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believe him or leave him??
i have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now and weve had our fair share of fights and break ups with eachother. but lately weve been doing so good...being honest and respecting one another. he just turned 21 and i am 17, but trust me, sometimes i think im the one acting more his age than my own and vice versa. but heres the problem...he just recently moved about an hour and a half away from me to his moms house. weve done the long distance thing before and were fine with it. we usually get through it pretty good. he was recently in a horrible accident and had a fractured skull and other horrible injuries. he is fine now though and is back to his normal self. but ever since he moved down to his moms house about a week ago, hes been out like crazy. with friends he just met down there. we fought about it all week. i felt like he didnt care anymore. then about 2 days ago he finally agreed to stop hanging out with them because we agreed its not fair that he doesnt want me going out with my friends all the time so its not fair for him to either. so anyways, he went to his friends house 2 days ago and ended up getting drunk and having fun. then, later that night, he told me that his friend had to go somewhere so he asked my boyfriend to keep an eye on his girlfriend while he was gone.(his girlfriend is 15 or 16 years old.) ..my boyfriend said yes and when it got really late, my boyfriend offerred to take the girl and her sister and her sisters boyfriend back to his moms house to sleep because they felt uncomfortable in someone elses house. they went back and he told me the girl slept in his brothers room(his brother doesnt live there right now.), and her sister and her sisters boyfriend took his room, while he slept on the couch. i was very mad at that but then today he tells me that the girls boyfriend called him today saying he heard that his girlfriend was sitting in between my boyfriends legs on the couch at his house earlier that night. i got very mad at this and dont know what to think. should i believe my boyfriend when he tells me nothing happened and it isnt true or should i think twice on his faithfullness to me?? he HAS been loyal lately but i dont know what to think. he even gave me the girls boyfriends number so i can call him and get to the bottom of this...i have never met these people but cant call the boy because he has only his nextel clicky number on him(my boyfriend) and i dont have a nextel.
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What a mess. Ok, telling him he can't see any friends is wrong. It's terribly controlling, and he shouldn't expect you to do that either. You are making yourselves miserable.
If you can't trust him, you have to get rid of him. Tell him that you are taking his word this time, but please don't do anything to make you believe he is cheating. It's hard enough not seeing each other much. I really do think you will both feel better if you just called it quits for good because an on again off again relationship in which you both aren't happy isn't worth the time. Good luck.
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Who would you believe? Would you believe someone you dont know or has only known a few days/weeks or someone you feel you've known for a lifetime? Its your choice but i'd be safe to stay stick with him.
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sorry to say this BUT LEAVE HIM!!
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your bfs a horny little bastard so heres wat you do tell him to get a life to shove up ur ass
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well.. this one is all up too you. u have to look at the sources that were given to you. who is more truthful? the people that say he cheated or your bf? cause if you really really have feelings for him you should give him a chance depending on wat you truely believe, or you can dump him and try to find sumone that you no wont hurt you. this one is still all up to you and how u feel about it all.
good luck on your choice
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