Question Posted Wednesday February 23 2005, 2:17 pm
I have just been placed in the custody of the state and am now living in a residential facility. I just got out of a mental institution that is only 20 mins away from my sister. I am now about 2 hours away. She had the opportunity to see me before I left but chose not to! I don't understand what I did! She visited me on several occasions there and I offered to help her in any way I possibly could. Its not my fault that my mom and I don't get along and she knew that. Should I just move on and leave everyone behind to try to start a new life or do I ask her what is wrong?
Karen answered Wednesday February 23 2005, 2:49 pm: Don't leave everyone behind, especially your sister, and move on because you will always think to yourself and wonder why your sister did see you before you left. She may have had a good reason but since she has always visited you on several occasions, you should talk to her and find out why she chose not to see you this time. If you knew that you didn't do anything to cause her not to visit you, then talk to her and tell her how you feel.
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MummuM answered Wednesday February 23 2005, 2:45 pm: I wouldn't move on and try to start a new life, leaving her behind. She's your sister and sisters should stick together. I think you should either, talk to her face to face or call her. Ask her why she choose not to come see you before you left. Maybe she has a really good reason. But I think you have to ask her why she did that. You'll always be wondering it, so why not ask?
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vicki2k50 answered Wednesday February 23 2005, 2:34 pm: Hi Try explaining to your sister how you feel and that you want to sort things out. explain what the situations doing to you and take it from there. xx [ vicki2k50's advice column | Ask vicki2k50 A Question ]
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