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i have a huge problem...i am going out with this guy who is really nice but i have this HUGE MEGA load of a problem i like him but i like someone else more although the other person i like is (his brother) and i can't break up with him because THE BIGGEST COUPLE HOLIDAY is NEXT WEEK!!! please help
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Last year I had the exact same problem, exept I didn't like his brother, I liked his best friend.
Valetine's was right around the corner, but I couldn't bring myself to breaking up with him before it.
So a couple days after it, [so it'd be more subtle] I casually told him that it wasn't working out. I offered to give back anything he'd given me, but he was a little suprised and told me I could keep it. We're still friends, but there's always been a little twinge of jealousy when I'm around him.
And I waited a week to tell his best friend [because that's a rule I have with myself. If I break up with someone, I wait a week so it wouldn't make me look like a mean skank.] It turns out that he liked me too, but he wouldn't go out with me because I broke up with his friend.
...But a couple months later when his friend got a new girlfriend, he asked me out.
Hope that helps somehow.
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i think you should give him a chance. If you want to have a boy friend on valentine's day i would keep the guy you have now. BUT MAKE SURE U REMEMBER that if you want to still be going out with him on valentine's day then MAKE SURE that u wait AT LEAST wait a week before breaking up with him because if you do not wait and imediately break up with him people would say she just kept going out with him to get a valentine's day present and you definately do not want people saying that. But if you really don't like him and really want to break up with him and you can't wait a week after valentine's day then break up with him as soon as possible.
hope this helps !!
x3 kaylee
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That doesnt matter...if you dont like someone or like someone else more then its not fair to either of you. You can break up with them..i mean yeah a holiday is coming up but thats kind of a superficial thing to base the idea of keeping a relationship going on.
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