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I'm 13 female. I like to talk on the phone, aggravate my sister, argue with anyone who's willing to put up with me, i luv to act crazy around my friends, i luv hanging with my cuzin who is like a sister-big shout out smartgirl321.


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My little sister is turning 16, and I want to get her a cool present. She doesn't like clothes, or perfume, or most typically girly things. What she really likes is anime and anything cute and cuddly. She also loves video games.

I've been considering getting her either a How-to-Draw reference book or a J-pop/J-rock cd.

Any ideas for a good present? (link)
a day with you for my sister b day my mom didnt know what to get so she took my sister and one of her friends shopping and what ever my sister wanted for only one day my sister loved it and so did my mom
hope i helpled love talktome224


ok well i like this named "mike" and well he invited me to this swimming party and im gunna be on my period the day that its on and my mom wont let me tamps wat do i do and shud i go at all i mean i really want to but because of my problem what should i do

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well i had a simular run in. you should see if you can get tampons but if not then you can use a pad and as soon as you get out of the water go to the bathroom and change it bring a few seeing how you will probaly get in and out of the water but if thats to wierd looking then just wear your bathing suit besides you cant see it any way


good luck hope i helped
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how do i leave a childish love? im going into eigth grade and i still cant go a day without thinking of a boy from my elementry school who i havent seen in over two years. he was in my class every year and we were always little sweethearts but it was sort of that stupid ittle puppy love junk. i know hes moved on - probably forgot about me, and i wish i could do the same. what should i do? (link)
iv done something like you except i got in touch with him and we talked now we are friends and becoming friends with him made me see that i dont still like him so... find someone who knows his # or even look it up the phone book just see if when you are talking to him see if he still kinda has a thing for you or if he cant even rember you and go from there if he does make a "play date" meaning a hang out date then if he rejects you then you wont think about him and if he says yes youl go on a
"play date" and see wat happens
good luck
hope i helped love talktome224


Hey. My boyfriend is my best friend as well as my boyfriend. He was my best friend first, 4 years prior. He is dissapointing me as a boyfriend, and though we usually talk everynight, I want to take a break from him for a while. I need advice on what to think about, what to focus on, instead of him. Thanks. (link)
surrond yourself with other things like a friends night or have some friends go chill or hang out with you and just be "single" for a night meaning dont think about him or anyone for that matter except yourself and who your with do your favorite things like shopping or getting your nails done or sports or exercise or just blaring music and reading

hope i helped
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i met this guy at a summer camp last summer & we went out for like 6 months [it was long distance, so we only got to see eachother like 3 times but we always called eachother & stuff] and now we're going back to camp again to see eachother [we broke up a while ago] and i have a new boyfriend, but what i'm scared of is how much i've changed. i've gained some weight [i had an eating disorder] & my style compleatly changed... some people even call me goth, but i'm not. & i'm really nervous because i don't think he's going to want to be around me because of how much i've changed. could anyone help me please? i don't know what to do when i first see him [i want to hug him but i dont know if he'd be cool with it :-\], or how i should act around him... ? thanks a bunch

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act your self usualy if they liked you once they will like you again i mean iv changed alot and i still cant get rid of one guy but anyway if he likes you awsome but dont chase what wont chase you look at yourself if you like what you see dont change if you dont be who you want to be not what you want him to like you for being look if he likes you great but if not then let it go maybe there will be some one else there at camp this summer so ...
good luck hop i helped
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alright well you see i have a boyfriend and we just started going out like a week ago and i really like him and all and i kno him really ggood cuz we have been friends for a while. and it seems like everytime we r next to each other and get eye contact he like come towards me to kiss me but then backs off. im 13 and i already hooked up with boys other times and had no problem but i dont kno if i should go in and kiss him when he does this. please help (link)
well some guys have said that they dont like it when girls take control like that however some like it and besides it sounds nutral maybe he doesnt know if your ready or wanting him to i would say go for it its like nutral territory because you said he went half way in for it so next time when he moves in you move in to see if he trys to pull away or keeps going

hope i helped
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okay well tomorrow or thursday this guy that i like is gonna come down to my house .. i only have one thing planed and that is watch a movie.. because we won't have to talk because well i won't say he's shy but he's not good at making conversation.. so i realised it would be a good way to just like chill and cuddle :-) but what else can we do because that only takes up like 2 hours or less of the time! any answers would be gladly appreciated.. easy 5 (link)
well i always go to movies with guys but sometimes its cool just to sitt and talk but since you cant really do that maybe you could play a board game or make somthing to talk about like watch a tv show togather it will give you something to talk about or somthing that both of you like to do but dont fill up the whole night because silence can aslo allow him to start some conversations

hope i help
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my boyfriend and i hang out almost every night since its summer and all...but we're running out of movies to watch. what are some good movies we might both be interested in, and what are some other things we could do together? (neither of us have cars or much money) thanks! (link)
play board games or find a show that both of you like and always watch it togather this gives you something to talk about also pull up some movies that yall saw togather but really enjoyed and watch those again

hope this helped
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I'm thinking about getting the top of my ear periced does anyone know how much it hurts? and if it is worth getting it done?

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my big sister has i done she says it was worth the pain but it wasnt much pain she and i quote say she would do it again
hope this helped love talktome224
p.s. it looks really good


I have been married for 5 years and have been with my husband for 6 years. He is a Army soldier. We have lived in Germany for the past 4 and half years. My husband just recently told me that our hole marrige was based on lies, and that he has never been in love with me!!!! He told me the truth about everything!!!! He has cheated on me so many times that he can't remember!!!!! My question is what can I get in the divorce? Do we have to split everything, and can I make him pay for pain and suffering? (link)
from wat i know you can get a split divorce meaning you would get half of everything perchased during the marraige if it has caused serious emtional pain like hair loss or even weight gain and if you have been medicated because you have been emtionaly destressed
good luck sorry
and love talktome224


ok i have a really big problem. i wear a training bra and any tank tops, short sleeve shirts, or really light fabriced shirts i wear, my bra shows ALOT. and also the even bigger problem is on tank tops, my bra has a higher up arm hole so you can like see the bra alot on the arms. this has stopped me from buying new clothes, and i always try to look for the clothes that cover me up the most!! im so mad cauuse I just want to be confident and free about myself and not worry about this! its all i think about. yes, dont say ask my mom cause she always asks "well why are you being so mad, whats the problem" whenever i pass the opportunity to buy a perfectly nice shirt!its cause im too embarresed to tell her about it. the only reason i have a bra is cause my mom bought me 2 old navy ones like a long time ago and they like hardly fit me.please dont make fun of me, i really want to feel good about myself and not have me bra practically in full view. HOW CAN I SOLVE THIS ANNOING PROBLEM?????? (link)
tell your mom usualy moms help more than you think they will trust me once i started telling my mom about some problems iv been having and she help a bunch

good luck
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is there a cure for pubic lice? (link)
yes it ike regular lice iv never had pubic lice but ther r products you can buy for it and i think you can just shave all the hair or ther r certain shamphoo u can buy for it

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i really need help with my makeup..i have light skin, blue eyes, and light blonde hair. Like what color of eyeliner and mascara do i need to wear, b/c i think black looks to harsh with my skin..brands and colors would be helpful! thanks so much!! katie_xx (link)
navy blue eyeliner or even a darker blue light pinks and tans on your eyes and shiny lip glosses no real colors maybe light pinks and whites
good luck
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I was just wondering if anyone had any good pages for icons. Thanks a bunch! xo (link)
dollicons.com
do google searches on icons you can even make your own
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well, a while ago, my friend told me that she had been raped by someone in her family. she said it had been happening since she was like 9 and it recently stopped happining. i really care about this person and i want to tell someone about it, but she made me swear not to tell anyone. im really confused on what to do and whether or not to tell someone about it. she doesnt even like to talk about it but im not sure its the 100% truth or not. what should i do? (link)
i dont know why anyone would lie about that but if she is telling the truth then you should tell someone no one de treeted like that
i hoped it helped
good luck love talktome


I have 16 fat, ugly pimples on my face. I wash my face 3 times a day but nothing works. Anyone have suggestions? (link)
clean and clean seem to work the best for me but my friend uses proactive it work and cleaned her face within 2 weeks

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good luck


Ok There is this boy Zac and I Like him A LOT! And my friend Emmie thinks he likes me. I'm just going to say what happened to me when I hung out with him last( I haven't before this was the first time ). Well I was just standing in a corner at a basketball game and he came up to me and said, " Who are you? " and I simply replied my name and then he said " Oh okay I know you " and he walked away to play his basketball game( it was at half time ). When it was over he came over to me and said "Is your screen name g-o-i-n space.." and I just said yeah. Then he kept like sitting next to me. It was really funny watching him though because he was like kind of dancing lol. But anyways he kept coming over and sitting next to me and I was talking to him and he was looking at me this whole time. And whenever I looked over he didn't look away he just smilied. Well then I went outside and he I guess was talking about me because he pointed to me and said something to one of his friends. Well then he couldn't find me I guess but he came outside and started talking to me. I was acting stupid...for some reason I do that around cute guys lol...Anyways he was making fun of me for being stupid. And then he went inside the gym and so did I and he was just looking at me the whole time. < Thats what happened...he goes to a different school soo I don't know if his personality is just like that or anything. But I talk to him on AOL and stuff soo yeah. Well I asked a few people if he was really flirtish and they all said yeah...but thats A LOT of flirting he did right? Okay Well I need your opinions does he like me? I rate high and give comments! ^_^ (link)
i would think so when ever my bf is about to do something sweet he does just like you said stre at me and when i look he just smiles

i think he likes you so
good luck love talktome224


I know all guys are different, but do you think it's a turn off if they meet a girl who is almost 18 and isnt experienced (like hasnt even had her first kiss)? (link)
no some guys like the whole pure never been touched kinda thing
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i need to know how to get rid of bats in the house? (link)
exterminator
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On the last day of school, I was particularly mad at my friend for ditching me at the mall to hang out with some other people, so I was telling my friends how mean and stupid she was when I realized my crush was behind me and he accidentally heard me ragging on my friend. He said, "I didn't hear what you said," and walked out after I gave him a look of complete shame because I was upset he heard me at a bad time. Since it was the last day of school, I have no time to make it better.
I live near him though- should I go talk to him to make him remember me on a good note? (link)
that would be the best thing to do

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goodluck




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