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one girl... four guys. what am i suppose to do?
The one girl mentioned in the subject actually isnt me. They are all my close friends. This is sort of long, but please bear with me and help!! I dont know what to do.
Well in my group of friends, theres me and this other girl (Karen) and six guys (there are other people but we're like the permanent people). The four guys aforementioned are James, Matthew, Scott, and Noah (names all changed). Karen isnt especially interested in any of them and just likes flirting with them/leading them on. I dont know if she knows what kind of effect she has on them but i dont think shes going to stop...
Noah has liked Karen since forever, like elementary school, but she has already made it clear numerous times shes not interested in him like that. But he just cant let go and is overprotective and gets really annoyed if the other guys flirt with her and vice versa.
James knows Noah's feelings and that Karen is just leading him on but he likes flirting with her anyways and apparently likes flaunting his material wealth (according to another guy friend who isnt involved in this). He's stepped back a little in the flirting but still hasnt let it up yet.
Matthew just wants a girlfriend and after his last breakup, he's had his eye on Karen. He flirts with her any chance he has and though he has said that he doesnt mean that much by it but just likes doing it, he doesnt care about noah's feelings on this and does it anyway.
I dont really know about Scott but according to Noah and another guy, he's also interested in karen. I have seen him flirt with meredith but then almost every single guy does.
Noah complains to me all the time and so does James. i dont know what to do because the situation seems to be out of my hands. Another guy friend suggested we find new girls to join our group but i dont know how much that would work. Any suggestions? They're all stressed out and irritated with one another and im pretty much stuck in the middle of this, being the only other girl in the group, the other guys are all looking to me for advice and an sympathetic ear. I dont know how much longer i can take this.. especially with a school dance coming up in a month or so.
PLEASE HELP!!!
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woooow! your'e friend and you need to have a long talk with who she wants to be with and talk to those boys ,i think she needs to understand that this is noot right and it is only going to give her a bad reputation!!!
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