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how do i lose weight in my thighs and calves??

too loose weight in your legs, the best exersize is running. also, when running drink a lot of water. also try some leg work-outs...they may help.

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what do i do about a controlling boyfriend? my boyfriend is allowed to mess around and talk to girls but im not allowed to talk to guys! i found this so unfair and everyone thinks he has total control over me because when we break up, and he asks me back out, i always say yes. is it because i'm weak or i'm just under his little 'spell'?

break up with him and lose all thought about him. a controlling boyfriend could end up being very dangerous. be strong if he asks u out again, if u must, keep repeating no.

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what do u do if u like ur EX-girlfriend and u know u cant get her back but yet u cant get over her or stop thinkib bout her?

either sooner or later you will get over her. i got over my boyfriend after a month. if not, try to get her back. it could never hurt, ya know/???

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wut do i do to play hard to get???? plz give me some tips to get the guy i lyk to notice me
thanx,niki

well, to play hard to get make him WANT you!!! you dont even have to be flirty, just be around the guy, and make him see you. you dont have to be slutty, but you could act sexy. be loud (not obnoxious) around him, and funny.

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ok...i admit it,i kinda have a reputation fer being kinda slutty...but i dont do stuff...
even tho i'm kinda slutty...all these guyz expect stuff frum me n they obsess ovr me n it bugs me whenevr they do that(some try to touch me)...how do i get them 2 stop being perves and get them to lyk me for who i am???

first always remember to ignore it... maybe you can make a statement by becoming less slutty, try wearing less revealing clothes, and hangout with people that...well...dont act slutty as well. if they keep at it, get aggressive, and tell them to step off....and...if u must push them away.


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im trying to find a song for/about my boyfriend that ive been dating, and im having no such luck.. any ideas? thanks =) ..im 14

hmmmmm try starting line--best of me. thats a good song. do something sweet, but something he would like

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I just turned 14. I'm about 5'5 and weigh about 105 lbs. I feel I am fat for some reason even though I wear extra smalls and zero's in clothing and everything. Everyone thinks I am very tiny but I don't see myself that way. Because I feel I am fat I try to do 200 crunches a day along with running for about a half hour. Is there anything else I can do to loose weight and just tone up more? I also don't eat much. Like for maybe a couple days a month I'll eat like breakfast, lunch, and dinner. But all the rest of the time I usually only eat a small breakfast and that's it. Am I over doing the whole weight loss thing? Everyone has been yelling at me and saying I am overdoing it and I really want to know if I am. Please help and answer. Is my weight ok for my height and age? I both cheerlead and run track and want to make sure I am skinny cause for some reason I feel people won't like me otherwise. Can someone please give me some advise and help on the situation? Thanks. *Love Always Annonomous*

i am close to ur age and i weigh 110 pounds, also 5'2. i do as many sports as possible. swimming, horseback riding, softball and soccer. my advice is to eat more and work out more. this way u even it out and still have a nice body. these days you dont want to be too thin. it saddened me when i heard u say u only have one small breakfast. thats very dangerous. you need 3 balanced meals a day. try eating powerbars. you dont need to lose weight to have a nice body. just get a nice 4-6 pack and some muscle. (guys go for it ;);) wink wink!) take up a sport or two, something ur good aT. if ppl only like u cause ur skinny, then they arent ur friends. thats rediculus. you weight is good for ur height and age, and actually could be heavier. please have 3 balanced meals a day, otherwise if could be dangerous.


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what is the best way to lose about 10 pounds fairly quickly? i am 14 years old so i dont have acsess to many things

the best thing to do is run/jog. also snack on fruits and veggies!!! yummy! lol. drink LOTS AND LOTS of water, which will REALLY help..


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Is it true that if you sweat a lot you will lose weight?

yes it is true, becuase you are losing body fluid. but at the same time you need to reyfrate yourself, which will also help..


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im sick of always changing myself for everyone else and now i just want to be myself but idk who i am anymore...what can i do???

first of all, try to remember. second, if u cant, have a new YOU. choose a type of music u like, clothing you wear, and personality you have. combine that and voilah! its you. if anyone makes fun or questions you, ignore it, its you. if u dont have yourself, you dont have anything.

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Okay I am really into rock/hard rock and some classic rock. I have a lot of CD's already but I am looking for all the suggestions I can get cuz I really need some more for this upcoming road trip I have. If you could please just leave a few bands names and their CD's names that fit into the rock/hard rock/classic rock column. Thanks a lot!

well, you probably already kno them, but slayer and metallica are awsome. u will llllllllove them tho.


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I'm 13 and i'm havin a lil bit of guy trouble.Ok there is this really cute guy i know but we havent really seen much of eachother.Well the thing is when i was in 3rd grade i really liked him but then i moved when i was starting 4th so i never got to really talk to him again.Now it's summer '04 and im goin to start 8th.So one night i was stayin at my friend's house and he had told her to call well we were havin too much fun to call him so she gave me his sn and we started talkin to eachother online.It turns out that he liked me in 3rd grade also so he asked me out & i sed ok but then we broke up cuz we weren't sure if it was going to work out.But he always asks me how my love life is so the other day when i asked how his was he sed bad so i just went ahead and asked y is it....he answered cuz i broke up with you.is that really believable????He has also been talkin to one of my other friends and telling her that he likes me and everything but i don't know if he really does or not.I mean i kinda like him since we've been talking to eachother but does he really like me too?plz help.

well if hes saying it behind ur back AND to ur face....well...not literaly. then accept it!! feel happy that he still likes you!! i'd believe it. give him a chance....try to make time for him and see him more often. far-away relationships suck badly, but u can make time to see him. keep trying!

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i just got my report card!! it suks!! in maht i got a D3B and a D in the final exam and for the final grade i gotta D 2!! i got an F on the social studies final exam 2!! my parents are gunna c it wut do i do?!?!?! ahh!?!?!?! there gunna be mad they always want me to do better in school i will but this report card it wuz too late. wut do i do? i miyt just have to deal with the long annoying speech but i dont want to!! this suks!! try n help me sum how pleaz!! ah!! help!!

just admit that you didnt work as hard as you could have. the next year do the best you can! everyone has a bad report card once in a while. work really hard to get ur grades up. and idc if u dont like speeches, suck it up and do what your parents ask you, it all comes out good in the end. start taking responsibility now... or never.

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here i go:
okay my best friend...."Nancy"....well we have been friends for about 3 years and well we have a lot of fights about stuff!! we just recently had a fight and she said "we have 2 many fights" and she hasn't been talkin 2 me a lot usually she is the one approachs me and says "hi" but now i'm sayin "hi" only she won't talk 2 me!! i said 2 her okay u wanna b like that fine so i haven't talked 2 her!!! what should i do?? she is gettin on my nerves and she is actin like a child, i am 2 mature for this kind of childish behavior!!! Lemme Kno!! :)

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childish behavior? if you think she's being childish (please forgive me for saying so) then you do something about it instead of just giving her an attitude and walking away! My friend and i are always in 827450827450982370495872 fights a year, and we always make up, no matter how bad it is. one of us always comes out and says somthing. reciently, my friend and i were in a fight, and i confronted her, explained myself, and it was over. please, just confront your friend and say this is what i did wrong, and admit what you did wrong. believe me, it works.


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