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Q: my 2 best friends have been
leaving me out. they dont do
it a lot and they aren't doing
it to be mean, but it still hurts.
they are making this movie for
school and i'm in their class and
they didn't ask me. i asked if
i could be in but they already
filmed it. all 3 of us hang out
alot but if i cant do anything that
day and the 2 of them hang out,
i miss so many inside jokes and then
they put it in their aim profiles and
i feel left out. they feel left out
sometimes too, i guess thats what
happens when 3 people are bffs but
i dont wanna feel left out and i wanna
know all the secrets or inside jokes.
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Yeah I have the same thing I'm kinda the 3rd person in two groups. But what I do is just ask each one to hang out at my houe or something.
Sometimes I'll say lets all 3 of us hang out but then my 2 friends will go off about something that happened/inside joke and i have no clue. So I like to hang out with then individualy and then when I'm good friends with then seperatly then get the 3 of us together.
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Q: ok so im supposed to instruct a class in doing something, for 3 minutes.. like how to work out the right way, make a balloon animal, make a brade, ti your own tie, or something you know.. but i have no clue what to do, i dont want it to be too childish, but not too boring either.. something that is easy and quick to teach, but most people might not know.. do you have any ideas?
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I did this for school (ours had to be longer though)
what I did and what others did was..
how to bake cookies
how to catch a baseball
how to kick a soccer ball
how to shoot a basketball
how to draw a smily face and color it
how to write bubble letters
how to draw a star or heart
how to play a card game
how to sew
how to write your name hah
how to curl your hair or straighten it
how to do a math problem
um..
hope i helped and good luck
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Q: ok so i like have dark hair on my arms, and it really pisses me off and like makes me hate my body is there anything i can do about them?and im not hsaving my arms by the way
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You could color it..ask maybe your doctor? or your hair stylist?
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Q: Oh. My. God.
I just saw my (old) best friend yesterday after like a year, and I never would have thought he'd end up so good-looking.
Yes, you can say I'm falling for him...what do you do when you've fallen for your best friend?
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falling for your best friend can be either the best or worst thing because if he likes you then thats great because your already best friends and you can just take your relation to the next step and you already know everything about eachother and probably have met eachothers parents so thats awesome if he feels the same way.
But also (not to put you down) sometimes when people break up they stopp talking so that could happen, but it just depends.
I'd talk to him drop little hints and see what he does.
Good Luck, Hope I Helped!
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Q: i havent hit puburty yet can it hurt me if i still wack off thanks
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Q: My friend and I went to the movies the other day and the whole movie she was making out with her boyfriend.
I found this weird because no one in my grade really does this. But I kept seeing her like rub his private parts over his pants.. and I know this sounds weird but I could hear him like moaning.
But question is, is this normal? Is this just like giving a hand job?
I know this question seems stupid, I'm just really uneducated.
Thanks in advance.
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well if your like an 8th grader or older then thats totally normal..even 7th grade is kinda okay. but if your younger than that, that just amazes me that 6th graders are making out and giving dry handjobs. ha
but yeah i know some people who do that..or worse and i'm only a freshmen in h.s
but if it bothered you, i'd tell her to try and keep the making out on the down low a little more ha
hope i helped
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Q: Where can I get a good, cheap laptop?
LINKS ARE GREATLY APPRECIATED.
Thanks
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Ebay is usually pretty good, but sometimes its a little risky, Dell has really good labtops and you can probably find a cupon or discount online. Um...
thats really all I can think of
..i probably wasn't that much help but I hope I helped a little?
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Q: I have no idea what to do for my 16th birthday.. any ideas?
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Well I'm going to guess your female because most guys don't care about their 16th birthday and if your a guy then i'm sorry lol
But there are a ton of things you could..I'm not sure how many people you want to invite or when your birthday is either so here's just a whole bunch of ideas for any season or any amount of people.
Pool Party/ BBQ
Ice Skating
Rent out a hotel ballroom or a large room and decorate it
Ask your parents to rent you 2-3 rooms in a hotel and invite 5 or 6 BFFS to hang out with you at the hotel
Bowling
Chucky Cheese! haha
a nice party are your house with just fun games
go out to dinner and then a concert if a band you like is in town
um...i can't really think of anything else hah
good luck, hope i helped, and happy 16th!
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Q: Im 15/f and havent done anything sexually. i was wondering if i should be shaving? I have and it hurts really bad and leaves red bumps. Any suggestions? I dont know what guys are into. Should I even be shaving or does it matter? THANKS!
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I'd leave it because why shave when no one sees it? hah
but for like summer you could shave, or you could even just talk sisccors and just trip your hair so it doesn't show through your swim suit.
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Q: when a guy is kinda always asking you who you like and then you ask him back and he says " i like three people" and only names two of them, and won't tell me the third. does that mean he likes you or does he just want to know who you like.
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awww, sounds to me like you are this guys lil crush. because he's told you 2 so why not tell you the third unless its you!
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Q: ok you know the movie 13 going on 30? ya well theres a song in it called "Love is a Battlefeild" and who sings that?
thx!
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Pat Benatar
Greattt song..a neccesity for everyone ipod! =]
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Q: My hair is very damaged. I wash, dry, and straighten (with a CHI iron) my hair daily. I've dyed it numerous times professionally, but she didn't dye it right.
When she redyed it to touch it up, she didn't just put color on the roots then on the rest of the hair 15-20 minutes later. She put it all on at once.
I haven't dyed my hair since July and you can see where the damaged hair stops and the healthy hair starts. I know the only way to completely repair damaged hair is to cut it off but I'm looking for a product that will temporarily "fix" my hair and give it a healthy appearance.
Thanks=)
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Well protein helps hair grow faster, stronger, and healiter. Also try washing your hair in some eggs. hah i know stupid but it'll help. And the best thing that I know of to be is just let your hair be, try not to blow dry it, straighten, curl, dye, anything. Just let your hair fix itself over time.
Good Luck, Hope I Helped
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Q: i have been getting my period like every 2 weeks,
its been 6 months, shudnt i be used to it by now?
its really obnoxious.
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Sadly nope. Your period doens't regulate for about 2-3 years. Its almost been a year and a half for me and I mine usually comes within a few days of when I think but then sometimes it come totally unexpected.
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Q: Well to start off I absolutely love milk! White or chocolate, I still love it. I drink it every day, getting my recommended, 3 glasses a day (and at a lot of times even more). I've been drinking it since I was 2, since before that I was lactose-intolerant before, but now I have no problem with it..
Until a few days ago I drank milk one morning. Not thinking much of it, I started getting really bad stomachaches just a couple of hours later. They were so awfully bad I couldn't pay attention in class, I felt like I was trembling inside. Laying down in the Health Room did not help. I tried drinking water, but it just made it worse. Later on, just before lunchtime I got sick in the bathroom. A half hour later it went away.
Again, the next day (wasn't realizing the milk was causing the problem), I drank a small glass of milk, because I had to do some driving lessons, and when I get nervous I usually drink something before I leave and it helps. Later on, my stomach aches were coming back. They hurt really bad but not as bad as the day before. Then I was assuming it was the milk so I stopped drinking it for a couple days.
And just this morning I tried a little milk again, and I felt no pain at all. I was completely OK. I had no idea what happened there! Could someone help me out?
And to help this never happened before. I was assuming it was either the milk, or if I am becoming lactose-intolerant but my parents doubted what I thought was happening. And when I drank milk after a couple of days it wasn't the same milk (it was meyer brand) I had from the other day with the pains. Also, I have been drinking that same kind of brand of milk (udf 1% fat) for years (the one that gave me pains).
Any thoughts what it could be?
Sorry that this is long! Thank you so much for reading this. I appreciate your time. Thanks!
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Hm. There are many possiblites. It could be your becoming lactose-intolerant, maybe it was bad milk, maybe you ate something and just didn't realize it. But try milk maybe one more time, but just like a cup. And if your stomach start to hurt again go to the doctor and avoid milk untill you see them. Because there are many possiblites who why this is happpening.
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Q: 14/f okay there is this i have liked for SOOOOO long and no matter what he has done i have always like him and he know i like him and i have made moves twoards him but they never have worked because he just doesn't like me....and i understand that but i just don't know how to get overh im because i miserable and i hate knowing i can't have him....how do i get over him
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This helped me and I hope it helps you.
Like you I realized I couldn't have this guy. So well if I can't have him I still wanna be apart of his life and his in mine. So whats better than bf gf? Goodd friends. So basically just try and be good friends with him because a friend will be forever and always, and bf and gf..epically when your 14. err may not last all that long. So just try and become good friends with him and almost change your love feelings into friend feelings.
Hope I helped
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Q: There's this guy that I REALLY like. He's sweet, sensitive, funny, kind of shy, and really cute. But he's not like every other guy. He has different opinions on things and he isn't afraid to express his views. I'm so attracted to him...and one day I told him how I felt.
He said he didn't like me yet, and that for now him and I should be friends.
But, in a way, he returned his feelings. How will I know when he feels exactly the same way as I do?
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Well, I would assume that when he stars to feel the same way you do he'd tell you. Because since he knows you like him theres not really a reason not to tell you. So I'd just wait for him to come around. But don't pester him or ask, so do ya like me now, do ya, do ya?!
Just wait it out.
Good Luck, Hope I Helped
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Q: im fat. all i ever think about is food and eating. i cant stay out of the pantry and fridge, and i eat when im bored. i dont want to be this way. i already work out and it helps some. now i just need to control my eating. how can i not be so distracted by food? i talked to my mom and i asked her to stop buying junk but i have 6th other family members..and this is not an option. help me please.
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To start, try drinking water when you feel hungry because sometimes water and replace that feeling of hunger. And what helps me is finding like a really cute bikini and saying okay gotta wear that by Spring Break..and since i really want it I try my hardest..I know its stupid but it may help? Um..also, eating all the time isn't a bad thing really. But if you eat a hotdogg and fries everyhour tha tis bad. But if you eat a bowl of cereal and a fruit, then have a lil healty snack with in and hour or and then eat a well propotioned lunch, then another healty snack and so on that not bad. But if your eating a meal size breakfast, snack, lunch, and dinner all the time then thats not good. If I make sense?
But basically just try to drink water more often when you feel hungry. Inbetween meals have a little healty snake so you don't over eat on your next meal. Try doing yoga or something its great for bulding muscle and getting rid of fat. Try going a club or finding a hobby to do to keep yourself un-bored.
Hope I Helped and Goood Luck
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Q: WARNING: THIS IS GOING TO BE LONG BUT I SERIOUSLY NEED ADVICE ON THIS. PLEASE DONT LEAVE BECAUSE ITS TOO LONG. YOU MIGHT BE ABLE TO MAKE IT ALL BETTER FOR ME. PLEASE READ.
ok. so me and my mom fight non-stop. screaming yelling crying. the usual. its weird because we used to be really close and would always go shopping and crap and i would tell her everything yatta yatta. well i really want to be her "friend" er w/e. i mean not like besties but id like to at least have a positive relationship. seriously. usually, like as of right now, i hate her guts. with a strong passion. she ruins my life.
does anyone know anything i can say to her that lets her know i need her? this sound really cheesey i know. but its like ruining my life not to have a positive relationship. i mean. i get grounded for the f-ing retaredest things (if thats even a word..) and because of her i wont be able to spend this coming weekend with my boyfirend. (its our anniversary) and im superrr pissed.
anything.. please. this is serious. i hate my life. and its all because of her. i honestly wish my parents would divorce just so i wouldnt see her as much. but the only thing is she says that if my parents were to divorce (for the like 3rd time) she wouldnt let me live with my dad. yeah right. i would refuse to live with my mom.
ughhhh. please help..
oh and by the way;
if it makes a difference, she has cronic depression and doesnt always take her medications (which pisses me off). so shes always bitchy. my dad agrees with me that sometimes she goes over the top.
I KNOW THIS WAS LONG BUT PLEASE HELP!
xoxo
14/f
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Well...
Just try going to her for little problems like mom I need help with this math problem or something. Or say this friends being really mean what should I do? Asking your mom for help with little stuff will show her you need her. And maybe is she see's your willing to set your differences aside maybe she can too and you can become better mother and daughter. Also ask her if maybe on night..doesn't have to be on the weekend...but just one night a week to go out eat dinner together and see a movie or go shopping together. Because that's what bff's do right? Just go shopping and hang out, and usually just being with someone spending time with them allows you to become better friends.
But then for the your hating her guts part. Try your hardest to set that aside and just almost act like you don't becaue maybe since she knows you mad at her that makes her mad. So she wants to get back at you for being mad at her. Which is why she's not letting you hang with your bf.
But just give the whole thing time. I if you realllly want to be friends with your mom it'll work out.
Good Luck and I hoped I helped
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Q: So me and this guy have been going out for 3 months now, and we're 16. So when we're talking online, he tells me all these sweet things like how pretty i am, and how much he misses me, and stuff like that. But when we're in person, he doesnt talk about that kind of stuff. Ive asked him about it (on AIM), and he says hes just so shy. I dont know what to do to make him less shy, so he can talk about that type of thing in person. Any advice? Thanks.
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Well, one problem may be that hes like a really sweet guy deep down inside but when at school he wants to be "macho" so he may think telling you your beautiful and all the good stuff may make him look stupid and not a manly man. hah i know sounds stupid buy may be?
Also, maybe he really truley is shy and shyness is a hard thing to "get rid of" but at least he's telling you how pretty you are and he missed you in your relationship, some guys don't say that at all. Or also maybe he has a hard time saying things to your face (not trying to sound harsh or something.) But i know for me when I talk to a guy I can get my emotions out easier online because I can't see him or his reactions but who knows. I know you've talked to you bf but maybe try talking to him again.
Sorry I know I just kinda rambled but I hope I helped a little or something?
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Q: im the person who asked about the english class. this is a completely different question, but its more serious than the other.
well..today was the first day back to school. my math class on the schedule is algebra 3. when i went to algebra 3 today, i showed my teacher my transcript because thats what we have to do. she saw my previous algebra grades and they were 97's. she asked me why i wasnt in Honors Analysis instead (which is a more advanced class than algebra 3), and i said its cuz i wanted to be in algebra 3. well, she somehow got someone to call my mom to arrange a schedule change from algebra 3 to honors analysis. my mom agreed.
so when i got home from school, my mom told me and i started crying. its because last semester i took an AP class and i was completely overstressed to the point of depression, and i wanted to take a lighter load of classes this semester.
my mom wont change her mind. i dont know what to do..im very upset and emotional because i dont want to go through another long, very difficult semester.
please help. :[
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Well if you mom won't listen to you try a differnt approach, talk to you guidance councler. Their there to help you, so in a day or so arrange a meeting with her and tell her/him that you math teacher called you mother and they agreed to move you to a class you realllly didn't want to be in. I'm not sure how your school works but for mine usually we cannot leave a class unless we're failing. But I'm sure if you talk to your guidance councler talk to him/her and stress to them how much you don't wanna be in this class I'm sure the problem can be fixed. I hope I helped and you get out that class.
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Heyy!! I've been kinda bored latly and plus I love to help people and give then advice. And I've been told I'm good at that so I decided to make and advice column. So if ya need help with anything ask away and I will do my best to help you!
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Website: Gender: Female Location: St.Louis Age: 14 Member Since: July 31, 2005 Answers: 293 Last Update: January 23, 2008 Visitors: 14176
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