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ok so i met this guy at a debate tournement and he lives an hour away and he gave me his number and i want to call him but i dont know wut to talk about. i dont know wut to do please help me. (link)
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alot of people dont realize that because you dont know eachother gives you alot to talk about because you need to get to know eachother.you can start off about debate team then you can ask whatever pops in to your head...come on you have to be curious about him in some way and wonder about his interests and what not....just call him And if you click it will all flow...if not then its no big deal..its best not to plan what to say because you never know what the other person will say...
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14/f well i really need advice soon please..Well on Friday afterschool..i was hanging with my friends as always, and this guy comes..and i never met him in my life..but he kept flirting with me and asking me whats my number and if i wanted to "bone". (He was just joking though,just to make me laugh) he was really cute..he kept asking me out and for my number but i was too shy, i wanted to tell him yes..but i didnt.i think on he is coming to where i hang out next frieday...so i need advice,do u think he was serious when he said he wanted to bone...cuz i thought he was joking but i wasnt sure, please give me tips on how to flirt with a guy and show him that i like him..in a sexy way.thanks in advance
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There are other ways to joke besides that and any guy who comes up to you in that manner is probably no good and then asking you out when he barely knows you is a sign that maybe hes a little on the sleezy side and wants something else theres a slight chance that hes ok but i wouldnt set your heart on him you can try it if you want..but maybe you should throw up the i dea of getting to know him alittle more and see what he says to that just get it straight to him on where you stand oh yeah and flirting in a sexy way with someone you dont know isnt really a good way to go because it could give some one the wrong idea just a warning but if thats how you are or the message you want to send then by all means do it....i guess..but i wouldnt reccomend it what i would reccomend is just being your self.
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I cant stand my friend, but sometimes I still like her. How do I ignore her without letting her know that I'm purposely ignoring her? Or how can I tell her that I dont want to talk to her really without actually telling her ? (link)
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If your saying you cant stand her and are even asking this then stop calling her a friend.....maybe more of an accuantance...the bottom line is shell probably eventually take notice to this treatment as will those around you no matter how discreet you are...youll probably lose your so called friendship with her to but maybe thats best...some dont click...you can try nodding and grunting or just acting like your occupied but believe me shes going to know better sooner or later..if shes your friend then talk about how your feeling if not then end the sherade because usually people can see through that kind of thing
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ok u know the guy i dumped for tallon he was just using me !!! and before i dumped him he was hanging out with this girl ignoring me and he said he loved me and now i miss tallon im sooo mad and when i dumped him the girl he was hanging out with they went out after i dumped him and she dumped her bf again for him! (link)
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well it should teach you a lesson..not everyone has the best intention for you....you live you learn
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I was going out with this one guy that I really liked for a little over a month. But then he started wanting to know where I was, who I was with, and all that stuff. He called me a million times a day and when I didn't answer his call he'd keep calling until i'd pick up. or he'd leave messages cussing at me asking why the f*** I wasn't answering my cell. Plus, he wanted all my time and if I was busy, he would just ask to come with me and do it too or come with me and my friends. So, I broke up with him.
Now, he calls me still and leaves a million more messages, wants to be "friends" and now he's bugging me even more now then he did when we were going out. He says, "I love you, babe" and all that crap.
should I take it or call the cops or what??
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i would talk to the cops about it because hes alittle extreme and people like that could get violent so save all th evidence you have against him because youll need it
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i have a huge problem...i am going out with this guy who is really nice but i have this HUGE MEGA load of a problem i like him but i like someone else more although the other person i like is (his brother) and i can't break up with him because THE BIGGEST COUPLE HOLIDAY is NEXT WEEK!!! please help
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That doesnt matter...if you dont like someone or like someone else more then its not fair to either of you. You can break up with them..i mean yeah a holiday is coming up but thats kind of a superficial thing to base the idea of keeping a relationship going on.
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Love at 16...?
What do you guys think? Is it possible? Or is it just a bunch of teen emotions? (link)
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it depends on the person...i think its possible as long as your sure if its true love then you dont have to question it or have anyones opinion. I would say its very possible because just because your 16 doesnt separate you from human and love is a human emotion..just becareful because some people are immature and might use that against you..so make sure the one you love feels the same way if you do love someone.
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ok, well i need to loose weight, and fast. im pretty much average weight for my age, but i seem heavier than everone else. i dont play any winter or spring sports, but i play tennis in the summer. and i have friends who play no sports, eat like pigs, do absolutly no exercises at all, and have perfectt bodies. every day i run for about 30 minutes and do about 200-250 crunches. ive been doing this for two or three weeks, i know im not going to see any results yet, but, am i doing enough to see any differnce? my weight is always on my mind, not that im all fat or anything, its just not good enough for what i want. ive been eating one meal a day with maybe one or two snacks in between, is there any more i can do? should i be seeing a differnce anytime soon? (link)
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you should diet to get to the weight you desire then excercise to tone because its harder to lose muscle.
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I am 20/male in college, but I am having trouble approaching a girl in one of my classes. I sit in the back and she sits in the front, and we leave in different directions after class. How can I approach her and what do I say once I do? The only reason I mention that we leave different ways is because I dont want to follow her out and look like a stalker or something. But I guess my biggest problem is just knowing what to say. Thanks (link)
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why dont you wait for her to sit down in class and then walk by her as you go down to your seat and say hi how are you doing and smile.If shes interested that will get the ball rolling.
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I will give you my description first I am a small girl, I have a heart shape face sort of like the shape of Halles Berry's I have a small head, I have a caramel complexion my eyes are sort of small but nay way I want to get a afro. And, I don't know how it will look and how people will react to it I would like to know what you t hink about afros as women how do you think they look, and males I would like to know if you find them atrractive or at least decent looking. I would like all opinions and all view on it, I'm on the fence right now. (link)
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I think alot of black women can really pull it off as long as its kept neat and not overly long.any time ive seen it done ive always thought it looked nice.
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im so mad.. my parents wont let me go to sleepovers or even have my own sleepovers because they dont want me to get hurt, or get some other kids hurt and get sued or something. it sucks because like everyone else gets to have them and that sort of thing doesnt happen often. i know well.. it DOES happen but I'd rather take that chance and enjoy all the fun. my parents grew up in africa, where they only had sleepovers after traveling far from their homes. so my mom (mostly her) thinks that we cant really have them either with our friends, and we should sleep in our own beds. ugh. the same with going to the beach. alot of my friends get to go with their friends to the beach, new york city, etc but my parents like.. probably wouldnt let me bring a friend along. ughhh this sucks.. what are the odds of us getting hurt? its possible ya, but... well.. ya! its frusterating!!! (link)
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have you ever asked them what exactly do they think is going to happen that would lead to someone getting hurt...i mean at most sleep overs its usually a few girls sitting around talking,watching movies,and eating pizza or some other snack and just bonding.....nothing really dangerous about that....What makes them think that the home is such a disaster zone..usually accidents happen from careless acts but youll more then like just be sitting around talking and what not...what do they think the cealing is just going to collapse on someone..its harmless and it not like they wont be home...really its a good way to bond and bring people togeather.Ask them if maybe they could give you just a fair trial run and if something goes terribly wrong then youll never bring it up again...out of all the places youve been to a sleep over is one last places that your at risk of getting hurt
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my dog has been throwing up about every other day... im really worried.... (its the same throw up every time.. its her food) Should i buy the enzyme powder? or try a different food??
does anyone relate to this?? (link)
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try a diffrent food if it continues then try the powder if it still goes on see a vet.
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i have this idea to like buy a carnation for random kids at school that normally dont get appreciated. i dont want to tell my friends and such, so they dont tell others, so that they'll expect it.. then it wont be the same. like i'll buy 1 or 2 roses for like the kids, and the people will give it to them. i read it in a book called "chicken soup for the teenage soul" or whatever, that someone did that and it like changed their life. so do you think this is a good idea? :] (link)
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I think friendship would be a better gift because from my pperspective if someone did thaat and didnt really bother to get to know me that would kind of turn me off...and just because theyre consider unpopular or unappreciated doesnt mean they think anything of it,are un happy,and and dont have a life...in away that would belike pin pointing them out...i think if you honestly do care then you should attempt to give them friendship that is true rather then a flower because in away that like saying hey lets give all the loser flowers because i feel bad for them being loseers..im not saying that thats how you feel or that they are losers but thats how it comes across and it could backfir so why dont you try giving these people some attention by getting to know them and then give them a flower as a token of genuine friendship.
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do you think that giving a hj as a freshman is slutty? because some of my friends have.. not my close ones but i know that a lot have. and i have a boyfriend that i really love and like i want to but like a lot of my close friends would consider that to be slutty. like i really dont think its that big of a deal. (link)
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I think it is if your not engaged or married and no im not religious...its just my opinion..but its whatever your comfortable with...just be prepared for repercussions if you do such as it getting around that you did it and future guys thinking thats how you are or manipulating you to get that,embarassment,being considered a slut,being used,or just plain regret...just know that not everyone has your best intentions in mind and if you cant be proud of it then dont do it...Also dont think its something that you have to do to get or keep a giy.
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Ok well this might sound stupid 2 u but I am very worried. Ok well all of my friends think tht I'm 14 but I'm not I'm 15. I just entered h.s and all my friends think we are the same age. Well I need help please help me make up a lie. Because I need them 2 think that I am 14. Ok in gym class we have 2 write our bate of birth and I can't they will know I am 1 yesr older please help me.
Ps. I know lying is bad but I am desperate.
And please don't say 2 tell them the truth because I can't thanks! (link)
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listen its not like you16 or 19 and in with a bunch of 14 yearolds...you know usually its a plus for younger peers if someones older...besides its only a year..and its nothing out of the ordinary..are you worried because you failed a grade if thats a case which im not sure if it is its still not a big deal it just might peek interest but its nothing to be that ashamed of and once again its not uncommon..if you dont write the date or make one up then the p.e teacher who probably already knows that your older will probably call you out on it...lies will just lead to more its better to come clean about it nonchalantly because it really isnt that big of a deal because just think if you keep stacking up iles of lies which you will have to to keep it going then eventually someone will find out and that stack will come tumbleing down right on top of you...its not worth all thhat trouble over something that small and insignificant...why are you so embarrased?
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I'm always unnoticed, no matter what group I'm in. My friends in my group now sometimes don't even realize I'm there, and i really feel like they dont care about me or dont want to hang out with me. How can i be noticed, and make people smile, and just flat out like me? It seems like no one in my group thinks of me as a good friend besides maybe 2 people. It makes me really sad and i'm not confident or loud, but thats what i really want to be. How can i do that? How can i make people notice me? thanks.. (link)
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you n need to be true to yourself...just start speaking your thoughts and embrace your individuality and what makes you unique...maybe being loud isnt who you are...and theres nothing wrong with that...just start saying your opinion whenever you have one...or just whats on your mind..its probably not that they dont like you its just that since you dont say much they dont really know what to say to you or know you enough to bond with you..so show them who you really are..it doesnt mean you have to be loud..unless that turns out to be who you are..but just be yourself...
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okay, see i have just started my period so i have no breasts. Prom is in 3 months and i want a really cute dress. but one problem, i have no boobs! i have a water bra, so people think that i do. would they have grown by then? or what can i do to make them look bigger? (link)
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Every ones diffrent so i cant really tell you when your boobs will develop if they do...but you can still where a water bra just find a dress that hides thestraps or detach the straps from a water bra and where it like a straples just make sure the dress is fairly tight up there..maybe you could find some of those artificial boobs if you know what im talking about .or you can by a regular bra and stuff it but you might as well be happy with what you got its nothing to be ashamed of...and some girls dont develop until theyre 18 but some people are just flat chested.But if you just started your perioo im asuming your either a late bloomer or just hitting pubery and so you are still developing but i cant predict when theyll grow or to what extent.your best bet would probably be stuffing or the water bra with a dress that covers the strapss. Just remember when you do develop people might notice a diffrence in you bra size and when it comes down to it your going to have what you have when the bra comes off..and you shouldnt care what other people think because there are other thing that guy are attracted to besides boobs well decent guys anyways.But its really whatever your comfortable with but just dont make them to much diffrent in size because people notice those kind of things.....when i was in highschool there was this girl who came on the bus every day and people including guys would say her boobs changed size and shape everyday...which indicated that they wreen't real....its ok if you do it jut dont over do it to where they are to dirastically diffrent or out of proportion because not only is it noticeable but also you have no idea what size your bbooobs will be one tthey do develop.
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my cousin asked me if i would ask this boy out for her so i did and he said that he didn't like her but he said hell no iam not going to go out with her and now somebody spread a rumor that i told everybody that they go out and now my cousins mad at me for something i didn't do what should i do? (link)
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Wow he sounds like a rude jerk...talk to your cousin...if she doesnt want to give in a couple weeks and shell come around as for rumors they fade a way and people lose interest if its not true then dont worry about it....im sure shes just embarrased and hurt by the rejection and the way he said it and then the rumor just made her feel worse..it will blow over try buying her some candy or something else she likes and leaving anote or card explaining what happened with it leave it at her house or something like that....shell come around
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yes, i have a bf but i also have this friend who like watches every move i make i can never do things at my own pace cas she always gets hers and her bf's nose in everything...i really love my bf but i want to go at my own pace not hers....wht should i do??? (link)
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exactly what you just said go at your own pace not yours..just because your her friend doesnt mean your her puppet or under her control..everyones diffrent and thats ok... who are they to tell you how to live your life...Dont let anyone decide who you are no matter how good of friends you are.
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At school, I am always struggling to make friends. I go over and talk to people but they always walk off. I try to get their attention, like make random jokes, and give my class a laugh every-so-often. I am pretty outgoing, and I am never shy or mean around people. I love people. But at school, people treat me like I am invisible. I always have to sit by myself at lunch, and it's been so hard teachers tried to get me hooked up with new friends but of course that never lasts. On myspace I used to have like 200 friends (and yes, I knew them all), but now I am down to 80. It slowly went down through the months. I am always trying so hard to befriend people, but nobody ever thinks about walking over to me, and talking to me. I try making conversations, but like I said, they walk off and ignore me. What can I do?
And yes I asked if they are mad at me, but they said no. They always tell me that we're good friends, but later on they totally ignore me no matter how hard I try talking to them.
I hope I didn't confuse anybody or not make any sense (I'm trying to explain the situation as best I can) but please help out if you can. I would really appreciate it! Thanks so much. (link)
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edit well if their showing feelings back then obviously they do care and you do have some friends...its just that sometimes people get caught up in thheir own lives and like for people to come to them rather then coming to other pepe...when that happens you should tell them how they make you feel but if they make you feel that bad then you need new friends...or maybe you do have friends you just dont realize it. maybe you need to bond more or somethig
Your trying to hard and people can sense that kind of thing. Just dont try as much or continuously go friend hunt just take it easy alittle bit for a couple of weeks without seeking people out or anything...then people might start coming to you.The more you focus on not having friends then that what youl get no friends because your attracting it by focusing on it so much...its better to come across a few people who will be true friends the 200 people who barely acknowledge you. Just stop trying so hard and kind of give the vibe that your not worried about it stop addressing these people who ignore you if they begin to come to you after a couple of weeks then ask them if they want to do something but if they dont then theyre not your friends and might even see it as an ego burts if they notice that your striving for their attention so just let those people go. and remember that there will be plenty of oppurtunities to meet new people to befriend.
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