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Hey,my name's Stephanie, 16 years old and i live in the UK. If you want my advice then i'll happily give it. If you don't agree with it then that's just tough, i say it how i see it.
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this boy i like ..-tom- well we just broke up..and he got over me really fast..but i think he did becasue my so called frined told him that she liked him..but the thing is that me an tom were still goiN OUT...and then that night we got into a fight so i dumped him becasue he was bein gay about it ..but now he likes tha other gurl..an the thing is i wanna know how he could get oveer me soo fast..plz help..
Either he never really liked you that much or he's just hiding his feelings to look cool. The best revenge you can give is be happy, it'll drive him crazy. The same way he's driving you crazy.
Is it considered cutting if u only scratch to where u have scars? I went to a website and it said it is considered cutting.
It doesn't matter if you're cutting, scratching, burning or whatever - you're self harming.
There is this song by Sean (or Shawn or Shaun) Mconell (sp? i dont know how to spell his name...)and it goes like "when you look in the mirror do you like what you see" and i cant find the lyrics on the internet, can someone tell me if they have ever heard of this song or know the lyrics or where i can get his cd, because i looked at wal-mart and target but i could not find them..thanks!!!
Listen out for it on the radio, they usually tell you the artist name and song title. Or you could email your local radio and ask them.
Do you ever feel like breaking down.. DO you ever feel out out place.. ANd somehow you just don't fit in and no one understands me... I've been kiked... hurt.. well I'm just like him.. and the rest of the song.. and sometimes i just wanna curl up and give up! the kids at my school are so mean to me. And a lot of my friends think they're to "cool" to hang out with me. I've been pushed down and kids kicked me and I've been in 5 fights with a bunch of kids and always get beet up picked on. And i don't belong.. I think i should just run away. no one would miss me. I'm just a loser in the way! I just wish i was a little cooler and people would be nicer to me. like the other day i was over my "friends" house and him and his neighbors made fun of me and 1 kid punched me so i fell and then they threw things at me. I've broken down.. ok and I'm young and hopeless and going no where fast is what they say.And the girls... forget about it... i mean the only reason most them don't like me is becuse the cool kids don't like me. I mean I'm not ugly..but you get my point. And some kids just pretend to be friends with me and then stab me in the beack like it's a game. And my gf just played me. Well you kinda get my idea of my life. that's not the details though. It's a lot worse. Well is there anything i can do? Or should i run away becuase no one would miss me!
Signed,
A loser!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Running away won't solve anything unless you've got somewhere to go, such as an Aunt who'd be willing to take you in. Even then it doesn't solve anything because bullying just follows you like a bad smell. You just have to find some way through it and tell yourself that one day it'll be over. School doesn't last forever.
What's better?
a) a girl who's drop dead gorgeous with the IQ of a broom
-or-
b) a girl who's cute and can carry on intelligent conversation (like... genius level IQ)
please say why, and how old you are so i can figure out how that relates to my age bracket...
please and thank you!
I'd say B because then you wont have to carry the conversation all the time as the girl is intelligent enough to have a 2 way conversation with. It's not like B is ugly, you describe her as cute so what's your problem. I'm 16 and female if that helps.
Okay...well there these two kid and I really like them alot.I've gone out with the one not to long ago and I cant get over him!But then there the other guy that I've like since I was little but not my whole life its been like a light switch on and off.What should i do about this situation?Please help me.
-Amanda Marie
Go for the other guy, then you've had both and you won't end up wondering what it would've been like to date the other guy.
Hey! Umm ok here's my problem: I like this boy named Jimmy. He's from my school and he's 2 months and 19 days younger than me (I don't care about the age difference). But then I told my friend Kaitlyn that I like him and not to tell anyone else. But then my other friend Brittnee hears us talking about him and she's (Brittnee) like "Ewwwww. You like Jimmy?!" and then I'm like "Yeah. I know he's younger than me but I don't care." And then when I'm in class, she sees Jimmy in the hallway and asks the teacher to go to the bathroom and she goes into the hallway. A few minutes later she comes back, sits next to me and says "I told Jimmy you like him". I was pissed but now Jimmy doesn't look me in the eye anymore. And we were okay type of friends (me and Jimmy) before all this happened. What do I do now if he asks me about me liking him? And his sister is one of my friends and I don't think she likes the idea of me liking him... HELP! PLEASE! Rate good for any answer! !~*Steph*~!
Just act natural around him and if after a while he's still being funny ask him what's wrong. If he asks you if you like him then be honest and try to reassure him that it's no big deal and that it doesn't have to affect your friendship. Oh and drop that bitch Britnee, you don't need friends like her.
well, idk how to tell if a guy likes me and this guy talked to him for me or he was supposed to talk to him for me this weekend but im soooo nervous to find out what he says .. and if he doesnt then i think it will be awkward right? what should i do to get him off my mind?
To get him off your mind keep busy. It's really not that hard, haven't you got friends you can hang out with. If he doesn't like you then it doesn't have to be awkward at all, if you don't make an issue of it then he wont.
how do u get a girl to want to go out with you?
Well it helps if you ask her out and don't do it with loads of people around or she might think you're taking the mick. Other than that, flirt.
ok i have a problem..wel its not really a problem but i wanna lose about 10 pounds but i dont now how to?
exercise e.g gym, workout videos, cycling, running, sport
k me and my [ex] bf broke up ALONG LONG LONG time ago..i think he even has another gf now, but neway its been like a year or something that we havent been together and we havent even talkd in almost that long..it would be our 2 yr anniversary comin up in like a month...we broke up in tha rainy season and it was SUCH heartbreak for me..i cried every night for like 3 months straight....but the thing is, not even like 2 hrs will go by that i dont think of him...and since its the rainy season im thinkin about him so much more and im really sad..this isnt normal to STILL not be over some1 by now is it?
Who cares about normal, people move on at different rates so there's no right or wrong. If this guy has another girlfriend then he's obviously moved on and so you have to accept that you're not going to get back together. Get a hobbie, hang out with friends, go shopping, go clubbing, go out with some other guys, whatever! You've got to put some effort into moving on and taking your mind off him. Evidently it'll take time but if you try then it will happen.
Hi, I am a 14 year old female and I am in love with my best guyfriend. We have known eachother for 5 years and we go to the same school and we always sit together at lunch. But, I dont know if he likes me back! He is always sending mixed messeges to me and I can never figure it out! It is really frustrating me and I need to know if he likes me. We always mess around by like tripping eachother in the hallway or hitting eachother with books and stuff. I dont know if its just fun or flirting!I really want to know! Also, the other day, we were talking about who we liked, and i made up some guy and he was wondering who it was, so if that helps and the only reason that he sits with me at lunch is probably cuz im his only friend that goes to Sprayberry! thanks so much! i rate high!
It sounds like he's just having fun with you. I wouldn't say anything because you could risk the friendship and make things awkward. Don't go getting all frustrated, just relax and accept him as a friend.
Hi. im a female at 13 years of age. And i need some advice. Ok so, I have a little bit of a flabby tummy. Its not a lot.. but i still feel uncomfortable with it. Most of the time in school I wear sweaters cause i dont want to show off my tummy. Christmas is sorta coming and I want some cute clothes that will look cute on me without people making fun of me for the little bit of tummy i have.
please help! i rate all 5's. thanks!
Well if you want to get rid of your little bit of tummy then exercise. If you can't be bothered with all that then buy tops that aren't tight/clingy around the stomach. Or you could buy some clothes that enchance your best asset to take the attention off your tummy.
I think I'm in love with my best guy friend. And that's cool and all, but he has a girlfriend, who I've met a few times and she's simply awesome. He says he's been in love with her for a few years, and she goes to a different school. They started dating over the summer, and I thought I would be okay with it all. You see, I've liked him since my sophomore year, and we're seniors now. And I really was okay with it all for a while, but then he started getting really flirty, and it's confusing me too much. What should I do?
Try not to respond to the flirting and back off a little. He's probably just having some fun because he thinks you're 'safe'. The last thing you want to do is hurt his awesome girlfriend and risk your friendship with this guy.
See, i'm gay, and thats why i have a gurly user name, i am really a man! my boyfriend just broke up with me, and i am really depressed, i look so straight in gay bars no one aproaches me, what should I do!? please help!
Maybe instead of waiting to be approached you could approach someone. The worst that could happen is they say no thanks and you never see them again.
See my friend (who ewveryone is tryin to hook me up with) is blonde hair blue eyes, is into drawing, art, japanese animation, and dresses like me, i mean not gurl pants and clothes but like the arm band necklace and all, and he is the same age and on the other side i am a brunette, brown eyes, and i love all the things he does. Im just wondering if I should dye my hair all the way blonde, and get blue contacts, because Im stupid and like no offense but like ive always loved blondes and wanted to be one, fav color blue, but im not shur if he would like it. Should I change?
No way! He's going to feel as if you're making yourself into a clone of him and that's just really freaky. That and you'd have to put up with blonde jokes all the time.
ok, i have a sister wh ohas these really digusting habits and i dont know how to make her stop. heres what she does:
1)picks at her nose(she dont eat it or anything, just picks at it..eew)
2)chews on her hair(and sometimes pulls it out and chews on it.i think one time she actually swallowed it.)
3)bites her fingernails(not just the nail, but the cuticle and skin around the nail..she'l just bite at it, rip it off, chew it and swallow it.its so wrong!!!)
4)picks at scabs so she can "taste the blood"(enough said )
Any ideas on how to make her stop???
She sounds really young and if so then just let her be. You probably have some really annoying habits that you just weren't aware of. Most kids do this stuff and she'll grow out of it, probably around the time kids at school start teasing her about it.
Alright I just recently asked a question on how u get a picture on your column. I did what everyone said and it then it said you tried to upload a picture but it was greater than 15k in your filesize. It couldn't be uploaded succesfully. Does anyone know what that means or how I can possibly make a picture um..smaller than 15k..whatever that is lol. thanks again..
I had the same problem with my profile picture. I just kept making it smaller and then saving it as that size until it became 15k.
aight there's this guy i've liked ever since summer. we were going out but then we stopped talking for a long time.. like 2 months? so i figured he forgot about me and didn't care, and i moved on. but then i found out why we hadn't talked, he had to go away for an emergency, and he wants to be still together with me, but i dunno if thats a good idea because we'll never get to see each other and we go to different schools. any advice?
If you guys won't be able to see eachother much then why bother? You've already moved on so it's probably best to completely end it now instead of setting yourself up to get hurt and then having to move on again.
What age would you let your Child date?? What would you allow them to do with Him or Her?
I think it depends on how mature the person is but in general about age 13. Although i wouldn't let them do much more than kiss until about 14/15.