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hey! I'm mallory and id be glad to help anyone out with questions or problems. ask me anything! i love giving adivice! you can also instant message me if im not on the site at the time and you need help urgently. I'm online like all the time though. i love to dance, act, and sing. Check out my column and have fun!

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hi i have a slight problem.. i cant stop sleeping with guys 15 years older than me. My last boyfriend had 3 kids with me. How can i stop sleeping with all these guys? what should i do?

Please help me... I need help..
MOLARRY CURLLLY

go out with guys who arent going to pressure or want to have sex with you. talk about sex at the beginning of your relationship that way its clear that you're not planning to do it. also, set yourselves a limit to how far you'll go. for example you may want to say the most you can do with me is feel me and thats it. it looks like your going for the bad guys. try to stay away from those perverted ones who say they love you just so they can have sex with you. most importantly, go out with a guy who wears condoms!!!!!! with condoms, ur protected so you can still have sex and most likely wont get pregenant. it sounds like sex is almost an addiction for you. i would also recommend seeing a thereapist.

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I starting going out with this one guy from my school at a ski lodge. He called me at midnight and kept saying how much he loved me, and he only knew me for 12 hours? I dumped him the next morning becuase i found out he was going out with TWO other girls that i didn't know about, at the same time We were going out. he also told those two girls that he "never went out with me" and "NEVER would" I completly freaked out on him at lunch and even slapped him. He denyed everythingg! I also heard of all these gurls he apparently screwed. What can i say tomorrow to him at lunch to make him spit out the truth??
x3333

if he ever called you on your cell phone and left a message, play back the message to him. if not, then if there were other people around when you guys started going out and witnessed it, then have them tell him that they saw it and heard it so theres nothing he can do about it. this is a tough one, hope i could help! good luck!

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ok on aol I am trying to get a funny but cute screen name or just funny I am a girl and I am really tired of the one I have cookiemonster thx

ruberduckiebabiix0

iceskatecutie x3 (in case your wondering what the x3 means it makes a heart)

elmoprincess x3

WaTeRbAbIi x3

elmosiceskatingcutie4eva

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What are some cool stuff to do on the weekends? me and my friends need more cool things to do.
thanks in advance.

mall, movies, sleepovers, go out to dinner, go out to lunch, throw a party, bowling, skiing, snowboarding, ice skating, snow mobiling, getting manicures and pedicures, there's tons of things you can do! that's all i can think of for now

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I am starting a business selling ribbon belts. I'm about to start making a website, but I can't think of a name for the business. Does anyone have any ideas?

here are some ideas:

Ribomatic belts

crazy for belts

beltbabe

(the initials of your first and last name and then a b for belts) for example, if my first name was mary and my last name was green, then it would look like m.g.b.

beltatious

bottylicious belts

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Ok, heres whats going on, I have A computer and everytime I hook my screen up to it it says "Please check signal cable" and I move the cable around and it still doenst seem to work, it was working the last time I hooked it up but its not working now, so does anyone know what the problem is or what I could do to get it to work? I'll rate HIGH for anyone who can help me out with this, Thanks!

make sure its plugged in tight enough

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This bitch lets call her Allie stole my crush from me. Then my friend Carley told her I liked him and Allie called me a slut to my face and now all my friends are turning on me. You don't know how bad I want this boy, and want my friends back. I mean I liked him first and this girl is younger then him. I'm so confused, what should I do?

first of all, always remember that friends are more important than boyfriends and crushes. boyfriends and crushes are nice to have but friends are always there for you. your friends are probably mad because you probably are acting jealous of Allie. Allie probably didnt truely mean to call you a slut, she was probably just mad that you like her boyfriend. i know sorrys are hard to do, but you'll realize how much better things will get in the end. even if you never really did anything mean or to harm anyone just say sorry for the heck of it, cuz sometimes people misunderstand things or take things the wrong way. first, tell Allie that you're sorry about the way you acted about her going out with your crush and that even though you like him, you don't mind (say you don't mind even if you do cuz that way your acting polite) if she goes out with him. next, apoligize to your friends. do this soon before its too late and they're all mad at you. say that your sorry that you acted jealous of Allie and tell them that you already apoligized to her. then say that friends are one of the most important things to you and that you dont want to loose them for anything.

hope that i could help and that everything goes well!

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Well...my sister told me about this one younger kid who she thought was so adorable. He's a little chunky but I dont care cause when I seen him I thought he was so cute!!lol He went past me and just looked at me! Thats It
! I cant expect him to do or say anything but i dont know...how do i get him to notice me without going around the skool looking like a whore...please help

have your sister get his screen name and talk to him online. when shes talking to him online have her say well i got to go, but ill give you my sisters screen name if you wanna talk to her, i think you two would make a cute couple. then start talking to him and become friends. if when your sister says i think u two would make a cute couple and he agrees or says your hot or even a maybe or an i dont know, those are good signs! if he says any of those things, then when you become friends, if he hasnt already done so, ask him out. you may not think this because they definetly dont show it, but guys a lot of times are just as scared as girls are when they want to ask someone out. so sometimes you have to be the one to do it. hope i could help!

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Well, I was on the way to school, and my girlfriend came up to me and said she likes another guy. So she is deciding whether to go out with me or the other guy. should I even still go out with her? should I like her anymore?

you should brake up with her. even if she stays with you and still likes the other guy you should be the only one she likes and she shouldnt have to decide between you and another guy.

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14/f...theres a girl in one of my classes and she'll sit there the whole class period and talk about me loud enuff for me to hear..so she obviously wants me to. Shes so mean and i've told her to stop and shes just like "I'll do what i want" and the thing is...she seems like a nice person but for NO REASON she hates me..when i asked her y she hates me so much shes like "the question is why wouldn't i" so she doesn't have a reason..theres this one guy thats her friend and always sticks up for me whenever she talks about me and its really nice and i think it'll eventually stop bc he always tells her too and she'll get bored saying everything when he just tells her to stop talking about me. but the stuff she says is mean and sometimes she IMs me outta no where to say how weird i am or i have no friends (which is not true) any advice on thing is can say bak to her when shes talking about me?? I RATE 5'S SORRY SO LONG!!

okay i had the same exact problem with this girl last year! you have to try to avoid and ignore her. she's trying to get to your nerves and you can't let her. she wants to see you feel bad and get annoyed. i did this last year and it eventually stopped. also, what helped me was all of my friends were nice enough to stick up for me and they all went up to her saying how much of a bitch she was and that she has no reason to hate me. you should try to get your friends to do the same thing. also, in class when shes talking about you really loud go up to her and the people shes talking with and be like i dont care if you talk about me so stop talking so loudly like you want me to hear because you kno what i could care less what you think of me because i know that at least im not the one who has no friends. it will be you who has no friends if you keep bitching at me, so go on hate me, because you know wut this doesnt mean anything to me.

hope i could help!

-mallory

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Hi I'm an A level drama student thinking about going on to drama/dance scool in london and I've not done any auditions before has anyone got any tips to help with nerves and confidance?
Many thx Joolz,(i rate high)

to practice auditioning, if you take drama classes (if you don't then have a friend do this) have the teacher give you a pretend audition with a couple other people. have her have you memorize a short script and then perform it. then have her rate you 1-10 on your performance. im assuming you've done shows before so most likely how nervous you are and the confidence you have when you perform in the shows will be similar to how nervous and confident you are when you audition. when you get up at the actual audition just tell yourself and remember that your an awesome actress and that you'll do great! im sure you are an awesome actress and that you will do great! i actually love to act and dance too! could you tell me the name of the school you're going to? hope i could help!

-mallory xoxo

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i dont know how to dance. can someone pleas tell me some moves on just how to dance, like a dance for a school dance. please dont delete

well at our dances no one actually like starts doing spins and kicks and stuff on the dance floor. we just like grind and have a good time. sry but you cant exactly teach dance moves in writing or anything.

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(sorry for the length) Ok my boy friend and I have been together for roughly seven months. A week before we started going out we would stay up till like 4 or 5 in the morning talking with each other. Now he seems to be more interested in a comnputer game than in me. When we're both online at the same time he doesn't seem to want to talk to me much. Well a few months back his friend sent me this conversation they had about me and it really hurt me because my bf said some very hurtful things about me. I asked him aobut it and he had stayed home sick the day that conversation occured and was on a lot of medicne and he blamed it on that. After I read that conversation I thought my heart broke. I want to tell him that I love him and I want to know if he feels the same way about me, but I'm kinda afraid of what his response would be. What should I do?

if he truely loved you then he wouldn't say those things about you to his friend and he would want to talk to you online instead of playing games and not wanting to talk to you. he might be using you. even if you did talk to him about this i dont think it would help because he'd probably just lie. im not saying that you should definetly do this or anything but you may want to consider breaking up. it sounds like you want to keep holding on but if he keeps not treating you right then you gotta let go. remember the old saying, there are plenty other fish in the sea! one day you'll find the perfect one and he'll treat you better. hope i could help!

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I am dating a guy.. and hes going to a private school next year... and we really love eachother.. but the private school hes going to isolates him.. right now were not even at the same school.. hes in one highschool in our town and im in the other.. and were fine.. but next year im not even going to be able talk to him at all.. because he even has school on Saturdays.. :-/ I dont want to lose him..we have been best friends for 3 years and we have dated on and off in the past and were dating now... im afraid hes going to get over me and move on.. and i don't want him too.. i really love him alot.. and he loves me too.. but theres no way we can be together next year.. should I just get over him now and move on starting now.. or what?


sorry its so long :-/ any advice would be well appreciated.... I'll rate :)

no, you shouldnt brake up! you can make sure to try go out with him somewhere every weekend to keep in touch. even if its a half hour trip to the ice cream shop you can still have quality time together. also talk on the phone a lot and if you have aim thats good too. by being in separate schools, your relationship is going to get stronger and nothing, not even separate schools, should be the reason to brake you two apart. you can also do special things for him like drop by after school when hes not there and put a love note in his locker. good luck to the both of you and i hope i could help!

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I was wondering if anyone knew any websites that sell clothes that ship quickly. I have a dance coming up this week and I wanted to get something knew but I don't think I'll be able to get to the store soon. Any help will be apperciated. I'll rate. Thank you!

www.bebe.com they have great clothes for occasions like dances!

www.abercrombie.com

www.hollisterco.com

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I've been really pressured with school lately and stuff. I really can't take it anymore. Plus a lot of things with my personal life thats starting to get a little crazy and out of control latelty...but yeah. I have like crud-load of homework now and stuff and I only have 10 days ubtil science fair is due, and me and my partner havent even started it yet. It doesnt seem like shes really into it or w/e. Like we say we have to start it soon but we never do because we never get a chance to get together and junk...so please can you guys give me ideas for science fair projects. Easy ones are fine because I really dont care if I win first prize or not by tyhe judges...I just wanna pass science. =/

Please..thank you sooo much

Last year i did "what kind of wrapping keeps sliced apples from browning the longest?" it was pretty easy. for millions of other project ideas go to www.google.com and type in science fair project ideas and they'll give you many websites you can visit for more ideas. previous years i also did "which brand of popcorn pops the most kernels?" and "which type of flower lives the longest?" In science class we just finished a lab you could do which was "Will salt have an effect on sliced cucumbers?" hope i could help! i can probably think of many more ideas for you to do so if you'd like to know some more just ask me by writing in my inbox.

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hey, Sometimes i dont eat for up to two days to try to look better. When i dont eat , it makes me look much skinnier, but i feel really weak. Is it safe to be doing this. Its not like im throwing up every thing i eat or anything. What should i do??

its not safe! your entering the early stages of anorexia. sure you think its only 2 days now but the amount of time is going to keep growing until you become seriously ill. please listen to my advice! act now before anything serious happens! go to a doctor right away, even right this moment if you can! i bet you're really skinny and don't need to loose any more weight. to be honest, anorexic girls are kind of grose looking the way you're so skinny so you dont want to look like that either! so please go to a doctor right away and all 3 meals during the day, breakfast, lunch, and dinner. Each is extrememly important and you'll feel better by doing this by gaining more energy. i hope i could help! get well soon!

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can u get a virus from going into an aol chat room? or talking to someone that is in it? thanks alot

if its a private chatroom (a chatroom where only the people you invite can get in) then no. if you're going into a public chatroom (a chatroom where no one sent you an invitation or you didnt send anyone an invitation to go in) than yes.

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My friend and I are starting a band, and are trying to get a record deal. The probem is she wants to be a singer. But she's really bad and I'm great{that's what everyone tells me}. And I write all the songs! How should I tell her I'm the lead singer and that I need her to play an instrument instead?

here's a way to do it without hurting her feelings. get an audience of 3-5 people and have each of you sing for them. then have the audience vote honestly on who has a better voice. the person with the most votes gets to be the lead singer. since you have the better voice, you should get more votes so you would win.

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okay well i moved to Arizona a month ago, and I was 130 pounds when i moved here, I got depressed and sick and I lost enough weight to get down to 115 in just 3 months...just a week ago I was 113, and now im 105..I eat like a PIG and i dont excersize at ALL...is there something wrong with me? Is this normal??

I rate 5's

i think you should see a doctor. i bet nothing's wrong with you, but just go to see what he/she has to say. you should especially see one if you're still depressed and sick now.

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