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we want a threesome
18/f
my boyfriend and i want to try something new with our sexual life- a threesome.
i don't want to with one of my friends and he doesn't have any female friends.
where can we find someone who will try this with us? and would we be safe using a condom, or can you still get STDs with those?
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omg i would totally have a 3soem with u
i freaken love those things!
although if its your first one it could be a lil awkward since u want to be commited to your bf im sure and it woul dbe odd to have another guy or girl do you. i say go for it its really amazing!
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you shouldn't do a threesome its untrustworthy and its not fair it doesn't show any commitment your boyfriend having fun with another girl why not a guy for your pleasure? your an idiot and so is your bf get a life your a freak who is controlled by your bf such a bitch!
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So i think the people before me have given you some creative ideas for this... my friend had a threesome a month ago with her friend & her friend's boyfriend. she figured it would be cool because she makes out with that girl when she's drunk anyway. wellll, the guy likes the other girl now and the relationship is ruined because of it so think about it before you do it. the girl said that she felt awkward... like she was helping the guy cheat but otherwise it was fun. just letting you know... but whatever you choose to do... have the other girl get tested, do use condoms (maybe change them when he goes from girl to girl) and have fun. <3
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You should be safe with condoms but bare in mind that you'd also need to be more careful if it's three of you (1 guy and 2 females). This is because the only one really protected will be your boyfriend. If he has intercourse with the third girl and then with you straight after he could very well pass on something from her to you. For this reason I strongly suggest that you opt to have the third person you want to do this with to have a medical checkup to make sure she's clean. It will only be doing yourself as well as your boyfriend a good thing. Also, a condom will be little protection if, for example, a blowjob is performed. Any cuts in the mouth are a way to pass on germs and STD's. FOr this reason I suggest being safe and everyone getting tested before hand. This way you all will know everyone else is safe (since the third person you ask to join may well want the same assurances). THese are the kind of checks that are undergone by porn stars as well to ensure they are all safe and clean. :]
As for where to meet someone. I know of a web site that you can try out where you may find someone (it's not an instant thing but it's the only one that I know of) and the people on there are generally very friendly. It would be the ideal place I think. Please send me a message to my inbox. To do this go to my column and then click on the 'Ask Questions' button. In the new window it should say at the top you are asking ammo a question. If this is there then you're at the right place. Please just remind me who you are and to send you the link to the site I mentioned on here and I will do so through a private message. This is just to avoid advertising the site to minors on this site. :]
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That sounds like an interesting idea and actually my boyfriend and I are in the same situation. We have thought about going to a gay bar and meeting a bi-sexual girl that is attractive to both of us. it sounds kind of dirty, but I would be more comfortable with someone I wasn't going to have to see on a daily basis. You could spend a little time with the girl first to kind of get to know her before you drop it on her of what your wanting to do or you could just straight up ask her. If you just flat out asked her and she said no, it would be the end of the story. You'd probably never see her again and it really wouldn't matter. If you devoloped a friendship first, your boyfriend may decide he actually likes her. And thats my biggest issue with having a three-some. I'm usually not the jealous type, but I can't help but thinking that since he's been with me so long, maybe he'll enjoy having another girl around and decide he wants to explore whats out there and maybe take a break from me or something.
As for using a condom. It's safe but then again not safe. Since its one guy, you two girls aren't going to be protected from each other. He will be protected, but as he switches back and forth having sex, your bodily fluids are being passes from girl to girl. So your not really safe.
Good luck and have lots of fun!
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