hey what up.
you can ask me anything. for being my age i'm pretty smart, have a fair amount of common sense and i have been through a lot. I answer any type of questions really. i won't just give you random advice either. if i know how to answer, i'll answer, if i'm not so sure, i probably won't. i wouldn't want to say the wrong thing. and i don't tell you just what you want to hear, because most of the time, it's better that you hear what you don't want to. that's one piece of advice in itself. :P
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hey...well my problem is that i dont know whether i should break up with my boyfriend. we've been dating for a year now and i do love him..but the thing is that we're only in high school and i think i'll regret it if i dont go to dances and stuff with just my friends and not have to worry about a guy. but hes so sweet and we're perfect for each other. idk wut to do!!! (link)
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well, my opinion is that you shouldn't. if you really like him or love him don't break up unless you have a really good reason. and trust me--you won't regret not going to any dance without your friends. if your with your boyfriend it will be a really good night. and you'll probably see your friends. so don't worry.
but my other opinion is that if you want to see what other guys are like, you probably want to break up with him because then you're sayin that you don't like him as much as you used to.
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O.k.
I went to camp last week. There was this amazingly cute guy there. And he was in my biblestudy group. At the last bublestudy group, we had to write nice things about each other on a poece of paper. He wrote on mine that he thought I was an AMAZING person and that I was a hottie. I was totally happy. I thought that he really liked me. He usted to star at me all the time in biblestudy but after that, he doesn't.
Does he really like me? Or does he just think i'm a pretty face?
-Confused (link)
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well he pretty much told you that he likes you. he probably isn't staring much anymore because he doesn't know what you think about him. so if you talk to him and tell him what you think or how you feel, you might become best friends or more.
hope i helped :)
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it all started when i was in town and one of my 'mates' was flirting with my boyfriend. ofcourse i got magerly pissed off. but im not the sort of person 2 start a fight so i left it. then i went 2 my boyfriends that night and all he could go on about was how his back felt really good after my 'mate' gave him a massage. the next day i went to town and my best mate came up to mwe and told me my boyfriend said he fancies this 'mate' of mine and that he was goin to finish me. i got all panicy and started shaking and got really upset. when me and my boyfriend had a chat he said he wanted a break till monday but he still loves me. i then when and got my bike from work then came back to town. i saw him again and he called me over. he said he doesnt want to be with me any more(this was still the same day) he said he does still love me but doesnt want to be with me any more. he gave me a hug and i started 2 cry on his shoulder (i never cry infront of any one) he was like nothing is gona change between us. i said it will cus we wont be 2gether and he will find some one new. he said so will i. but i told him i wont cus i dont want to risk getting hurt again. which made him feel bad.
about 10 -15 mins later he was goin out with this ' mate' of mine which he fancies.
this was 4 days ago and i still cry every night because i love him. i want him back so much but every one says for me not 2 go there if he does come back to me. i know they are right but he said last night he misses me and still loves me. i know he wont finish his new girl friend for me. but i really want him back.
can some one please help me get though this. my 1st ever love. and hes gone.
i love him so much. some one help me.
thanks
xXxXx (link)
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i'm sorry about what happened.
if he still likes you and cares about you he should come back to you. but then again if he loves you he wouldn't have left you. i think he just wanted some time away from you and see the personality of the other girl. but in the mean time, don't really think about him. do something that will keep you occupied. he will come back eventually. you just have to be patient.
hope everything works out for you :)
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13/f
its almost been a week ive been sad. and he still ignores me. i found out another reason... he thinks i like another guy, and he thinks i flirt wit' him... and its pretty much natural rightt? you flirt when you dont' know that you are... but he should've told me to change, or told me, or asked me if it was true. Instead of saying "its over." and leaving me there.. thenn some of my bestfriends is on his side, and im like "we have sides now?" and hes still ignoring me.. he looks at me.. but he doesnt takl to me, im trying to straighten things out wit him.. but he wont listen to me. its nearly impossible to get his attention. if i told my friend to tell him he'll say "so?" in a mean way. if anyone wanna know what else happened.. aim me.. i need ALOT of advice. As for it.
he seems happier than i am right now. my life is messed up at the moment, idk what to do.. im sad, im stressed out.. i cried yesterday.. i felt like crying today..
the things i wonder; if hes sad too..
if he regrets it.. [but hes hiding it.. not sure]
if he still likes me.
lemme guess you must be wondering.. "why do you even give a shit about him ?!" maybe because i still like him.. and wondering if he feels the same. i want him back at the moment. its like nothing .. or nobody can cheer me up or get my mind off of him.. HELPP ?! ADVICE.. ?! (link)
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i have a friend that had a guy ignoring her but its a another story. what i think you should do is go up to him and ask what he thinks 100% about you and tell him that you still like him and care about him. tell him that you wouldn't do anything to lose him. and if he's still blaming for things just say sorry. even if you didn't do anything. (just make sure you don't do the begging sorry.)
i really hope it works out.
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My best friend and I are like sisters.We have known eachother for 3 years and been best friends for 3 years.I send her mail twice but she hasnt written me yet.What should I do?
Help! (link)
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i think she is busy and hasn't checked her mail yet. i don't think she would forget about you. and you might want to be a little more patient with your her.
hope i helped.
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i have a problem & i'm hoping someone can tell me how to deal with it. alright...i'm really shy to begin with. everytime i get a boy we break up because i won't open up to him. it's not that at all. i just keep my distance because i don't want to smother him or whatever. i feel that if i call & ask if he wants to do something or that if i walk up to him at school to talk to him that i'm interupting his life. any advice would help. maybe someone could give me some limitation for when to talk to him & when to leave him alone. thank you so much. [: (link)
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well if you're someone's girlfriend you are then part of his life. so if you talk to whoever it is they won't be mad because you're pretty much their's. they really don't like when girls don't talk to them. they get confused. just don't be afraid to talk to any guys.
you should ask him what plans he has for the week and that way you know when to leave him alone and spend time with him.
hope it works out!
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i'm a 13/f and all of my friends have already started dating. i havent even found out 1 guy that even likes me! my best friends called up my crush and asked him if he likes me. he said i'm not his type and that i'm too tall. i play volleyball and he plays hockey. so i think we have things in commen. but i just dont get it. i'm about 5'6 or 5'7 and he's around that height too. i am so sad now because i feel so behind. all of my friends have bf's and i dont even have a guy that likes me! i need some advice on how to make myself feel better about myself. please help!!!! thanks soo much! (link)
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first of all i gotta say that you don't need a bf to feel good about yourself. there is always someone out there for everyone. just be patient and your bf will come around.
hope i helped.
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well my "friends" Audrey and Emily got involved with a teacher harrasing them and he only said he wants to have sex with me. Well this guy Nelson told everyone about the harasing thing and some a couple of people came up to me and asked me if I got harrased and i said "He just said some things to me but it was mostly Audrey and Emily" but the people are telling my friends that i spread the thing about the teacher and they are saying i said I was the one mostly involved but i didnt say that. so now all my friends think i am a liar and stuff but i didnt lie. and they wont believe me, and they dont want to talk to me..
How can i make them believe me? i basically have no one to hang out with at lunch now because theyre accusing me of something i didnt do. i even told them that if they were my true friends they would believe me and theyre like "We just dont believe you"
please help me... (link)
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first of all, either if they don't believe you they may not be your real friends or you need to march up to the person who spread the rumor and tell them to set things straight. and you need to make sure that they do.
hope i helped!
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theres this one guy i like
he tells me he loves me and that wont ever change and that he's so happy he talks to me and he wants to hold me and kiss me
so obviously he likes me too
but when i go to his myspace all these girls comment him
saying i love you
and like text me later
and he says i love you back and comments there pictures saying cute and everything
i text him all the time too and i wasted all my 500 texts in like a week on him!!!!
and also my best firned started talking to him before i did and like he tells her he loves her too and i know its not a friend kind of love
and i dont know what to do!!!!
cause i really like the him but hes suck a little player/manwhore
i wanna talk to him
but i dont know that to say
someone help me!!!
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all i say is get rid of him. guys like that down fall in life. and you don't wanna go with him. i bet if you get rid of him, you'll see all the other people out there for you that really do like you and you'll enjoy life better.
hope i helped.
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i eat way to much all the time. like im not overweight or anything but i know it will cetch up to me sooner or later so i jsut need ways to stop eating so much & thinking about food all the time. (link)
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i know what your talking about it goes for me too. i noticed that i eat the most when i get upset about something. or i eat a lot when a lot of my favorite foods are around because i can't resist them. so what i'm saying is that if find the times your eating the most you can fix your problem.
hope i helped!
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there is a guy that i absolutly adore and he just has no idea who the heck i am.i have tried the accedentally running into him thing but he won't even look at me.
what should i do?
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instead of the accidentally thing you should actually introduce yourself. because if you just keep running into him he might get annoyed a little bit.
hope i helped a little bit!
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im gunna be a freshmen in highschool nd i need a WHOLE NEW WARDROBE! i wanna be known as the hottest freshmen in school, the hottest girl in school for that matter. what clothes and make-up should i buy? idc how much it is, give me the most expensive thing you can find for all i care. haha well anything reasonable actually that will look hott and will make my ex's think 'damn i shouldn't have let her go' somehting that will turn heads -- BREAK NECKS for that matter. =] thanks! (link)
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hey i'm also going to be freshman in high school too. here's my advice. i pick out what i like and usually its a main catagory. like last year i liked happy bunny and just other stuff. this year i ended up picking out sporty type clothes. i have had band camp for the past 2 weeks and believe it or not i got a boyfriend that wore sporty type clothes too. so i'm sayin' that if you wear what you like you don't have to impress anybody and you'll find guys and friends just by simularities.
good luck with fashion!
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