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14/f

Ok, I'm having a birthday party in late october. It's going to be a boy/girl party.. my mom was thinking I should do like a halloween theme i dunno yet. What are some activities I can do for like 13-15 year olds that are fun, or where should the party be at or stuff we should do? (ex- bowling, house, games, ect.)

well you could have a house party with lots of cool music and ptrizes for a dance contest and have lots of board games and movies to watch and for refreshments, how about popcorn and candy and desert like brownies and then you cooooould have a 7 minutes in heaven since it is a boy girl party, oh! and makwe sure you have punch and soda definently and leave your parentas in the bedroom. Hint, dont let your parents know your having seven minutes in heaven!!! Hope I helped!

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ok so i'm cass's daughter. a girl. This guy I like he is so sweet and awsome (a little crude) and really hot! But his name is Armigeddin (at least i think its spelled that way)and that word means end of the world right? Sooo...inspired by his name, he gets in sooooo much trouble (like getting detentions) and everyone thinks he's a ...well a total idiot. And if I ask him if he likes me and everyone would find out they would think I'm an idiot too. What should i do?

PLEASE HELP SOON

well first of all if you tell him you like him, I can tell you that those kinda guys arent always waiting with open arms, these kind of guys tend to be real jerks and a trouble maker is certainly not what you need it might end up getting you in trouble, so if you REALLY REWALLY like this guy talk to him and get to know him better and hang out, and then ask him if he feels the same way about you and then he might tone down the trouble making and concentrate on you more thatn detetions!!! TRUST ME!!!

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Lately I've been cutting myself when the stress gets to be too much.Yesterday I cut myself like 6 times... How can I stop myself from cutting myself?

well I can tell you that cutting your self is absolutly not the amswer, look in to something that will relieve you once a week like physical thereapy or talk to a councliler, trust me it works all the time, you could start a journal or talk to a close friend or family member about your stressful problems you have to move on and stop and think about what your doing, visit my advice colum and I will help you with even more problems that I can absolutly help youe with!!!

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i have a bf who has gone threw a lot with me
and we have been together for 1 1/2 years ..
he meanse everything to me .. he has hit me
in the past and he tried to kill me .. everyone
thinks i should just get over him but i can`t
i love him .. i was gonna have his baby last year
but shit happend with my mom so i had to get
an abortion :-/ . he has also liked this girl
behind my back and hes been lying about it ever
since .. but now he says that he misses me
and everything .. i don`t know what to do ..
i miss him so much .. he just got outa jail
for something big :-/ trying to run me and
my boii off the road but he just needs help.
please help me thank you -Nikky-

OMG!!!!! GIIIRl I am sorry but you gotta kick him to the curb and get over him!!!!!! if a boy EVER HITS YOU dont ever go crawling back to him and stand up for your self going back to him after he tries to kill you makes you look like the biggest loser and probably end up dead giiirl if i were you I wouldve been over with him the first time he ever layed one hand on you!!!! I am sorry but that is sad and you really should leaves him be this guy is not the one for , rember!!!! there R PLENTY OF FISH IN THE SEA try looking for a guy that has money and is a gentlman!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

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i really want to go because i haven't gone before but i have no date and no guys wanna dance with me so i'm a loner..i can't ask anyone to go with me..i'd probably be rejected..if i do go, i will feel sad during the slow dances and shy with the fast dances..all my friends go there to dance and hang out..i can't just hang out..everyone has a date except for me..i'm sad and im confused..i don't know what to do..:( people make fun of me..esp. the guys

wow, you cant just say all that negative stuff just go for the fast dances and and have fun girl!! people will be suprised wanna dance with you and for a slow dance just look for someone that doesnt have a partner but dont make it too obvious. of course they are gonna make fun of u..IF YOU COME AND DONT DANCE GIIIRL!!!!!!!! trust me!

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how do i lose my habit of being shy??? plz answer cuz im a shy ass

i rate high

well dont go for something totally outgoing that flys off the charts to prove your not shy, just take it easy and challenge your self by doing little by little outgoing things!!

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Alright, I liked this guy for the past three years and now I am over him. I don't want to be around him, I don't even want to see him. He plays around with me too much and I can't stand those games of his. It's games like his that hurt me so much. I don't want to be around him yet I want to show him that my feelings are changed . When I get off my bus in the morning, he's there at the table sitting there with my other friends and then he avoids eye contact. Then I do the same and say hey to everyone and put my bookbag down. He'll give me one glimpse and then I'll head to the restroom or to the cafeteria. There have been plenty of times that I have come back to the table to prove that I am over him and that I can be around him because I used to couldn't. But now , he's hitting on my friends around me, and I told my friend to go for it but she won't b/c she says that he's too hot for her. Why is he doing this in front of me, why won't he let me be, why does he have to act as if he is everything, why does he avoid eye contact, and how comes he's at the damn table every morning? I've moved on but this makes it way too complicated because I like to sit in the cafeteria in the morning but he's there and he's hitting on my friends in front of me and I don't want to be there. Oh what should I do. Please, please , please, please help me. Oh and I asked a guy and he said it's probably another game to see if I'll come back as I did all those other times before. Is this true?

well i think that guy is right!!! for get him and if he starts to really tick you off catch him in the act of ticking you off and tell him that he should really get over himself and leave you alone and that your never coming back, and say that loud just enough for other people to hear you and that will embarrass the hell out of him and he will never wanna speak to you again.

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ok i was just wondering what are some good ideas for halloween costumes? like i want something creative and unique. no certain price range or anything. thanks much

well it depends if your a girl or a guy but no matter what you should go to www.buycostumes.com they have alot of really awsome costumes that are cheap and creative go for it!!!!

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I'm 13/f in the 7th grade


For a while, I've been having a real hard time paying attention. I get really bored easily, and I fidget a lot, I'm really slow (physically), and I get lethargic a lot. and I'm VERRRY disorganized. My school learning specialist said that there's a possibility of me having ADHD. but when I was little, I was always full of energy. Usually ADHD shows up in kids when they're little. Does my case sound like ADHD???

x0x0

*Cheyenne*

I guess so but it really sounds like you need to relax somehow by going to physical theripy and having something plesant done like a message and maybe that would loosen you up a bit.

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do revlon or maybelline eyeliner work better... i need a eyeliner that will stay on throughout the day and wont wear off.. thanks

maybelline water proof eyeliner works the best that i have found out and it works try it!!!

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Ok well there is this one guy that i really like and he likes me 2. Well I asked him out, and he is telling me later on tonight or tomorrow. My friend then told me that he went into the bleachers with this girl who wasn't his girlfriend ( he had one @ the time ). They didn't come out for an hour!! what should i do!?

Thanx A BUNCH!
-14/f

well you know what girl, take advice from me, if you didnt see this your friend is probably lieing, probably means she is jealous. anyway go for him, and if it doesnt work out you will know at least three days into the relationship that he is a zero and not boyfriend material!

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what do you do when you like a guy but is your best friends ex??!!

wow thats a very complicated question, well ask your friend how she feels about this and listen to your heart from there.

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okay well i have a major crush.

on this boy jon, and well i need to tell him, but im way too shy. and afraid im going to look stupid !

so yeah can you please help me in a way not to act stupid?

ps hes in my classes and theres nothing to ever talk about.

really well thats not to complicated just pass him a note since your too shy or ask a friend to tell him what your thinking and ask him if he wants to just hang out after school but dont make it desperate, before you tell him you like him hang out with him more and then get to know him better you know what i mean?! Good Luck!!!

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i like this guy and he likes me but he hasnt asked me out yet so i just wanna do it but how do u ask a guy out without sounding desperate or anything?

Just send him a note or if you have the guts to ask him out in person just say hey whats up I was wondering if you wanted to out with me and see how it goes and if we both like it, that would be cool but its ok if you just wanna be friends what do you think?? Thats what you say gurl. but dont just say what i said say it in your own words!!!

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do guys like it when gurls ask them out if u ant a guy dont answer ok thnx i rate !

actually they dont care they just wanna go out with you like when they ask you out you dont have to be worried because i had the same question and you know what he said yes! But you know what if he says no, you dont have to worry about that because you have to take a chance sometimes and cant just hide your problems!!! So go for it if your thinking about asking a guy out.

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I am a girl by the way... Anyways i wear jeans, sweatpants, cacki pants, and cargo pants. I wear basic tees with cute sayings on them and sometimes i wear youth group tshirts or a camp tshirt. Now its startin to get cold and i have no idea what to wear... any ideas for some cute outfits blending in w/ what i already have?
i sometimes rate

well you could still wear the pants you like but lets talk about the tops, you could wear your tees but with a cute sweater like a hoody zip up one or one that covers up everything they could be basic or brown or blue with something cute on the front that might go with the t-shirt under neath, I do that all the time!!!

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Ok, im a 13/f and would like some help on redecorating my room. its a light blue and i love unicorns and dragons, i also love ligers and tigers. i cant re paint, or do anything drastick, so if any one could help that would be awsome

well I will tell you what you can do because i have simalr problems with my room , ok well do things like buy throw pillows with things you like that match your walls and green gos with blue so you could mix and macth with what you like if you see something in the store that you like, see if they have it in the color that might match you room and you could find other things that will go with that! Good luck!!!

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I have a really bad cramp, im my stomach area. I've had it for the past week and said nothing about it.

I've stoped eating greasey foods like steak and went for chicken and lower greasy foods.

How can I fix the cramp that wont seam to heal?

I'll rate

Peaceeillo

well drink alot alot of water because we are normally supposed to drink 8 glasses of water a day, although i am not telling you to drink that much everyday, just drink alot of water and it will help your greasy food problem and when your just bored and not actually hungry drink water it helps alot!

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well am 15 and well i liked my cousin' cousin and he isnt nothing from me cuz that my uncle's side sooo yea i really like him soo yea i really dont know what to do should i go for it or back off cuz i really do like him and he doesnt have my bllod in him and his 14 and i always have liked him since we were little and i think he likes me back but i dont know if i should go fot it and am gonna see him this sunday soo should i go for it and yea we r going to the movies at city walk and my uncle is going my two cousins and thier cousins (him) and well please tell me what should i do???

p.s i hate when mean ass people answer soo dont even bother!!!

ok, I am gonna tell you what you should do, lots of people feel this way about family and it is hard to make a decison about that kinda stuff. Ask him cousin to cousin if he feels the same way then tell an adult you can trust,this will make you feel better and not so odd liking a family member, if he dosent feel the same way you should look somewhere else because there are plenty of fish in the sea!!!! Trust me.

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Well.... i realllllly like this kid, and i have NO IDEA if he likes me back or anything and like my friends are always like you should tell him you like him and stuff... but the thing about it is that i have 2 worries 1. he doesnt like me back! and 2. his friends are the type of guys that are like you like him and are always asking out girls for them and like there just jokin around and stuff. i dont kno so will you guys help????? should i tell him or not??
THANK YOU SOO MUCH!
XO0X


PS we are starting to become friends...weve meet on the first day of school (about a month ago)...... SORRY ITS SOO LONG!

My advice to you tell is to tell him, but before you do get to know eachother better and hang out with him. I have the same problem and i have told him, and now he likes me kinda and we went out twice already!!! So get to be friends and then write him a note if you are to nervous to talk to him in person, say I kinda like u more than a friend. But say it in your own words.

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