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okay so im so obssed( i mean in love) with the rapper drizzy drake rogers and i get mad when i hear him with a new girl cuz the chances of us being together is out of the question my friends and family say im wierd but love is a wierd thing right? (link)
Yeah... its weird, its just like those girls that luv ronaldo

/*You see it running, but you wont catch it*\

So dont waste your time with thinking about him


what do women do when they get sexual thoughts (link)
Mastrubate


well im 14 almost 15/f and he just turned 16 for a while now ive noticed he is really sweet to me sometimes i only see him on sundays at church then we eat lunch at my grandmas and sometimes play hide and seek with my cousins well yesterday at her house he was trying to be with just me and when we were about to leave my grandmas to go to church me and him just hung out outside we sat on the swings well he kinda like carved his name into the wooden swingset then he said he was gonna carve mine too i was like no dont do mine then he wanted me to come sit on the 2 person swing with him then he wanted me to come sit in the back of the truck with him then in the car on the way to church he wanted to draw a smiley face on my hand and he held my hand for a few seconds after he finished. anyways i dont see him at school cuz we go to different schools so i dont really know how he acts around other girls i was just wondering if you thought he might like me (link)
He likes you for sure... (i do these stuff with girls when i have a crush on them)


19/F

Due to the recent Adderall shortage in the nation, I have to switch my medication to Concerta.
I took Concerta when I was 12 and it made me depressed, which is why I switched to Adderall.

Does Concerta have the same side effects as Adderall? (loss of appetite, dry mouth, headaches, etc.)
Does Concerta work just as well?
And is there anything else anyone can tell me about Concerta that I should know?

Thank you! (link)
Yeah side effects are same and a few more... and you ain't really depressed, because you ask side effects (long story to explain why this means you aren't depressed and just thinking to yourself that you are depressed)



last night I had a dream I was in a movie theater with my exboyfriend. all I saw was me and him and the lights on the wall but it was kind of dark. there was a black man in the room too, someone I don't know. and he and my ex seemed to have a lot of tension between eachother. I think the black man might have been a criminal, I'm not sure. then I remember me and the black man were outside in the hall and I gave him a dirty look because he was annoying me somehow and he grabed me by the shoulders and was yelled at me to spit in his face and was shaking me and I started to scream and cry. I got free and ran outside and then I saw an overview of a movie theater and police cars. I woke up and was scared kind of. then I went back to sleep and my dream continue. this time it was me and my ex and I asked why he didn't come out to help me. he said the black man's friends wouldn't let him but if he could have he wouldn't of let anything happen to me.

What does this all mean? (link)
Ahh its really normal when people have these dreams about their exes... I talked about this with my friends once about this, THEY ALL HAD THOSE DREAMS

Ex-GF Getting burned in lava by a miner
Ex-GF Drowning in puke water

And the other ones were more normal like yours...

Mine was weirdish too...

I held my exes hand and she kinda blowed herself away to a tree and then fell on car and died...


My boyfriend is my best friend! We've been dating for almost two months but we have been good friends for about six months. We're inseperable and have a strong trust and chemistry with each other. I've only had sex twice, and so has he, but we both feel ready to go to the next step. My boyfriend has always been very patient with me and he is so sweet. I have never felt more comfortable with anyone like I do with him. I'm not very experienced with sex and I'm a little nervous. We're planning to do this on Friday, and we will use protection. I'm just scared I won't be satisfying. I never enjoyed giving oral and I'm very sensitive, and pretty tight... So I don't know if I will please him like I want to. I am so in love with him, as he is with me, and I just want to have an enjoyable, passionate sexual experience with him without being nervous... Any advice? (link)
You dont have to be nervous for sex... just say that you want him to lead the sex so you dont have to do ANYTHING but let you get taken... (ofcource kiss him sometimes and hug etc.)


I have been dating this really sweet guy and he is my first boyfriend. I have realized i really dont have those feelings for him even though i thought i did. Either i have to end it. He has told my friends he really really likes me and i dont know how to break it off with him. I feel so bad. How can i let him down gently (link)
Send him a very nice SMS or e-mail
Or just say it in his face that you like someone else more


im 13/g and u just found IM being used. so there was this guy that was my friend and stuff. and i trusted him.so just yesterday i found out he was just acting like my friend.like, this other girl (my BFF) asked him if he just like me as a friend and he said" don't tell her this, but not at all". so know i am extremly upset. i mean i trust him with my LIFE! should i beat the carp out of him? (link)
Yeah do it girl X)


Okay I've been having problems with my boyfriend for quite sometime and there are times when we have these arguments and i tell him how i feel and stuff. He would always end up saying; "I have no reason to live anymore if you don't love or care for me." I always tell myself he is full of crap, but it bothers me sometimes. He is eighteen years old and i am seventeen. He was never like this before considering we've known each other almost all our life. Ever since this new friend he's been hanging with he's been acting like that. I've met his friend too. His friend wants to kill himself too. I've been real nice to his friend and everything. Giving him those talks that he shouldn't be thinking like that. Then when i got to know him real better. He's a big jerk. I honestly think he's a bad influence and i don't know what to do. I'm not a bitchy girlfriend. I care about my boyfriend and i think its a bad idea that he hangs out with him.. What should i do? (link)
First of all... it's not save to have that boyfriend, he is suisidal and he might kill you too when he commits suiside

But ok if u wanna keep him then just say i don't want that you hang with him anymore... and he will have some wtf-ish reaction...


ok so i still dont know what to give my bf for christmas. i know its early but i want it to be speacial. he like rock music and hes pretty muck a punk but i love him stil what should i give him??????? (link)
Tickets for a rock concert... Greenday CD (limited edition)

Hard rock condoms lol idk


So im sitting here at home trying to get one hundred and fifty pages of school work done in the next 7 days. I always wait to the last two days to do all my homework before a test. i been trying lateley to work on that to give myself more time and less stress, however im sitting here with the tv disconneted computer off, till now, and phone on silent, ill be reading my work buy my mind wonders off to chores, sex, and my wieght. I dont know what to do i want to learn how to focus because i want to do great in school. (link)
Same problem here... Try to lock yourself in a room and throw they key outta the windows... that gave me a good grade


Hey, I am a Sprint user and for as long as I have had a phone, all of sprint's sucked. On October 14th, the iPhone 4s is coming out. I had just gotten my HTC Evo 4g, I like the big screen, I like the applications, the kick stand and the amazing 8 megapixel camera. The only thing I HATE about the Evo is the battery, it lasts for so little time, if I play games, it lasts shorter. For anyone who might be reading this who has the iPhone, please let me know if the battery lasts a long time. I am going to Vienna, Austria for 11 days in March, so I would have had my Evo for 6 months by then. My dad was ready for an upgrade and I wasn't when I wanted the Evo, so I took his. By March, I would be ready for my upgrade meaning the iPhone should be able 150$ maybe. I love me Evo and I think part of the reason I want the iPhone is for me to be able to say I have it, even though the Evo is iPhone's toughest competitor, I hear that iPhone sales have even dropped because everyone has switched to HTC. But, I also just really want the iPhone so my phone won't die half way through the day when I am in Austria because I know I will be snapping pictures left and right and I don't know if my Evo battery will be able to withstand that kind of use. I also figure by the time March comes, people that want the iPhone will already have it so Sprint will have it in stock by then and I won't have to be put on back order or anything. So, I love me Evo but I feel the iPhone will better suit my needs in Austria and everything that I have read about the iPhone 4S seems incredible. What do you think I should do? If anyone has the iPhone please tell me about the battery, if you've experienced any problems with it, if it's terrible, please be honest! Anybody who has the Evo, tell me if I should keep it or if I should switch.

Thanks so much guys! (link)
iPhone is fully censored and HTC Evo rocks but you know... it doesn't have alot of functions

I'd go for a Nokia N9 but ok if u want HTC or iPhone i'd go for HTC


How can I get this photoshop effect?
http://www.aplacefortwiggs.com/2011/05/random-stories-i-need-a-break/
I love how light and airy the colors of the pictures are.

Thank you! :) (link)
Wrong awnser... you need to set expourse and gamma higher (or play with it)


18 f

i have an on-going flirtation with this one guy that i go to school with. we openly flirt and will most likley hook up within the next month. i know he thinks im attractive and all but he recently said that i was a 9, as in a 9 out of 10. i dont know whether to be flattered that he gave me such a high number or insulted that he doesnt think im a 10. any opinions on this would be great.

thanks! (link)
Guys never say a girl is a 10 (i insulted my GF a month ago by saying she was a 9 lol)
The reason that guys dont say that is because they want that you do something to become 10 (sayin stuff like:"I know how to become a 10 for you... but you need to help me with that (^.^-way for askin sex)")


I'm not entirely sure where to begin. I'm a guy and I'm bisexual. There's a good start. I knew I was, well probably forever. Just the whole facing-reality part was taking a while. I'm now sure of how I feel and who I am. My question is how do I tell my family? My Mother is semi-understanding. She works at a college with many gay people. She accepts them, but still makes remarks and doesn't like to see them touching, kissing, etc. My oldest brother is very against gays. He thinks Lesbians are "okay". He's basically a tool. :) He would probably take the longest to be okay. My middle brother, I believe, would be pretty accepting. He's usually an a-hole, but he seems the most likely to be okay. It doesn't make sense I know, but it does if you were me. As soon as I tell them, I think I would come out to my friends, and then my highschool and then my extended family. I have told a few friends and they were completely accepting and it's a great start. But my family, well idk. Could anyone give advice or maybe tell me how their coming out went? Please and thank you! (link)
I think you dont even have to tell your fam yet
You have to tell ur parents when you really like a guy and have... you know intimidate stuff (kissing - sex)
Because what if you really fall in love with some hott chickk *Hey mom and dad im bi-sexual but i have a fckin hot GF*


18/f

I shower daily and use soap down there. When I go the bathroom and I have bowel movements, I wipe very well and make sure everything is clean.

After I shower, even if I dont use the bathroom, an hour later my 'crack' will smell like feces, and so does my thong in that area. Its not like everyone can smell it around me, but Im sexually active and Im selfconscious about it. Anytime before my boyfriend and I get intimate I feel like I have to wash with soap and water back there.

Is this normal? What do I do?
Thanks! (link)
-_-...

Okay first of all you have to clean it very well with some powerfull shower mode and don't just clean the surface also inside...
You have to clean it with a washcloth afterwards and you have to dry it very good.

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Dont use soap, thats really stupid and it doesn't help the smell it makes it worser beacuse ur crack will clean it with its own water that smells like fish



how to capture a circle in mac os x ? i have a round picture and i want to capture it .but i don't know how to do it ?i found many rectangle capture ,not round .pls give me some advice ,tks (link)
Capture retangle and edit it with GIMP 2.0 or standard mac software


I'm looking to dye my hair soon but I JUST bought new shampoo and conditioner that I really need to keep using (strength & length). Is there any sort of color shield product I can use that won't conflict with my shampoo/conditioner? (I have Garnier Length & Strength.) When do I use it? (link)
The most of the color shield products are a scam... Only the ones with (too) high prices are good

(im not a girl so im not an expert :D)


Which of these cameras are better? Pros and cons?I'm planning to buy one of them sooner. I mostly like to take pictures of nature, special events, and other social events i.e. concerts & fireworks. I also like to get creative with the photo editting features, etc. So any recommendations? (link)
Nikon CoolPix S80 has better hardware
And the S1100 better software...

If you dont care about fancy software on the cam and just want good pictures go for the S80 (the lens is better and the f is lower so you dont have to use high iso (noise for light).

If you suck with Pic editing and you just want to do easy simple stuff and only show off your pictures on your TV and not on your PC get the S1100...

S80 = Better pictures (i'd go for S80)
S1100 = Fancy software in camera


My better half has decided to go on an unusual and strict diet of water and rice. He is 34 years old and around 14-15 stone but would like to be 12 stone.
He works 5 days a week at a local mini supermarket but all he does is have water until tea time when he has one bowl of rice.
It was day one yesterday and the result was he lost 3lb but had no energy during or after work and was feeling faint.
I personally don't think it is good for him health wise and it has already began to affect our communication as he is very quite and a little touchy.
Is there any better diets out there for him that involve him eating more but without putting any weight on?
After work he usually works out upstairs with weights and general stretching. (link)
Rice makes you fat... its so stupid but alright
There are much better diets...

1.The South Beach Diet

This diet was created by Miami cardiologist, Dr. Arthur Agatston, to help his patients maintain a healthy lifestyle and lose weight.

The main point of the South Beach Diet is to eliminate the types of carbohydrates and fats that can lead to weight gain. The diet distinguishes "good" carbohydrates from "bad" carbohydrates, and purports that by cutting the bad carbs out of your diet, lowering your body's levels of cholesterol and insulin, ultimately leading to weight loss.

“To maintain good nutrition and fullness, you need complex carbohydrates. Thinking all carbohydrates make you fat is a myth,” Zuckerbrot said.

The diet consists of three phases, which initially restrict certain foods and then restore them to your diet.

The general consensus from dietitians about the South Beach Diet is that it can be a good way to lose weight in a healthy way initially, but dieters may have a hard time keeping it off if they don’t stick with it.


2. The Zone Diet

The Zone diet dictates that all meals be arranged according to the following ratio: 40 percent carbohydrates, 30 percent fat and 30 percent protein.

The Zone is a regimented but balanced diet, not unlike certain dietary plans endorsed by The American Diabetes Association.

“The goal of leading a healthy lifestyle has to come from a variety of well rounded foods in a daily,” Zuckerbrot said.

One problem with the Zone Diet is it takes a lot of math, research and planning to make sure you get it right. Many dieters who undergo this plan sign on with the help of a dietitian.

Although the Zone may be cumbersome, it isn't nearly as restrictive as Atkins. So if you're the kind of person who is likely to quit a diet if you feel deprived of something, this one might be your best bet.




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