18/F I had a friend agree to come to my house and give me a voice lesson. I offered to pay her and she said she'd be over. She didn't show up on time nor did she call me back after I left her a message. I'll admit, she's not a very reliable person, but how do I let her know I'm not okay with this. Usually when a friend backs out of plans with me, I'll say : "it's okay, no worries..." because it truthfully doesn't bother me that much, but it doesn't mean I want people to treat me like this. So basically, how should I respond when someone doesn't make me a priority?
without yelling or acting angry, say it hurt your feelings that they did that, and tell them you wouldn't do that to them. maybe they didnt know how you felt. they probably did, but you telling them your upset will make them see what they did wrong and they will treat you better next time hopefully. if they continue to treat you like a last priority, then move on. who needs a friend like that?
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I have just been recently using the Sims 2 again. And I used to download stuff from a zip file, but now when I download the zip file, it disappears from my downloads and doesn't appear on my desktop (I have a mac and I tried it on several other sites) but when I search under the magnifying glass to see if it finds the item name I get "there is no default application specified to open the document" (name of package) it just doesn't show up on my desktop and it's like it doesnt even download.
Help please!! Thanks
i could be wrong, but i dont think sims 2 is compatible with the mac. on my mac it just shows up as a bunch of weird symbols on a blank document
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okay weird question but how come sometimes when u sit in a chair it makes your but itch really bad? Please answer
um...i have never had that problem...you should probably check to see if you have some kind of rash or are allergic to fabrics
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Ok so heres tha thing... Im 18 and Im engaged to a 32 year old. Yes I do love him. But at the same time I have feeling for one of my best freinds. I have been around allen(my best friend) longer and I at one point thought I loved him... But he has a baby on tha way. And all the baby momma drama is driving me crazy. She stalks me and everything. He is always going to have her in his life and he drinks a lot. Hes a great friend but when i told him I loved him tha first time he told me that he was always going to be a cheater. so I got it. I said fuck it and we were just friends until the other day he told me that he has fallin in love with me and we wants me. and now im stuck in this situation. I dont kno what to do. :( I dont know how to let him down easy. I dont even know if I want to. Im just so damn lost..
the man Im marrying is in jail right now. but I love him. we have plans. we are going to move back to Florida.. and Im going back to college down there. and he loves me.
allen well he lives with his mom and dad hes 23 and he just got a DUI and he works at a factory. hes more than likely gonna be living here all his life. Not what I want to do
ugh I need advice :(
truthfully?? i would dump them both. your fiance is 32 and you are 18, why are you getting married when you are going to college soon? but if you really do love them, i say pick the person you're engaged too. cant you see your friend is a cheater??
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So here's my problem:
On the side I like to do photography. Recently it's become more of a job than a hobby. I'm trying to come up with something catchy to go on my buisness card.
I have a few cards, but the main one that I need help on is for senior portrates. I want to think of something catchy but I'm not good with that sort of thing.
Anything will be helpful.
Also I'm trying to make ones for weddings. Currently I mostly just do photoshoots for local bands, which is great, but I'm just trying to expand a little.
The wedding card is hard too because I can't write something like pleanty of expirencel, since I've only done three weddings, I'm just stuck, looking for some ideas to bounce off of.
Thank you to anyone that has anything at all!
for the wedding one just put a good price on, a small print of your best picture, and say something about how they will treasure the pictures forever. and the senior one, just say you can make them look young. really, a good price and a good picture on the card is all you need. if you cant get a picture on, just make the card look presentable and nice, maybe some writing in gold. hope i helped
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How do I get an icon on to my AIM?? I dont know how to do it and it wont let me download it.THANK YOU!!
You go to system preferences>aim expressions or expressions>and change it. the easier way is to click on the icon you would like to use and select the link underneath the icon or on the page. hope i helped
edit>your welcome, i guess
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okay im fourteen years old and im extremly bored with my life. not all of my friends have a hobby but most do. im not a sporty girl but i would do a sport if that was my last resort. i need something to occupy my time really. everyday i get home from shcool and jsut watch tv or go on the computer for hours. its getting ridicoulus and boring. any suggestions?
If your creative: scrapbooking (online or real) try scrapblog.com, drawing, painting on the computer, writing, photography,
If your athletic: skatboarding, bike riding, running, dancing, gymnastics, team sports
If your looking for something new: cooking, answering advice (advicenators), making a website,
Anything you enjoy. Try new things and go to places like the community center to see if they have classes on unusual activities like archery or yoga.
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Are you happy?
um i would say yes but this is not an advice question so you should probably delete it before someone reports you
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14/f
So there is this new guy I like. I recently broke up with my boyfriend and I'm over him, its weird but yeah I get over things quickly. I'm weird like that but anyways. I'm just starting to like this guy and I talk to him sometimes. He rides my bus too and I sometimes talk to him then. I have a couple classes with him too. What should I do? I can't sit by him on the bus because I sit with my friends and in class he isn't near me but when I walk by him he does say something to me. Is there anything I can do to talk to this guy more or have something happen? Thanks so much!
I think you should just sit with him on the bus, or at least sit near him, and start a conversation. Make the first move, dont wait for him. You could also hang out with him outside of school with a group if you have any mutual friends, or purposely sit next to him at an assembly. Just act like you want to be friends first, dont be to flirty or obsessive. I hope i helped
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I need help with deciding on whether or not I should purchase the Spinlash mascara that they show in the commercials on TV?
I haven't really heard about it other than on TV, and I don't know anybody else who owns it but if anybody has tried it, please let me know your opinion on it. Does it rlly work the way they say it does on TV or is the commercial just a scam and a way to promote their "business"?
And don't say "I bought it but haven't tried it" or "I'm scared to try it" or "I haven't tried it"
ONLY people that have actually tried it.
And don't say you HEARD it was good. Because so did I.. on the TV. So anyone that has tried it, I would appreciate your opinion. :D
Thank you very much.
I like the mascara because it doesnt clump at all, but other than that it really is no different from regular mascara. and the spinning doesnt hurt or anything, unless someone scares you and you hit your eye i guess. hope i helped
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I am 14, and I am uncomfortable with my stomach size. At 12, I weighed 67 pounds and was 4'9, now I weigh 125 and am 5'6. My friends tell me I look fine, but I look fat when I sit down. I am not anorexic or have bulemia or anything. Am I too young to worry about it?
Your bmi is 20.2, which is on the skinnier side of normal. you have nothing to worry about. if your stomach sticks out, try crunches, and tone your thighs with running and other exercises. sometimes it looks like your fat to you sitting down but in the mirror you can see you really arent.
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okay there is this new show on mtv called "tool academy" and one of the guys was found cheating on his girfriend. the excuse he told the innocent girl was that she was just the crazy ex girkfriend who he hated. that excuse sounds believable, but the thing is, my boyfriend told me that exact thing when i found some girl commenting him on myspace calling him baby.i told him about both the show and the girl and he kept making excuses. is he cheating on me?
He could be, but there is also a chance he is telling the truth. I say if you ask him and he denies it, stop bugging him but keep on the lookout for other signs. If you accuse him wrongly to the point where he breaks up with you it could ruin your relationship. also, maybe you should tell the girl to back off. i would be careful doing this, because she will probably be defensive and nasty when you ask her whats going on.
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I have weird pimple-like things on my back. They go away and come back and get worse and better, but I cant make them disappear completely. why is this and what can i do to get rid of them?
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I'm 17 and in my last year of school.
Last year i failed most of my exams.
But this year i really hate school and cannot be bothered and even when i do try its just not changing.
I want to go to college and do sport coaching with outdoor recreation.
I am involved in alot of sport.
I play and formed one of scotlands first 16's girls rugby league team.
I have also got my grade 1 rugby coaching award. Our team are going into school and teaching younger kids in hope of the development of rugby in scotland.
i also do alot of swimming mauy thai boxing and at the summer i achieved the 3 week classic course award john muir award and rugby ones..
I now want to leave school. i've applied for college and if i get in i want to leave school and work full time until i start.
I don't have many school grade but do you think i could get by with what i'm diong out of school, i am also planning on doing alot of courses like first aid, sport with kids and disabled people aswell if i leave.
Do you think i'd be able to have a career without school grades only my afterschool activities as they are more important to me.
sorry its long
If you want to go to college, you must have a high school diploma. i would say you should try to graduate even if you dont want to or you wont end up as top of your class. in the long run, a degree helps. do you really want to have to return to high school at night when you are 30? You could have a career, but i am guessing not a very good one, as college gets you on to pro sports teams and playing on college teams can get you better coaching jobs. awards are valuable, but you need more than that.
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And i repeat DO NOT want to lose weight haha.
i jus want to lose my small belly that wont go away!!
and my love handles,
I have a treadmille
But the thing is i dont know HOW to lose my stomache and make it flat
can someone tell me how much times to eat a day
what to eat and stuff because i really dont know what to do, i dontwant to lose weight, cuz i dont need to.
Thank youuuu.
Good workouts for abs:
http://exercise.about.com/od/abs/ss/abexercises.htm
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Okay when i was 6 i was 63 poumds and i was really skinny but i still had muscles (natural) i lived in NY and i walked everywhere and i was happy. I ate candy everyday (it sounds bad i kno) but i used to jump around and all. I moved to NJ and ever since fifth grade i started to ain weight. I was a size 2 ant the end of it. People called me emo because i was always sad. I ate junk food and never moved around. Now I am 123 pounds and in 7th grade. Now i have a lot of problems now and i sleep late. What can i do to loose weight and why did i gain it?
first of all, depending on your height, 123 could very well be a normal weight. figure out your BMI (body mass index) to see in you are really over-weight.
it is very likely that the stress from the move have caused you to eat more. this is because if you dont know people and you are sad and unmotivated in this new place, it may seem like the only thing to do is eat, or you are just bored so you feel hungry when you arent.
the first step to losing weight is becoming happy and comfortable. try to make friends. making friends takes a very long time, but dont give up. figure out something you love to do and take your time up with that. it could be scrapbooking, soccer, reading, anything.
for nutrition and fitness, try realage.com and just say you are 20 because you need to be a certain age to take the test. sports are the best way to lose weight, but dont worry about weight, worry about staying in shape. if you gain more weight after exercising, that is muscle weight.
i felt like you do at the beginning of the school year when my friends ditched me and i still feel like this now sometimes, but finding things i love to do has helped and i have lost 8 of the pounds i gained. if you have any more questions about anything feel free to ask me. hope i helped
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every day i always get to school late i would always try to get there on time when i sleep i don't hear nothing i want to get to school on time but i don't know what to do
try to have your parents, sister, ect. wake you up on time for a month. also, try to always go to bed and wake up at the same time, even on weekends. i know this sounds weird, but your internal clock will learn to program itself kind of. therea are also many clocks that are unique in that they roll away so you have to get up before the stop beeping or the beeping gets continualy louder until you shut it off. the price isnt very high for either. also, you could set your phone on vibrate alarm and leave it in your pocket or something when you go to bed. maybe the movement will get you up. just an idea. also, since you have a short time to get ready because of the waking-up problem, set out your outfit in the morning and pack your bag thhe night before. another good way to save time is to buy protien or breakfast bars so breakfast can be quick but not entirely skipped. hope i helped
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so i'm looking for a certain duck
cartoon character, and it's not donald duck
or daffy duck, but a less popular duck.
i know it's a random question. but he had a
big forehead and small lips and was maybe yellow or white? but i'm not sure.
okay thanks! (:
http://www.istockphoto.com/file_thumbview_approve/3454132/2/istockphoto_3454132_sad_duck_cartoon.jpg
not sure if this is what you were looking for. try to google duck cartoon images if you have no luck with my answer or the first persons
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I loveee the clothes Selena wears. I really like this sweatshirt: http://media.photobucket.com/image/another%20cinderella%20story%20selena/SellyJewel/2.jpg?o=23
And this outfut: http://media.photobucket.com/image/another%20cinderella%20story%20selena/stacy55_bucket/Another%20Cinderella%20Story/normal_7194.jpg?o=35
I also lovee the white sneakers she is constantly wearing
i found look-a-likes from picture 2
similar gold top:
http://www.bodyc.com/BodyCentral/womens.fashion/itemdetl.html?item=3169
black belt:
http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=FOREVER21&category%5Fname=ACC&product%5Fid=1057519304&showBACK=OK
black boots and leggings here:
http://www.forever21.com/search.asp?keyword=boot
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i'm 16 years old & i've pretty much been the same bra size my whole life. in 7th grade i was a 32a and then went up to a 34a in 8th grade.. but that's it. i've tried on a 32b and even a 36a and i can't fit into them. i just feel like i'm growing out of puberty but my breasts arent. they have been the same for the past 4 years and i feel really weird about it. my family is not known for small breasts.. they range from large b's to mostly c's and d's. i dont know what is wrong with me. ive been getting my period since i was about 11 and it has always been irregular. most of the time i get it between a week or two late. i dont know if this has anything to do with it but regardless of that i just feel like my breasts should have grown into at least a size or two larger by now .. helppp?
everyone develops at their own pace. it is said that breasts are done growing by 18, but that doesnt mean everyones stop growing that early. if they dont, its not a problem. work with what you have.hope i helped
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