about

Hey guys!
Name*Mallory aka *~MALLY~*
From*Cali~!
Status*Taken, by the worlds BEST b/f FRANKIE (MUAH)
Hobbies*I love to shop, and i love n e thing to do with fashion! SO please if thats where you need help im definetly here for ya! I also play golf and cheered~! So im kinda well rounded!

Well i just graduated from high school (and am going to cal poly...GO MUSTANGS!), so i think i could help alot when it comes to drama and friends, because i have been there! I also have the haha Well im really excited to help everyone! SO please ask me all the ?'s ya can k!I know what its like to wanna talk to someone but ya dont know who~!Well enjoy guys! xoxo Hopefully i will be talking to ya soon!

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Well I'm so glad you've decided to be there for me! Thanks so much! I really appreciate it, but actually I do have a couple questions about some random stuff (mostly school) Here goes!

1. okay, how long does it usually take to make friends in a new skewl! I dont wanna be sitting all by myself at lunch or anything. And how do I make friends really quick!?

2. I'm not sure what to wear on the first day of school (I'll be a sophmore!) b/c the styles may be a lil diffrent in Texas then they were in Arkansas! =) So I have kinda thought about wearing something simple: A black top (it has the button down at the top so it shows a lil cleavage, but not to mcuh I dont wanna be lookin ho*ish. lol.) with some dark blue jeans, black flip*flops and a pink and black back pack and purse! What do u think?

3. Any tips on make*up or hair?

4. Do you think its possible to be popular if you move to a new schoo and if it is how do I become popular (in my old school I was semi*popular, I was nominated for homecoming queen, I hung out w/ the "cool" kids, ect.)

Okay, I'm sorry if thats a lot. lol. I'm just so nervous and I wanna make sure I do everything right! =) Hope u can help me out! Oh yeah, my advice page is: southernbarbiegirl! Kisses! Thanks so much! -*-Sonnie-*-

OMg i cant wiat to help you! But right now i am running late! haha i have to get ready to go out! I will answer all of these in as much depth as i can later tonigh! it will be around midnight but i promise i will get to them okie dokie! I am sooo excited to help ya out a lil bit xoxo!
*~MALLY~*

Ok here ya go!
1.Youll mae friends the first class you go to! Just talk to the people you sit by, tell them your new there! I promise its prett easy! it might seem scary to put yourself out there, but it will defintely be worth it, because others will know you are willing and intrested in making friends!
2.Well actually im from Cali, not texas, so i dont know what really popular in other states! I think your outfit sounds cute! But how about add some color! So you will stand out a lil more! Like maybe wear a BRIGHT pink shirt or a light pink shirt...or wear your black shirt with cute color earings or a neclace!
Here are some ideas...
WEar something like this on your shirt and you can wear a cute pair of bright color shoes!

http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/shopping/product/detailmain.jsp?itemID=4784&itemType=PRODUCT&iMainCat=3&iSubCat=799&iProductID=4784
Or just carry a Hot pink purse with your outfit! Just have something on you that is bright nad fun and will make you stand out!

3.Id say go to a make-up counter at your mall-have your mom take you- and tell them you want to know how to do your eye makeup! And they will show you what colors to wear how to apply them and eveything! thats the easiest way cuz its hard for me to tell ya without seeing ya! haha

4.K well if thats the kind of people you fit in with at your old school, i have a feeling youll fit in with them at your new school! Not to sound stereotypical at all..but thats just how it goes ya know! haha Just be friendly and find people that look like youd be friends with!~! youll do fine girl!~!

WEll thats it for now! If you have any more question or want and more ideas on anything feel free to ask! xoxo i really hope i helped haha
*~MALLY~*

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I recently got my tongue pierced. I love it, but the thing is, my church and friends don't approve of it. How do I deal with those opposed to the piercing?

HmMm if you like it WHO CARES! haha no but when you go to church you can put in a clear or nude colored one that blends in...hope it helps!
xoxo
*~MALLY~*

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Hey Guys! Well I just moved into a new house and I have painted my room pink! I love the color! Just to give you an idea its the color of peptobismol! (lol.) I love all colors (especailly pink and black) and I was wondering if anybody had any ideas on decorating (please dont leave me any messages saying do what u wanna do. i want real ideas) Tell me anything from shelves to posters! Whatever helps! Thanks in advance! -Sonnie

OMG you can do sooo much! haha here are some websites that have pink and black themes! good luck and tell me what u end up doin!

http://www.wakeupfrankie.com/categoryDetail_new.cfm?id=44

http://www.delias.com/item.do?categoryID=435&itemID=20072

http://www.delias.com/item.do?categoryID=435&itemID=26805

http://ww1.pbteen.com/cat/index.cfm?src=rmscthmgrl%7Crgift&snav=1&cid=thmgrlsee&area=rms

I hope those help!xoxo
*~MALLY~*

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Well I am a 20 year old female and lately I been wanting to have a baby. So when I ask my boyfriend of 4 1/2 years he was like no because he had to babysit his 6 nephews all the time. So what should I do?

Hm well that seems serious! Maybe you should go to a nice dinner and talk about your future and plans in life! make sure you want the same things and are on the same track ya know..you should see how he feels about everything you want, and if you arent on the same track you need to think about it!....i hop ei helped xoxo
*~MALLY~*

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can you get pregnant 2 weeks before your period?

Ya you can anytime pretty much! xoox
*~MALLY~*

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This is just a question of curiosity...how many mL's (milligrams) of water are you suppose to get each day? If not mL's..then oz's(ounces)..? Thanks!!!(14 year old gurlio)

64 ounces a day! good luck~!
*~MALLY~*

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Is 8 months a long time to go out with someone when your 14?

Ya thats pretty good! People dont usually go out that long at that age because they dont really know what they want! But thats great if u have stayed together! xoxo Good luck!!!!!
*~MALLY~*

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My birthday is on Nov. 2nd. and my b/f's b-day is on Nov. 4th. so should we celebrate it on Nov. 3rd? Or have 2 seperate celebrations? What would you do?

I would say do them on the right days because then you get a special day to yourself to feel like a princess! hehe xoxo
*~MALLY~*

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hey ya'll ..i just turned 15 and i was just wonderin..when does your chest usually become fully developed?..like i'm a 34B & iduno i think that's small..but i'm already 15..is that guna b my chest size? or am i yound enough that i'm still developing?..=/..thanx xOx

youll grow 4 like 2 years after u have started your period.. or some people grow until they are about 18~! xoxo
*~MALLY~*

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Does anyone know anything that would be a good morning workout for me to do at least every other day to get my body awake and ready for the rest of the day?

yoga or pilates! they are great!!! I prefer pilates~! xoxo
*~MALLY~*

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hi. im 5'5 n 1/2 or something like that and i weigh 103 pounds and i know that im skinny but i want to lose weight. should i? do u think i might have an eating disorder?

well if u realize your skinny, then i dont think you have an eating disorder...yet atleast. {People with eating disorders look in a mirror and see themselves as fat, and they dont believe they have an eating disorder) they live there life in a lie basiclly without REALLY realizing it....You definetly dont need to loose weight though! Maybe eat what you eat but run or do pilates or yoga to make you feel better about yourself! ya know! GOod luck girl~!
*~MALLY~*

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hey,
i am going to redo my room what should i do.
pick colors.

Hey grl! Ok im going to give you some web pages to look at for decorating ideas....
www.wakeupfrankie.com then click on the patterns on the left side
or http://ww2.pbteen.com/cat/index.cfm?area=rms&CID=thm&SNAV=1&src=hme

also try delias.com

Good luck and have fun with it! If your into shopping or friends alot, take all you different shopping bags and hang them on a wall, or hang all your friends pix up! Good luck! xoxo
*~MALLY~*

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wen i have my period im not really aloud to take a pill but my stomach always hurts alot wut can i do?!?! wif school n everything i dont wunna go wif muh stomach hurtin!!

why arent you aloud to take advil, or Midol, sometimees they really help! I found a web site for you that are home remidies..stuff you can try without taking medicine! good luck sweetie! Also if ur tummy reallly hurts at school go to the nurse and see what she dan give ya k! xoxo

http://www.womanht.com/HomeRemedies/periodcramps.html

*~MALLY~*

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hey .. i have a makeup question. i have red hair and really light eyebrows an eyelashes (pretty much blonde) but i wanna wear mascara this year. im afraid that if i wear dark mascara - it would look bad against my eyebrows since they are so light and then my red hair. so have any suggestions about what I can do so it doesnt look too drastic?

i know im not giving specific help but if you go to a makeup counter like Mac, or benefit or anyplace in your mall they will help you! They know what they are doing and can help you find a good color for your skin! oxoxo
*~MALLY~*

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I have dark arm hair and I want to get rid of it b4 school starts(August 16)So plz does anyone know any ways to make my arm hair lighter like blonde? And do you know any ways to do it without going out and buying kits? Like is there anything at home I can use that you know will work? Plz help, my whole life ppl make fun of me and a couple other dark haired girls I know And I am Not just doing it for them its for myself b/c I am so embarrassed that I never wear short sleeve shirts which makes me hot... HELP ASAP!!! If possible answer b4 tomorrow plz and Thx!

the only ways i know are by either shaving them (which youll have to do every few days or it will get all stubbly) Wax them (either get it done or buy a kit) Or buy a bleach kit...i dont think they are that expensive and they do work...i have used it before! Good luck girl! GO buy a kit, its easy and Works~! xoxo
*~MALLY~*

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Does cornbread have corn in the mixture???

haha that just makes me laugh! Of course! xoxo
*~MALLY~*

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ok well first of all i am 13 years old.
i dont see my boyfriend much at all, but i love him...and i guess im just afraid he's going to break up with me eventually if we continue not seeing eachother often...but i know he loves me, i just dont know what to do.

tell him how you feel! tell him you dont want distance to be an issue! He will then see how much u care for him!! k GOod luck~! xox
*~MALLY~*

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this is a stupid question but what is a material girl?

a girl who likes a lot of stuff...that happens to cost a lot of money! haha Like if you like nice cars and clothes and stuff like that~! xoxo
'*~MALLY~*

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I want to start babysitting to raise money but there aren't many people i know that need a babysitter. how should i get started?

give flyers out by dance studios, or if you know where any day camps are for kids~! Or if you go to the park and see kids that look like you can handle, give there parents a flyer! Good luck xoxo
*~MALLY~*

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ok.. is there any way to totally delete the history page on your bar thing. Do you know what i mean? Its the thing where people can see the websites you`ve been to(i have no problem with that) and they can click on it. It bothers me cuz my dad can go onto this website and it shows im logged in..then he can invade my privacy(this reeally bothers me)..which i think he did! Somehow the responses to a question i asked got rated! I didnt do this..! is there ne way to get rid of the history page so this never happens again? thanks

if you have the internet...go to Tools, Internet Options, and clear history~! xoxo
*~MALLY~*

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