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Hahah, wow um I got suspended for a while and now have a new column.

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ok so i have this best friend. and well weve been friends since maybe, 5th grade... and this year we meet katie. we ended up hangin with her and stuff and soon enough it was us 3 all year. now at the end of the year it seem like katie and my other friend are almost like best friends, leaving me out of alot- well not too much, but you could tell. Ive tried to tell them that i felt like i was loosing my friend that ive had since 5th grade-i know im not loosing her but i know them two are better friends. they dont think so, but they never tell me anything anymore and are always going to katies lake house and leaving me when katie says i should come with, but she never does invite me. it sounds kinda, i dont know, lame and pathetic. but i just dont know what to do. and im kind of sick of being the one always left out.theres kind of more to it but i dont really know how to say it. what should i do?

I think you should tell them this. No matter how badly you dont want to hear it, or think it.. sometimes people just grow apart. But that might not be the case. They might feel like they can't trust you so that's why they dont tell you alot anymore. If i were you I think i would just try and tell them that you feel like your loosing them. Maybe you should try inviting them to hang out with you. Or you could invite just one to hang out with so you wont feel left out, then the other one, then if your closer with both of them, you could try all 3 hanging out and see what happens. I hope this start to work out, and I hope this helps =).
Katie, ♥

im 14 and i ahvnt started my period yet..
ive had cramps since last friday really bad
and today my discharge was kind of brown red ish
yeah..
did i start my period?

You should probably just wear pads or pantie liners to not get all the discharge everywhere. you'll probably get your period soon, dont owrry. I would say just wait and wear something to keep your undies clean. =)

ok, i will i.m you sometime, your page says its honeybuns5678.

its- HONEYBUNS9223. Or tainTed X0 lOvee. Doesnt matter.

but you and me are both in love with you, im just a dog eared page you turn back to, wheres the place for me when we are both in love with you.You acted like i was never gone, when i was gone and now i am gone. But my time has come to go, goodbye, i need you to be waiting here when i get back for i shall be alone, and cold and waiting for some shelter to garnish me with what i want. Be there?

1st one- Dog Eared Page by The Matches. Hah. Dont know that other one. But if this is the same person who always asks me these kind of lyrical questions just i.m me or soemthing. If your trying to tell me something.. talk to me.

I need some ideas for a new screen name. Some things that could be in it are : jackie, MHS, 10 , woah, OmG , anything but please can u give me some ideas?!? thanks

You can always have like.. OmyGosh Jackiexx. Or something like. woah Jackiex. hah im trying to thing. Theres alot of different combos you can have with your name and "omg, omfg, woah". I know of a few people with sns like that. Or like JacKiex 10. Something with numbers is always nice and easy. If you i.m me I can give you more ideas. Hope this helps.. just i.m me anytime cause im almost always on =).

That's gross, your picture is just nasty in your bra, I think thats totally inacceptable

Im sorry you think that. Im changing it soon.

okay. so theres this guy i like. and my best friend likes him to. (were all 13) and i think i am prettyer than my friend. but she thinks this guy likes her more. but i dont think so. he flirts with alot of people. and my friend is like yea he likes me and she is telling our friends that he likes her. i mean he flirts with us. but she is getting obsessed. i mean what should i do.

i can see if you cant answer this.
i admitt it may be confusing.
thanks in advance.

Well, it seems like its your own friends fault that shes being so obsessive and getting her hopes up, cause they'll just come crashing down. You could tell her to be careful and not to get her hopes really high cause if things dont work out how shes plans then she'll probabluy just end up getting hurt. Or you just wait it out untill you find out who he actually likes and then if iuts not her then she might be hurt, and you should just be there for her. I hope this helps! =)
Katie, ♥

how do u feel about.....

I dont know what to feel about.....

I really like this boy. We broke up around a week ago, we both still like eachother, and he wants me back. I dont want to hurt him anymore than i have what should i do?

Sometimes you just need to love, cause in the end someone is always going to get hurt. Love is like one big risk. Injoy it. I think if you like him then you should get back together with him. You can't stop someone from being hurt, but you can always sugar coat things so they dont hurt as much. If you get what im saying? Like.. if someones breakingup you can be like "I think I want to break up.. But we should still be friends and maybe we could get back together sometime".. instead of "im breaking up iwth you". Cause of course the first one will hurt alot less. I hope this helps. =)
Katie, ♥

thank you sooooooooooooo much, I love enchiladas. I will pay you tommorow with pesos.

Hah, your welcome.

Im wondering how to make enchiladas and tell my Boyfriend im cheating on him.

Echiladas-
http://mexican.allrecipes.com/directory/3353.asp
or
http://www.elise.com/recipes/archives/000055enchiladas.php
Cheating-
Well I dont think theres an easy way to tell someone your cheating on them. You'll probably just have to come out and say it in the best, painfree for him way you possibly can.

I kneed a girls point of view. How do they feel about a guy saying straight up, i love you.

If they love you too, then most of them would be so happy. If they dont like you back like that, they might feel a little akward. But if you know she loves you back.. it will make her so happy.

know this girl who i rreally like, but i dont know if she likes me, its kinda obvious that there are other people involved but i am worried that i will ruin my friendship with that person, even though i really dont have much of a friendship even though in my mind i do, all i think about is that person and i am not doing anything productive other than daydream about that person. It is kind of wasting myh life time by not moving on with my life, its just that that person kinda has a spell on me and i cant get over it. Every night i get depressed knowing that that person does not love me back. I also gets pissed and depressed into a mood because i dont stand a chance. And please dont tell me, "you should try talking to her" beause it doesnt work. Ive tried it before. i dont want ti get in depth on my feelings because now a days, most girls think that guys that like them are pussies for having feelings for them. Please help me, ive read the previous questionds on your page and they all sound like this, but this one is differant,this question is kinda my life, and it will be destroyed if i get an answer telling me. well and i mmight even go crazy. I am about to ruin my luife because i cannot handle the truth if the person does not like me life.It wil ruin me for the rest of my life.Im 13 in oak prarie and male./ HELP ME PLEASE.

Im sorry this is happening to you, but you cant make someone love you. I know you dont want to hear this but she might just not like you. No ones going to always get what they want or have who they love love them back. I always think of this when im down.. I mean, its teenage years. Were only in our 12-14 years of age and were already crying and depressing over a guy or girl.This probably isnt helping, but theres nothing I can really do. If i could make her love you, I'd try that. Sorry this is happeneing to you, hope everything gets better.

its a waste of my time too.But i must dig around the internet to find the lyrics just to post them on your advicenator just because i add a question to thew song so that you can add advice to my question so the whole advicenator thing connects.

Well then just ask the question instead of having the question hidden within lyrics. Its alot easier for the both of us.

Lets talk about sex baby, lets talk about you and me, lets talk about everyone and everything that may be, lets talk about sex, lets talk about sex.

Can you stop sending song lyrics. Its not funny, and its a waste of my time. So please cut it out.

hit me like a bomb baby come and get it on, living like a lover with a radar phone, living like a vanp, like a video tramp, demolition woman can i be your man, yahowww, yahowww, come on, take the bottle, shake it up, break it better, break it up, pour some sugar on me, oooh in da name of love, pour some sugar on me, come on fire me up, im hot, stick and sweet, from my head, to my feet yeah. Will you pour some sugar on me?

Hahah. Maybe..

my boyfriend rlly wants to have sex with me but i dont want to and hes pressueing me into it and he keeps invitin me over when his parents arnt home wut should id do

You should tell him your just not ready. You shouldn't have to do anything you dont want to or arn't ready to do. He should understand. Hope this helps.

Hi, my name is Alisha I am 13 and I'm female. I'm wondering if guys like it when they finger girls and there downstairs is hairy,or should i shave it before I let him do it?

Different guys have different opions on what they want. Some guys like it shaved, some like it natural, some like it shaved a little but still hair. If you want the best answer, you should ask who ever is going to finger you. Or just go what with you think is best.. maybe shave down there but not all of it. I hope this answeres your question.

okay well i saw that you and other people like ska music. i have 2 questions, 1 = is it pronounced like S-K-A or skay? or any of those... and 2 = what type of music is that? like could u give me some examples of some bands?! thanks yur a doll ♥

Its pronouced..Skah. Like.. sss-ka-ah. Haha Im pretty sure thats it. And some examples are like, Reel Big Fish, Catch 22, The Suicide Machines, 6 Pack Deep. But they can be considered like ska and rock or ska, rock, punk, and reggae too. Heres a site with lots of ska bands.
http://www.billtanner.net/ska/skabands.html
Hope this answered your question okay =).

what the fuck

I dont know what the fuck.

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