Question Posted Wednesday January 21 2009, 9:45 am
okay there is this new show on mtv called "tool academy" and one of the guys was found cheating on his girfriend. the excuse he told the innocent girl was that she was just the crazy ex girkfriend who he hated. that excuse sounds believable, but the thing is, my boyfriend told me that exact thing when i found some girl commenting him on myspace calling him baby.i told him about both the show and the girl and he kept making excuses. is he cheating on me?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Myrrha answered Thursday January 22 2009, 7:59 am: He could be, or might not be. If he is, and hasn't told you yet, he isn't going to tell you. The girl on myspace, if he cheated with her, she doesn't know about you. She wouldn't have called him baby on a public place like myspace if she knew about you. A way to find out is to send her a message asking if she is dating him, but don't tell her anything about yourself. You could add, that if she isn't dating him, you are interested in him. That should trigger some sort of response from her. It may be a little sneaky, but at least you will get your answer. [ Myrrha's advice column | Ask Myrrha A Question ]
scrwdlsr666 answered Wednesday January 21 2009, 3:12 pm: He could be, but there is also a chance he is telling the truth. I say if you ask him and he denies it, stop bugging him but keep on the lookout for other signs. If you accuse him wrongly to the point where he breaks up with you it could ruin your relationship. also, maybe you should tell the girl to back off. i would be careful doing this, because she will probably be defensive and nasty when you ask her whats going on. [ scrwdlsr666's advice column | Ask scrwdlsr666 A Question ]
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