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Hey...I'm not very good at making friends, any Ideas? (link)
Making friends isn't always easy. All i can say is be yourself and dont be shy go up to people and just start talking to them. But dont act shy around them because they may not want to hang with you just be ur self! hope i helped you! good luck!



Some times I feel like my parents don't love me. My sibling always make fun of me. My family always says they wish I'd run away. I have tried to kill myself before. but my mom and my friend came into my room so I had to come out of the closet. I don't know if they noticed but I had a thin red line across my neck. I don't wanna die but sometimes I feel it's the only way to get my family to love me. please help! (link)
You should tell your family how you are feeling. Im sure they love you so much but Death IS NOT THE ANSWER!! All you need to do is sit down and talk with them and tell them how upset this makes you. If they dont listen or ur to scared to talk to them talk to a friend and there mom maybe even have there parents talk to your parents if they dont listen to you.. HOpe i helped you . Good luck.!



Hey ..my cousin is about to have a baby in a month she hasnt picked out the name yet and she cant think of any names so i thought maybe some ppl could give me some good ideas for a name..
plz..i would rly appreciate it (link)
Boys-
Mike
Anthony
Sean or Shawn
Christopher
Alex
Nicolas
Daniel
Robert
Kevin
John
Brad

Girls-
Nicole
Michelle
Rebecca
Danielle
Heather
Chelsie
Ashley
Taylor



okay - i know HOW to lose weight but i have no willpower and a major sweet tooth lol ne advice on how to stop snacking?? (link)
I know it hard to lose weight.. but just try to cut back on snacks.. eat alotta fruit instead of candy | chips | cookies | icecream | etc. Drinking a lot of water or diet soda makes you full so you wont eat as much too.. Good luck hope that helps



Okk I have really small boobs, and i just wanna know what kinda things to wear to distract people **guys** from that.. i mean im comfortable in my body but all my friends have like Huge boobs..soo what do i do?? help!! i rate high!! (link)
Dont wear really tight shirts or low cut. IF you want you can wear a padded bra if you want. Try to stay away from strips + black cuz you know black makes you look smaller.. hope i helped + good luck !


okay well im not bi but like i've thought bout it n like.. i look at my friends as if i like them n u know wanna make out with them.. does that make me bi? I rate high please help?
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No that doesn't mean your bi. I mean you could be by but usually when ur bi u KNOW u like both GIRLS and guys u have feelings for them and it seems liek you dont in this case. and its okay to think about making out with girls .. alotta gurls that i know do that to think about making out with them.. Dont worry from wut it seems ur not bi. Hope i helped!!


I have this habit of always goin out and its so hard to stay home becasue my sister..well i tried to talk to her and i tried to be soooo nice and injoring her nuthing is working ...and i wanna bbe home alot but i just cant stand her at all..all she does is yell at me an i cant take it ...should i try again or should i just keep wat i do....or if you have anyother ideas..plaease help

signed
Confused (link)
Just tell your sister how you feel. Tell her you not like how shes always yelling at you and how u wanna stay home but u can't stand her constinatly yelling at you. if that doesn't work just try to keep ur space from her like stay in your room. Hope that helps !


i started my period a few months ago...and my mom gave me pads....i want tampons soo i can go swimming etc....soo i decided to ask her...i cant get the guts up to ask her...how should i ask her? (link)
Just tell your mom that you would rather have tampons so you can go swimming! i'm sure she would understand cuz she goes threw the same thing or ask her when shes in a good mood.


I have this friend and i love her sooo much but shes really attached 2 me...i dont wait to go up to her and tell her but i still wanan b r friend but i just dont want her everywhere i go...what should i do? (link)
Just tell her straight out that shes too attached to you


Should I dust my room when I can see cobwebs all over...well..everything? (link)
Yes! you dont want spiders crawling over you or anything else in your room!


HeLp! im thinking about buying NEUTROGENA BLACKHEAD ELIMINATING SCRUB...it says it eliminates blackheads...but i got clean 'n' clear blackhead clearing scrub, and that said it did that also, but it didnt! so, im asking...does the Neutrogena blackhead scrub ACTUALLY get *RID* of blackheads?? i need to know soon because im about to go shopping! thx! (link)
I used to use Clean and clear but that didn't work for me so i switch to Neutrogena ! It works really good for me !! So maybe you should try neutrogena and iff it works for you


im 14 and went out w| this guy during the school year and i still cant get over him. even when i liked other guys and went out w| them, and just recently i thouight i was over him but every time i see him i like him again,and since hes like my best friend i see him alomost everyday, do you have any advice to help me get over him? (link)
All i can say is just keep trying to get over him. It does take alot of time to get over sum1 you really like. Maybe you shouldn't see/ talk to him as much as you do because that doesn't seem like that helps. If that doesn't work tell him how you feel. Maybe he still has feelings for you too. hope i helped you! and good luck!


what would be a good healthy lunch for me to eat while i'm at home?? i'm trying to lose some weight and keep healthy. thanks so much!! (link)
A good lunch would prob. be a salad. But you'd get sick of it . YOu can by fat free coldcuts or buy Smart Ones. They have all different kinds of food .. you may not like all of them but there should be some that you like. You just pop them in a microwave. haha .. Good luck hope i helped!


I always clean my face! :(:(:(:( (link)
Dont worry just use good products. And clean ur face believe me its a stage that mostly ALL girls go threw! IT will eventually go away. But wut really helped my acne was the Neutrogena Cloths and the Oil- free acne wash ! SORRY But Dont worry!


my friend is cuttin her wrist and stuff wat should i do to help her? (link)
My friend did the same thing. You really can't go anything about it. Just talk to them about what is bother them and tell them to STOP cutting them self!! If that doesn't help then you should talk to there parents so they can get them some help because cutting is very dangerous!!! They just need help .. i hope that helps you with you friend!


i'm going to be a freshman, and just got my braces off, and my teeth are kinda yellow. i heard that some of the teeth-whitening products don't really work & are too expensive. what should i do?! i can't go to highschool looking like this! please help! (link)
Wellm the teeth whitening products take some time and they are expensive. Just brusth your teeth at least 2 or 3 times a day. Also, maybe get the toothpaste that helps whiten your teeth. dont worry though a lot of people have that problem! HOPE I HELPED!


Okay, I have only had my period twice now, well 2 weeks of it. I don`t think that made since, but ok. I`m only use pad because i`m scared to use a tampon. Do they hurt? How does it feel when you stick it in. lol sorry that sounded sooo wrong. =/ (link)
Using a tampon may hurt the first couple of times you use it. Don't be scared to use a tampon you just have to get used to it once u get used to using one it doesn't hurt anymore. Hope that helped!


i always get acne everyday! in the morning, i wake up and theres another one! i've tried everything! i tried this benzclin (not sure how its spelled) which was prescribed by the doctor, i've tried proactiv, shiseido, clean & clear, neutrogena, clique, mary kay, and even toothpaste! nothing seemed to work. i feel so embarased to go out. i cant do anything. i feel like crying everyday and i have zero self confidence. please help me. i want my acne out now:( (link)
i know how u feel!! i went threw the same thing ! your just at the age where alotta gurls get acne .. Just clean ur face once or twice a day .. The product i use is neutrogena it really worked for me but just clean ur face everyday . Hope that helps!


hey i'm 13 years old and i've been w| my boyfriend for 2 years now and hes telling me tat he wants to have sex with me but idk if i should .. wut should i do please help me thanks
- ally (link)
You shouldn't have sex at 13!! Thats wayy to young !! If you dont want to , just tell him no. If he really likes you he should respect you.


is it true that you can use a tampns during ur period and still swim??!?!?! (link)
Yes it is true that you can use a tampon when you go swimming.




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