Hello. I don't claim to be a specialist and I don't claim to know what I'm talking about--unless I do. I'm not going to fill your head with a bunch of bull just becuase I don't know what I'm talking about, I will refer you to someone else. Feel free to contact me by messenger, i'm usually logged onto them via cell phone but will hop on a computer if possible. Anything else, ask
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The only thing i wear for make-up is mascara. I dont know why i just never really use anything else. What could be some make-up i could use that would look good?
my cloumn is: http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=fabulous11
if you want to see a picture
thankss :) (link)
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Theres a brand of make-up called GloMinerals. Its all naturally made with vitamins and just things found in nature and even looks natural when you wear it. It allows your skin to breathe which helps prevent break-outs. I bought some from my Dermatologist. It's quite expensive, but it's well worth it. My mom bought me the eyeliner and loose powder foundation. We paid $58 for the two of them, but you don't really use that much when you put it on. The eyeliner is harder to get off so it doesn't wear off during the day.
I would recommend getting yourself some eyeshadow, eyeliner, mascara, and clear lipgloss. It would make your face seem less innocent and you wouldn't look fake.
I'm not a professional so I'm not sure what colors you should use.
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Do you know if you really get free cosmetics from teenfreeway.com? Have you ever triend it? As a teenager, I just want free cosmetics without a problem. I am 13 years old. (link)
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Yes. Just be sure if you sign up to uncheck the box that says you want offers from Teenfreeway. If you don't do that on all the offers, you get bombarded with emails from them everytime theres something new to offer. Most of the offers and just samples too. Like perfumes are just enough to use one time.
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I was wondering what are some pretty good things to tell someone when you comment their picture? I'm getting tired of say"gorgious" & "wow pretty" & all that other old stuff. Just give me some nice things to say.
thanks :D (link)
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-Amazing
-Wow. This picture is so captivating
-I love your outfit!
-You look so pretty
-This picture brings out your eyes
-Looks so perfect
-All i can say is ... WOW
-Your so photogenic.. i'm jealous
-You never looked better
-I can't believe how good you look
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My name is Liz, I am 16 and I have a boyfriend named Dalton. I am in love with him so much and I'm positive he loves me too. I'm really serios I am full fledge in love with this guy. Last night we were at his house and he brought up the idea of sex. I didn't know what to say so I told him I wasn't ready. But now I think I am so should I go for it? I know I love him so please don't say that I am too young or its not worth it. (link)
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I can't say your too young to do it, but make sure you know you're ready. You don't want to do this then regret it later on. If you are for sure ready, then you what you please. Just make sure you're both ready for this and have no doubts whatsoever. The worst thing you can do is have sex when you arent for sure ready.
I regret my first time though I try to live life with no regrets. I wasn't ready and I just let him pressure me into it. I loved him, but I just wasn't ready at the time.
If you do have sex, be careful and know your risks. Use a condom please. Most guys don't like them, but they are completely worth it.
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alright so last night i asked my boyfriend if he was ever in love and he said yeah and i was like do you still have feelings for her? and he was like i always will but its was over along time ago and always will be.
so in a way that got me thinking would he ever love me?
or always lover her?
what if she ever came back, would he leave me for her?
even though it was along time ago.
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You never forget your first love. It doesn't mean he would leave you for her. It also doesn't mean he'll never love anyone else. Your first love is just the one person who captured your heart first. I'm still in love with my ex, but I love my boyfriend now even more. I would never leave him for my ex. If you're truly committed to each other, you have nothing to worry about. He'll probably never forget this other girl, but obviously he's trying to put her in his past and move on with someone else. You can fall in love more than once, or at least thats how I feel about it.
He may love you someday, you just have to give it time. A relationship has to grow over time. Don't rush anything and don't worry about it because if you're going to worry, it could cause problems between the two of you.
Just live every moment to the fullest and just put that in the back of your mind. Everything will be okay.
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It's really hot so I've been wearing thinner clothing but you can see the fabric of the bra I'm wearing. Does anyone know of a type or brand of bra that I can wear that is smooth and doesn't look lumpy or anything under my shirt? Thanks a lot. (link)
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Victoria's secret has seemless bras that are really comforable. I honestly don't know the name of them because I don't have any of them now, but they work under any type of clothing. Also, if you want something cheaper, hanes makes a bra called Loveable, and they have a pushup bra that is virtually invisible under clothing. Thats what I wear all the time. you cant see them under your shirt and theyre really comfortable.
You can find them at WalMart for like $10.
Sorry I can't give you a whole lot of details, but try walmart or victoria's secret.
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Are there any sunless tanners out there that actually work and do not turn you orange?! I have very fair skin and even when i go out in the sun, I do not tan. I either burn or just stay the same and when I burn it's red, but turns right back to white.
Please give me a link to ones that work. Price doesn't matter, but please have used them before or have a friend that's used them. Don't just go by commercials.
thanks :) (link)
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Well.. I get naturally tan but i HATE tan lines so I've been using Coppertone spray tan. It doesn't turn you extremely dark all at once so you look like your naturally getting tan but as you use it more and more you get darker and darker. It does really good matching my natural tan. Though I do turn a slight orangy even with a natural sun tan, but it doesn't look bad at all and its a spray so its not messy.
I don't have a link to it, but you can get it at like wal-mart for I think $8.99.
And a word of advice, the things like Jergens natural glow and all that work, but they are pretty orange and they tend to wash off after a few showers. And they leave you kind of glittery looking so it doesn't look very natural. And the Build a Tan by I believe Neutrogena doesn't work either. It turns you an odd shade of orangy tan and looks horrible since its so hard to get it all even. It also turns your hands orange when you rub it in.
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14/f
sometimes I get this weird feeling where my vision gets all blurry then all i see is black and for about 5-10 seconds I can't see anything and my whole body gets like that prickly feeling that you get when a body part falls asleep, and sometimes my muscles like tremble (it's NOT an orgasm i assure you)
i have no clue why i'm like this.
it rarely happens, but when it does it's really weird
so just tell me what you think this is. (link)
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It could be nothing and it could be something. If it happens when you suddenly stand up from sitting or laying, its probably just the blood rushing through your body trying to get back into full circulation. Your circulation changes when you lay down or stand up due to the change in gravitys force. That is completely normal to have happen on occasion.
On the other hand, my boyfriend has a heart condition which causes him the same problem. If he suddenly stands up or sits down, he gets numb and feels faint. That is due to poor circulation because of a weak heartbeat.
If it happens often or you actually pass out, you definitely want to get it checked out because it could be extremely serious.
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I wear a 34A bra, and my breasts are just too small for the rest of my body. I wear padded bras, but I've only found one kind that fits me right.
What I need is this:
1) Bra that has a lot of padding that looks smooth and natural on the outside of my shirt.
2) Bra that has some push up so give me cleavage while making my breasts look bigger all around for low cut tops.
I'd really prefer to hear from girls who have USED the bra before and approve of it...not just guesses. Brand names would be great...but links would be even better. (link)
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Wal*Mart carries a bra by Hanes. Its like a branch off Hanes called Loveable. They have various types of pushups. The one I wear has an adjustable hook in the front and is padded but still looks completely real. My best friend is a 34 A and wears the same thing but she looks like shes about a 34B. Its not a whole lot of difference, but it at least looks natural. And a plus.. they only cost $10
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i dont really pay attention to ratings because i just started but i gave someone a detailed answer and he gave me a 3. its not so much his rating its his comment:
Thank you for your answer. I would give you a 4 but you didn't capitalize. Otherwise it was a good answer.
what does capitalizing have to do with anything? (link)
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Capitalization may make it easier to read i guess, but I would think punctuation would be a little more important. Thats not a good reason to give a lower rating if the advice was good.
Neatness is important, but if it's at least readable then theres no reason for a bad rating.
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what jobs can a 15 year old get in Illinois? (link)
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You can work at places like Pioneer or Agriland. They work in the corn and soybean fields doing various tasks like collecting samples for research and pollinating. It's not that hard of work and it pays minimum wage. You usually work like Monday - Friday from like 7am- about 4pm (maybe earlier or later on both times)
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what do you think of sophomore year? i heard its harder than the freshman year whats the diffrence between freshman year and sophomore year? which one do you think it was better? (link)
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My freshman year I just kind of slacked off. It was extremely easy for the most part, except my advanced placement classes sucked. freshman year your adjusting to the whole idea of high school. I got into partying during my freshman year. I started caring more, but it was also a little more difficult.
Freshman year was definitely easier and more fun, but don't take it all too lightly, you regret it in the end.
*I'm going into my senior year, finished all my advanced classes and still have a lower GPA due to goofing off my freshman year*
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i work in a restuarant and my boss is really weird. he's like in his thirties but always hits on me and asks me when im finally gonna let him take me home. it makes me really uncomfortable but i dont knw what to do about it. i asked him to stop but he just tells me to stop teasing him and that he knows i want him.
plz help if you have any advice.
Oh, im 16 btw (link)
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I would definitely talk to my parents about it before you take any major action. Have them go into work with you and talk to this guy about it. It's sexual harrassment for him to do that. Before taking any legal action you should let him know its making you uncomfortable. He may just be joking around and you just need to let him know hes taking it way to far. If he denies there is a problem, I would go to the police and file a report. They will be able to take you through the rest of it. Just go to your parents and let them decide what the best form of action is. There is no reason for him to be like that towards a young girl or any of the employees for that matter.
Good luck!
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I don't really understand threesomes.. I mean I know that it's three people having sex, but like what do you do?
If it's two girls and a guy, does the guy go on top and stick it in one girl and then move onto the other?
I just don't get it..
and my boyfriend keeps talking about it so I don't want to be awkward at it! (link)
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Every threesome is different from what I hear and from what i've seen. (and have been in one) The threesome I was in was when two of us were drunk so I don't remember all the details, but my friend that was with me filled me in on what happened. He basically just went back and forth having sex and doing stuff to the both of us girls (keep in mind this was my best friend and a guy she liked) Us girls didn't do anything to each other, but sometimes the girls do. He would do stuff to me for a while, then go do stuff to her for a while and keep going back and forth. It was fun (mostly because I was drunk and anything was good at the time)
In some movies i've seen, the girls will do stuff to each other, like finger each other for perform oral while the guy watches and gets turned on. Then the guy does stuff to a girl while one girl is watching. Sometimes all three of them do something to each other. Like one girl will perform oral on the guy while the other girl is making out with him or something. I've also seen where the guy is playing with one girls boobs while the girls are playing with each other. You can do it however is comfortable to you. Though threesomes can be sort of awkward.
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this came to mind yesterday...
is London Tipton (from suite life of zack and cody) supposed to be a mimick of Paris Hilton??
think about it-
they both have first names of famous cities, both have last names of a hotel, both are rich and famous, both are really dumb
ha ha... (link)
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I've wondered that myself.. I think it may be a mockery of Paris Hilton's life. i think they are discreet about it because it is a kids show on a kids channel. That would be an interesting question to know the real answer to ..
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18/f
my boyfriend and i want to try something new with our sexual life- a threesome.
i don't want to with one of my friends and he doesn't have any female friends.
where can we find someone who will try this with us? and would we be safe using a condom, or can you still get STDs with those? (link)
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That sounds like an interesting idea and actually my boyfriend and I are in the same situation. We have thought about going to a gay bar and meeting a bi-sexual girl that is attractive to both of us. it sounds kind of dirty, but I would be more comfortable with someone I wasn't going to have to see on a daily basis. You could spend a little time with the girl first to kind of get to know her before you drop it on her of what your wanting to do or you could just straight up ask her. If you just flat out asked her and she said no, it would be the end of the story. You'd probably never see her again and it really wouldn't matter. If you devoloped a friendship first, your boyfriend may decide he actually likes her. And thats my biggest issue with having a three-some. I'm usually not the jealous type, but I can't help but thinking that since he's been with me so long, maybe he'll enjoy having another girl around and decide he wants to explore whats out there and maybe take a break from me or something.
As for using a condom. It's safe but then again not safe. Since its one guy, you two girls aren't going to be protected from each other. He will be protected, but as he switches back and forth having sex, your bodily fluids are being passes from girl to girl. So your not really safe.
Good luck and have lots of fun!
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so im 17/m and in highschool. not to brag or anything, but usually, i get all the girls i want, even if they dont like me to begin with. as you all know, its the end of the schoolyear, and i've had feelings for this hot, sweet, innocent math teacher for quite a while now. she's the only woman who can make me nervous. when i first realized i liked her, i made an oath to get closer to her, no matter how much of a distance she keeps btw her students and herself, and luckily, i have. so we play around and everything, but today i made the mistake of touching her. not inappropriately at all, or violently, but i sort of caressed her face for a second, which i could tell she wasn't comfortable. even though it happened quickly, she kind of pulled her face away, but i did it anyways. i dont want it to be awkward tomorrow, and i dont want to REassure her i like her, so can you ladies give me some tips on what i should do.how would you feel, and what might she be thinking? should i ignore her, or should i apologize? thnx (link)
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I think you should appologize to her. Obviously you made her feel uncomfortable. She probably felt so uncomfortable because she is your teacher and it is against the law for her to be with a student due to age difference and because it could interefere with her job. You sort of did over-step your boundaries by making even a slight move on her and you really do owe her an appology. Make sure you acknowledge you know there is a problem with what you did and let her know your sorry for doing so. Reassure her that it will not happen again and that no one else is going to find out it happened.
I know you say you like this woman, but shes your teacher and it would get her into trouble being with you. I don't think you want to ruin her career to satisfy your crush. Sorry!
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Ok. As a summer job I'm going to start baby sitting. I'm 15 years old and I have many recommendations. I taken 1 year of a babysitting/parenting class. How much should I charge? (link)
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I'm not sure how much most teens where you live charge for babysitting, but here in Central Illinois, most teens(even without classes) charge about $2 - $2.50 per hour per child. Some also just charge a set rate per day or per week. Usually they charge around $15-$20 a week (for one or two children, more for more children) or around $70-$120 a month (once again depending on how many children) I would say for one child and your experience, $2.50 an hour or $20 a week would be reasonable for one child. And if you wanted to do just a monthly fee i'd say cut them a brake and say like $90 a month. Good luck!
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omg, i woke up at 10:00 o clock with a HUGE zit on my face! usually i wouldn't worry about it but i'm having a HUGE party at noon (in 2 hours) today. how do i make it go away without buying anything? i can't buy anything because my mom is out shopping for last minute things and she forgot her cell phone =,( so i dont know wat to do i need to get rid of it asap.
omg anybody, everybody please help me! (link)
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You can always put a little ice on it, and it will at least take the swelling out of it and make it less noticeable. Whatever you do, Don't pop it. it will make it even more red and noticeable. You can put rubbing alcohol over it and it will dry it out and take away any pressure in it which will reduce swelling. Good luck and Have fun!
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13/f
i live with my dad and i dont shave yet. wat can i do or say to make him think i wanna start shaving my legs? plz dont tell me to go to the store and just put some in the basket, kuz that will no work...kuz i'm 13 and i still dont shave.
dont yall think thats crazy?!? just tell me wat i should say or do. please and thank you
p.s. i'm very shy even around my dad, so i'm not just gonna come out and say it.
p.p.s. i can't go to anyone else...
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About the only thing you can do is to just ask him. He should be expecting it eventually since he is raising a girl Just be mature about it and sit down with him and just say something like "Dad, you know i'm growing up fast, and I think it's time I start shaving my legs."
As i said, he knows hes raising a daughter and girls have needs. He should be okay with it.
You're going to have to deal with him again when your start your period and I think that'd be more embarrassing, so you might as well start opening up to him on something a little more simple for the both of you before that day comes (if it hasn't already)
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