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I AM A GURL WHO WILL TELL THE TRUTH NO MATTER WHAT. YOU MIGHT NOT WANT TO HEAR IT OR YOU MIGHT WANT TO HEAR IT EITHER WAY YOU WILL KNOW WHAT I'M THINKING. I LOVE TO GIVE ADVICE TO PEOPLE BECAUSE SOME OF YA'LL NEED LOTS OF HELP. MY MOTTO IS: HELP OTHERS AND YOU WILL GET MANY BLESSINGS. MOTTO TO OTHERS IS: DON"T HATE ON OTHERS BECAUSE THEY HAVE THINGS YOU DON"T HAVE.
Website: lady_nell_07@yahoo.com
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Gender: Female
Location: MICHIGAN
Age: 15
Yahoo: lady_nell_07@yahoo.com
Member Since: March 21, 2004
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I work the light board for school plays, but I'd really like to try out for a part. I love acting, but my stuttering problem makes it difficult. How can I prevent speech impediments from becoming an obstacle? (link)
u should do more speechs and things in front of people so u can get better at acting


pick a number 1-100 make it a good one or i lose (link)
25


plz plz plz some one help me i am 13 n dont no what to do all my friendz are comein up to me callin me things such as "lezbo ur gay ur ugly" u no all that n beond i try to not say ne thing cuz i no that whatever i say or do will be held a aginst me n im just not that stupid. i tell them that they need to grow up n just to get a life n let me live mine.they treatned to beat me up many times so i told my mom who called them up n said " if u ever threated my daughter a agin i will call the cops" my mom went to the skool consler n the princible n told them to do somethin about this or she will take me out of skool 4 the rest of the yr. they both called me n my friends down to the offess n talk to us 4 n hour n nothing has change. they all still hate me n i dont no what to do ...they just wont grow up n leave me alon. !!!!!!!!!HELP!!!!!!!!! (link)
ask them why they don't like and if they don't have a answer then forget them. if they tell you then try to talk to them about it


Hey I am a 14 year old in middle school, and i need to know when to ask a girl out. She is very uptight about school and does not seem that out going. I really like her and i am tring to observe some signs that she like me. any ideas?
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ask her can you get her number so ya'll can talk sometime. Let her get to know you better if she likes you you will know


hi, i am a female and i don't want 2 tell my age at the time i have 3 friends who r all in a fight and i am quite confused myself but they are sad and mad at the same time! chloe, jamie, and sarah are all angry and pouty and stuff they won't talk 2 any1 and they won't tell me wut is wrong sarah is really nice ,but she is very sad because of her dog dieing but idk if that is the prob. chloe is just mad at srah and jamie because they're really just ahhhhh.......... Jamie says there is some rumor that she killed sarah's dog which is so not true plz write bye! A.S.A.P. (link)
make them come to your house tell them its a emergency and when they come sit all of then down and talk about the problem


I have a really good friend. She is head over heels for the guy of her dreams. She even now dates him. She is overbering in a caring way. She really likes him but while she was gone i found something out. He thinks that she is crazy and is going to break up with her. I know if he does, she will be devistated. Should i tell her of the impending doom. If i do she might hate me but if i dont she will lose the guy of her dreams. What can i say? (link)
tell her she shouldn't hate you because your really letting her know in advance.Tell her in a nice way


My Friend doesnt like me anymore! I dont know why.. she just wont talk to me! (link)
ask her why she is not talking to you if she don't respond forget about her don't kiss her ass don't kiss nobodies ass


My best friend is like getting really annoying to me, and sometimes i like her and sometimes i don't. I don't know if she should be my bestfriend anymore, cause she get's on my nerves, but I have said I don't want to be her best friend about like 4 times and I don't want to say it again. But she told me we have to secretly be best friends because she told some of my other friends that her mom said that she shouldn't have best friends. And my best friend told me she doesn't want our friends talking about her behing her back.. What should i do. answer please asap!! (link)
she shouldn't be hiding ya'll friendship if ya'll best friends then ya'll best friends ain't no hiding it what for if mama don't like it oh well she will just have to deal wit it


How do you know if you are gay? and just so ya know I'm a girl please tell me i need to know! (link)
you may like the girl looks personality. i will say it like this you like a girl like you like a boy it no different the only thing about it that is different is the gender that's it


Im afraid to talk to a boy that I like because of nerves or something, like im afraid of messing up or embarresing myself. Even when we were going out I was afraid to talk to him in person. I would only talk to him on the phone because he is usually with his friends, and I easily get shy. He usually has a lot of girls around him because everyone thinks he is so hot and amazing. I need help with this... How do I get over my fear and go talk to him without it being through a friend or something? (link)
you talk to him like he's one of your friends because that's what he is and maybe mored than a friend


i have a boyfriend well two actually the first one i live with the second one is just a guy im trying to see if him and i can work or not there are things lacking with the one i live with so im not sure about the second one but he is pushing me and he promised he would not what should i do (link)
you should leave him be with the one you live with before he find out you got a man on the side and kick you to the curb. the guy that's pushing you around ain't no good

also try to work things out with yo man at home


I want to start telling people that I'm Bi but everytime I've told someone I can't seem to think of a better way to say it than just to say, really bluntly-'I'm Bi'.

Can anyone thing of a more subtle way of telling people? (link)
its no other way either way you say it your just saying the same thing so tell them you bi thats all to it


I have had my nipples pierced for about five months and I sometimes have pimple like puss come out. Is it infected? what can I do? It doesnt hurt or anyhting it kind of looks like there is a pimple next to my nipple.
thanks (link)
you should get that checked because it might be infected


Thank everyone who liked my poem. email me if you wanna chat devilsdragons66613@yahoo (link)
maybe i will one day


Is there any chance at all of a woman getting pregnant if the man wears a condom, without actual intercourse?
The penis would still be quite close (touching, probably) to the vagina, but not inside. (link)
if his sperm gets in you there's a chance you can get pregnant


I need help. I am going through a lot at this time of my age. My parents are at the edge of getting divorced, school is getting very difficult and the problem is my whole entire family is counting on me( i am have a extremely very big family).. I have my whole life planed out such as my carreers and the steps i will be taking. so much is going through my mind and i really need some to trust and talk to not only for a day. Any suggestions.
P.S. i have even bigger problems than this and i am only 13. (link)
first of all u just need one day maybe on the weekend or something and just relax you shouldn't be stressing out at your age. you'll be having gray haIR BY THE AGE OF 14 (lol)I KNOW YOU HAVE FRIENDS YOU CAN TALK TO A BEST FRIEND MAYBE.


Well..there were 4 guys that liked me but i turned down one..now i am stuck with 3 other guys that i like so much.... only one of them goes to my school and wen i talk to him online i like him alot but wen i see him im not really attracted to him and there is this other guy that i have known since 4th grade and i went out with him now and i liked him b 4 wen he was going out with this one girl at his school but now i think we would b better off as friends and this other guy is in high school and i like him alot and dont care bout his looks.. but is my sister's boyfriends best friend and doesnt want me to do anything with him...wut should i do?? (link)
if you get this feeling in your stomach and you feel shy around one of the guys then there's your answer but make sure you can talk to the guy like you can talk to any other guy


yes or no? (link)
tell me the question and i will let you know


There is this kid that i babysit..he is very difficylt to babysit and i wish i would get more money for babysitting him... i only get 20 dollars a day should i approach the mom and ask for more or keep my job and stay at the same amount? (link)
if the little mokey is a hand full ask for more money not only you have to watch the child you have to get headaches from the little creep too.


i know i've put you through alot of hell
i know you've tired so hard to break this timing spell
all the things that i've done wrong
all the things i've done for so long
how can i ever say im sorry for all the pain
you've been my shelter through all the rain
you were always there to show you care
and i pretended as if u werent there
i don't know the words to say
the words you've told me to help me find my way
all of the drugs and drinking
made me feel alone wondering and thinking
if you still felt the same
or if i had made you forget my name
if only you could see how much i love you
and believe me that everything i say is true
i know i've lost all your trust
but i will regain it oh how i must
i want you to think of me as ur little gurl again
your broken heart i will try to mend
i know its going to be hard to think of me the same
and i know mommy that i must change
i just wanted to be grown and act l ike an adult
and i know all things i did, u believed it was ur fault
i just want you to know that no matter what i will always care
i'll be right beside you juss to let u know im there
i will do anything in my power to to take away all the pain
help you grow...and help you gain
you've helped me so now its my turn
to help you out, to help you learn (link)
that was so touching you have a career for you keep writing those poems




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