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I am a sophomore girl in highschool and i have had a major crush on this boy (who is a senior now) since last year. We have both ran on the same team for two years (but the season is over now). And i thought that there was absolutely no chance of "us" ever being together. But at our homecoming game (like october 3) i was sitting beside him and teasing him because a lot of freshmen girls always crowd around him. and he told me "its ok, because the girl sitting beside me (that would be me )is pretty cute. Then the next day he asked me to do something with him and we had an awesome time. But after that we didnt talk very much because i dont see him that much.
Then, about two weeks later, he called me and we talked on the phone for over an hour. He called me about 4 times within 2 weeks. He would skip class to eat lunch with me and it was great.
but i just found out that my friend has been telling him to call me and really pressuring him to be around me and ask me out and stuff. And now me and him havent talked on the phone for about a week and i'm wondering if he ever liked me to begin with or if he was just doing it becuase she told him to. (she has a way of leading people on and making them do stuff). I'm really confused and i dont know if i should call him or if i would seem needy, please help (link)
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well if i were you i would ask my friend if he really does like me. i would tell her that i really do like him and im wondering if he likes me back or it's just you telling him. i hope you guys end up together, hope i helped.
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My 15th birthday is the 17th of this month.
I want to have a party, but I need to know what exactly i'm doing in order to have the party. My mom is spending a lot on me for my birthday, so i'm going to have the party at my house. What are some ideas of things we can do? I already have movies, and video games, haha, you can tell I can't think of anything.
Thanks so much. :) (link)
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well if you are turning 15 you don't really need much to do because you hang out with your friends most of the time. and since the 17th is a friday you can like go out, like the movies or mall. if you stay home, you can order a pizza and maybe have some friends sleepover. im 14 and all i do is hang out with my friends, i don't need anything else. well good luck and happy early birthday!
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ok well my girlfreinds birthday is coming up and she told me to buy her perfume that i really liked, beacuse she's sweet like that. any ways. i really dont know much about perfumes, but i really want to get her prefume and use this chance because a good smelling perfume is a HUGE turn on for me.
so my question is this..what are some decently priced perfumes that smell really good, i just dont know where to start. there is this one kind of perfume that i smelled once, but i dont remember any thing about it, except that it smelled amazing.
so got any ideas? (link)
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Malia from Hollister is about $25 for a small bottle
Ralph Lauren Hot is amazing and you could get is for around $40
Fantasy by Brittany Spears smells like cotton candy a little bit and i like it, it's around $35-45.
Anything from Hollister and Abercrombie is good and not too expensive.
Look around bloomingdales and you can test out everyone and see which ones smell the best.
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I know its really weird, but I've liked my teacher since being in his class last year. I don't know what to do and it is getting awkward just to be around him. Hes twice my age!! What should I do? I graduate this year and I'm afraid I will still like him then. (link)
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well liking a teacher for some people i guess is normal. i liked my teacher last yeatr but obviously i would never go out with him.
just let your crush pass, because i think dating a teacher is like illegal. well in my school it is. so don't worry about it.
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hey i was j/w.. i lost my virginity a few years ago, and for the past 14 months i hadnt had sex.. til last week. When i did, i bled after, as if my cherry was popped again. can that happen a second time? or has it just never been popped before somehow? idk if it might be something else.. but plz help! (link)
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well once your cherry pops, it never grows back so i dont know how that's possible.. maybe you just got yout period. if not then i would go see a doctor.
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Does anyone know where to get cute purses from? I'm looking in the $30-$60 range, preferably; but I'm open to suggestions.
Thanks=) (link)
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some places with cute bags is forever 21 or delias.
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ok so i have a boyfriend weve been daying for 5 months and i love him to death. the problem is when i got my schedule changed i ended up in none of the same classes or lunches as my boyfriend =[
in my new classes im with this one guy lets call him d. hes so nice and he used ot like me. but hes about to ask this one girl out but i like him. i dont like him as much as my boyfriend but there is a little crush. Im happy for d but i dont want him to go out with another girl because i loved it when i knew i was the only girl.
what do i do?
confused with everything (link)
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well you know that you have to let him go out with that other girl. sorry to break it to you but he doesn't like you anymore. i think you liked him liking you. right now you have a boyfriend and you should focus on him. even if you may like d a little, you should treat him more as a friend.
maybe later on you will have a chance with him.
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can someone give me some good punk, techno, and hip hop songs? haha i know, really random, but i need some good new songs.
thanks! (link)
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SATIFACTION BY BENNY BENNASSI !! best song everrr
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john is in my gym class. we had to do a project in it, we didn't get to pick our groups but i was with my other friend him and some other guy. so we talked when we had to do our project, and thats the first time i really talked to him - you know? now that our projects over we don't talk that much because wehn we are in the classroom we have assigned seats - he's in the front, i'm in the back. in gym he's one of those people that are really into sports so he doesn't talk that much i mean we talk like a sentence every once in a while. but how do i start talking to him more? what could i talk to him about? i don't LIKE him, but i'd like to like.. get to know him better haha. (link)
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well sometimes i'm in the same situation. just be out there some more and like maybe make a joke or two around him and it gets him to start talking.. or like fool around with him and whatever. try to find him like around school and just talk.
things that may start a convo is like ummmm.. do you have any gum? or like i hate this teacher, do u have her/him.. those are kinda bad but those are just at the top of my head.
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I'm terribly bored with my screen name. I've had it since the 6th grade, but I cant think of anything to change it to.
my names Bee.
&& im a little crazy.
So give me anything you can think of, nothing is to out there.
Thanks. (link)
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what about BEEcrazy12
or just BEEcrazy and your favorite number or birthday.
I hope I helped!
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one of my best guy friends in the world has been touchy-feely on me. i like it (i'm not afraid to admit that), but my two most best friends in the world that i tell everything to, they say i should be carful around him. they barely know him, and they are trying to talk me out of liking him. they say what he is doing is something a guy friend normally wouldn't do. (and i'm not going out with him. i was turned down by him again yesterday, but everything is cool between us now.) (what i mean by again, is
i asked him out last school year.)
i don't know who to choose.
the guy i have been friends with forever and i know if he acts strange or not. and what he is doing, i don't mind at all.
but should i trust my friends instead? (which is what i don't want to do.)
i'm really confused and not sure. what choice do you think i should make? (link)
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well if i were you i'd go with my friends, no other people in the world should change that because you are best friends for a reason. but first you have to ask yourself if he really is dangerous and you really shouldnt like him. and if you do like him than just tell your friends that you like him and you want to do what you want to do. good luck and i hope i helped
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im trying to make a cd full of songs that i like but i cant think of any so i was wondering if you all could help me brain storm. I listen to hip hop r&b that stuff but basicly i listen to everything... please nd thanks (link)
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well if you have itunes, go to the music store and on the right side they have a list of 100 top songs, you can get some from there. hope i helped
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I've just moved to a new school
i met this guy who i am now best friends with.
he asked me out but i turned him down, coz i don't like him in that way.
he understands completely, and we are still best friends.
I recently went to the movies with him, and he didn't tell me that there were two other guys there.
One of the guys i know, and i get along pretty well with him.
But the other guy i knew was in my science class, and I don't know him at all, apart from his name.
When we all gather around a desk to do an experiment or something, he always stands opposite me and looks at me and smiles.
I completely and utterly am in love with him!
So anyway, after the movie was over, we all went to the arcade.
I was just sitting on the bench while the other two guys played on the games, but this guy i like came and sat next to me.
We didn't say anything for awhile, but then he said, "Oh I think I'm in your science class." and I said "Yeah you are".
From then on we basically didn't stop talking!
We left the arcade and walked around the mall, and we were still talking.
Then it was time for me to go home.
My parents agreed to meet me at the front of the movies, but then the guy i like said that he would walk me home.
I looked at him and went "what?" and the other two guys looked at him and started laughing their heads off, and he looked a bit embarassed (awwww! haha) but we all agreed that i should stick to the plan that me and my parents agreed on at the start.
So we went up to to the movies, and my parents came and got me.
The next day, Monday, I saw him in science.
I smiled at him and he smiled back.
We started talking again, and he started talking about this girl he went to the mall with the other day, a girl called *sarah* (not me) and he was also talking about this other girl called *bianca* (also not me haha) and, well, i started to get a bit jealous. (thats not their real names by the way)
But it's just the way he looks at me, it's like he wants to know me, and I want to know him.
I just don't know how I can ask him for his email, or something like that, without seeming too desperate.
I have his friend's email???
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well it seems like he likes you and you like him like alot. but when he was talking about those other girls, to me he sounds like a player, or just a guy with alot of girl friends. but keep yourself open and available. kind of flirt with him sometimes and maybe it will make him want to ask you out. don't give up on him.. good luck and i hope i helped.
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how can u tell if a bird is male or female (link)
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sry to tell you but you can't tell, you have to pay alot of money to figure it out, or you can just do what the other girl said with the beak.
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i like this guy but but i dont no if he likes me i dont want to be in a relationship if he really dosent love me he might but im to scared to ask and i have a storng gut that i should spend the rest of my life with him and i never normally have this feeling what should do???????????????? (link)
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if you really strongly about this then it's worth telling him how you feel.
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ahh i can't wait! i obsess over christmas bcause thats when i get to see my crush (at camp) i don't care about anything anymore, i dont care about how i look, or what i do.. all i care about is that during christmas i have to be perfect. nothing really matters for me anymore because it feels like only christmas matters! if that makes sense? haha i just want to see him so badly! so what's my question?
i have a few..
1) is this healthy?
or should i maybe get over it?
2) what can i do to make the days go faster?
more specifically: is it a bad idea to count the days?
will that make it so that it feels like time goes slowly, or the otehr way around.. like the days just fly by??
thanks advicenators :D (link)
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don't think about it and before you know it, it will be christmas.
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No need to go into detail... But for the right and justified intentions, how can you cheat a lie detector test? I know there's a way I just don't know how. I would please appreciate any and all serious suggestions, don't reply if you honestly don't know thanks. (link)
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well i know there is a way.
because when someone asks you a question and you lie, something hesitates in your brain and then it records it on the sheet. to not hesitate you have to go through this training thing. find out on a website how exactly.
good luck and i hope i helped
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Ok, so this is a bit of a messy situation and any advice you can give will be greatly appricated.
Im an 18yr old female - I've been dating my boyfriend on and off for six years - none of my friends like him. They say hes abusive and controlling. At the moment we are "on a break" but i know that we're going to get back together ... i just dont want my friends to find out becasuse i dont want them to worry about me. Even though my realationship isnt always pretty, i love what i have and im not going to lose it again.
So anything you can say that might help me know what to do would be greatly appricated
thanks
Jenna (link)
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well 1st you shouldn't listen to your friends because your thought is what is most important. but if you don't want to tell them you 2 are going out ia ok i guess but they are going to find out eventually.
if you haven't experienced him being abusive for 6 years then most likely he isn't.
maybe your friends don't want you to go out with him because they are maybe jealous of what you have.
bottom line do what you want to do and not your friends.
good luck and i hope i helped
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Lately my parents have been REALLY argueing. Tonight at dinner I left and they just fought for 3 hours straight. The past 2 months have been really stressful for them I think. My mom is having trust issues with my dad because he went out to lunch with 'some fat lady' and it was because of work. He had to take her out. Anyways, he has lied about who he has been with but personally, I don't find it to be THAT big of a deal. I am so stressed lately because well, I have my own problems and they have their's to add to mine.
Recently we moved about a year ago. They want to move back now because this place has nothing to do. Back at my old place, there were things to do. My parents think this is another reason to why they are fighting.
Please help me. Anything is totally appreciated :) (link)
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well don't get into there problem. they are fighting for you really. basically to keep the family together. i actually had a friend with this problem. she kept her head up and leaned on her friends when she got upset.
if you can, fix your own problems first because you can't control what your parents do.
but don't worry most likely this will turn out fine.
good luck and i hope i helped
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me and this guy told eachother that we liked eachother, and as soon as that happened.. i figured we were about to hook up.
but then he had a talk with me, and tld me he realized he's in love with his ex, and he told me we have to postpone whatever it is we have until he gets over her..if he ever does get over her.. doesn't it sound like he doesnt wnat to get over her??
anyways, the questions is, does this sound like a bad idea? i dont know, the reason im hesitating is because´im afraid of being his sloppy seconds, or hisplan B, you know??
but still.. i really want him, so something inside me tells me maybe he was just trying to be honest with me, he didn't want to start anything while he still has feelings for her..
so what am i supposed to do now?
wait for him?
go on with my life until he's decided what he wants?
any ideas? anyone been in a similar situation?
thank you! (link)
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well it seems like you really like eachother and for a really long time. so i think it is worth waiting. but if you wait too long like a month or two you should start looking for a new guy.
but don't just give up on him, keep in touch and talk. maybe there are someways you can help him get over his ex. tell him that he can always talk to you and you are always there for him.
make him like you more so he would want you.
good luck and i hope i helped
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