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♥hey guys, my name is kaylene and i kinda like giving advice. i don't give a ton of it though bc i do have a life, school, track, friends, family..ya kno, typical teenager life..

i'm up to meeting new people;;oh yahh, dont be shy about asking questions!!

â?¥when i stand up for myself and my beliefs, they call me a bitch. when i stand up for those i love, they call me a bitch. when i speak my mind, think my own thoughts, or do things my own way, they call me a bitch. Being a bitch means i won't compromise what's in my heart. It means that i live my life my way. it means i won`t allow anyone to step all over me. when i refuse to tolerate injustice and speak against it, i`m defined as a bitch. the same thing happens when it ake time for myself instead of being everyone`s maid, or when i act a little selfish. it means i have the courage and strength to allow myself to be who i truly am and won`t become anyone else's idea of what they think i "should" be. i`m outspoken, opinionated, and determined. i want what i want and there is nothing wrong with that. so try to stomp on me, try to douse my inner flame, try to quash every ounce of beauty i hold within me. youu won`t succeeed. and if that makes me a bitch; so be itâ?¥

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ok i'm outta here byye

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I have a horrible problem. I have uncontrollable farts. Sorry, if that's too straight forward, but it's soooo embarassing, and like everytime it happens, everybody laughs and looks my way. I don't even expect it coming!! Is it something I'm eating? Or do I need medicine or something? Please-- be serious because I'm already humiliated enough by writing this.

I'd say go to the doctors.

&& don't be humilated writing this, nobody knows who you are!

good luck

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Today I got my period and thank god I didn't go to school. It came down jus like that and I was feeling relly rellly great! Then 2dai I went to gym and when I started working out I felt like something in my stomach was boiling. IT hurts alot alot allllot!!!! Isn't the gym supposed to ease the pain of the periods?''PS...I'm not preggy or ne thing

i strongly agree with the others

&& yahh if your on your period, your not pregnant!

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Is it possible for boys to be anorexic?

I'll rate 5's to any answer

♥ Kendall

why not

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i dont want this to sound really pathetic but i dont have any friends! at the start of this year i went off to college without all my old mates and now they dont talk to me and i havent made any new ones.. i have tried to make new friends but it hasnt worked. im not very confident and i am really shy, has anyone got any tips on how to 'fit in' a bit more and make new friends? thanks x

be a friend to make friends, sounds cliche but its true.

just talk to people in class, like small talk. and then like ask them if they want to walk sumwhere with you, like go for a walk at the park or track. maybe go out to lunch??

i dunno..i'm not good @ this kinda thing.

yahh you don't have to fit in to make friends.

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Ok well i have this guy friend that well he gives me rides to school and when he's working ill go up there to help him cuz i know that he can't always get it all done and sometime it seems like he likes me but sometimes it doesn't and he has a girlfriend and when hes around me it like its just me and him and the world is not even there and the girl he's with really doesn't deserve him and i'm not saying i do but anyways she really doesn't deserve him and he knows that i like him but sometimes i just don't know what is flirting and what is just being a guy......i need some help how can i tell if a guy is flirting or not.....

Signed BeMyShiningStar

the other person did pretty well answering it.

i'd flat out ask him.

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Ok so I finally did it with my boyfriend. We have been going out for about 6 months now. It was my first time and he said it was his first time also. Now that we have had sex that is all he wants to do. And I'm not down with it. I've told him before but he doesn't listen and keeps trying. What should I do to get it in his head?

yahh what the other person said.

sex isn't the whole relationship && if he can't understand that, well then hes not right for you. anyways it would help to know how old you were..but its okayy.

maybe you can write him a note/letter explaining how you feel if you really want the relationship to work. maybe since he thinks he got it once that you'll give in and do it again. maybe he doesn't know exactly why you do'nt want to. its hard to drill things into these sex driven guys.

sry thts all i got

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Does anyone know how to make a xanga layout?
Is there a certain of site to learn HOW to make an xanga layout.
Or any site that you can create a xanga layout?
Or a site to give you steps to make a xanga layout?

Sorry for all of those questions, but I really want to know how to make one.

I rate high

I'm not sure.

but there are alot of sites where you can find ones that are already made. its really not worth the hassle if you can just find one.

sorry thts all I got

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I am a guy 5'6 and in 7th grade 3rd marking period. Is that tall for my age? And does anyone know if I will stop growing or not? I heard guys stop in highschool( middle)

depends..

in 7th grade, i'm a girl, i was between 5
8 && 5'9

i'm now 5'9

so yahh..

tall isn't a bad thing, atleast i do'nt think so.
yahh you won't stop growing for a while most likely..is ppl in your family tall? if so u'll probally be tall 2

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13/f almost 14
I think i'm getting my period. >:|
Lately, I've had white stuff in my underwear and REALLY bad cramps [i got sent home from school for them today; along with the fact they made me puke.] Also; My boobs got bigger in the last month. What do you think? Do you think I'll get it soon? What should I do if I get it in school?
Thank you.

i think its definately a possibitly. you might get it soon && if it happens in school, either start carring pad with you or you can go to the nurse. there usually really nice.

hope i helped

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ok my hair is really curly and all but like i dont know what to do about it like straighten it takes a long time and when i take a shower it just goes right back to curly and i also have bad dandruff and i dont know why its annoying and all but what are some things to do with my hair its very curly like i said

i rate 5

maybe get it chemicaly straighted??

i dunno just an idea

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okay i have to get a filling tomorrow morning and i am so freaked out. i HATE needles more then anything in the world. can you tell me from your personal experience how bad the shot hurt for you??

the other people did pretty well

and well yahh you might not have to get a shot

i didin't

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I'm doing track and field. Yesterday was the first day. I'm not much of a runner, I do the field events, but yesterday all we did was run. Now my thighs are killing me. I have track again tomorrow and we're going to run the 100 meter most of the time. How can I stop my legs from hurting? How can I prevent them from hurting?

this happened to me 2.

even tho i am in shape. just get over it ( wow tht sounds mean! )

after the first few days, it'll get better.

run the 100 meter most of the time? whts tht mean??

ok yahh && stretch!!

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13/f

i love guys... i have liked so many.. i'm like your typical guy crazy teenager. when i talk to them it makes me happy, and i love kissing them. but i had a dream where i was rubbing a girl's breats, and i liked it. i have never been attracted to girls and i am not now, i just like their boobs. what does this mean? am i bisexual or something?

i rate 5s on good answers.

amyyy789 the answer this person said i do'nt tottaly agree with.

they said you control your sexual preference, but you don't. your born a certain way, and your either gay, lez, or bi. you can't control it

but yahh i agree with the other ppl as far as wht they said.

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I'm in 8th grade and we're having a graduation thing in about a month or 2. i know its early to ask, but i need to get rid of my acne. i have some on my face and back which need to go. Proactiv isn't really an option because my parents would never pay 50$ for that. so, if we can get it at like Walmart or something, that'd be good. the acne isn't awful, but it's embarrasing. i really want to feel (this is cliche) beautiful.. at graduation.


also, if theres anything i could use to get rid of frizzy hair, that'd be good as well

thanks!

ance...make sure you wash your face everyday!!! morning and night, even if you don't wear make-up

&& go to wal-mart and get a scrub or cleanser and maybe toner & moisturizer.

theres alot of things

also you might try wearing foundation...and concealer??

and for hair, get a straightener & loreal hot to staright lotion for your hair ( so it won't burn )

kkbye

hope i helped

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I gave myself a fake tattoo with a safety pin and pen ink...that was about a month ago. Does anyone know how long it takes for it to fade out, or does anyone know how to get rid of it? it is a small tattoo, just a name written really small.

wow pretty sweet

i hope you like the tattoo

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Hey! Well i have this problem..i LOVE hanging out with my cousin--we are the same age . both 15 and she is pretty much awesome lol we are really close! The only thing is when we hang out we dont really go anywhere..she is a computer (AIM , MYSPACE) addict..im serious. We were suppose to hangout this weekend and at my house we are having this party but like ALL OLD PEOPLE are going to be there..and its boring..and my cousin told me that me her and the kid she liked (mike) and his friend (zack) and this girl brittany were all going to go to a movie so i could meet the guys she likes. Well now i just talked to her a little bit ago shes like GUESS WHAT? i get to drive to your house on saturday because she got her permitt..and i was like ohhh coool..and shes like but yeah i dont think zack has even talked to mike yet ..so im not sure what we are doing this weekend..and it seems like she is coming over here for the boring party where we will just sit here with all the adults and do nothing..she will probably go on the computer. She wants me to sleepover but the problem is since she is grounded from the computer at her house..we dont do anything besides sit there and watch tv the whole time..this is not how i want to spend my weekend! i look forward to my weekends and i dont want to waste it by sitting on my butt. We never go anywhere..sometimes its boring but like there is never anything to do and it seems like she never wants to do anything! we both dont really hangout with guys..even tho i would want to but we are more quieter so we dont have many guy friends..and yeahh. SO any suggestions on what we could do? Or anything that would help with my situation on how to spice things up..and just have fun!!

i will rate 5 for anyone who answers!
thanks :)

exercise

make sum really yummy food

go boy scouting @ the mall

something funn!

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hi im 14 and i was just wondering about symtoms that mean your getting your period...what r uur symntoms? does it all come a week before?..before your period do you not have alot of discharge.and does it not smell alot.?

sry if its too like grossy but im just curious can u please help me out

thanks alot

like having it the first time ever??

cuz if its that, i'm not sure if their's symptoms.

as for if you've already had your first...i mean you might get cramps, some people get no symptoms at all.

i'm not very sure, i guess every1 is different.

how about searching it on google or www.beinggirl.com

hope i helped

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hey! well im not really overweight..i just feel a little chubby. and i usually do anywhere from about 30-60 situps each day..or i try to! its SOOO hard for my to eat healthier tho..really it is :( thats why i dont think i could ever go on a diet..but i decided that i wanted to start running on my treadmile..maybe that will tone my stomache? but how often do you think i have to run and for how long?? or is there anything else i could do by exercising to try and tone my tummy?

thanks!! anything will help

yes, walk.jog.run(ing) can help you lose belly.

your stomach has a six back, but it is covered with fat. ( am no i'm not saying your fat )

run/jog/walk/ like 30-90 minutes a day, you can split it up so its not all @ once.

and yes pilates is like freaking awesome.

go to the store && get sum ab workout videos.

and good luck!!

oh & try to lower junk food intake & pack lunches to school & eat breakfast

later

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If you want to be toned and keep your body at a good weight or perhaps loose a couple of pounds, what is good workout regimen (including cardio and strength-training)?

walk/jog 20-60 minutes a day..do intervals, like 90 sec walk, 90 sec run...ect..

and get the biggest loser dvd, its good

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I am 14 years old and female. Recently, I have been so stressed out, depressed, unhappy, eating way more than I used to (it is overeating), and gaining massive amounts of weight (my clothes barely fit any more and that makes me so upset). Plus I am always tiered and sulky. What do you think is wrong with me? What should I do?

i'm kinda in a bad mood, about to run away..but hey..

take long long long long long walks

and sleep alot

and do your homework

and fuck people

most people are so stupid

so sulky? idk what tht means, sry..

your just a girl living in a fucked up world, like me

yahh so just exercise, that should releive stress...

pack your lunch for school

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