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ok last night me and my friend was up stairs in my room wachin a movie and then we start to make out and i want us to do more than make out but he is too shy how can i make him make me happy (link)
If you two want to have sex just sit down and tell him what you just told me tell him that I'm ready to do more than just kiss he'll know what your talkin about ask him if it makes him feel any better your a beginner also and ya'll can use a condom don't be afraid to speak your mind or why don't you two sit down and talk about when you will be ready to have sex.
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hey i was wondering how to change the backgrounds and stuff for a myspace? also where is a good site for the backgrounds? thanks! ♥ (link)
E-mail my sister at ma101mi@yahoo.com she knows all the answers.
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i cant find the column settings on my myspace site.. can sumone tell me where it is? i cant add backgrounds or nething like that so if someone could pleae help.. thanks a bunch (link)
I have a sister that's on that site e-mail her at ma101mi@yahoo.com she's been on there for 8 years she knows.
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I know there have been alot of kissing questions from other people so I'm sorry if this has been asked multiple times. How do I know when I'm ready to french kiss? Me & my boyfriend haven't been dating long but we've known eachother a while & we makeout alot, just without the tongue. Will it just happen? Will we talk about it? (link)
Yea it'll just happen when your ready to make the move, i'm rated 13 so i know what i'm sayin when i say when your ready to french kiss is when your bf is ready to french kiss just do it and he'll follow along.
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i was watching this show on MTV called MADE. it was the one about Samantha and how hse became a girly-girl and all that. well, they went shopping at a store called Blush, and she got some really cute clothes from there. so i was just wondering if anyone has ever heard of it before and if you know their website. oh yea..and its not www.blush.com i already tried it. thanks! (link)
I know of a guy who was once rated 10 on this site who was twice as good at giving advice then i was he retired the site though becuz people was sendin him violent inbox messages becuz he was so good they was jealous i was his friend on here and i'm the only one who knows his e-mail address he told me if there was anyone who needed really mad time help then to e-mail him or to have them e-mail him now i'm going to be nice and give you the e-mail address but you must not speak of it.
E-mail: ma101mi@yahoo.com
TRUST ME HE KNOWS WHERE YOU CAN FIND IT.


well im 14 yr old female but ill be 15 in october and i painfully lost my virginty 3 days ago with a boi that i thought was 17 or 18 but turned out to be 20 or 21!! i have two problems now....

1) er'body in town keep askin me about it and sayin im bad and he really dont look like the type that would go around tellin er'body but im wonderin should i start denyin it or...what?

2)after i lost ma virginity i bleed(alot kinda) it was all on the toliet paper and dripped in the toliet but ma friend who don it twice didn't bleed like that but ma first time bleed worst them hers and it even bleeded today...and this happen 2 or 3 days ago....is sumthing wrong wit me?!? :( (and i kno its not ma period 4 sho)!! :( (link)
Listen it's natural for SOME girls to bleed just like my sister bleeds after she has sex it's just the pain from sex that's doing that that's all nothin to worry about there's nothin wrong with you it's just normal.
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Ive had glasses since I was three and finally im getting contacts. Im going for an appointment to learn how to properly stick them in and stuff. I know they'll be able to really answer my questions but can anyone who has them tell me what it was like the first few days the had them? Some people told me it was painless, most others said they were in alot of pain & that it burned. I just wanna know so I can be prepared for whatever feeling I get. thanks, I'll rate.

Meg (link)
The people that say it burns are the people that have been using contacts for about a year and the contacts sometimes like during hot days get overheated and sting your eyes no big. But on regular days it's painless all it feels like is plastic on your eyes with water they're just painless lenses that sometimes overheat that's all I should know i have them for 2 years.
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ok well i posted this yesterday and i got 15 answers ..but my stupid computer wouldnt let me see them so im gonna post it again and see if it will let me read them this time. everyone please answer exatly what you did before! here it is:



ok, well i really care about someone and have strong feelings for them. I feel like I don't want anyone in the world but him. We dont really talk much, alls i can say to him is "hi" and he'll say "hi" back. He knows i like him but he doesnt like me. I really want to talk to him, but i'm scared mostly of what he'll say back. what should i do?
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Do you have proof on this that he doesn't like you back maybe he does like you but he just doesn't want to let it show to easily you know it's true i've gotten plenty of e-mails on this and it's getting tiring just tell him how u feel and if you can't do that then ask him out if he says no then it ain't like he'll tell anybody that he dissed you sure every now and then that you pass him in the halls he'll act all weird and you'll feel weird but at least you'll know the truth.


So,my dad going to give me 600 for shopping this,NEVER happens anyways.I wear more of the punk/gothic syle.I need some stores to go shopping at!Could you help me with that?And i wanted to change my hair like something different.Any one know some cool hair cuts.And i have medium hair it goes past my shoulders alittle.Its a dark brown i was thinking about puting red streaks that blend good.
If you would like to see what my hair kinda looks like send me a message. Becasue i need help!

please i could use all the help and please do not delete (link)
Listen I know a great hairstylists who has done celebrity's hair her e-mail address is ma101mi@yahoo.com just e-mail her and she'll get back at you tonight and send her a pic on how you look she gives great advice and websites and shopping malls and everything number 1 of all hair styles.
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my cat is breathing hard and his mouth is partly open. and hes just lying on his side a lot! he went into the bathroom and just layed there under the sink for a long time. is he dying? or is it because of the hot weather? When my hamster was dying, she was just lying around and breathing hard. please answer imidiatly. i love my cat. (link)
Yes your cat is dying and yes it is because it's too hot in your house hurry and dump water on your cat poor ice on him do something very quick.


i kno my cat is really hot beause its 114 degrees in here and hes kinda panting..so what could i do to cool him down? do i fill up the bathtub with some cool water and put him in it or something? he's really hot (link)
First of all cats hate water but in your case make an acception take a bucket and fill it with ice or use the bathtub and use that as a cooling system like I said before you'll get adapted to it.


ok, every time i sit in front of the AC, im cold. but i step 2 steps away from it, im automatically hot. can i make it so im just fine? its 114 degrees in here. what do i do? (link)
Maybe you have a fever and you just don't knbow it or maybe you just need to relax if your going through stress but just normally relax by the air conditioning sooner or later your body will adapt to the cool and you'll be cold through heat or blaze.


Hey! I need some help! My boyfriend can express his feelings to me, no matter what. But, when I really want to tell him how much I love him etc. I tell him in a letter or an email. I just can never seem to get it out. Any suggestions. I NEED HELP! RATE HIGH (link)
Listen there's no reason why you can't express your feelings to him over letters there really is no reason why not your cool to do that that's normal for a woman to do that but if it really came down to something like getting married put everything in front of you behind and don't be afraid if you two love each other the way you say you do then he'll be happy off of every word that you said trust me i'm rated 5 but that don't mean nothin still rate me no matter what.
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On most TV sets there is a little light by the power button that lights up when TV is on. Ours has suddenly started to blink when the TV is off. What does this mean? Is it an indication the TV needs service? The color was acting up a month ago, but no longer seems to be a problem. (link)
It's normal that the remote has some issues, maybe you need to just change the battery or if it's not too much trouble reset the tv. If that doesn't work press the reset button on the remote if there's nothin wrong with your tv even while the light continues to blink then it's just normal.
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I just found my husband's biological father for him a few months ago. They've talked on the phone a few times since then, but he lives in Canada, so it's expensive to talk. We don't really have any money to go visit him either, and we won't for a long time.

I've heard of organizations that help families meet each other after being apart for a long time. Something like they might help pay to fly my husband to see his father. Does anyone know about anything like this? Any information would be incredibly helpful.

Thanks! (link)
www.Familyhotel.com
you can get discounts on cruises
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I just aquired a 1980 Pontiac Grand Prix. It is desperately in need of some love. Can anyone give me a website that would give me checklists, guidelines, or step-by-step instructions on completely redoing this car? I need help with everything from the body, to the interior, to under the hood. Thanks! (link)
Why don't you go to Auto Zone or Auto Parts or maybe you can send in a video to pimp my ride. Something I'm rated 5 on this site so i know what i'm sayin.
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(15/f) Ok when ever I like a guy, I always want to spend time with him and talk on the phone and stuff like that but when I end up dating them all I want them to do is leave me alone and I never want to spend time with them. Am I just tired of them or what? (link)
Maybe it's the way the guys treat you they treat you like a guy would treat a lady or if not that maybe you just don't like boys but you do a little bit have you ever came to the conclusion that you might be bisexual.
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well fist i want to say this is my first time on this site and it's pretty good.
i need advice on school. School is hard not the work (straight A's) but the people. i have people that stare at me for no reason. see i going to start 10th grade and snice 6th grade people has been staring at me. i don't know y, but its annoy. it's mostly girls and some guys. i am scared to get classes with these people because they might do more than stare. how do i stop this thing? (school is on aug 15th) Pleassse help.

babygrrl (link)
I'm rated 5 on this site so i'm one of the very best i know what you need help on. Listen if people stare i know you feel it annoying but find out why, find out if they think you look weird dress weird maybe your stuck lookin like a bammer not in the best trends or maybe you come to school lookin poor i don't know what but i need to details on what you do in school daily in order to find out what your problem is if you don't find this helping help will be available at the e-mail address ma101mi@yahoo.com
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I grew up in a christian home. I'm almost 18 and still everything in my life is God this God that. I believe in him but that doesn't make my problems go away. I'm always crying, have the blues, feel alone, feel anger, sad, somedays I just don't feel like doing anything but lay around. But everytime I try to show to my parents that I have a problem I get God shoved in my face. Sometimes I just want to run away from home...but I know that won't solve anything. What should I do? If I stick around home anylonger I'm afraid that I'll do something to myself again. (link)
Since I'm rated 5 which is best experienced I'm pro at telling advice but your problem needs someone in your position so do this e-mail at ma101mi@yahoo.com the best advice i can give for you right now is to at least tell your parents how you feel and if that doesn't work you need to get a job and get you enough money to go to college or get your own house.
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wat exactly about being out in the rain, or sudden changes in temperture, or coldness that makes you get sick? how does it weaken ur immune system. (link)
When in the rain the temperature actually gets colder as it sits on your body but you don't feel the weather change because of your bodies heating system but once the cold hits the edge of your heating system germs come on which start to weaken your immune system then you catch a cold and your cold goes away when your immune system tries to heal itself.
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