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hEy! my names katie..i tell the truth and i dont lie..im very blunt and outspoken about things..if you dont like it im sorry thats just how i am..if you have a question feel free to ask..

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on my myspace .. it wont let me instant message anyone. it pulls up the screen and all, but then it keeps saying "connecting" and it has been like that for 5 minutes. it worked fine like 4 hours ago, i dont know what ahppened. does anyone know what i can do to make it work?

myspace has alotta problems like that..just give it time and it will work..things happen like that all the time..

ohk so i have liked this guy already for about a year. he says he likes me too but i dont think he does cuz one day he acts like it and the next day he dont. he keeps getting my hopes up and it hurts cuz i noe he's just messing me. he also keeps flirting with one of my best friends, and with everyone else he also tells them every single thing he says to me. so i am hurting so bad. what should i do ?

Hey!..try not to think about it..the more you think about him the worse its gonna get..if he says the same thing to you as he does other girls..u shouldnt even be wasting your time!..find someone who will treat you like u deserve..

my crush doesnt like me anymore and i loved him now that i found out im hurtin so bad. i feel like my world has ended. i wanna cheer up help! f/13

heya girl!..sorry about what happened!..try not to be so upset..i know its hard at first, but ya know you're more than likely not gonna find true love at 13..you may be sad for a while..but just go out with friends or go to movies..things like that to get your mind off of him and eventually the pain will go away...

i want to go to north carolina..wat are some other good colleges?

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Ohkay, so its a Saturday night, 6:45.. and I have absolutely nothing to do. What are some fun things that I can do all by myself? besides watch TV and go on the computer?

*call people
*go outside n find something to do
*do ur nails, hair etc.
*dont be by urself..invite a friend over!

okay..i figured out how to log in and get my own advice column. but how do i get it to show up in my profile for my friends on aim to see that i have the website? please help figure out how to put the website on my buddy info so that people can just click on it and go to the website to ask me questions.thanks a bunch!!!

make it to a url..then copy the link into your pro!

My brother died 2 weeks ago and I really don't know what to do. I lived with him because my mom died 3 years ago and my dad used to beat and rape me. He was more like a father than a brother to me and I really don't know what to do. I've been staying with my friend until I get a foster family and she is always asking me if I'm ok and I'm really not. I don't know what to do with myself. I even tried drugs and I've been drinking a lot. I just want to kill myself and I'm so scared of what's going to happen next. I love him soo much and he was pretty much all that I had and now he's gone. I haven't even cried because I just can't, does that mean that there's something wrong with me? Why can't I just cry like normal people do when something happens to them? I really think that I'm a horrible because I can't even cry for my own brother. Please help me

you're definately not horrible! some people just handle their emotions in different ways...just because youre sad doesnt mean you have to cry..it would probably help if you did tho and thats probably why u tried the drugs..cus its all bottled up inside...just try and find a way to express yourself, go to a counselor, meet new people..maybe whenever you get to your new home itll be better for you and you can start over from scratch...good luck! hope i could help

ok well, im a girl,im 15 and im a freshman, i started doing track in december and i met this guy that i really liked and it turned out that he liked me too so we started talking on the phone and then he asked me out in jan., he was really the first boyfriend i ever had, when we started going out, i didnt tell my parents because they dont really want me to date until i turn 16 because they are quite over protective, so he stated waiting for me after every class and walked me to class and he always talked to me online and told me how much he missed me when i wasnt with him or talked to him, and he told me he loved me everytime we hung up the phone or left eachother and we never really hung out outside of school or track, so one day i waited for him like i always did and he didnt meet me where we usually did and it was valentines day, i thought that maybe he just wasnt in school, so then i saw him at lunch and he didnt even look at me, so then that day at track i asked him if he was mad at me and he said no, and then didnt talk to me for the rest of the day, so then he began to avoid me everyday and didnt really talk to me that much anymore, then i found out that my best friend sue* liked him and he had gone over her house one day and they talked on the phone like all the time, so i asked him about it and he was like i still really like you im just mad at the fact that you didnt tell your parents when we started going out, and he told me that i never talked to him on the phone even though i did, then i was like are we still even like going out and for like a couple of weeks he was like idk, but i still like you, so one day i was like its a yes or no are we going out and then he said no i guess and then two weeks later he asked out my best friend Sue*..i dont kno what to think, did he ever like me in the first place, or is he just trying to cover up that fact that he still likes me, i have been trying to move on, but its hard because i dont know if it was something that i did wrong and if it is, i dont want it to happen again, can you please help me, im so confused, thanks so much

he probably only said no because he knew that you found out about him and your friend..more than likely he still likes you, but by saying that you guys dont go out made him look good cus he had ur friend and your not with him anymore..and also if he had the nerve to do that to you then u shouldnt be stuck on him! i dont know you but you deserve better than that..everyone does..hope i could help..

Okay..Theres this girl...her name is Chelsea..and shes 15 (like me). Okay..so in the begining of the year..i met Chelsea..and everything was cool. But now, shes like, been making me mad. Shes wayy wayy too clingy and stuff. I tried to hint to her that shes annoying before..but it just didnt work. Ugh. How could i tell her that i dont like her..and that shes annoying without straight out telling her that?? Thanks..i rate high for good advice!!

just tell her exactly how you feel and thats she frustrating you and you need your space..she should understand that and if she doesnt then she wasnt a real friend to begin with

i really like this girl and i dont kno if she likes me...and i dont kno if i should like anyone right now cus i want to be single for the summer time..but i really liek this gilr and if we went out into the summer time then we would hang out alot and we'd she eachother everyday..but idk..help me out

tell her how u feel & if she feels the same way..then ask her out..if not just continue being friends and dont try to rush into it or it might make it awkward since you guys are friends already

some of the girls in my school like gettin called a tease. and others dont i am so confused by this that i want to know if its a goodthing being called a tease and wat it exactly means

x0 thanx 4 da help

a tease would be like someone who makes the guys think they have to go after that girl to get her..or shes just showing herself off..its like a big game..its not really a good or bad thing..preferably not good though..its not that big of a deal

so i use pads but they suck! i want to use tampons but everytime i try one it hurts when i put it in and stuff so i stoped using them. but summers coming up and i want to use tampons..cna some one help me and tell me why it hurts? i read the directions and follow them and everything!

-unknown

well they come in different sizes..maybe the ones youre getting are too big..try another size and see if that works..if not ask your mom or a doctor or something what you can do..

i have sweating problems.. i sweat when im not even hot it just happens.. i got secret deoderant bcuz its a good brand but that didnt help.. do you think i should get a strong mens unscented deoderant? or get like prescribed deoderant? HELP! i dont want to sweat during the day anymore. thanks!!

try different deoderants..and if that doesnt work try different types of shirts..it could just be the material you wear..

ok can some one please help me here
my gf keeps getting her ass smacked by dudes and its realy getting me pissed off anyway should i beat the liveing shit out of the guys who are doing it? or just tell them to stop?

tell them to stop..and if they dont talk to ur gf and tell her how u feel about it..if she doesnt do anything to make them stop then you need to be the one to do something about it

My mom gave me a pair of earrings a while ago. I wore them all the time and I loved them. The problem is, I lost one of them somewhere in school. It was a total accident and it must have came off while I was running/playing sports. I have still have one of them, but I don't know whether to tell my mom. I have alot of other earrings and the lost earring is probably already stolen. Should I just let it go or fess up to my mom? If they were expensive, I would be in deep trouble. Also, my mom would think I was very irresponsible and wouldn't trust me with anything anymore.

Don't be afraid to tell her..if you tell her she might buy you knew ones..it wasn't exactly your fault that you lost it and she should understand that..everyone loses something every now n then..

Ok, I'm really good friends with this kid mike. And he just broke up with his girlfriend and lately he's been really flirty with me. And he asked me out the other day and I'm kind of nervous about going out with him because if it doesn't work out I'm worried about if our friendship will still last. Should I take a chance and go out with him or just tell him that we should stay really good friends?

If you're unsure about it then just be friends..and later on if you decide you would like to be more than friends see if he feels the same way and try it then..

I currently attend a small private school and am going to a huge public school for high school. I'm really shy, and worried that I won't make any friends. Does anyone have any specific tips for friend-making without being annoyingly outgoing? Thanks!

be yourself and be friendly! dont do all the fake crap and dont be shy!

Every morning i put on enough make up. However, buy 11:30 am its faded! I need 2 know how to get make up that lasts. Brands,tips,etc.
please help i rate 5s for average answers.

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Try buying eyeliner from the dollar store..surprisingly it actually works better than maybelene and mary kay and all that and it usually lasts me throughout the whole day..idk about the other things like mascara but eyeliner for sure...

ok um im gonna put this very bluntly....my mom only has only about 1 month and a half left to live and i love her and im tryin to deal wit it the best way I can may not be the best way to everyone else but even my counseler said ppl react to this shit differently and this is just how im dealin wit it....there are a few girls in my skool who keep callin me slut and shit because i had sex twice wit a guy ive been datin for 5 months and sayin how i only try to get attention when im in skool and shit and they said no one feels bad for me and my little issues at home. That fukin hurt me like hell but im not gona say anything to them or cry bout it bc i dont want to show them that what they said got to me...how do i deal with this how do i get them to understand without fukin TALKING to them (because we all kno that dont work wit junior high bitches) or without literally holdin a gun to each one of there temples and scarin the shit out of them til they respect me what the hell do i do im offically screwy now...idk what to do. plz help

well if i were you i wouldnt be worrying about what those other people thought about me..you're doing what you're doing for you not for them, and its really none of their business

my hair is strait up top and wavy down below. i hate having to straiten it or blow dry it every day. it there anyway i can get it to dry stait w/out having to blow dry it or straiten it

-bad hair everyday

you could always get a perm to have it straightened but as it grows u have to keep gettin it redone..thats kind of a pain..maybe u could do different styles with it to make it all wavey ..use gel n that sorta thing

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