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howdy yall,im a really good listener im caring and loving but if u ask a stupid qoustion youll get a stupid answer i dont care what you think about me or anything like that but you can know that ill tell you the truth dont lie never had. im fourteen from bama baby i love the south, football, and nascar i know im a redneck but thats ok so need help on somethin ask me ~hugs and kisses~
leah
advice
Pardon me for sounding emo. I really can't stand myself. I make bad choices, I am a terrible friend, and some of the things I say--that I hardly ever mean--really hurt people. Sometimes I can't even stand to look at myself in the mirror. My family doesn't seem to like me either. I don't have many friends. The only ones I have are jerks--but I don't feel like I have a right to get mad at them. It's what I deserve. I feel so guilty, but I can't think of anything that I have done wrong... But everything I do seems to be wrong, and I am always getting punished for things that I can't help. I am a terrible person.
no your not a terible person you just need to look at youre action before you do them i no thats hard to do but if you want to change its the only way
well.. i live in helena.. it is near pelham and near alabaster!! i met this one guy.. and he ws from hoover!!
-xolilabbs214ox-
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hey i was reading all of your advice and feedbacks and it seems like yr really good at helping people so i was gonna ask you a question.. so here it goes lol.
ok im a girl (13) goin to jr. high. i like this guy (ben) whos in my language arts class. we went out for like 2 weeks in the beginning of the year and i heard rumors about him saying crap about how oh he only liked me for my looks. so i did what most (13 year olds would do and i broke up with him. then he came up to me in the hall and told me he never said that.. still mad i just walked on bye and into my 3rd period class. *i no it was a pretty bitchy thing to do but i was pissed and have had some really bad rumors going around.. making me more mad* so then later i find out that no he never said anything and so we just decieded to be friends. and it worked for a while. i found other guyz... but then for aboutthe bast 2 or 3 weeks ive kinda had a crush on him. (being such good friends were always talking and hes so nice and sweet and its kinda hard not to.) i told my best friend about it and she took it as (oh im gonna ask him out for her) although i told her not to.. she did anyway.. and he said i was a friend and he didnt want to ruin that relationship.. but its hard to just try to stay friends. and i dont no what to do..
and ontop of that like i said i had seen other guyz after i broke up with ben and his name was brock. afte we had gone out for like 4 months he had kised another girl and started to like her. AND HE TOLD ME! (god damn.. why would u tell yr gf anyway?)ofcourse all my friends knew about it and told me to break up with him.. so i did.. i mean he did like another girl.. and this girl.. was.. well my best friend.. so much for best friend.. now he tells me im the one for him cuz he cried wheen i broke up with him and he loves me so much... crap omg. band heslike ill change for you..
so when in my profiles i have single` liken someone.. brock thinks i like him.. but really i like ben.. what do i do about these to problems
i dont want brock to think i like him.. and i want ben to KNOW i like him (which he dosnt)
i no its alot.. but i need help.. thx,
-Becca
so i get what youre sayin but YOu need to tell ben write it out it in your profile YOu dont like brock but like someone elese if that dont work be a bitch tell him to leave YOu alone YOu dont like him if that dont work tell ben about him BEcuase it sounds like hes turnin into a stalker anyway tell ben. guys always protect their girl friends tell him hes reaLLY FREAKIN YOU OUT BE LIKE HE SCARES ME.
luv always
leah
my ex b/f told me that he likes me yesterday...hes a year younger then me, and a grade below me... he knows that i dont like him...he said that he liked it alot the last time we went out. we are supposed to hang out this week. he says that i shouldnt feel bad, but i do.... things wont be very bad for me, but hes a shy person and i dont know if hes gonna talk to me when we hang out...is there anything i can do or say that will help him any...???
tell him ur sry and strike up a conversation if he dont talk forget him
In school theres this kid who is always annoys me and when im around this guy I have A HUGE crush on he always say SHE LIKES YOUUU!! practicily screaming! I feel so embarassed and mad at this idiot. Before winter break let out about a week ago I told him he was a dirty bastard and to never talk to me again since then he hasnt but he keeps coming on to my friend and hes being REALLY PEVERTED and saying peverted things to her? What do I do?
tell him he needs to live her alone and if that dont work get evidence and tell ur principle
there is this kid i like but he is in rehab and he kinda perverted but he said that terapy and rehab are going to help change him and i reallyt like him and i dont know what to do. i just broke up with my boyfriend but not for this guy and now i lied to him telling him i didnt want to hurt my friend b/c she liked him and he founf out and he knows i might go out with the other kid and now he is mad and i just dont want to hurt them but i really like the kid in rehab so what should i do?? signed,
rehab boys?
my best freind went out with a gut who went into rehab so go with the one in rehab u seem to like him more
i'm in 8th grade and i liked this guy since like.. grade 5 or 6.. sumwhere there.. i was pretty stupid then.. i'd do these stupid pranks on him and i feel really shitty about it and all.. hes acts like a shithead to me and i no that thats my fault but i wanna know wut i can do about it now.. i can't seem to get over him but i want him and me to be friends again.. i cud tell him i'm sorry or w/e but he seems like a really. uh... u no.. like unforgiving kinda guy or w/e i'm totally freaking out! plz help! thx
yuo need to make an effort forgivening or not hes youre freind its worth a shot
i've been friends with the friends i'm with now for a long time.. we've always been close but now, they're all obsessed over like.. iunno being popular or w/e.. they act alot more .. iunno.. they flirt alot more and the diss ppl alot more.. and my guy friends always plan these outtings or w/e they always seem to forget about me and theres this one guy whos always the only person who remembers me.. wut shud i do? plz dunreply and diss me up.. ps. i'm a girl
listen they r aholes u dont need to be around them do this the one guy that remembers you asks him to go somwere wit ya then walk in somewere you kno they hang out show em up lol
I have this friend in the 8th grade im in 7th and shes an only child and she thinks shes soo hot but shes dont wanna be rude but really ugly....she has this crush who has a boyfriend now and she thinks he likes her but he doesnt and shes just ugly im sorry but i cant help it I need help and shes always braging about her looks and clothes and voice and stuff.
friend dinial
first of all she needs to stop acting like that but give her a break maybe shes had some bad experinces you need to be a freind not a two faced gurl
My period is really weird- it comes every 2 to 3 months, lasts for ages (around 10 days), is excruciatingly painful and has a VERY heavy flow. Is there something wrong with me? Please help,
Zoinatrobe.
everyones periode is differnt but if ur worried about it go to a docter
My best friend Nicole has been my friend since 5th grade and were in 9th grade now. We're so close and we talk about everything together. One of our good friends who was 17 yrs old just passed away on december 5th from cancerous tumers on his brain. It was so sudden. We all got so scared after that becasue in our town, theres been alot of deaths from cancer. We didn't think it would actually effect someone so young, an ready to go off to college. The worst part about it is that his mother had already lost 2 other sons before him. So she basically just lost her 3rd son.
Sadly to say, just last week, about 2 days before Xmas, my best friend Nicole was diagnosed with cancer. The doctors said that the lumps on her neck were the beginning of Mono, but they were wrong. Her tests came back, and she now has cancer. Shes gonna be at Westchester hospital for about 4-5 weeks going through kemo and stuff. Me, and a bunch of our other friends are worried sick about her becasue its so sudden, and we dont want to lose her like we lost our other friend. I'm so sad, and I desperately need someone to make me think of positive things about her right now, becasue really all i can think of is our other friend who just died and if shes gonna end up like that. This is a very hard time for me, can anyone give me any advice on this? I just dont know how to think about something good. Thank You!
_Janine_*
ok i lost my grandma from brest cancer so i understand heres somthin you can do spend all the time you can with her if you have alot of pictures of her make a scrapbook af yall together and give it to her but honestly its the little things that count i promise itll get easier trust me i kno
13/M and i have liked this one girl for about a year now and her and her bf (my friend) of about 1 year and a half just broke up. How long should i wait before i do anything and should i just drop hints. i'm a really good friend of hers and i dont want to do something at the wrong time.
p.s- i was thinking of sending her flowers w/ a card in them or something any good ideas greatly appreciated.
be nice and ask her out but wait and she if shes upset about loseing this guy if she is be her support to help her get over him
hey... what part of alabama do u live in? i live in b'ham..well, helena!!
**xolilabbs214ox
i live in bham why?
On New Years Eve im going to my boyfriends house. I'm a virgin but that night i think i want to lose my virginity with him. I'm 14 almost 15 i know i'm young but i'm tired of being a virgin. We've only been going out for a week today but we went out for 7 months a while back. Please don't reply if your just going to call me a hoe or yell at me because i don't need that. Would i be making the wrong choice if i do? I already know about the whole getting pregnant thing im not stupid..but other than that am i making the right choice? thanks..
its youre choice im not gonna try to swa you if u want to do it if u dont then dont but youre best decision should be waiting
My mom seems to think that only black people wear brands such as Roccawear, Baby Phat and Ecko. I like the clothes and she wont let me wear them because on the websites the people who are modeling them happen to be black. So tell me really, do these brands are truly only worn by Africans?
well most of the time but listen to youre mom shes only lookin out for ya
I decided to get a hair cut today but I don't what kind i want! I have dirty blonde hair and it's very long! I'm 17 and a female! Any suggestions?
short and flipped like rebba makintiry a country singer
I have this friend and she is really nice on weekend
But when we have school she id do mean to me and using bad words. She sometimes can be nice but not
all the time. Help me
Rachel
you dont need her as a freind shes wait i call a two faced back staber dont hang around her
ok well I am kind of mad. I think my mom's b/f is just using her, And I am to scard to tell my mom. But when I do wont to tell my mom he is there. He is always over and he eats all of our food. But he never cleans up. My mom has not been dateing for a while because my dad went to jail. I dont know what to do.... PLEASE HELP
ok polain and simple tell her that our get evidence write youre name on the food if he eats tel her maybe shell do somthin
I have liked this boy from the moment I met him{which was 3rd grade and I'm in 8th now}. Well last year he was in my class and we talked a lot. It seemed like he liked me a little bit more than a friend. But in the Summer we had a festival and my friends went up to him and asked Would you ever consider going out with missy? He said no. But the girl who asked him goes to a different school and he had no clue who she was but my other friend went up with her. Well they had asked this infront of one of his friends too they said that he kind of smilied when he said no and he looked at the girl he didn't know gabby in a confused way then to my friend emmie like who is that girl and then to his friend and his friend elbowed him and he smilied. And they went away laughing. But later he told this guy that I liked him right in front of me and I rolled my eyes and he saw me. And this year one of his friends said that he did like me last year. But his friend nick knew that that i liked seth so idk if he just said that to make me feel better. But anyways I have tried so much to forget about him I've gotten other b/f's but it didn't work out because I liked him more than them. And he never comes online and i'm not gonna call him and tell him this. And hes not in my class this year. But what can I do? Do you think that he may of liked me?
who knows guys send out crazy meseges but this guy seems like a butt anyway write him an email see if that works out but dont try to hard
ok i have these white dots on my nails. there in any random spot, anywhere on my nail. does anyone else have these or know what they are?? thanks
i have them to i was told they were like brusies and they would grow out as my nail grew