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Question Posted Thursday February 8 2007, 8:28 pm

me and my ex broke up about a week or two a go i lost my virginity to him which at first made things difficult. He is now going out with the girl he went out with before me. Now i have been moving on because in this situation i think it is the best. Well he kept iming me all the time un until today. Basically everytime we talk it would be some kind of competition i hate it. I want to be friends with him but its hard. Last night he finally said out of possibly frustration you were right, i just wanted to get in your pants and he is telling me to move on and stuff when he is the one iming me and talking about other guys i am seeing. I dont understand, he was the one who said we should just be friends until we fix things. I dont get him, Why do you think he is acting like this? Do you think we will ever be friends?

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orphans answered Friday February 9 2007, 12:05 am:
Above all, he is making you sad. You dont deserve that and thankfully, u dont need him. You just think u do. I know its the end of the world but trust me, you ll find yourself a cute boy who will make you forget about him. Actually, he will make you forget about everything roflmao!!!

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audra answered Thursday February 8 2007, 10:55 pm:
first of all i am sorry that you are having a horrible time with you ex.

i'm sure that him saying 'that he only wanted to get into your pants' was nothing more then fustration, and pissibly jealousy of you moving on with your life... like you said before, HE is the one that keeps IMing you, so HE is the one that can't move on.

it is for the best that you two broke up, if he can say such hurtful and angry things to you then he doesn't really care about you; you want to stay friends with him, but he is making that too difficult to do.

cut your losses, and block him, don't answer him, and you will be helping not only yourself, but him as well, he needs to move on, so don't be his enabler. force him to move on with his life by not communicating with him, and you will be helping yourself by not going through his verbal, and or emotional abuse. his extra baggage is not of your concern anymore.

good luck!

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pouncebaby9 answered Thursday February 8 2007, 10:20 pm:
as far as im know you should block him or refuse to talk to him. but what would i know im young haha. if he used you and thats all he wanted why bother talking to him? who cares if he is acting like that he doesn't even deserve to talk to you. well i hope i helped you but if not this is just an answer i came up with haha

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