with him and watch over him

Q: This guy i usee to date lyke 3 years ago.. well hes absolutly amazinq. he had cheated on me so we broke up but i cudn`t stnad not beinq friends with him. We were friends on and off again n just recently we started becominq close again.. friend wise. I always seem to go crazee over him and i dont kno if its somethinq ill get over but i do want him back. him n his g/f just broke up n i wanna let him kno how i feel but wud i scare him off or do u thynk it wud make thynqz weird again.. are we better off just firneds? i dont kno, help .. please.
you are better off friends if he cheats once he'll cheat agin carl cheated on carlita with kenehchepra and now hes always like oh baby i love u n he still goes out with kenehchepra
hope i helped
-Kaylor

Q: im 16!
im scared to french kiss a guy and theres this one guy that i really like an he likes me to but everytime im with him i get scared an i just kiss him on the lips an no more. im scared im goign to do it wrong or something . i dunno what to do
trust me just go for it who cares if its your first time he will understand kno ones born a great kisser just try makin out with him and after 5 minutes youll get good and he'll only remember how it was at the end which you would be the best at

Q: im 16 ...
i need a little help.. so their is this guy! ive liked for ever and i never thought he liked me so i thought i was over him but friday i went to his house to do some project an we ended up going in his room and hanging out and he went to kiss me and i pulled away because their was this guy i liked. an i told him why and he was liek im so proud of you an all this ( i kinda wonder why but w/e) well it ended up not working b/w me and the other guy and i really like the one i was with on friday. but i feel like i had my chance an that i prolly wont get it again. and i dont know what to do.
ok now that he knows you stay true to the people you like tell him what happened and that the person changed and it is him and tel him you love him and want to know if he likes you and be all flirty when you say it

Q: hey...ummm....ok ive been talking to this guy for about a two weeks and were both talking to each other because well he this each other are hot and like each other lol....i want to ask him about his past girlfriends but i dont know how to bring it up??? and even if i should bring it up...also one more thing we have nothing else to talk about so any suggestions..weve talked about family, school, pets, sports that we do.....so anything else...please help thanks
ask him how far hes gone he'll get mad horny n fall for you from there lol this works..alot

Q: I am a preschool teacher at a church. The church supplies us with a yearly budget for craft supplies and snacks. My assistant is in charge of getting snacks for the students. She charges these at a grocery store on the church's account. When I checked the receipts I saw that she had charged two inexpensive personal items for herself and the chruch paid for it. She is my friend or atleast I thought she was. The church never asks for the itemized receipts only the total amount. Should I report her?
Thank you
i think you should dont let her know it was you but tell the church becuase you shouldnt steal from god thats fucked up

Q: I just recently invested a lot of time and money in this girl i like. She liked all the gifts that I gave her. I know because of MSN and texting back and forth. I even made tears of joy come to her eyes because of what I did on Valentines-day. Well now I think a "friend" has geven her the advice of playing hard to get. I've already done everything that I had planed and she just said that she wants to be friends. WHAT SHOULD I DO
i think she was using you talk to her and tell her you love her and all and tell her if she dont love you you will leave her alone if shes playing hard to get she will tell u right there if not then dont buy her no more presents

Q: Next week im flying to Hawaii alone in an aircraft, but i have a phobia for planes and i don't want to panic during the flight or cry. I can go on airplanes thats not a problem but im just scared. Does anyone know how to get rid of the phobia
trust me my brothers the same way 10 minutes before we went on the plane we told him nothing would happen and gave him a sleeping pill he loved it when he woke up his ears never popped nothing

Q: i like my hair curly (waves not spirals) but i always burn myself using hot rollers and can't stand sleeping in soft rollers. can ne1 recommend and hair products or shampoos? i have just-above-shoulder length hair blond, a itsy bit wavy in the back,blonde. hope u can help. i will rate 5 for any good products. ♥
if i were you i would flip my hair over (so your upside down) wet my hair with a spray bottle then put finesse curl enhancing mousse then use bed head curl enhancer and flip your head back and take a blow dryer and not dry it but so its not soaken wet hope i helped

Q: okayy well i was going out with this kid for 2 months and 3 weeks and then one day he dumps me because he said hes friends think hes whipped and he sed he kind of was too ..he says he still likes me but he really never talks to me and yesterday he hugged another girl ..do you think he still likes me ?..should i keep trying to get him back ?..i dont wanna chase after him ..
maybe just back off of him if he thinks your whipped try to be mad friendly to him an all and dont try to controll him or boss him around after a couple of weeks tell him how good youv been to him (please rate me)

Q: OK this is a really hard question to write. My parents got divorced when i was in 1st grade, and i live with my mom. Lately she and i have been fighting alot. i love her and everything, but she is just really stressing me out. ive told her this, and she does better the next day, but as soon as its a week later she totally forgets. My Dad is an air traffic controler and so h works weird hours. Me and him have a great relationship and rarely fight with him my question is, should i take a break from my moms house and move in with my dad for awhile or deal with her? Thanx!!!!!!
i would stay with my mom it would hurt her alot and plus you dont know if your dad does things weird and different at his house plus he works weird hours and wouldnt be home alot

Q: ok there is this guy. We both liked eachother, we used to talk to each other all the time and he used to tell me all the time that he loves me and he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. he said that he wants to be alone with on valentines day. And so i went to my dads house to be alone with him and we were talking in my room and listening to music and sudenly my dad bursts in my room and starts swearing at him to get the fu*k out of his room. i got really upset so i left. And the guy was still talking to my dad and when he came outside by me he came over to me kissed me and said that i need to go talk to my dad because he is going crazy in there. I said no because he wont listen to me(+ he was drunk so that wouldnt help)and he said that my dad thinks that we had sex and we didnt. The guy was really mad. He looked at me in front of all my friends and said: I dont even look at you that way let alone have sex with you. Im sorry but i started to cry. why would he day he want to be with me and then say he dont what up with him? And whats up with my dad??? please help me i could use it thank you. i rate high.
i think the guy was just a little mad talk to him and say how you feel and maybe he will say he likes you too you never know

Q: My best guy friend him and I have gone out before and we eventualy broke up but we still had feelings for each other but instead we stayed CLOSE friends he knows everything about me.Well I recently found out he has a gf which i never thought would happen so quick and when i found out i was crushed i began crying i felt terrible.I don't know what to do I'm thinking bout stop talking to him it might help but im not sure pleae help me! thank you either way for just reading.
i think you sshould talk to him and tell him how you feel and you still kind of like him and want to know if he still likes you and you dont want to change your relationship but still want to be more than friends see how he feels it might be the same

Q: Today i found out from alot of people that my boyfriends been cheating on me with this girl that i absolutly hate and wen i asked my boyfriend about it he sed it wasnt true and they are lying to me, but i dont know wether to trust him or not because he has cheated on me before and tryed to hide it but i found out and idk why but i let it slide (plz noone give me a lecture on that). His bestfriend even told me that which is why im questioning him but he keeps on saying its not true. I dont know what to do, should i break up with him even though hes saying it not true or should i stay with him? someone please help me! btw me and him are both 15 and weve been together for 10 months, and we also dont go to the same school. thanks for your helf
well i wouldnt stay with him just because his own best frined told you and best friends wouldnt do that if it wasnt true and if you go to different schools im almost positive that hes cheating on you because my friends ex would have a girlfriend and be like oh i love you and all this other stuff but what i would do is ask the girl people say hes with and ask her if she says no stay with him becuz people might say that becuz they are jealous but if she says yah tell her what hes doin and break up with him

Q: My teachers are really mad cause I miss a lot of school because Im always sick. My mom is a smoker and i always get strep and other respitory illnesses. I always make up the frickin homewrok I miss and I always pass the tests and stuff. Im a pretty good student for a 15 yr old that wud rather make out with Bin Laden then go to school. Today i went to school and went through all of my classes. When I got home my dad told me they wanted me to go to saturday school, a place they send bad kids to make up work like if they dont do their homework. I made up all the work from the last time I was absent, and none of the teachers told me about it today. Im really mad and dont know wut to do. Its for three hours tomorrow and starts at 8 30 am. I recently started a petition to end a class that a lot of people dont need called CAI, I was wondering if that might be a reason why all of a sudden I have to go to that stupid thing. SOrry if it doesnt make any sense lol... i like answering questions much more than asking them.

THANX!... I guess I rate high *shrugs* and i'll ignore bitchy ppl. l8r
maybe explaine to one if ur teachers if u have ne nice ones be all oh i always get sick because of my moms smokin n all that other stuff and tell your parents how you make up everything and you will spend more time doin hw and see if thatt works

Q: ok here is the thing i met this guy from my BFF...i backed off bc i knew she liked him and i didnt want to let her know i liked him...yet he is 2 months older yet a year younger so he isnt in the high school with me yet..

im tryin to think of a way to let them both know that i like him with out obvious signals

i will most likely see him 2morro @ the mall again but im not sure...any ideas on how i can pull this off?
i think that you should be like oh you know that kid do you think hes cute (to ur friend) and if she says yah go oh kinda mad n if she says yah go me ...forget it then jus keep tellin her nvm n for him flirt with him alot and stuff and mayb have a friend talk to him for you

Q: hey can anybody tell me where to find good quotes for AIM profiles and such? thanks in advance.
www.wittyprofiles.com

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Right Now:
What clothes are you wearing?((tank top n pajamas))
What shoes are you wearing?((im wearin socks lol))
What make-up do you have on?((none i jus woke up))
What jewelry are you wearing?((hoop earings n a diamond on the top of my ear))
How is your hair styled?((it was crunchy then i threw it in a messy bun))
How would you describe your style? ((cute idk))
What article of clothing have you outgrown but wish you hadn't? my favrit jeans:o(

This or That:
--- jeans, capris, or shorts? ((jeans))
--- t-shirt or fitted tee? ((fitted tee))
--- jacket or hoodie? ((jacket))
--- pants or dress? ((pants))
--- striped or plaid? ((plaid))
--- spaghetti strap or tank? ((spaghetti strap))
--- long-sleeves or short sleeves?((short sleeve))
--- tight-fitting or loose? ((tight))
--- american eagle or abercrombie?((abercrombie))

Favorites :
Clothing Store: ((rave, filenes, aero))
Pants You Own: ((dollhouse))
Top You Own: ((picses shirt))
Shoes: ((gray n pink airforces))

This or That :
--- sneakers or boots? ((sneakers))
--- strappy sandals or flip-flops? ((flip flops))
--- Nike or Adidas? ((nike))
--- Steve Madden or Dr. Marten? ((steve madden))
--- Converse or Vans? ((converse))

Do you own any :
--- Converse? ((no))
--- Docs? ((no))
--- Steve Maddens? ((yes))
--- Tommy? ((yes))
--- Nikes? ((yes))
--- Adidas? ((no))
--- Reebok? ((yes))
--- Vans? ((no))
--- LEI? ((yes))
--- Skechers? ((no))
--- Mudd? ((yes))
--- Candies? ((yes))
--- Timberland? ((no))
--- Air Force Ones? ((yes))

make-up :
Do you wear any of the following, and of so, what kind?
--- eyeshadow: ((sometimes))
--- Lipstick/Lip Gloss: ((victoria secret and mac lusterglass))
--- Foundation: ((no))
--- Eyeliner: ((yes too faced lava gloss (black)
--- Mascara: ((yes maybelline new york sky high))
--- Blush: ((no))
--- Powder: ((no))
--- Nail Polish: ((yah))


How old were you when you first started wearing make-up? ((12))
Must you always wear make-up? ((no))
Favorite make-up brands: ((maybelline, m.a.c.))

Jewelry :
What jewelry do you wear every day? ((earings. my tiffany bracelet broke but im gettin the tiffanys necklace))

Favorites :
type of jewelry: ((earings))
earrings: ((white gold hoops))
bracelet: ((tiffanys))
necklace: ((tiffanys))


How many piercings do you have ((3))
Do you have any tattoos ((no))
Is any of your jewelry real gold, diamond, or silver? ((yah))

Do you use any of the following?:
--- blow-dryer: ((yah))
--- straightening iron: ((yah))
--- curling iron: ((yah))
--- relaxer: ((no))

Hair Products :
--- shampoo: ((renewal, dove, fructise))
--- hair spray: ((renewal))
--- hair gel ((none))
--- hair dye: ((herbal essence))

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Gender:
Female

Location:
newbedford

Age:
14

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February 16, 2005

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