hey... im a person that most ppl can get along with. i always have a positive attitude. and i love to give advice. i lived in reno nevada and then moved to Montana when i was 12. i like to feel that ppl can talk to me about anything. i like to be a reliable person. so if you have ANYTHING to ask me just go ahead and test my skills. ill give it my best.if you have a question about something just ask me i have been through a lot of things from guys to family. thats how we do up here in Montana baby.i'm pretty easy going and generally know how to chill out during extreme times lol so if you need advice hit me up ♥
E-mail: blondpie08@yahoo.com
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Age: 17
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my best guy friend (let's call him "k") who is also my ex-boyfriend just got a new girlfriend (let's call her "m"). when me and "k" were going out, he told me he loved me, but i didn't feel the same way so we broke up a week or so later. so now this new girl "m" comes into the picture. he likes her a lot and they are going out. they have gone out for like four days and "k" already told "m" that he loves her and she said it back. i just don't understand how he can tell two girls in such a short period of time that he loves them. it really bugs me because i feel like he just used me so he could say he had a girl. i do not want to let "m" get hurt like i did. what can i do to help this situation? i don't want every girl he dates to feel like she is the only one but he has really told every girl he dated the same thing. i'll rate 5's! (link)
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i think you need to have a talk with her. and state that your not trying to get into the picture. your trying to be a loyal person. adn trying to keep her from heartbreak.i think that is very sweet of you. most girls would be simply jealous. and you are just being helpful. mad points hun. hope i helped.
:) hotrod
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if you have urin test. when it comes back would they be able to see if you were pregnant even if they weren't looking for it and would they tell you? (link)
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thats a good question. i think that they have to do specific tests to see that sort of thing. but idk. i would ask my mom ( who is a doctor) but she isnt home. so ill give it the old common sense try. lol. but ya i think they would have to do specific tests for that. and if they did that specific test they would tell you. hope i helped
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Well, I've never worn a bra at night, and my boobs seem to be perky enough, but I was wondering what most people do or should do? My mom says its not good, but some of my friends do it. (link)
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its bad for you. my mom is a doctor. my dad is a dentist. adn they always tell me things that are good adn bad for you. and my mom used to tell me that it is bad. and i was young (13) and didnt want to listen. till one day she brought home a pamphlet about a study that shows that 46% of girls that wear their bras to sleep,are more likely to get breast cancer or have bad back problems. this makes since because when you sleep with a bra your chest is held in. and you cant let your chest breath. so point blank, its bad for you. i hope i helped.
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I know that when in a relationship 'Trust' is the key element. Well, I trust my boyfriend with everything I am, but that's not the problem. I know that he thinks other girls are pretty and that he looks at other girls like that upsets me. I know, I know. I probably sound really immature, but I know that ever since I've been dating him I don't really look at guys that way anymore because I don't need to look- I have him. I haven't got upset over this, but I can't help but think he's checking girls out while he out with me. Any advice? (link)
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hey hun... i know exactly how you feel. girls get this way. guys however dont. they usually dont commit completly. i no a girl can like 20 guys and then date only one of them and then only like him. im this way. i liked a few guys then i dated the one im with now and i dotn look too much at other guys. i no it crushes me when my bf says to his friends hey she was pretty. but he usually dont do that becuz he knows i dont feel too comfortable with it cause i talked to him one on one. he understood. use examples. adn everything will be good. hope i helped
~merree~
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ok i am signed up for advicenator but i never thought that id need advice myself theres this girl and everytime i see her my stomach feels really weird and i feel like i want to be around her for a long time and i try to pick my words carfully but they allways come out wrong, i might as well be saying hoopiewatlenslurgin? wat the heck is wrong? im confused!!!!!!!!! (link)
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you like her. you get that way when you like someone. im a good person to ask that about. im always getting scared to call or be around my bf. he is just that way. i know i like him because of that feeling. follow your feelings and talk to he.
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Ok well i like this kid a year older than me A LOT the problem is he has a gf well one weekend he begged me to come over but i couldnt now he wants me over this weekend well I know his gf and im not a slut so the best choice is to stay home right ? (link)
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i honestly think the best thing you can do is go... just take a friend or two with you. for witnesses that nothing happened. and then while they talk you and him can go alone and talk about his gf. adn tell him that you like him. not too bluntly tho. if he is wanting ou to come over to his house im sure he likes you back. so try it.
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16/f. Well my boyfriend and I have gone out for about 7 months, and we were good friends before that, and we have a wonderful relationship. We started fooling around about a month ago, but we're not going to have sex, at least not for a long time because we're not ready. I discussed this with him and (separately) with my mom, because I told her I'd always tell her if I was becoming more intimate in a relationship, and she was fine with it. Well, the other night my boyfriend dropped me off at my house and we were both extremely tired and we fell asleep on my bed, we didn't do anything at all. And my parents came home and flipped out, called his parents, now he's not allowed to see me for a very long time, etc...
And my mom says she doesn't trust me and she thinks we've been having sex. She fully knows my views on this and both my boyfriend and I are very ambitious academically and would not do anything that might jeopardize our education or futures. But there is mutual trust and understanding in this relationship, and I thought there was between my mom and I, and I'm very confused. Does anyone have any advice?
Sorry this is so long. Thanks. (link)
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the best thing you can do is have your mom take you to a doctor and get a test showing that you are indeed a virgin. then when it shows that you are have her call his parents and tell them. im glad that finally you hear about people my in my age group wanting to wait till its a better time. good for you. plus i no how this is. me and my bf fell asleep im my basement watching tv on the couch. and they thought sumthing happened. but no. so try this and let me no how it goes. hotrod
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ok the other day i was with my boyfriend and weve been together for a month and 2 months next week and he said 'i love you' to me like properly but hes into long term relationships, his last gf he was with for 8 months and he said 'i love u' to her.
do you think he really means it...i love him so much and i dont want to get hurt!
thanks ill rate high
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this is one of those questions that dont really have an answer. my ex told me he loved me after 1 month. and he had never told a girl that. but we broke up because he didnt trust me. if he had loved me he wouldve trusted me more. but hey, this is about you. what i mean is just dont get too attatched till you know for sure. a lot of guys say i love you and dont mean a thing. others say it and they mean it more than anything else. who knows you two could wind up married. lol.
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okay i know this might sound like a stupid question, but im not quite sure what it means what does it mean when a guy says he wants to fuck you really badly? is it fingering you or to have sex?
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it usually means to have sex with you. not just have sex with you tho... really badly. if you got told that.. i would be careful you never no guys these days. hope i helped
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can smiling in a tanning bed make your teeth white? i was just wondering, cause i do know that they use lasers to whiten teeth. Could it work? random i know lol. ill give you a 5 if you might know (= (link)
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actually everyone is wrong. how do i know. my dad is a dentist. what happens is the uv rays attract to your teeth just as it does to your skin. the only thing is you need to have some whitening gel on them. and keep a smile going. i have a kit that whitens my teeth 5x better in the tanning bed than on its own.
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K I really need girl help. I changed schools a few weeks ago because I was doing really bad at my old on. THere was this girl there that I really liked. I went to the homecoming dance with her and we talked on AIM a lot. After I left I told her how much I loved her and she was all "aw that's the sweetest thing ever" and stuff like that. We've been TXTing a lot and she even called me on my birhtday last week. I was even suppost to see Harry Potter with her and some of her friends but then I got sick. I'm falling even more in love with her every day even though I don't get to see her because we go to different schools now. I really wanna ask her to go out with me but I have two problems.
1. I have no idea how to do it.
2. Is it weird to go out with a girl from a prep school when you're going to a public school.
I really need help! x.x
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no sometimes dating someone from a different schools you get the chance to talk about stuff that happened to her at school that didnt happen to you. ya know.im dating a guy from a different town 1/2 an hour away. and we do great. he asked me out adn i couldnt have been happier. plus it means more dances to go to and more friends youll make
hope i helped
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Say a girl and a guy that are dating have sex alot. If one night the girl didn't want to but the guy forced her to, is that still rape? Becuase she's had sex with him before, she just didn't feel like it right then. (link)
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YES it doesnt matter if its your husband and you two have kids. if you say no he cant make you. its your freedom of rights. you have the right to say no. no matter what ur relationship is. it will affect you if it continues. i no. trust me. my ex did it to me.
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ok im a virgon(well, not any more) and so was she (um.. well not any more) just say there was alot of blood involved. anyone knows why??!!
(and it wasnt from me....) probably seems dumb, i just wanna know why, i know a little about it, but hlp plz (link)
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when a male part is inserted into the female area. you create friction which was part of it. but the main part was that you popped her cherry. a girl usually bleeds the first time. if she tells you it hurts make sure u take into consideration, your going inside of her body. i hope i helped you
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My boyfriend was fingering me last night for the first time, and today i feel quite sore down there, it all feels quite irritated and sensitive. Is this normal? What does it mean? Am i gonna feel uncomfortable afterwards like this every time? (link)
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hey sweetie its completely normal the skin is just adjusting to having somethiing down there moving. if it continues to happen after more than say 5 times. go to a doctor. as of right now. dont worry.itll happen for a couple more times. after that its all pleasure. have fun
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I'm 17/f and my boyfriend is 18/m and he doea not understand the meaning of time. He is constantly late to everything. And I mean everything! I used to put up with it (we've been dating for almost 2 years) but I just can't anymore.
About a week ago, my dad threw a party for his company and instead of going with my family, I went with my boyfriend. My family left for the patry and I left to his house. When I got there, HE WAS STILL ASLEEP! I got him up and he had to take a shower so he did that. About 30 min. later, his parents were leaving for the party and asked me if I wanted to ride with them. Of course I said no. My boyfriend and I ended up being an hour and half late to the party. My dad was really mad.
The next day, we were supposed to go to the mall at 2pm. Of course, he wasn't on time. It got to be about 3:00 when he finally got to my house. I told him that I didn't feel like going anymore and we got into this big fight about how he's always late.
How can I get him to understand that it's important to not olny me but to ohter people as well that he get's to where ever he's supposed to be the time he says he will? (link)
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just tell him to be there like ten min earlier than what time he should be
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Ok, i have a major problem! My best friend started goin out w/ this girl at the beginning of this school year. The problem is, he's not aloud to have a girlfriend. His parents obviously don't let him hang out w/ her outside of school but our families are good friends so i hang out with him every weekend. His girlfriend is incredibly jelous and despises me. She's told me that if i hang with him that she'll "dump" him. He's so happy with this girl and i don't want him to be sad. This girl and i are constantly fighting over the fact that me and him are nothin more than friends and that he luvs her. Well, recently he said that he doesn't want to be friends with me anymore becuase his girlfriend said that he can't! Understand that i luv this guy like the closest brother ever and i've cried myself to sleep every night. what do i do? we're only 13! (link)
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you need to tell him that you two are friends. and friends are life long. your only 13 and more girls that arent peddy will come along. if he doesnt understand then thats wrong. hope i helped. hotrod
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Ok well this is long but I need help! I used to like Dj and then as soon as I got to go out with Dj, I find out that Stephen likes me. I like stephen alot. Hes more my type. So I break up with Dj and start talking to stephen, He hasnt asked me out yet, but i hope its coming SOON! I really like him. I dont know how to push him into asking me out without being pushy as to where he hets angry? What shouls I say?
N E thing will help.
I will rate answers that make sense 4's and 5's!
Thankz
*MICHAELA
Im a girl
13
Florida (link)
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k i no where your coming from. i went through this crap with my now bf. what you need to do is tell him you like him and that you want to spend time with him as more than just friends. if he gets confused by this. tell him that you wonder if you two would ever date. hard to ask but it works. hey it worked for me and hopefully it will for you. cause it feels good when you get what you want. or another thing you can try is if he asks you what you want for christmas tell him that you want him. see what happens and tell me. hotrod
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i am a 14 year old girl who has REALLY SUCKY & UNRELiABLE friends. i really need to make new ones, but its just so hard. im trying to become more outgoing but its hard !! ANY ADViCE ?!!?!
i RATE FiVES T0 HELPFUL ANSWERS !!!!!
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thats one of those questions that is really hard. but i hope i can be of some assistance. what you need to do is first talk to your "friends" and let them know they arent being all that great. if you dont have the heart to do this. then just gradually start to hang with them less and then start to hang with other people in your school. u know your friends arent good for you so illiminate them from your life. harsh but best for you. youll learn alot from good friends. notta from bad friends. your family will see a difference in your attitude and most likely school. i know cause i went through the same thing when i moved to a new school when i turned 13. try and see. hotrod
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So I've never really had to buy my girlfriend anything because my mom always took care of all of that. But last year, my gf found out that I don't personally buy her presents and she got all upset. Now, she wants me to go out and buy her her present this year by myself. My mom refuses to help me now. I've really never done this before and you don't have to believe me but it's true. Anyways, this is what I have so far:
100$ Abercrombie card (her fav. store)
50$ Hollister or Forever 21 card (her second fav.--I'm not sure which yet though)
And these earrings her sister helped me pick out. They're pink sapphires with pearl on top they're pretty nice.
But I can see my gf's face when she sees these..."oh gift cards...thanks babe..." She might like the earrings more though...I don't know. I'm already spending 250$ on all of that--I'll put in maybe like 75 more. Does anyone have any ideas? (link)
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wow. what you need to realize that she doesnt nessisarily need all of that. its sweet thou. much like my bf. what she most likely wants is just something simple that at the same time says a lot. maybe give her that stuff and then give her a poem you wrote or a song. or something that shows you spent some mad time thinking about her. plus... you didnt use your mom. and shell no this when she sees that. my bf did this for me for my bday adn i loved it so much. try it and see how it works. if you need more help just ask me... hotrod
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Does anyone know any good quotes. They can be from songs or just really cute ones. They can be about anything. Like love, friendship etc.. Thanks (link)
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when it feels like there is nowhere for you to go and no one for you to talk to.. you can always remember im here to tell you ..........to fuck off
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