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so this is pretty gross, but i just need to know - so before i started my period, i had this white, gross stuff everyday, so i always had to use a liner, then, my period started and i was hoping the white stuff would stop. well, it didn't, so i now have a heavy period every month, PLUS this stupid white stuff EVERYDAY. is this normal? will this ever stop???? i'm so fusterated because i really thought the white gook would stop but it hasn't, in fact it's even got heavier and grosser. UGH (link)
it's called discharge, and every woman has it. yes,your situation is completely normal. i got it before my period as well and now in between it's even worse. i get it so bad that i think i have my period when it's just discharge, but ive gotten used to it and now idc. it's just something to get used to but if you just ignore it you'll get used to the feeling of it being in your underwear all the time. i'm surprised you didn't learn about it.


Hi! I have naturally straight hair with some random waves. I do like to straighten my hair though. My problem is when I go clubbing after 10 minutes my hair gets all wavy and even curly. I see some girls manage to keep their hair pinstraight ALL night though! Any ideas on how I can as well? Thanks! (link)
if you don't already, use a chi straightener because they keep mostly everyone's hair straight for a a really long time. you could also try using herbal essence shampoo before you straighten your hair, the one that is specified for keeping your hair straight. some people's hair just turns wavy because of humidity which is usually in clubs, so look for a garnier fructis spray or moose product that is for particularly that. (one that promises to keep your hair straight even in humidity)


hey =)

in a nother question i once asked , i already kinda said a little bit about this....(lol) okay i like this guy ..uhh lets just call him D =) soo i used to stare at him a lot not because i liked him (cause at that time i didnt) just because he's hot , loud and you cant miss him. and maby that got him to like me cause then he stared at me a lot and so i also started to like him. so we used to talk and everything but once he got into a deep conversation and i was nervous and i've been a little weird (not really mean i just was like : yes , no , maby) yeah okay and than he told me he loved me and THEN i was mean i was like : whatever
and i know that was mean so about i dont know a month i finally got the courage to talk to him again and i called him and appologized. but he was weird cause then HE was like in a yes , no , maby kinda way =/ so yeah we ignored eachother again. and a couple of days ago we where on the bus he was walking right by be me singing =D (that was funny) and then steped back and gave me high five and also smiled. so i thought everything is okay again but now the next day everytime i looked at him he looked away and he flirts /talks about other girls really loud when i'm around. so what does that mean? whats going on in his head? and what should i do?

thx i'll rate and sorry this was long (link)
aw he sounds really cute haha. he obviuosly likes you, and he was just hurt by you saying 'whatever', that's why he was short with you on the phone. whenever boys get hurt really bad they don't want to seem upset so they cover it up by doing things like maybe being mean. he is also trying to make you jealous by talking about girls when he knows you can hear. so he obviuosly likes you he is just hurt by what you said and trying to cover it up. i would recommend getting him alone and saying something like, 'why have you been mean/different to me, i like you' or something like that or even say 'ilove you' like he did. just tell him you still like him and that you're sorry you said wahtever and things will be back to normal.



I'm 14 looking for a good book that'll make you cry throughout it. My favorite books are Flowers In The Attic, Go Ask Alice, A Rose For Melinda, A Child Called It, etc. I'm looking for realistic fiction, and dark, sad stories. i love book that'll make me cry. and don't say i'm weird for likeing sad books! (link)
A Thousand splendid suns, and the glass castle is a PERFECT book for what your looking for . its an amazing book too.


hey guys.


i'm writing a story on a live journal webpage, using the 'diary' kind of form. i've only written the first part, then wrote a sceond and erased the second. i just wanna know what other people think about it.


its for ages like 14 - 19 i guess, about high school and stuff like that. read if you're interested and leave feedback??


http://enough-jasey.livejournal.com/



thanks =] (link)
omg that's so weird because i'm writing a story also and i was just gunna put a question on advicenators asking 'what is a good site to post a story on to get feedback on it?' but thanks to your question i found out livejournal is a good place to post it on. haha thank you! but anyway i read the story and i think it is very well written it reminds me of a real high school like mine not all of the fake stuff they write in other books. i am going to post my story on livejournal too and then i will comment on yours and maybe you can then read mine and comment on it? that would be great. thanks for introducing me to livejournal though, because my story is for ages 14-19 too i guess haha.
I JUST ADDED MY STORY HERE IS THE LINK TO MY PAGE:
http://oxyou.livejournal.com/
it's in 3 different parts becuase it was too long. if you could please add me as a friend becasue idk how to do that! i know it's kind of long but it's good so please read and comment it. thanks!


Okay, so theres this guy and his name is Dan. Hes 45 years old, married, with kids, and I went to canobie with him, my uncle, and my cousins. And the only reason I was there was because one of my cousins is autistic and I was going to help. So right when I get there Dan comes up and puts his arm around me and just starts walking with me, and I was like what the heck? But I didnt say anything cause Im too shy. (Im 18 by the way) and we get to the first ride were going to go on and everyone kinda split up and went there own way and I was trying to figure out who to sit next to when he whispers in my ear, sit next to me in the back, and ofcourse, I was like uhm okay, even though I felt weird about that. But I did and it was fine, until I got off and he had his arm around my shoulder again. Anyways later when I was there this guy I knew and was just friends with came over and gave me a hug and I hugged him back and Dan came over and was like okay thats enough and then practically dragged me away from him. I found that soo rude but I didnt say anything. And towards the end of the day we were talking about who was easier to read, guys or girls, and this girl standing next to me was like oh is he your dad and I immediately said ha, no! And then I thought she would think I was weird so I was going to explain that he was one of my moms old friends but he interupted me and I was like Im a....friend. And I was just like oh yeah, hes a friend. But hes not my friend. Hes my moms friend. And I caught him staring at me a few times too, which made me feel so self concious so we went to his car because some of the others wanted food and water and stuff and I was looking in the reflection trying to make myself look better when Dan was like relax you look great. So I kinda blushed and was oh thanks. So anyways that was Canobie. Then like three days later my cell phone rings right and it was him. It was a text message that said pg. And I wrote back and was like what does that mean. And he called me back and said that it was a mistake and that somehow his locked phone, unlocked itself in his pocket and sent me a text. And I believed him until I talked to one of my best friends and she was like no, hes lying and now I believe her instead. And I already told her all this stuff and she thinks that he likes me, but I really dont know. Can someone please tell me what they think? Thank you soo much, and sorry about the length! (link)
ewww thats SO creepy. i would be freaking out if i were you and an old guy was trying to flirt with me. if it's making you uncomfortable, tell your mom and maybe she can tell him to stop or if it gets really bad not have any contact with him anymroe because it looks like it's leading to rape. for now if you dont want to cause any serious trouble and dont feel like telling your mom just stay away from him as much as you can and ignore him and just try to lose all contact with him. you can tell your mom if you want too though it's your choice. try really hard NEVER to be alone with him if you even have to be with him at all .if you ever end up alone then defend yourself DON'T let him rape you because this is obviously leading to a rape. my point is just be careful, try to stay away from him, and tel your mom if you want or if it gets really bad to the point where he won't leave you alone. don't let yourself think its okay that he's flirting with you because it's NOT okay if he's 45, married, and with kids eww that is just downright creepy and weird of him. DO NOT LET YOURSELF GET RAPED please try never to be alone with him and do NOT trust him.


16/f
my parents keep such a strict eye on me, and i really just want to have fun. i got caught in my friend's car a couple of weeks ago when she was still on JOL, so i was grounded and now they're keeping an even closer watch on me.
tomorrow night, my friend is having a sort of party and i want to go. there will be alcohol there, and i want to have some to let loose and have fun. i don't know what to say to my parents, because i know they'll call me to ask what i'm doing and thoroughly question me. they need to let me make my own mistakes, but they don't understand that.
any advice on what to do about tomorrow night and in the future with my parents?
Thank you (link)
ask them if you can sleepover your friend's house the next night, tell them she might be having a few people over before you go to bed but her parents will be there (that way you won't be full out lieing, you don't have to tell them theres a huge party) . act like it's just a harmless sleepover between a few friends. if they are a little suspicious, tell them you could even call them before you go to bed. if you really want to/need to you can drink a little before you call them just make sure you can control yourself, but i wouldn't risk it. after you call them you can drink. so you might want to call kind of early before all the people leave so just say your watching a movie and you think you might fall asleep that's why your saying goodnight now. and then you can drink. then DON'T talk about that night in your house with your friends, or on the phone when your parents might be able to hear, or through text messages. also, don't take pictures. because those are ways that it is so easy to get caught, and then your parents will know that your 'harmless sleepover with parents home' was actually a party with alchy. then they prob. won't even let you have sleepovers so just do all that and you will be gooood ! :)also get in a quiet room before you call them.


So i want to make a party cd...

can anyone give me party songs and artist...

so far I have:
rum 151 by TECH N9NE
drunk in the club by KMK
party like a rockstar

id like much much more so thank you!!!

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move shake drop remix by dj laz, break the ice by britney spears, gimme more by britney spears, drop by ying yang twins, dangerous (ft. akon) by kardinal offishial, goodies by ciara (even though that one's kind of old)


There's this guy Joe, he's in the army in Iraq he's almost 22, has a 2 year old baby girl, and he's married at this point in time.
I am 16, female, single,in high school. Now I don't want to hear about the age difference because we're way passed that point, so please just help me on what I need help on.
I was at a coming home party for my bestfriends big brother Devon, that is so close to me that he might as well be my big brother, and for Joe. I saw Joe playing the guitar in the living room so I sat down staring at him, he was probably the most adorable guy I've ever seen in my life. I had a boyfriend then, of a year, and we ended up breaking up that night, so I was just trying to have some fun. Me and Joe both ended up crashing at Devons place and got to talking about everything there was to talk about. Until 7 am the next morning. All we did was kiss. We exchanged numbers and screennames. The next couple of times I saw him we bumped into each other at Devons house, kept talking, kept kissing. Now if Devon ever found this out we knew we'd get in a lot of drama considering that I was 15 and he was 20 and I was like his little sister. Over a period of quite a few months he went back to where he was stationed and we still saw each other a few times when he went on leave. We both made it clear to each other that we had feelings for each other and really wanted to be together but it was impossible, he was in the army always leaving and I was still trying to live my highschool life. I ended up getting a new boyfriend, and I still at the time tried to talk to Joe. A few months after I started dating someone else I got news that Joe got MARRIED, to the mother of his daughter. I told Joe that I wanted to be with him and I loved him and I felt betrayed but he came back at me with "what did you expect when you're seeing someone else." So now it's a year later, and we have started talking again. He's getting a divorce because his wife cheated on him. We've been talking about hanging out when he gets back in November, and nothing futher because when I found out about him getting married he told me all he could offer me was his friendship. I'm not sure if that's all he wants anymore and I'm honestly too afraid of the answer to ask. My question to you is how do I ask him what he wants to be? Because sometimes I never know if it's just sex he wants because we're always talking about it, obviously because we have a really big sexual attraction towards each other. Or if he actually wants something, how do I bring that upon asking someone but not making it offensive. And if he actually wanted to be with me, how does a 16 year old girl handle a boyfriend in Iraq with a baby? I do love him, I know that for sure, and I know he loves me. Whether it's real love, or friendship love.


BTW, He has told me before that I was the girl for him, and I make him feel like no other girl ever has, I do things that no other girl has ever done to him. I'm amazing, and I'm the girl he wants to be with for the rest of his life .. when he was in front of all his friends in the army. (link)
if you REALLY believe that's its true love, and it's actually real, not just a little highschool on/off relationship, then go for it. because if you are really truly in love with each other you will do anything to be with eachother, no matter how many obstacles there are (age diff., what other people think, baby, etc.) but if you aren't COMPLETELY sure that you're in love with him, then it's really not good for someone so young and in highschool to have to deal with all those issues like marriage ,war, and babies, you're way to young for that stuff if you're 16. and about the sex thing, if you're doubting that the only reason he says he wants to be with you is because he wants to have sex with you, then you're not really in love with him. if you guys were in love then you shouldn't have to doubt anything with him. but really, what do i know? because i don't know exactly what your relationship is like, and i don't really know what's going on. so if you think i'm wrong with that and you really actually are in love with eachother, then you can have sex with him, just make sure no one finds out because it's illegal. but from what you wrote in the question, my advice is, it's not worth it if it's not true love. it's not worth risking you both getting in trouble just to have sex if you're not really in love with him. and me, personally, wouldn't want to have sex with someone 22 if i was 16 and i didn't feel like we were really in love. i would be a little overwhelmed and scared. but that's just me. i know that sometimes it's hard, but if you feel like this is just another one of your commmon boyfriends in high school, then don't try to make it work because at your age you should just have fun and enjoy being in highschool and not have to worry about him being divorced, have a baby, or be in the army. sometimes what you really want to do, isn't what's best for you. but if you really are in love like REAL love, like you would marry him right now if you could, then you will find a way to make it work. because true love conquers all. so YOU make the decision, if it's real love, or if it's just common highschool puppy love.


Ok im 17/f .. Im about to be 18 in august and im like really wanting to have a baby..like REALLLY REALLLLY BAD..and im on birth control would it be wrong if I stopped taking my birth control without my boyfriend knowing just to get pregnant?..we want a baby just not now maybe in 5 years he said. But I want one now... (link)
if your really loved your boyfriend you would respect what he wants also and not be so selfish. why would you ever do that. and his decision is obviously the best decision because even though it might seem like you want a baby now, you will NOT want a baby this young. why do you want a baby so bad? whatever need or feeling you think it will fulfill it won't, i'm not saying you won't love it, but since you are so young and not married you probably won't be able to do everything you need for it and the baby's life will be messed up. do you have your own solid job? your own house? enough income for 3 people to live well? do you plan on never getting anymore education? do you want to never be able to go out with your friends or do anything fun again? if you answered no to these questions (which any normal person your age would) then you are NOT ready and should NOT have a baby.





14/f

Ugh, I have the biggest problem ever. I really really like this guy Chris. And I thought like for sure that he liked me, cause he .

1. Im the first girl on his top, And Pretty far up, on myspace.
2. Whenever he is online, He i/ms Me
3. He insults me alot Then Smiles
4. He always looks me in the eyes
5. In gym one day, I was sitting down and he sat really close to me and we spent the whole period talking.
6. He playfully punches me. Or slaps in me in the stomach or something.
7. Once In enlgish, My friend put her backpack in the seat next to mine, and he moved it and Put his stuff there and sat.
8. Another time in English, He was sitting in the back and I sat in the front and he moved his Stuff and Sat next to me.
9. Once, in the hall i was talking to my friend Shane about how Shane cameover my house once and The kid I like was right there, and he was like "I have never been to your housee!"
10. Mock me.

We never hung out, out of school, Until yesterday He imed me This is sort of how the convo went.

Him: Hey im so bored
Me: Yeah samee=\
Him: Why aren't you hanging out with Lex
Me: She's out getting her new phone, she's on her way back thoo
Him: Ohh, I should like meet you guys at 711
Me: Soundss good

And then we like made the plans and yadda, yadda.
Now, Lex is my best friend, But let me tell you something about her. She is DROP DEAD gorgeous, and I swear every guy in my school liked her. So I was a little nervous for today, and boy was I right.

He kept like, Holding her hand, hips, and Putting his arm around her shoulder. And he would like share the tightest couch with her and he brought is skatebored and she was like, "I wanna try!" And like the whole time, he was like all over her and like holding on to her. I was so upset, because this happened to me with every guy I liked, They all fell for her. But then there were times where he would still talk to me and Punch me like he used to, But then she would join in and they would get in there own little fight. He still tried to talk to me and stand by me though, That I could kind of tell. Then, he took my phone and started texting this girl Holly (don't worry he hates her) And Holly asked if him if he liked Lex and he said no, And After we were all done hanging out, He was online on myspace and Didn't put Lex on his top. But, he didn't I/M me last night. I had to I/M him, and It was probably the worst conversation ever. He was acting so boring and like he didn't even care about me anymore and then he just like stopped answering me. And then Lex I/ms Me and tells me she likes him sooo much. And I had to just play along, And act so happy for her like I do each and every other time. Now, I have talked to Lex about this and the whole time she just goes "thats not true!" Or she will go "ew! no one likes me im so ugly!" Or she will make me feel bad for her and say "fine, I wont like him" I know what you are thinking, Drop Lex as a friend. But i can't do that Besides when it Comes to boys She is a Great friend. So Im pretty much in the Worst Situation right now, It would really help if someone could Help me out Thankss! (link)
i had a situation exactly like this, and it ended up the guy didn't like either one of us, he just liked flirting with both of us a lot . but i guess he saw the other girl as something serious. so it could be the same here. just talk to him about it if you get sick of him flirting and not doing anything, that's what i would do


Okay, this is so broad so any answer is really going to be a shot in the dark...haha but i had this song stuck in my head earlier, and i can't remember for the LIFE of me how it goes!!!

it's a newer song. made within the last year or so. it's like hip hop and a duet. and i know one of the lyrics is "i love you so much"

wow. if anyone could help me, that'd be amazing. (link)
the only one i can think of would be 'last night' by diddy featuring keyshia cole..but that might not be it because her saying 'i love you so much' is only a little part of the song


so i just heard this song tonight on the radio. its an R&B/hip hop style song, and the only words i can remeber are "that girl is dangerous" or maybe it was "this", not "that" but yeah. i googled and all i got was a song by matt pokora, but that one sounds too pop. the one i heard was more hip hop & upbeat. does anyone know what this song could be? (link)
the song is 'dangerous' by akon and kardinal offishial. good song.


theres a new song out, its by lloyd i think, i cant remember, but it features lil wayne, and idk what its called or how it goes. anyone know? (link)
i think it's get it shawty remix by lil wayne...even if that isn't the song your talkng about that is my favorite song it's amazingg so you should listen to it anyway


okk. soo. this summer i wanna dye my hair like a really light blonde. but i cant bleach it cause my mom is like, "bleach blondes run around like little whores!!" haha so thats out of the question. so can someone get me some rad pictures of medium to long scene hair in like, a light-ish blonde color?? and i also need some tips on how to cut scene hair at home cause whenever i get it professionally done they always end up fucking it up and i suckk at itt so please heelp!! thx x1,000,000

peacee (link)
what the hell is "scene" hair?


i have this one dream over and over again. i've been having it on and off for the last few months.

i have two guinea pigs, both of which i am very attached to. in each dream, it's a different setting (at least the location). i always dream that there are lots of guinea pigs, like 20 or 30 in the room, of all different sizes. they seem to be the children of my two guinea pigs (boy and a girl). however, my guinea pigs have not produced any babies ever. i always have this dream. once, the location was my living room. another time, the location was an abandoned house. but in all the dreams, i always see either one or the other of my two guinea pigs, and lots of little babies who look similar to my two guinea pigs.

what does this mean? (link)
go to :wwww.dreammoods.com and type in the search bar everything that was in your dream (but at different times) like abandoned house, living room, and guinea pigs. and it will tell you what all those things mean.


what are some proxy sites that I can use to get around the blocking on my school computer.

My internet isn't working at home and i need to check my email, but our server blocks yahoo mail.

What are some proxys I can use to get around it (link)
hsmcafe.com/abc


13/f
what are some movies about summercamp besides the parent trap?
because im going to my first summer camp this summer and its coed and im sorta scared.
so ya any movies or insight you can provide would be great.
- what should i do if i start my period?
im absoloutly terrified of tampons and i know theres gonna swimming.
- oh also i know theres gonna be lakes like for swimming and stuff but im really scared of swimming in lakes because i vever know how deep its gonna be and all the fish and snakes. so if yall i have in stories about ur camp expierences or anything that would br great.
ITs in texas btw. (link)
don't be nervous, because summer camp is SO much fun. i was extremely nervous before my first time and almost chickened out because i always thought summer camp wasn't for me. but it was the most amazing week of my life. everyone has fun no matter waht you meet so many friends and cute guys and then just have fun with them. it's one of those things that you can't explain how good it is you just ahve to try it and see for yourself. believe me when you get home you will be sad and want to go back thats what happened to me. if i'm ever sad i think about the most perfect time in my life, the week i was at summer camp. its beyond amazing. when you get home you will not be able to believe thatyou were scared before


So. A kid I talk to in school Cole- who isn't even considered friend was beat up Wensday after Baseball practice for wearinf eyeliner... That I put on him, and that I convinced him to wear. I try to apoligise because I can't help but feel slightly [[fully]] responcible. He's basicly taking it as a man, and saying it's no big deal but in Homeroom4 he showed me was Garret [[kid who is an ASSHOLE and did this] and he bruised him... Thats horrible I wanna like cry. I huged him and was like Im sorryyy and he was like its not your fault. And kinda played it off as a joke even though Garrett could get in so much trouble because it is a HATE CRIME! because he has it in his mind that Cole is gay- even tho I practicly begged him to put make-up on him.
Well. Ergh. Now everyones like Oh Katie you only care because you want Cole in the pants, and you only like him and thats why you care.." thats not it at all! I think he's extremely hot.. but he calls me fat pretty much everyday so I obviously don't. Everyone is saying that I like him... and I dont but now He's acting diffrent around me. and my friend Becky says he practicly measures his steps around you.. which I dont want he's like friend and now Idk but Im tired of it. I know people who are gay, and it hits close to home... and yeh it madders that it was Cole- but it hurts expecially because my cousin in a Lesbian and I have no problem sleeping in the same bed with her [[even though wre cousins yehh just making a point]]. I wanna kill garret because now its like all my fault Cole is hurt, and now he can't even be around me because he thinks I like him. Which you try explaing Naawwwt I dont and he wont listen...
And now Im doubting myself. Like what if i do like him.. and I just have such low self esteem that I say I dont. so.. hmm Problems MUCH. You can basicly figure out the problems just by reading this. Like how do I convince COLE and everyone I dont like him! So I see his boxers everyday [[dont ask]] and have fun with him. He's so layed back.. and just I donno he only calls me fat around certain people which I understand because I say I dont like him more strict to a lot certain people. I can relate. and how do I get like vengance on Garrett even though Cole doesnt want it. This hits so close to me that i wanna go to school with a rainbow on it and rep. gay pride even though Im not gay.. [[not saying gay people dont rockk lol because some of the best times was with my cousins and I donno should I explain to Cole why I care so much? or see where this takes me]]
Umm any help is needed badly because I feel like punching people out because there ruining the vbarely friendship I have with Cole.
Please and Thank you. (link)
alright, well i personally think it's good that you don't like cole if he callls you fat. dont EVER think thats okay even if it's around certain people, it's not because it just shows that he acts different around you and then tries to look cool in front of others by ditching you. don't eVER think thats okay. its not. talk to cole and tell him that you don't like him, and the only reason you care so much is because you think it's your fault and your cousin a lesbian. if you just talk to him it will be fine and it will be all over, so people won't think you like him anymore. tell on garrett. he's a huge asshole from what i can see. ask the office or whatever teacher you tell not to mention your name, or write an anonymous note and put it in the office. taht always works.


(17 female)
I'm short, I'm skinny, I'm clumsy, I wear baggy jeans and a band shirt and old sneakers everyday and have for just about my entire life. My hair is barely shoulder-length and layered a lot and about 4 different shades of brown because of messy dye-jobs. my eyes are green, i have a ton of freckles across my nose, and 8 piercings in each ear.

i'm not exactly a prom person... i'm actually a little bit of a mess. but this year i want to be different, instead of just looking like the grungey, messy, sardonic girl i always am.

forget turning heads, i want to break necks.

prom is rapidly approaching: i have two weeks to not make an absolute retard out of myself.

i have no expierience buying dresses or shoes or doing hair or make-up.

...i really want to have one of those cinderella moments where everyone turns around and goes "whoa, oh my god!"

my date is really tall and wearing a white suit, do we have to match?

what's a corsage?

...i'm fully aware that i fail at life >. (link)
okay, here is what you do: you have 2 weeks until prom, so that is enough time to get an appointment at the hair salon asap. when you go to the hair salon, i would recommend getting hair extensions. this looks cute on people who have lots of layers but don't want them anymore. also, tell the hairdresser to die your hair ONE color that looks rich and dark and not more than one color. probably the darkest out of all your shades so you can't see the other ones. you should also start to go tanning. i think it takes like 4-5 times going tanning for it to actually work, so you might want to start going as much as you can like maybe everyday because you only have 2 weeks. tanning isn't really a big deal even if you are scared, everyone does it and its not hard or anything and it doesn't hurt. maybe if you have a friend taht wants to go with you you should do that. oh and also if you can't get to the hairdresser before prom just wear it up in a pretty fancy ponytail or bun so you won't be able to see the layers.the good thing about layers is that you will be able to make pieces hanging. you also need to buy a dress and shoes. hurry up though, because you only have 2 weeks and most things are sold out. ask your mom or friend or aunt or whatever anyone like that if they want to go on an emergency prom shopping spree. pick out thedresses you like and try on as many as you can, and pick the one that looks best on your body and that you like the best. it's totally fine that your short, there are prom dresses out there that are meant for short people so thats why you just need to go try some on. ask the store clerk you are looking for dresses that would fit you. you may also have to get it altered. and then find shoes that match your dress, makes sure you get heels. get a manicure and a pedicure, just a french with no color unless you want to do a color that matches your dress but MAKE SUREE it matches, it will look weird if it's like one shade off. the nail people will prob know what colors and designs to do if you describe yoru dress to them and tell them your going to prom. if you end up having to get your dress altered (go to a tailor) then make sure you tell them wht day your prom is so they will have it done in time. shave everything on your body(croch too if you don't already), get your eyebrows waxed, and make sure you keep your skin clear for prom.this isn't a necessity like all the other things i wrote but if you want too you could go to the salon the day of prom and have them do your hair, you should prob. do that if you did'nt get a chance to get it cut and died, because you won't be able to put it up in a bun or ponytail yourself and make it look good. at the salon they can make any type of hair look good. but if you do get it died and get extensions, you can just leave it down or straighten it or do basic curling. go to a really good makeup store like ulta and if you don't know what shades of anything to get for makeup, the person who works there will know the perfect shades if you tell them what your dress looks like, what color , etc. you could also get your makeup profesionally done, but if you don't want too get someone whos good at makeup to come over and do yours for you, or if you think you are good enough at it do your own. the most important thing is eye makeup though, basically just make sure you have enough makeup bought before the day of prom, and if you don't get a chance to go to a good store like ulta and you have to go to somewhere like riteaid or cvs, then just make sure every shade of eyeliner, eyeshadow,glitter,blush,and lipgloss matches your dress. also get mascara and an eyelash curler, and if you don't have clear skin coverup concealer and foundation.




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