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Hey there. My name is Jessica Danielle. Im an outgoing person. I love having funn and being loud. I make alot of mistakes. Usually because I dont think before i do or say stuff. I lose the best of friends often, but for very stupid reasons. Im such an emotional person. && I always let my anger get the best of me. There are alot of things I regret doing and some of those things have happened recently. Being noticed and being hard is overrated. Being yourself is true. Ive learned in the past few days that sometimes its best just to let people talk. Nothing matters if you dont let it get to you. Well, I let the talking get to me and I lost alot of friends. Im not saying not to stick up for yourself. Im just saying that one argument can ruin everything. Now, Ill be fighting with one of my bestfriends instead of laughing with her. Life throws unexpected turns @ you. Sometimes you can fix what happened, but there are those times that nothing can be done. My life isnt the easiest, but it sure isnt the hardest. I take my mistakes && learn from them. Ive been beig someone that isnt me @ all. Acting like your someone your not is the worst thing ever. I didnt act like that on purpose, I just lost myself somewhere along the line. && I lost all sight of whats really important. Fight ing doesnt make people respect you, it makes them fearyou. Why would someone want people to fear them is what i dont get. Its not who you hang out with, how you dress, or whos ass you beat that makes people like you. Its how you make other poeple feel when they are around you. It took me a long time to notice that, but I finally got it. Bragging about fights youve been in is stupid. Being hard is stupid. Not being true to yourself is stupid. Holding gruges is stupid. Being who you are && who you want to be is smart. Dont let people push you around, but dont push other people around. I love my mom no matter how much of a screw up she is. She made me who I am today. Shes amazing. Please, dont make the same mistakes over && over again like i have. Live. Laugh. Learn. Grow. Be you. && Forgive people. ;}remember to please google your question first to save less time :) thankss.
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ok i have naturally light blonde hair, but i have the under layers dyed a dark brown. yesterday a/k/a wednesday i went to the salon to get some lowlights in on the top. i told the girl i just wanted a few dark streaks throughout my hair to add deminsion [sp?] but told her i didnt want it mostly dark. instead i end up with a head full of dirty-dishwasher lightish brown hair with a few random strands of my natural color as highlights. i dont like it at alllll. is there anyway i could go somewhere and get someone to strip out the color from a few selections of my hair so i can get the streak effect that i wanted? i dont want to highlight/bleach over the color i have now i just want some of my natural color back =[ and i want it to look like what i intended for. i know stripping is bad for your hair but it has GOT to be fixed and waiting for it to fade out is just not going to do the trick. can they strip out certain chunks like that rather than the whole head ? PLEASE help the only time ive ever dyed my hair is when i did the under-layers so now i dont know what to do!?
well i had to go get my hair colored for my birthday. and my hair is blackk. and what i wanted was a coffee color full with darker and blonde highlights. and in order for my to go lighted they had to bleach my whole head (i know, rudee) but thats what they had to do to make my hair lighter.
if all you are wanting to have your natural hair color, then they can use this blue chemical stuff and it eats away all the hair dye. but you would have to ask for that. i mean if you just go in and ask for your natural hair color and what not then they would end up bleaching your whole head. and that would kill your hairr.
So the Bibble say not to have tatto's. I think that's because God dosnt want you to hide or ruin (or somthing like that) what he created. So why isnt it the same way with make up? Its still hiding what God created. Does anyone know why wearing make up is diffrent? All answers apreciated.
I think that why he doesnt want us to have a tattoo is because they are permenant and that would be damanging something that he created. And make-up wouldn't be considered damaging, because it can be washed off. but i seriuosly doubt if he would like for us to cover our natural beauty.
But thats just what i think....
Um, Okay. So me and this guy have been talking on the computer for about 2 years, and we go to the same school, same grade, SAME ENLIGSH/HISTORY class. And we've never ever ever talked to eachother ever. What are somethings I can say? I pretty much know him pretty well, and I think he likes me, and I like him too. But I can't like, officially like him, untill we talk in person, yeah? And he is really shy around me, so that makes me shy around him. What do I do? How can I keep a conversation going! Help.
a good way to start a conversation is to find out something that they like, whether its sports, hunting, fishing, singing or dancing, etc. try to have a convo about what he likes and what he does for fun & then make your input opinion. kind likes this....
You: Hey Brad (we'll use that) what are you doing this weekend? anything interesting?
Him: Oh, im just going to hang out with my friends and play video games.
You: Sounds like fun. Have you played that new guitar hero game. Its pretty sweet. Alot of good old songs. Are you into that kind of music?
Him: Uhmm yeah i just got that game for my birthday. I kick butt. Ugh the music's alrightt. Im more into country.
You: No dude i would kick your butt at that game. Wanna try me?
Him: Yeah sure, Saturday, my house, 7:00. Be there.
See how that worked out. Try to get into his head. And learn about him. No matter what it is, act interested.
Happy birthday jessica i hope you have a good birthday well i just wanted to tell you that and that i love you and have fun with aj tonight aka apple~bottom
thanks :) ill try to have all the fun i can.
i love you toooo
ok one of my friendsis kinda jealous of me and my other friends relationship...it seems like she is tryin to split us up! what should i do?
to me these kind of situations are a lil childish. just because you have other friends, your friend shouldnt be jealous. even if you dont have time for that friend as much as you do with your other friends, you should just always make sure you balance them out. maybe invite her to hang out with your other friends ( all together ). if your friends dont like your other friend than you could possibly hang out with one on monday and the others on tuesday.
try to even talk to her about it. you cant be told who you hang out with anymore. you are your own person.
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I love you very much hambone you have been there for me through everything even when sonia and goldie was tryin to think they was goin to kick my ass well it didnt happen cause they never showed as usuall well anyways i love very much and i dont know what i would do with out you well peace and love ~aka~ *applebottom*
i love you too eryn.
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she was reading it the whole time.
hi everyone!!
you know how everyone has their "trademark thing" ?
like, some ppl use a bunch of " i" (like iii love u)
and some ppl say mkay instead of okay
or like, a trademark smiley =D
whats your trademark thing? im trying to come up with mine. thanx so much!
i always like to use the word "bunk" and "mooley". bunk means unecessary. and mooley is a word that i am known for saying ALOT. i kinda made it up on my own. it means retarded.
The only thing I heard was "You can put the blame on me, you can put the blame on me, you can put the blame on me". Who is this song by and whats it called?
its by akon. and its called " Blame it on me "
i use one finger, because two wont fit.
and it feels good, but i cant get an orgasim!
help!
well when a girl does it to herself it dont feel as good as when a guy was to do it to her.
:]
theres this kid from my camp that I want to go out with over the summer. He likes me and vice versa. He might not come back and that would ruin my summer. Hes the one guy i want to be with from camp and it would work out if he could only come. I was really looking forawrd to a fun drama filled summer (and maybe some making out) but now im disappoined that theres a great chance he wont be there.I dont really know how to handle this. Any words at all would help. Support. Advice ( even though this is not exactly a question ) thank you.
well,
even if he does not come back to camp this summer, you should still have fun, you might even meet someone else that can bring you that summer feeling. but dont think that you wont ever see him again because if you were meant to be together than fate will bring him to you (and i believe that). Summer is the time of freedom and i always hate having a boyfriend because then you dont have time for those memories with your friends. and those are the ones that mean the most. im not saying dont think about guys, its hard to not when your a girl, and i understand that because im the same way, but try to make more out of your summer then just boys and making out, have fun, thats what summer is all about.
well i like this guy and he likes me, and for these past few days at school, he acts like how he usually acts to me, and attempting to go near me which im confortable of. then maybe in like math class or whatever, its all different. Then on computer, hes nice again, then hes all of a sudden saying stuff that kinda of hurt me. So my emotions are practically a roller coaster ride. sometimes i feel like i want to break up with him, and half, not to. he hugged me once, and i wanted to hug back, but i always get too nervous. But what really bugs my is that my friend likes this other guy, but is always going close to my guy, and it really pisses me off. i ask her if she likes anyone but she says this other guys name. she always kinda tries to "steal" him away, by standing next to him. like if i was beside him, she would go slowly beside him. i dont ever want to whine or anything because i dont want to ruin our friendship. so all my emotions are all messed up now and i really dont know what to do. i dont know what to do with the my guy, and my friend. any advice would work. :) thanks.
hey,
i think that this guy of yours is surely interested in you. alot of guys have a weird way of flirting and showing their feelings. I had a boyfriend just like that. and im sorry to say but most relationships kinda like yours dont work out for too long. if you are not happy with being with him because he acts mean and rude towards you then the best thing to do is to break up with him. you said that you wanted to before and i personally think that if someone even thinks about breaking up with someone then they should follow those instincts & and do it.
& your friend, ughh, i hate girls like that. but i mean she is your friend, and friends ALWAYS come before boyfriends. boyfriends come and leave but friends are there for you no matter what. So, what you need to do is to talk to her about it. Dont just ask her who she likes, just tell her how you feel when she does this to you and him. hes your boyfriend you should be standing next to him. and if your friend does not understand where you are coming from than when she stands next to him, you should hold his hand and make him laugh, you know like make her jealous ( no im kidding that would be mean ) the best way to handle this situation with her is to talk to her. she should understand if she is a true friend :)