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Member Since: February 24, 2007
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Last Update: July 22, 2007
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AHH i have never been sooo pissed off in my life.

ok so the thing is that im about to turn 16 in june and i have a younger sister who is 14 right now. ANd she said that our parents are gonna let her do Drivers ED this summer. AND They wont let me.
AND im GONNA be 16. SO not only they will let her Do it before me BUT she is YOUNGER too. HOW EFFIn unfair is that. I just like wanna KILL myself now. IM soo pissed off.

what can i do to stop this from happeing.
cuz there is NO way that she is gonna take drivers ed before me. THERE is no way.
how can i make my parents make her take it when shes also 16. (link)
In most stares you need to be 15 to get a learners permit and 16 to get a drivers license. I took driverd ed in high school. I suggest you go to the DMV get the drivers ed handbook. Read it a dozen times then take your written test. If you pass you will be given a learners permit. Your sister being 14 can not take the written test.
In most states you do not need your parents with you to take the written test to get a learners permit. In some states it's illegal to have a 14 tear old behind the wheel.
When your parents enroll her in drivers ed you should tell the teacher your sister is 14.


I just came back from the Body Shop and I bought shea butter and cocoa butter. I'd heard that they're good for stuff, so I went ahead and bought them.

My question is: what are they good for? For which part(s) of the body? Is there a specific way to apply them or something?

Any additional info is also appreciated.

Thanks in advance. (link)
I shop at the body shop too and have purchased the same products. They are for dry skin.
Put your clean hand in the jar and rub the body butter all over your body except you face after showering.
They are moisturizing and hydrating.


why should i never wshare a razor (link)
Blood can be on a razor. You should never come in contact with someone elses blood. That spreads bacreia, germs, and viruses. Imagine if someone cut themselves with a razor, the razor now has their blood on it, then you cut yourself with the same razor now you have an open wound with blood from the 1sr person who cut themselves with same razor. It in unsanitary to share a razor.


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everyone keeps talking about "veginas"
what are they and who has them?
what are there purposes?
do guys and girls have them?

please help i feel so clueless

thanks (link)
If you are talking about vaginas only women have them. Men have a penis. A vagina and a penis are sexual and reproductive organs. To make a baby a mans semen fertilizes a womans egg. This happens during sexual intercourse. However, for your own health, safetly, and to prevent pregnancy you should NEVER have sex without a condom. There is no cure for HIV and herpes is forever.


Sorry if i am asking too many questions about this... you can tell me to shut up if you'd like... lol... but I just started a new pack... I'm only on the white pills still... I am sexually active... I have a bf of about a year and a half... and i don't just want to stop taking them... but i really don't want my period... should I just keep taking them? but what if it doesn't stop? (link)
No woman wants a period. It can be inconvienant. If you're bleeding it's a period even if it's breakthrough bleeding (bleeding between periods). You will stop bleeding. Because you are on your period you should be taking the last pills on your birth control pack, the ones that are inert. After you stop bleeding which should be no more than 4-5 days start a new pack. Until then just tell you bf that it's that time of the month. I've had to refuse sex to my bf more than once cause I was on my period. Most men, especially young men don't want sex with a woman who is menstrating.
I take ortho tricylen and it's the only pill and I've tried many that keeps my cycle regular. Periods can be irregular. It's normal.
Glad you could ask me. I'll answer all your questions to the best of my ability.


how long do you keep disposable razors for... is it only one time? or can you use it more than once... and if so for how long (link)
I saw on the news that you shouldn't use a disposable razor for more than two weeks. Of course, NEVER share a razor with any one no matter what.


I was the one that asked the question about my period coming early.... yes i take my pills at the same time every day... but does that mean my periods going to last until I finish this pack of pills? or will it go away sooner? (link)
The same thing has happened to me. If you're menstrating anyway you should stop taking the pills as you are on your period. After you stop menstrating start another pack of birth control pills. The pills you take while menstrating are inert. You just take them to keep you in the habit of taking a pill everyday. The period you're on now shouldn't last longer than your other periods. Nothing to worry about.


I am a very enthusiastic christian, and the perverted people that i had to sit on the bus with (two Pastor's kids and three practicing christians!) started making fun of me because i didn't know all those perverted terms, and because i don't cuss, and i never even kissed a guy(saving it for marriage)and i actually felt bad about this afterward! I know that they were the ones in the wrong, but they made me feel like i was. What can i do? BTW-i already prayed for them like a million times. (link)
There is a word for the people making fun of you and the word is hypocricy. If they are practicing Christians their filthy language is unacceptable and not very christian like.
Just because some one is a pastors child does not mean they are a good person. You should tell the children if the pastor that their dad would be ashamed of them.
You should not feel bad. They should. Next time they start that with you tell them that they are going to burn in hell.
Perhaps you should go to their parents
Tell your parents that the bus is full of pervision and filthy language and ask if they could give you a ride.


It's Thursday and I haven't eaten since Sunday. And now I am extremely weak and dizzy. What exactly should I eat to feel better? (link)
Why have you gone so long without food? That's why you're dizzy. It is not healthy. You need fruit right away. An apple, orange juice, pineapple, etc. Also try the nutritional drink Ensure. It will not make you gain weight. Atkins also makes nutritional drinks that do not make you gain weight. Oatmeal is good for you and not fattening. Try eating almonds or other nuts.
Going without food for days is no way to lose weight. You need to maintain a healthy diet including fruits and vegatables. You also need exercise to lose weight.
Please eat something.


On my application form it asks "Have you ever been refused a bond application?" What is that and do I answer yes or no???? I'm not a criminal so if it has anything to do with jail and stuff I guess its a no but i want to know for sure. Please help. Thank you! (link)
the answer is no.
If you are ever arrested you have the right to bail. A bailbondsman can refuse to loan you bail money. If you've never been arrested you've never needed bail.


Okay... I feel really stupid asking this question... but I used a vibrator... and I started my period the next day... but i'm on birth control and I shouldn't have started it for another couple weeks... so is there something wrong with me?? or why is it doing this? (link)
Nothing is wrong with you. I take birth control too which regulates my cycle. Before I took the pill I noticed that masterbation can make periods come early. Are you taking the pill the same time everyday? I keep my pills next to my toothbrush so I don't forget.
Masterbation is perfectly normal.


ok sorry if this is the wrong category, anyway
if you watch WWE RAW or know what im talking about than please answer me.
Do John Cena and Maria have a thing?
like are they married or boyfriend and girlfriend or what??
plz help...
~Michelle~ (link)
I am a huge WWE fan. Been watching for over 20 years. They are not involved. Maria is engaged to someone else, another pro wrestler.


People always say like "you know what a guy with big feet means." and other things. Is there really a way to tell how big a guys penis is without seeing it?

Please let me know as much as possible.


-Alex (link)
No. However, I heard many tales such as short men have small ones. The largest one I've ever seen belonged to a short man. Also I've heard that men with large hands means they have a large penis.
To know the size of the penis you much actually see it


i have a really suckish hair straightener and it never straightens it that well and i really want to get a super good hair straightener that'll make my hair SUPER straight. i heard some kind of chi straightener works really well and that they're expensive and all. if you could give me links to some good straighteners that'd be awesome. thankss! :] (link)
My favorite hair straightener is called Her Styler. It has ceramic plates. I purchased mine from a mall but perhaps you could do a google search for it. I also use Matrix sleek look smoothing system available at beauty salons. It is orange in color.


Is anyone here treated for social anxiety disorder? What medication are you on? How does it work for you? And how old are you? (link)
xanax ,36 in age, to treat anxiety attacks. It's a sedative
I've never used Paxil but it's used to treat social anxiety disorder too.


hi, i am in truble,please help me out, the problem is like,my dick is not that think as it should be in this age, i am 24.so still i am fealing that i dont have enough thikness here,it is big ,but not having neccessory thikness.please tell me is thier any way that i can improve it,? i am worried, am i wont be able to give satisfaction to my wife in long run,? (link)
Every penis is different. If it's to thick it will hurt a woman. It's not about the size of the boat it's about the motion of the ocean. Take time to satisfy a woman during foreplay. You'll please her. But if you really want to try something try a penis pump or a cock ring.
Average penis size for adult male is 6 inches. Your penis should be able to fit inside a toilet paper roll. If it can't it's to thick.
Be gentle, loving and not to anxious to stick it in. Trust me.


I have a really dry face. Especially On my nose and forhead. What do I do??????? S: (link)
I had the same problem. Oil of olay makes a great moisturizer. The one in the jar, not the pink colored one in bottle. Also try aloe vera gel. The body shop has a great vitamin e moisturizer it's pink in color. You need to go to the drug store a get a cleanser, toner, day cream, and night cream made just for dry skin. Don't forget the eye cream. If you start a good skin care routine now when you're young you won't age before your time.


i have really pale skin and i haven't been able to find foundation or concealer to match my skin tone. the closest match i have found is avon creme to powder foundation but even this makes me look like i have orange splodges on my face in certain light.

i dont want to spend more than £10 and i live in england - i dont want to have to buy over the internet, mail order and telephone order are ok though. (link)
I have very pale skin too. I use Smashbox smashing white oak. I don't know if they have smashbox in England but it's the lightest color foundation I've been able to find. Works great for me.
Also prescripteves makes a magic illuminating cream potion that is very light.
Sorry but I'm not familiar with English pounds. smashbox is less expensive than prescriptives.


okay i just got my hair cut and i hate it..how long would it take for it to grow an inch or 2 bwlow my sholder..right now it just touching..is there anyway to have my hair grown faster
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A hair dresser once told me that if you hang your head upside down. Like lie on the bed with your head hanging and massage the scalp it encourages the hair to grow. This works because when you massage the scalp it increaes blood flow. You have to do it everyday for 20 minutes. You have nothing to lose by trying.
Of course a balanced diet including fish will help. Use a good conditioner so your ends won't split and have to be cut.


2 ethiopian sisters came to my school. Someone managed to take them out of their home and get them to a safer place. They don't know english. Only 'Hi'.

And there's this group of black girls who keep attacking them I guess. They fought with them.. for basically.. no reason.

These two girls didn't do anything! Should I go to the office and tell them that they need a security person watching out for them?

I don't know what to do.. but I don't want people physically hurting them. I mean ... words won't hurt if you don't understand. (link)
I suggest you go to the school principal. Violence is unacceptable. Not sure if this is a hate crime or just mean,hateful bullies.
school should be a safe place for learning not a place to get beat up for no reason. These sisters deserve better. They deserve an education.
The sisters can file a law suit in civil court if they continue to get attacked. Not only do they have the right to file a law suit against the people who are attacking them but also the school because the school has to be aware of the problem and the school has done nothing.
Some authority figure in your school should know about this immediately.




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