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Heyy You c: the name is Jessie. I'm a cheerleader and a singer =] i laugh at anything pretty much, and it usually makes other people laugh. i am very optomistic unless its my own situations. photography is my love and i would be completely lost without my camera. making people happy is what i strive for. I care too much about what other people think, but i'm learning. ive been giving advice for a crazy amount of years and continue to do so. i've never been rated less than a 4. so.. i guess i'm pretty good. i tend to blabber on about absolutly nothing, and i'm pretty sure i've done that alreday so i'll stop

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What jobs can my 11 year old sister or 9 year old brother get?

for your 11 year old sister,
she can be something called a "mommys helper"
its a step-down from a baby-sitter.
what they do is stay with the kids and watch television with them etc., but while the mom is still home.
that way the kids are out of their parents hair, while their parents can do work.
it usually pays a good $5.00 an hour.

and as for your 9 year old brother, there is really no amazing job, but maybe he could have a garage sale or sell lemonade on a hot day.
that always gets alot of people, expecially if you tell all your friends about it.
chores may also help.

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I would really love to become an advice columnist, no matter how crazy that sounds. I know lots of young hopefuls would like to be one as well but you know.
I'm just not sure how I would become one, would I need to take a course in something or what, any ideas?

first you can start out by making an advice myspace or an e-mail just for that.
it may be easier if you are an anonymous advice columnist beacuse then you dont have to worry about it if people dont think your so great at first.
from there, just go with your instinct and tell people what you really feel .

hope i helped xo

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does anyone know where i can get the code to the default myspace layout but the 'skinny' kind? thanks!

just go to www.google.com
and type in "skinny layouts"
they have a huge variety


hope i helped xo

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anybody know any other sites rather then myspace and facebook, I like going there but I kinda wishing they new websites and more likey have little of everything.. thanks

:D here you go!
www.piczo.com
www.hi5.com
www.espinthebottle.com

hope i helped

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I need some help.. I am 14 years old and I still havnt gotten my period yet. I have been getting discharge for it seems like EVER ( I am very active and in a lot of sports idk if that helps or not) My sis (who is the same exact age as me we are twins) got hers like 3 weeks ago. Is somthing wrong with me?!?

You have nothing to worry about.
i also have a twin sister and she got her's 6 months before mine when we were 15.
It's perfectly normal.
If you have a certain type of eating disorder, or you are reletively too skinny, try gaining a little bit of weight because when you are too skinny, your body confuses itself into thiking you are too young to have your period yet.
don't worry. all in time.

hope i helped

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what's a site where i can find cute bathingsuits? i want ones that are of good quality like the ones at j.crew, any store/website is good :)

thank you!

(and i know, completely wrong category. sorry :()

hollsiter.com

1. http://www.ae.com/web/browse/category_womens_guide.jsp?rcid=womens&scid=cat90032&navroot=womens

2.
http://www2.victoriassecret.com/category/?cgnbr=OSSWMZZZZZZ

3.
http://www.lordandtaylor.com/gifts/OnlineShopping/LT?Dsp=3&PCR=21:200000:201791:201793:201796&c=1


Hope i helped love

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ok welllll there is this guy in my class and I like him ALOT we are REALLY good friends and we also flirt alot with each other= )but...he has a gf and idk wat to do should I stopp flirting with him? When ever I see him and her together it makes me really upset and confused = ( wat should I do?!?

If he flirts with you alot, he probolly doersn't like his girlfriend all that much.
It's not like they'll stay together forever, right?
For now, keep the flirting down to a minimum so that she doesn't come after you if she hears about it.
Trust me, the LAST thing you want is some girl hating your guts for trying to "steal her bpyfriend."
Just leave it where it is right now, try to meet new people, and you never know.. maybe they'll break up sooner than you expect.
Hope i helped love

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my friend threw a sleepover party last
night and i wasn't invited.. yeah she
could only have 11 people.. and they
prank phone called me like at 1 a.m and
it was obvious it was them because i heard
tons of laughing in the background.. they
didn't say anything mean but for some
reason the fact that they prank phone
called me and probably said something
about me while doing it is pissing me off..
i mean like why prank call ME ?! why not
someone they don't like.. ughh
i think its immature

what should i do?
am i overreacting?

Truthfully, don't worry about it.
girls always do that kindof stuff,
and even if it is MAJORLY IMMATURE of them..
don't sweat it.
they probolly prank called alot of other people, not just you.
maybe you just havnt heard about it because the people they called either didn't know it was them, or didn't pick up (i mean face it.. it was 1:00 am!)
so just don't even bring it up to them and forget about it.
it's no big deal at all.

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My best friend, Jackie, is going out with this guy, Joe. Joe is one of my really good guy friends. Anyways, I like Joe as a friend and nothing more. But when they will do stuff together i find myself getting kind of jealous and for some reason I want them to break up. Joe and I flirt sometimes but it's nothing major. anyways im the one that got them together and helps Joe with all the relationship problems, but it makes me kind of depressed when he talks about how much he loves her and that he wants to stay together with her for years.

And then the other night he was like, "Haha i love you ___(my name)" he meant it in a friendly way but it like gave me a weird feeling in my stomach. But I'm like positive I don't like him! So what's up with this? How can i get over it?


okay, its alright, your just jealous, not because
you like him or anything major like that, but because she has a boyfriend that cares that much about her. You want to have a relationship like that too and by seeing how sweet he is to her, it makes you sortof want him. Don't worry, you'll find someone just as great as him. Try not to interfere with their relationship though. If you
flirt with him too much, he may start to like you.
and even if that makes you smile a little, if you had a boyfriend that treated you so well and your BEST FRIEND was sortof interfering with it, would't you be upset?
ps.. 90% of the time guys say i love you to their friends.. they mean it. i think this guy may have feelings for you.

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15/M

Okay, Ive met this girl, we will call her T... well anyway me and T have been talking for like 5 months now and we liek eachother but still aint going out(she lives 45 mins away from me) Well I told her i love her which i do dearly i always think about her and what not... well anywayz we have been getting into lil fights recently because i want to be with her so bad and she is confused and doesnt know because he dad and mom are about to get a divorce and fight and she gets hit sometimes to and all that, and i have recently relieze me bothering her about a relationship just makes it worse becuz she is going through hell and 1/2.. sometime idk if we will ever work what should i do keep trying to work things out and be happy wait for her to see whats going on or just find someone else?

if you really and truthfully love this girl, and you believe she is the one for you, then don't give up on her.
Even though you both really like eachother and you do want to be with her, try not bothering her about it so much.
Just be calm and see if she brings it up.
She sounds like she's going through alot so maybe instead of getting into fights with her, just try being there for her and she'll see how much you care.

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14/f
ive been going out with my boyfriend for not even a month but ive liked him for a really long time we were at the movies the other day and i gave him a hand job..it was my first time and now i feel really slutty and i regret it..is this normal?

Also we said that we werent going to tell ne one and that it was going to be "our little secret" but i really wanna tell my best friend..do u think i should?

truthfully,
although he is your boyfriend and you have liked him for a while...
a month is a little soon to be giving him a handjob.
even if you were ready, it's natural to feel a little slutty about it because your scared your moving too fast.
trust me, there are many 14 year olds who have done that before.
but just like you.. they dont want to tell anyone because they think people will think they're a slut.
if you were ready.. its perfectly okay.
if you werent, just tell your boyfriend you need to wait a while before doing it again.

as for your best friend...
if she keeps secrets and will keep it,
theres no problem why you shouldnt tell her.
she is your best friend, right?
it just might be a little better if you ask your boyfriend if you can tell her..
just incase she slips...

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what is that movie called with brad pitt and angelina jolie.. where they are married i think.. and they are spys??
thanks 4 your help!!!
reply soon!!!

Mr. and Mrs. Smith.
hope i helped! =)

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Any other websites like advicenators?


I'll keep my account here for sure, I love this place! But I want more diversity and different types of questions and all that.

Thanks!

www.advicemall.com
=] its greatt.

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Does anyone know the song that has these lyrics?

Her bone structure screams, "Touch her, Touch her"
But my inhabitaions are still on duty BUT, BUT, BUT Do you see the way her eyebrows arch?
Imagine what her back can do...

its called the curse of curves by cute is what we aim for.
hope i helped =]

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Are strapless dresses made for girls with only big breats to fit at the top? I'm flat but I want to wear one but I'm scared anything bad or embarrassing might happen..

strapless dresses are made for everyone.
if you are flat chested but want to wear one,
you shoukd wear one! just make sure it not loose or anything, make sure it fits well. if its fits your waist but not your chest you can always have it hemmed so it fits perfectly and won't fall down.
hope i helped

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what is it?

phone sex is when you and another person arn't at the same house, or room or whatever, so instead you get on the phone with eachother and pretty much masterbate to eachother's moans and the thoughts of what they are doing.

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I wasn't really sure what to put this under, bu there is a dance this coming friday and I don't have anyone to go with and I''m not sure whether I should go or not. My friends are going just with friends, but I don't really look good in a dress and can't stand wearing high heels. It sounds like fun, but I don't want to look awkward in front of everyone. Plus I don't have a dress or shoes. What should I do?

of course you should go! it's a great experience and time to meet new people, and to just have a great time. go with your friends for now, and if any cute guys ask you to dance, you can go with them. If you don't want to wear a dress, try to find a cute skirt and shirt or dress pants to wear. or, even if any of your friends have an outfit you can wear. plus, you definatky don't have to wear heels. there are plenty of really nice dressy shoes, that are flatts.
Hope i helped

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last summer i met this guy at camp, and he was really cool and really cute. He told me he liked me, and i started to like him. well, we live in different states, so we only talked on myspace. I stopped liking him pretty much the week after camp. well, eventually we stopped talking and i guess he deleted me from his friends. we haven't talked in over 3 months now. Well, last night, i got a friend request and a message from him. He is COMPLETELY different and i'm not sure if i want to go back to being friends. He has a girlfriend, so he's def. not trying to get me to like him again.. but idk what to do. Should i talk to him?

okay well, you two definatly can't pick up from where you left off if you know what i mean, but there is absolutly no reason you shouldn't be friends with him again. he most likely just deleted you from his friends because he was upset you didn't talk anymore. i think you should definatly give him a chance as a friend.

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I've been contemplating becoming a Catholic missionary priest for quite some time. I'm scared to tell my friends and family that this is what I'm going to do. I'll be leaving a lot behind, but I feel called...

i think its an excellent idea.
and if this is really what you want to do with the rest of your life, go for it! nobody should stop you for being who you really are. they should accept you for who you are. and i think you'll be great at it.
much love,
Lex.

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Anyone know any good songs that talk about letting go of someone you love but you know doesnt love you back. It can be really sad if you want. Anything but heavy metal works. I really wont a song like that for personal reasons. Thank you in advance

*let me go- ashley parker angel
*without you- rosario dawson
*where is your heart- kelly clarkson
*when there was me and you- vanessa ann hudgens
*when it all falls apart- the veronicas
*very last moment in time- lindsay lohan
*underneath this smile- hilary duff
*true- ryan cabrera
*something i never had- lindsay lohan
*she will be loved- maroon 5
*perfectly- pixel perfect [movie]
*outside looking in- nick lachey
*notice me- pixel perfect [movie]
*if your gone- matchbox twenty
*if i aint got you- alicia keys.

hope i helped!!

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