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I'm 18 and about to enter my sophomore year of college. Feel free to ask me questions about anything- I'll try to help in the best way possible! :)
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i dont want to have sex with my boyfriend we are way to young. but i masturbate alot and i want to do more with him, but i dont want to give him head or anything that would consider me a really big slut, we makeout all of the time and i really like him, weve been going out for like 2 years. what can i do what wouldnt b going "to far"
thanks alot :D
- carlie
Do whatever you feel comfortable with. If you want to move onto oral sex, go ahead. It doesn't make you a slut. You've been going out with him for two years. I'm not too sure how old you are though? But if you don't feel comfortable with doing it, then don't. If you want to do more, then simply talk to him. Just ask him to take it slowly.
13/f
do girls still have sex even if they have their period?
Yea, some girls do.. if they're both comfortable enough to do it.
so this summer i had 3 random hook ups and i cant't get over them. i guess i fell for the guys a little but i just cant stop thinking about the stories over and over.. is this completely weird or normal?
Yes, it's completely normal. I know how you feel right now, actually. You get over it after awhile. But it's fine that you keep thinking of it over and over again.
Are there any other ways of getting music for your iPOD besides buying it from iTUNES and stuff? Is there a website I can get music from? Anything? PleaSE?
You could use Limewire, but it's illegal.
how do you put lyrics on an ipod nano for aech song?
I don't have an iPod so I don't know, sorry. =(
okay first off, if you have sex, do you have to have your period during it to get pregnent?
AND...
do guys like it ALL shaved down there? if so, like how do you shave it all? i get like shave bumps.
I think you mean your first period? Yup, if you never got your period before in your life, you can still get pregnant. Always use protection.
Every guy has different preferences. Just do what you want, or ask your partner what he prefers. To make sure you don't get shave bumps, use a brand new razor, and shaving cream or gel. Soap is kind of tough on the skin.
I've been going out with my girlfriend for 4 months and i'm wondering when i can finger her
You'll have to ask her to make sure. There's not really a set time for when she's ready to move it to the next level, every girl is different. If you don't want to ask her, maybe kind of going for it and if she stops you, then stop.
i think there's something wrong with my vagina. I see other girls in porn videos or on the computer, and their's is like, way prettier. when it comes down to foreplay with my boyfrined, i only want to please him because im too embarassed to get undressed....is it me, or is mine just not normal??
All girls vaginas really do look different. Don't worry if yours doesn't look like a pornstars, they strive to make their vaginas look gorgeous. It's alright if you think yours looks a little funny, cuz really, they all do.
i'm 17/f. so lately i've been have a discharge down there.. it's like white and cottage cheesy i guess, but in like a clear liquid.. it doesn't smell or itch. i had my period 2 weeks ago, and i went to the gyno a week ago. i haven't had sex since then. what could it be? it doesn't hurt or anything.. i'm just wondering what it is.
Since it doesn't itch or smell it doesn't sound like an infection. It sounds pretty normal and healthy to me, so don't worry.
i need a backpack for school. i want like a large purse. thats loose fabric and has a long handle. it doesnt have to be huge..like this kinda...
http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp?catId=cat90052&productId=0427_7555
but a little bigger and longer handle....
any idea where i can get such a thing..please dont give me just a place..pics would be great. thx!
I have one from Victoria's Secret that was only $15:
http://www2.victoriassecret.com/commerce/application/prodDisplay/?namespace=productDisplay&origin=onlineProductDisplay.jsp&event=display&prnbr=3C-214777&page=1&cgname=OSPNKESSZZZ&rfnbr=3647
I also saw some cute ones at Gap. I tried to look on the website for them, but they aren't on there. There's still other ones on the site though:
http://www.gap.com/browse/category.do?cid=34740
what do people mean when they say ayooo? is it mean like "hey you" or what?
Yep, it means hey you, or hey.
What's the name of this song, and the artist?
The lyrics go like:
"suckin on them titties
like you wanna be callin me"
It's a rap-ish song.
"F*ck the Pain Away" by Peaches.
I have to get up at 6:00 A.M for high school... In your opinion, is it better to shower the night before, or when you wake up? Because, I have P.E...and when I take a shower, I preferably wash my hair. So, which way do you do it? This is a really weird question LOL
I take a shower at night so that right when I get up I can just straighten or whatever to my hair and it saves time vs. showering, blowdrying, etc. It beats getting up the extra hour. Plus, if you plan on taking a full shower after gym, it'd save a lot of time and energy if you didn't just take one 3 hours ago at home.
I'm turning 16 and I don't know what to ask for for my birthday presents!
Ah help, nothing too expensive, but tell me what you all want. I dont know what I want, I already have a cell phone, digital camera & laptop btw.
Since it's your sweet 16, how about doing something big for your birthday? Like getting a limo with all of your friends and going out to dinner and stuff with all of them. I want to get a new snowboard for my birthday, if you're into that kind of thing. Or if you play other sports, maybe some nice new equipment. This girl that I know's parents took her to New York City for her 16th birthday. You could also ask for money so that when you actually figure out something that you really want, you could get it.
you know that ashlee simpson song? i sadly can actually relate to it. my big sister is pretty much perfect-straight a's, varsity captain for soccer, charity work, sca president-you name it-she does it. i reallly try to make myself better but im just not that atheletic and math is just so hard for me. i feel like i cant do anythingright compared with her. how do i get out of this? i cant keep living like im a second class citizen.
Don't worry, I feel the same way sometimes. My parents even say stuff like "Your sister always had straight A's why don't you?." "Your sister never did that when she was your age, why do you?" It's annoying and it hurts because you will always feel like you're 2nd best. What you need to do is find a special talent that you have, something that your sibling isn't good at. I found out that I'm actually good at violin, and it really did make me stand out from my sister. Even though I do get the occasional, 'why aren't your grades high enough', it's good to know that I'm better at something than my sister is.
whats with guys and taking cold showers? i dont get jokes
It makes an erection go away
If i'm a size medium in tops and 6/medium in bottoms at american eagle, what size would i be at abercrombie&fitch? because they got rid of the store that was in my area so i'm ordering online now, and i never trust the size charts.
thanks :]
Usually a 6. I'm a 4 or 6 at AE and I'm basically a 6 at Abercrombie.
how do you know if a guy is having an orgasim ?
actually what is it ?
You'll know if he's orgasming if he ejaculates.
my boyfriend told me i was a freak. is that badd ?
If he was serious and he hurt your feelings then yeah.
Okay i am a 16/m And me and my girlfriend have been having sex for quit a while now we have been together for a little over a year. But a few months ago she got pregnant but she had a miscarriage and at that time we was wanting her to be but then we got worried because her parents are kinda mean and would probably start a lot of trouble and her dad has a bad temper. But my question is. We have used a condom but we neather one like them. So we dont use them anymore. I pull it out before i actually "Cum" but is it possible for her to get pregnant from just pre cum?.. Please answer ASAP.
Yes, it is possible for her to get pregnant from precum. Pulling out isn't an effective form of contraception. If you're worried about her getting pregnant again, make sure that she's on some sort of birth control if you don't want to use a condom.