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The one girl mentioned in the subject actually isnt me. They are all my close friends. This is sort of long, but please bear with me and help!! I dont know what to do.
Well in my group of friends, theres me and this other girl (Karen) and six guys (there are other people but we're like the permanent people). The four guys aforementioned are James, Matthew, Scott, and Noah (names all changed). Karen isnt especially interested in any of them and just likes flirting with them/leading them on. I dont know if she knows what kind of effect she has on them but i dont think shes going to stop...
Noah has liked Karen since forever, like elementary school, but she has already made it clear numerous times shes not interested in him like that. But he just cant let go and is overprotective and gets really annoyed if the other guys flirt with her and vice versa.
James knows Noah's feelings and that Karen is just leading him on but he likes flirting with her anyways and apparently likes flaunting his material wealth (according to another guy friend who isnt involved in this). He's stepped back a little in the flirting but still hasnt let it up yet.
Matthew just wants a girlfriend and after his last breakup, he's had his eye on Karen. He flirts with her any chance he has and though he has said that he doesnt mean that much by it but just likes doing it, he doesnt care about noah's feelings on this and does it anyway.
I dont really know about Scott but according to Noah and another guy, he's also interested in karen. I have seen him flirt with meredith but then almost every single guy does.
Noah complains to me all the time and so does James. i dont know what to do because the situation seems to be out of my hands. Another guy friend suggested we find new girls to join our group but i dont know how much that would work. Any suggestions? They're all stressed out and irritated with one another and im pretty much stuck in the middle of this, being the only other girl in the group, the other guys are all looking to me for advice and an sympathetic ear. I dont know how much longer i can take this.. especially with a school dance coming up in a month or so.
PLEASE HELP!!!
woooow! your'e friend and you need to have a long talk with who she wants to be with and talk to those boys ,i think she needs to understand that this is noot right and it is only going to give her a bad reputation!!!
I am turning 18 next sunday and I was planning on going out all night on saturday. What are some ways I can celebrate my birthday? Im single :)
go to a club or to dinner have fun do what you want! oh and happy early bday!
hey guys do any of you happen to know about any stores that sell JUST flats.You know all kind of flats,especially ballet flats.i love those kinds of shoes but im very picky so id like to see some that i actually like.yah this question is pretty weird but i got to know.thanks :)-gabi
well i don't know a place where they sell jus falts but hottopic has really cute flats.
15/f. Okay...this is quite complicated. But I'll try and explain. Okay...I joined an online forum (namely a 'Queen Fans' forum) and I met a guy there. Let's call him Freddie. Freddie is 18 and lives in Canada. I, myself, live in the states (farthest state from Canada lol). Well, I've known him (online, "Msn, AIM, etc") for about 7 months now. And him and I have gotten really close, like we've chatted, and sent pictures, talked on the phone, etc. I REALLY like him, and I think he's fond of me too. But the only thing that bothers me about this is the whole "online" thing. The truth is - I'm planning to meet him this summer. My question (for advice) is this -...I might not even HAVE a chance to meet him after all...and If I don't, is there really ANY point in continuing being friends with him? It's REALLLLLLYYYYYYYY weird and confusing...but he tells me that he loves me, and cares for me, and keeps on giving me hints like "When you're 18, come down to Canada again" or "Call me when you're 18" or even "When I see you, I'm going to pamper you with gifts (etc)". I know him now as if I knew him in REAL life, that's how close we are. And we talk to each other very personally, sharing secrets, talking about problems. On a VERY personal level (one that I would be with a best friend). But...the online thing's kind of a turn off. I'm asking you, nice and brilliant advice-givers, if I should keep this little shananigan going on...and if I should make him wait for me...Or if this is just TOO rediculous, and I should just move on in my relationships? weird...haha i know. Thanks so much in advance. I hope I didn't confuse anyone XD
you're rite this relationship is in a tuff ruff but i think if you really fancy him you should follow your heart, but then agian he could of been someone totaly fake, but if u trust him enuff then go for it! pribally i don't really like online relationships for this exact reason. And if he thinks you are saying lies then i suggest you don't take relationship out of the cyber world b/c he might not trust you in real life. it is up to you just don't yourself
hi im a girl and im in the 8th grade. at the end of the year theres this dance for everyone in our grade and we all get dressed up and the girls wear dresses. they arent too fancy or anything though. does anyone know where to get a cute dress for that? i would like it to be around knee length a little longer, basically anything just not as long as floor length. it would have to fit me too im a 14/16 girls or xs and a 00 at the biggest. and does anyone know some good makeup or hair ideas for something like this? my hair is about shoulder length and blonde.thanks soooo much!
delias,forever21,and american apparel have some cute dresses..
13/F.
Hi everyone!
Anyone know any websites or stores where I can get a cute, affordable-ish (under $100) tankini swimsuit?
Thanks in advance :)
if you go to www.delias.com they have super cute bathing suits and american apperl has some plain cute ones.
What places/stores/restaurants/etc. hire 14 or 15 year olds?
try super markets,day cares,elders home,consuler, ummm ..some record stores??
15/f
do guys like girls that play sports? i play ice hockey
well it depends on the guy but you have more to talk about like favorite sport teams and stuff, but it really depnds on the guy!
how do you play "hard to get"
umm flirt and make them want more be some what mysterious idk...
I'm thinking about getting hair extensions
but I have a couple questions first.
how long do they last?
do the hurt?
how much do they cost?
a1:it depends where you get them & if you keep them in good condition.
a2:sometimes they hurt but some people are tender headed so it hurts more for others
A3:it sometimes cost really cheap but if you go to a professionla place it will last longer and cost more.
so i was watching The Wedding Date earlier, very good movie and the guy said
"I think I'd miss you even if we'd never met. "
what exactly does that mean?
THANKS!!
i think it means that person was always dreaming for someone like that in there life and they have been always missing them.,
i am a 13 year old boy. i met this girl and we started to talk alot but then when i asked her out she just walked away. about aweek later i started talking to her but she will just run away and i dont know what to do. please help.
mayb she is nervous around you??? but another possibilty is that she does not want to hurt your feelings b/c she does not like you. well i suggest you have talk with her saying why are you avoiding me or like you should say i like you but if you do not like me could we still be friends, and ask do you like me back.. idk to tell you the truth i never been in a situation like this and idk what realtionship you have with this gal, well it's up to you i hope the advice i gave you works out well:)
i'm a 14 year old girl. in october, i went out with this boy for 2 weeks & then he broke up with me. we didn't talk for a while, but then we became sort of friends again. well; lately he has been calling me & we've been talking A LOT.
he keeps asking me if i'll have sex with him (not right now, but in the future), i just keep telling me "maybe". well now it seems that all he wants to talk about is sexual things. like, eating me out or me giving him a blow job.
i don't know what to do! i haven't really done anything with him..just made out & he's felt me up. that's all!
p.s. he's always telling me that he loves me, and that i'm beautiful. sometimes, he's so sincere & sweet, but sometimes i think he's bullshitting me.
help!
if this friendship realtionship thingy is not giving any good and don't feel confortable i suggest you get out of it. If you feel direspected and if you guys broke up then why is he doing those things? i think he is b.s.ing you b/c he not even looking for a realtionship with you he is looking for sex from what you said. well i hope everything works out.
how to get a girl t olike me
you can't really get a girl to like it depends on yourself you but i suggest you talk to her alot and flirt get to know her!
What is a real good hair conditioner that is sold?
you can buy a really good hair conditionir at Lush it is called american cream it makes hair have a really nice texture the garnier frutis are really good too but it really depends on your hair type i suggest you go to a drugstore and look at the different products on the shelfs!
Hey for people who have braces (or you got one before), can you tell me if you had more cuts on the top teeth or the bottom teeth? Because I just got my braces on my bottom tetth and the teeth are tinier then the top so it's so hard to brush and I can't even move my mouth around so I'm hoping I don't get cuts from them or else I'd be in deep trouble..
well i have braces only on the top and well i don't get cuts maybe your jus adjusting to them.
ok im a 13 year old boy at my school for the people who turn in all their homework get to have at sort of resess. me and my friends almost always get our homework. so during that time my friends and i play tag. but for the past month if i run too fast then my ankle atarts to hurt. it doesn't feel at all like the normal spraned ankle and i havent spraned my ankle in a long time. it hurts on the back sid of the heel and i was wondering if anyone knew what it was.
ok i think it might be your achilles(sp?) this happens to me alot considering i play soccer. well i suggest to see a doctor or rest your foot i hope my advice helped u! :)