Hi my names vicki. I'm 19 years old. I can try and help help alot of people and give/offer good advice. Anything you want help on i will always try never turn away someone in need. xx
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I hate to go to work and it interuupts with my school. Is there any way for me to make money form the internet? Is there a way that i can work at home from my computer? It does not have to be a lot of money. (link)
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Sell some unimportant things on ebay.
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well my freind's exboyfriend jus recentaly started talking to her again out of the blue. and i know that guy better than my friend dose and i know the only reason he started talking to her again is for sex but she dosent know that and ive tried telling her that but she keeps telling me im wronge...when i no im right...ive know him for a while and i know he is only after sex plus he is 17 and my friend is 13 what should i do???? (link)
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First of all i think you did the right thing in telling her but she doesnt want to know. Now i think you should leave to subject to rest and just let her know your there for when it all goes wrong. I'm sure it will.
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im so ttoaly lost i really need help. Nothin feels right between me and my boyfriend. we have been going out for a while and well everything was great and now nothing feels right... i mean he is doing things he knows will piss me off and hes not really telling me anyhinghting anymore... i dont know what to do and i really need help and some one jsut to tlak to...... PLEASE HELP ME !!!!! (link)
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You dont need to take that shit darling. I know it might be hard but get rid of him. Theres much better people out there they wont do everything possible to piss you off.
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Hi, i am new to this place but i do have a question. I am a 20 yr old male.My girlfriend wants to be friends cause she does't have the time in her schedule. She doesn't call it breaking up. And i feel like huh? When did she first feel like this. And now i am doing my best to get her out of my head but i still like her very much but i don't want to talk to her about it cause shes tired of hearing it. So for now i have been staying away from her. Ever since then i have been in a depressed phase and i am cranky as hell, but i do not think she cares enough about me as i do her, cause it seems her life and career are more important than i am to her. Can you tell me what i should do?
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I'm closer to your age and when my heart got broke and i was torn down. I never once felt sorry for myself. Pick you self up and start doing and activity you stopped doing when you got with her get yourself back out into the single enjoyable life and show her whats shes missing.
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14/f , today me and my boyfriend madeout for the first time today. it was his first time ever to makeout, but not mine at all. the problem is- he wasnt that great at it, and i didnt really know what to do :x I know its not that big of a deal but its kinda of a turn off.. what do you sugest i do? thanks :) (link)
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Lots and lots of practice. xx
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Does anyone know where I can get a used drum set in good condition???For under $300 (link)
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try ebay.
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I have a list of names that I like a lot. For my kids. *(I've always loved names, and making them up, and stuff)* Im Almost 15, and wont be having kids for atleast 7 more years, but i would still like to know some of the names for boys and/or girls that you all like! and you can add middle names too, if you so desire. Also, I use a lot of the names that I like when I play the Sims and the Sims 2. So If you could please tell me the names that you all like for boys and/or girls, that would be great, thanks! I'll rate a 4 or a 5 if you leave a *real* name! thanks!!
--KeLs-- (link)
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For a girl i've always likes louisia.
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i have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now and weve had our fair share of fights and break ups with eachother. but lately weve been doing so good...being honest and respecting one another. he just turned 21 and i am 17, but trust me, sometimes i think im the one acting more his age than my own and vice versa. but heres the problem...he just recently moved about an hour and a half away from me to his moms house. weve done the long distance thing before and were fine with it. we usually get through it pretty good. he was recently in a horrible accident and had a fractured skull and other horrible injuries. he is fine now though and is back to his normal self. but ever since he moved down to his moms house about a week ago, hes been out like crazy. with friends he just met down there. we fought about it all week. i felt like he didnt care anymore. then about 2 days ago he finally agreed to stop hanging out with them because we agreed its not fair that he doesnt want me going out with my friends all the time so its not fair for him to either. so anyways, he went to his friends house 2 days ago and ended up getting drunk and having fun. then, later that night, he told me that his friend had to go somewhere so he asked my boyfriend to keep an eye on his girlfriend while he was gone.(his girlfriend is 15 or 16 years old.) ..my boyfriend said yes and when it got really late, my boyfriend offerred to take the girl and her sister and her sisters boyfriend back to his moms house to sleep because they felt uncomfortable in someone elses house. they went back and he told me the girl slept in his brothers room(his brother doesnt live there right now.), and her sister and her sisters boyfriend took his room, while he slept on the couch. i was very mad at that but then today he tells me that the girls boyfriend called him today saying he heard that his girlfriend was sitting in between my boyfriends legs on the couch at his house earlier that night. i got very mad at this and dont know what to think. should i believe my boyfriend when he tells me nothing happened and it isnt true or should i think twice on his faithfullness to me?? he HAS been loyal lately but i dont know what to think. he even gave me the girls boyfriends number so i can call him and get to the bottom of this...i have never met these people but cant call the boy because he has only his nextel clicky number on him(my boyfriend) and i dont have a nextel. (link)
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Who would you believe? Would you believe someone you dont know or has only known a few days/weeks or someone you feel you've known for a lifetime? Its your choice but i'd be safe to stay stick with him.
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I have just been placed in the custody of the state and am now living in a residential facility. I just got out of a mental institution that is only 20 mins away from my sister. I am now about 2 hours away. She had the opportunity to see me before I left but chose not to! I don't understand what I did! She visited me on several occasions there and I offered to help her in any way I possibly could. Its not my fault that my mom and I don't get along and she knew that. Should I just move on and leave everyone behind to try to start a new life or do I ask her what is wrong? (link)
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Hi Try explaining to your sister how you feel and that you want to sort things out. explain what the situations doing to you and take it from there. xx
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i am a 21yr old female and have a huge sexual disire for sex everyday cn not find a man to satisfy me i need help... (link)
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get a rapent rabbit from ann summers there great :-) certainly worked a treat for me.
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thanks sweetie i think thats a pretty good idea but this guy is hard to please when i do back off he starts to bring up issues like y did i not contact him and all he has it too much in he head that i cant do without him and i think thats where my problem is im bust over him and im showing the brother too too much love.
ive decided to take your word for it he says he stressed tooo, so i shudnt add to it hello what the hell did i do.... (link)
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Dont always follow advice though cuz we dont know the full situations advice is just guidience use your insticts aswell as the advise. Hope this has helpped you. Let me know what u do. Good Luck. xx
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he is 27 has just opened up he own company says thats y he cant see me and im just saying a whole lot of things when he told me but he dont work 24hrs he can at least spare 30minutes to bewith me or to pick up the phone and tell me he loves me or something you know, how long do i have to be patient for him (link)
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You dont have to wait around for him but starting and running your own company isnt hard, he proberly very tired and very stressed out if its going to be a success. If i were you id back off slightly and let him do the chasing but in the meantime you just live your life and have fun. Hope this is good advice for you. xx
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Ok i just got over this huge depression thing i went to a shrink and everything. i started getting happier and i hung out a lot more with my friends and my dad who just got outta jail and i felt a lot better too. recently my mom is making me spend time with her i dont want to but i decided to at least be positive about it. so anyway i hang out at home a lot more and i get SO depressed like omg i feel like dying. i am so mad becuz i just got over this and i dont wanna go through it again. i cant do anything about it though. is there any way to help it that i just dont know about? plz help! im 14 btw
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Why dont you explain to your mom how your feeling by being stuck in the house and then try and draw up some kind of comprimise to even it all out.
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Is it normal for girls to have there period for 2 days.
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All people variy and all periods are unpredicatable. Thers nothing wrong.
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im 14 years old(male) and i keep cutting myself. I've tried to stop but i keep doing it. I ve talked with my friends to see if they could help me out and one of them started to cut too! i really dont know what to do please help me out. (link)
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Hi i'd like to talk to you but not in this way heres my e-mail addy please use it. vicky2k50@hotmail.com. Please use it. xx Also try using a red felt tip pen when ever u feel the urge use that or use ice and then numb ur hand and use your fingers it really works. xx
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im in love with this guy havebeen together for 4yrs but i had left to get engaged to some else things didnt work out for me he accepted me back now i feel like im the only one in this relationship, he stopped communicating with me tells me he busy will call me back and he never does tells me to wait for him comes two hours later now ive asked him what the way formard he said if i think he is a problem lets go our separate ways, what do i do i dont want to lose him not now not ever. (link)
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Unforutunatly sweetie i think you've got to accept that this relationship is over and that you need to move or allternativly you can keep pinin over something thats not going to happen. But before you declare it over have you tried explaing the way you feel and express your feeling fully to him. If you have then say good bye sweetie and get your self a nice fella. Good Luck hope this helps. xx
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So I'm totally in love with this person and that person loves me too... and I want to put together a CD of music sort of saying how i've fallen for them. Any ideas on songs for the playlist? (link)
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hero mirayah carey or how ever u spell her name.
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do you think it's better if a 17 year old dates a 25 old?! or do you think it's better for me wait until i'm 27 and he's 35?! (link)
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Sweetie age doesnt matter if you like him and he likes you theres nothing stopping you in dating each other atleast give it ago. Good Luck and let me know how you get one.
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Yesterday I(17) met this guy snowboarding(20) and he gave me his number and i called him last night and he wanted to hang out tonight but i had to babysit till 8 so he called me around 8 wen i shoudlve been done and asked to hang out but it ended up i was gonna have to babysit longer so i told him that i couldnt and he was like well i have to go to school tomorow (wednesday)and im not sure what im doin after that and he was like well give me a call wen u have some free time and then we said bye.im not sure tho if he means hes not sure what hes doing after class on wednesday or just like the whole next few days ...so im not sure if it would be dumb to call him like thursday afternoon? what do u think? (link)
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Call him whats the worst that can happen. Good Luck.
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I need some advice:Every time i go to bed at nite i
> cant fall asleep, it takes me a long time, i get a
> good 9 hours every nite, but i just cant fall
> asleep, ive tried writting down all my problems on a
> sheep of papper, like, homework due, chours, owe
> someone money, stuff like that, then i solved them,
> but its not the stress thats keeping me up then what
> is it? how can i fall asleep? (link)
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Try doing something really energic about 1-2 hours b4 bedtime. xx
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